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“So yeah, shit da fuck up + lol ur british” Ray Finkel @ TheFinkinator0
England, United Kingdom
Joined June 2016
My son has autism and he really struggles with inaccuracy. Asking him to use female pronouns when he is standing in front of what is clearly a man creates huge anxiety and stress for him. Why does his mental health matter less than someone else’s. Why is it his job.
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Can we just take a moment, reflect upon Bette Midler and Macy Gray responding to their monstering by retracting and appreciate anew how absolutely fucking baller @jk_rowling is.
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@rosstmiller In every action film ever any woman is called the girl .‘Get the girl’.‘You stay with the girl’.‘’We’ll go this way. Tim you take Simon, Alfredo, Salvatore, Benedict, mr Blobby, the Right Honourable Tarqin LeGrande and the girl and head the other way.’.
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The use of filters on social media is genuinely distorting reality and telling a terrible lie about the results of transitioning to young people. It’s incredibly harmful and is distorting how womens rights are being undermined.
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Female students drinks are being spiked. Girls are being assaulted and having to adopt constant measures to protect themselves. So they started a campaign boycotting clubs for a night called #girlsnightout. Can you imagine what happened next? #misogyny
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@RoisinMichaux There are women who won’t believe their own daughters when they reveal abuse by a father/step father, boyfriend. This doesn’t surprise me at all.
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This has a very ‘angry threatening male’ energy for reasons I can’t quite figure.
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If we lived in a world where young women could demand their safety without then being admonished, scolded and forced to apologise for not including everyone else, MAYBE MEN WOULDN’T KNOW THEY COULD ASSAULT THEM WITHOUT CONSEQUENCE!.
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@CamillaDeVille_ It’s bad enough when girls are given overly thin women as ideal bodies, that they’re now promoting a skinny, hipless male body is even worse.
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I think I speak for my whole sex when I say - that’s a fully informed ‘nah’ from us
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@mrjamesob I think your views on gender were worryingly signposted by your booking Freda Wallace as a contributor yesterday. Freda Wallace who harassed @hen10freeman, a disabled woman, including sending her pictures of ‘Freda’ receiving a blow job, because she wants same sex intimate care.
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My daughter’s in her first year at uni and her experiences of nights out, the things she has to do to be safe and the behaviour of the packs of predatory young men is shocking as hell. Apart from needing to try and get guy friends to effectively chaperone them, she and her ….
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@EddieIzzardLab A man who claims that woman is a costume he can wear is not a man to whom I would entrust my vote. If he can lie about that how can he be trusted with anything else?.
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@UN_Women Well this is awkward. You seem to be promoting misogyny. Being female is not a costume men can wear. We are complete human beings in our own right and this appropriation is shameful. Stop it.
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@campbellclaret This is an absolute lie. Disabled people are the most vulnerable, discriminated against & abused. Women are murdered at the rate of 3 per week. There have been 0 trans people murdered in the Uk for years. Violent males are in women’s prisons. #misogyny. #Labourlosingwomen.
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@BrandonLuvsSofi @CatQQShadow @EdwinDroom @DearRebelAda @STILLTish Lia Thomas is an average male swimmer who declared himself a woman and suddenly was beating Olympic athletes. He also wandered around the women’s changing room with his dick out. So what mechanism made him female?.Why did women have to put up with him flashing ?.
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Man on twitter : I’m so confused about this gender debate. Can’t we be nice?. Women : well no, not really. Males are responsible for most violence, women are vulnerable and need their own spaces. It’s basic safety. Man on twitter : wow, why are people being so mean 😢.
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@short_straw @altryne Absolutely this. Giving your child a present which is all about you is a trap best avoided.
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@CalebJHull Male singers wearing highly visible, outrageous, gender non conforming outfits has been done literally for decades. As long as they don’t pretend it means they’re not men, what’s the problem?
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Jesus Christ .If anyone had told me 6 months ago that I would be agreeing with Piers Morgan and trying to explain to Billy Bragg that his misogyny is the thing that is making him tell women that feminism is not meant to help them, I would have laughed my arse off #endogdays.
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When you are so uninformed you don’t know that JKR helped evacuate female lawyers from Afghanistan, funds a rape shelter and founded Lumos plus giving away millions to charities. Emma Watson gave a couple of speeches. Always about appearances with these fools.
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the weirdest thing that makes no sense to me. Why do so many young men seem to prey upon and get genuine joy from just monstering girls? Why have we ended up here?.
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One thing that’s interesting to me is Susie McCabes tone. She’s not voicing an opinion, she chastising people who don’t respect this guy. It’s a sermon, a lecture from someone fully convinced that they are the better person. That her view’s correct. It’s how women are silenced.
If you want to see how captured the Scottish political establishment has become here is someone arguing that it’s progressive to defend the feelings of a man that raped women and has now been put in a women’s prison. His feelings.
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Can someone link me up with all the times she called out the threats against JK Rowling.
I’m not going to apologise for thinking that violent threats against authors and violent threats against drag queens are equally bad!.
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So many replies to this illustrating how people with severe autism and learning difficulties are ignored and othered, even by many claiming an understanding. My son doesn’t understand many abstract concepts, struggles with ‘yesterday’ but im supposed to explain non binary.
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It’s so much worse that I endured but most interesting was that the guys are not focussing on the girls in order to pull them or hook up - it’s just to abuse, bully and humiliate them. Groups of guys trawl town centres to insult, jeer, grope and shower abuse on girls. It’s . .
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@FemmeLoves @salltweets Alice leaning on the fact that she is a woman and therefore requires a specific structure to the debate - the debate about biological sex not being a thing…😂.
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@emmagraeauthor Wouldn’t it be brilliant if women were accepted as the authority on being a woman rather than that being degraded to whatever some vaguely feminine bloke thinks it means?.
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@lgbtqnation Good grief. Are you seriously suggesting that in this entire community the only person you regard as a sporting hero is a cheat? That’s a terrible indictment of either your moral compass or of the athleticism of the entire LGBTQ community. 😬.
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Some parents don’t seem to know that their teenagers occasionally want them to say no to them because they can’t say no to their peer group.
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@HumanistReport @jk_rowling Wow. Are you ok? Do you react with that extreme level of aggression and abuse to everyone? It just women?.
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There may be women with lower self esteem, more prepared to utterly debase themselves in order to virtue signal but I’ve never seen them. This is the lowest I’ve seen any one sink in that particular cause
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@RichMountbasket Are you suggesting that black women are not female? Are you really doing that?.
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@Primark I’m ok dude. If I want to avoid sex pests and voyeurs I don’t need to visit your stores.
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friends are casually groped and when dancing guys just ‘grind on them’. They have to watch their drinks, fear being isolated and are just shouted at constantly. She described just sitting eating chips waiting for a taxi and two differently groups shouted ‘slag’ etc as they passed.
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@KatyMontgomerie @alisonphipps @setoacnna So @janeclarejones has just agreed. This is a big yes from you presumably? I’m excited
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@MhairiHunter God help the women of Finland. Sold out by men and privileged women to satisfy male demands.
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Why are so many men really really keen to ensure that male bodied people are able to access women’s shelters, women’s toilets. What is it about reducing the restrictions upon who can share private spaces with vulnerable women and young girls that is so important to them? 🤔.
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@Chr1sF1 @qikipedia My son, also on the spectrum has great nativity reactions. My fav - .Me : what are you in the nativity .Boy : a cow .Me : (enthusing) how great! Do you have any lines - do you say anything? .Boy - (speaking slowly because I am clearly an idiot ). Moo.
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@cosmickoolaid @kathygriffin Crikey - was there nearly a fraction of a moment when a woman spoke about women without including a sub group of males. Thank god a man was able to jump on to that so they were not ignored. Males. Eternally self prioritising.
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@TransKidsRule Its very late but perhaps it might be time for you to explain to your child that girls have boundaries and that consent should be sought rather than invading their spaces? .Does your child know that theirs are not the only feelings that matter? Are you encouraging narcissism ?.
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Man writes bad article. Women respond. Man is so incensed that women disagree with him he describes it as ‘abuse’ or coming from bots. The fragility of men who cannot cope with women who voice their opinion is always astonishing to see.
Many thanks to the hundreds of people (and bots) who abused me ceaselessly for my story on transgender people in sport. I could hardly have wished for a better justification for writing it in the first place 🙏.
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Could anyone who has a moment report this absolute scumbag bloke for their targeted harassment of Henrietta. Thanks . This is what trans rights activism actually looks like. Porn sick, inadequate angry men.
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@nicolelampert When I took my daughter, aged 15, to the Old Vic she and I had to walk past urinals so that was great. Take your child to the theatre and they get to see dicks in the interval. There were lots of elderly people queuing near us quite upset and embarrassed by the whole thing.
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@shaneellall Ah, male violence. Attacking women. How well you represent the misogyny of gender ideology and trans activism.
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@LaylaMoran @SinclairJM1987 That’s bisexuality mate. Adding in you’re attracted to a ‘personality and vibe’ is just what most of us do. It’s calling fancying someone. Honest to god, stop trying to make up sexualities in lieu of a personality. It’s so dense and tedious.
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@AjaTheEmpress Rich white kids have no oppression points & being oppressed is the ONLY social currency. The only way to escape is to get into a marginalised group and being trans /non binary makes you instantly a victim. I live near lots of private schools and they are full of NB & trans kids.
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@phillutton78 It’s interesting that you frame the women reacting to you, a man, deciding that womens sport is negotiable as bots. You simply don’t see womens opinions as important do you? That’s why you value out sport and our rights so lightly. We see you.
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@BillyMumphries You’re really comparing a bloke dressing up and saying he’s a woman with a writer using a non de plume?.Dear lord.
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@mammapam @archer_rs A trans identifying male does not require guts to walk into a woman’s race. They just need a shameless willingness to cheat and male entitlement. Oh and some women prepared to sell out female athletes for pick me points.
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@60Mins @HannahMouncey Lols. Thank you for this because every human with a functioning brain is watching and thinking ‘dude, you’ve got a cute frock but just stop because you’re not female.’.
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@louistheroux @danreed1000 Those two men managed to give the most accurate description of grooming that I’ve ever heard included their mixed & confused feelings about him . Children often don’t understand that they were groomed and abused and deny it through misguided loyalty guilt and shame.
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@jessphillips Oh Jess. What an awful thing to do. Why did you do that? Femicide is the issue being highlighted by this list. You’ve diluted and used the tragic loss of a teenager and minimized the vulnerability of females. Shameful.
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@PeterAdamSmith @itvnews As an aside to the content (which is undeniably hilariously bad) it is so good to see a journalist refused to be deflected by ‘but that’s not the question. ’ .Politicians avoid answering questions like this too often and this was a masterclass in clarity and persistence. That.
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@Ashworth101 She went to an expensive private girls school in Surrey. Oddly a rich white girl has zero social points. At a stroke being non binary takes you from middle class privileged predictability to diverse & transcendent. It’s spreading like wildfire as it’s now peak social currency.
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@CptElara @Aja02537920 Once you realise that @metpoliceuk is filled with sex pests, misogynists, rapists and even murderers, where a guy called ‘the rapist’ was accepted and WhatsApp’s groups where men exchange images of dead women are part of the culture, it makes more sense #misogyny #LetWomenSpeak.
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@jo_bartosch @STILLTish @PhilipPullman @AmandaPCraig @Dorianlynskey He won’t be able to hear you. He only responds to men.
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Fred is an abusive bloke who hounded a profoundly disabled woman for days, eventually sending her porny images of his massive arse and of him getting a blow job. Your desperate attempts to pretend this misogynistic, bullying, porn soaked man is a victim are risible.
Freda Wallace has been driven off Twitter by Graham Linehan and his band of bastards. She speaks out and is a civil rights activist. I stand with her and I abhor the abuse she has received and continues to receive. She asked me to let people know this was happening to her.
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You’ve got to feel a bit sorry for #OwenJones. What were the chances that the Sun would happen to victimise the same domestic abuse survivor that he was busy abusing? Just badly timed misogynistic bullying.
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@IWF @Riley_Gaines_ @TPUSA God, the misogyny is just relentlessly. A bloke cosplaying as a small girl is welcome. A women advocating for women’s sports not welcome.
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@bbcsml @BBCOne @GreenIncTV I’m keen to see your contributors. Because you will definitely pick a man and then a trans identifying male. And the trans identifying male with let hell freeze over before they are forced to face someone like @HJoyceGender or @bindelj . So will it just be trans rights activists?.
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@MatthewStadlen @jk_rowling Of course many of us will still hold our nose and vote labour. But all the left wing men like you Matthew, who flaunt their contempt for women and use the excuse of gender nonsense to abuse women who want to retain their rights, make it really difficult. You drip with misogyny.
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@viabank @theDykeProject Wow. Stopping lesbians meeting to discuss their lives and experiences under threat and fear of violence. How very homophobic of you
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@Waterstones The Women who wouldn’t wheesht. Without question. If it’s on display when I’m in your store next, I’ll pick it up. Hopefully I’ll have better luck than when looking for Prof Stocks book and Hannah Barnes the last two times I was in.
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@stellacreasy 😬 well, except you clearly don’t seem to have better things to do. You dont have time to deal with any of the organisations you claimed you’d already met and didn’t even have time to figure out who they are. But here you are shouting at Jon Pike again about stuff he hasn’t said.
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@AngelaStalling9 Wow. You went through the 90s, 2000s, 2010s started the 2020s and headed straight back to the 1950s. Female is not the same as femininity. Don’t be ridiculous.
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@Independent I’m going to go out on a limb here, but is this really a crime committed by a female? I know a head tilt makes these things confusing but really… a woman?.
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@ThomasWillett9 @shaneellall Another man proud of women being threatened attacked and intimidated. How very MRA.
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@fishoutof10 @jk_rowling What has convinced you that she hasn’t considered all sides of the issue? Is it because she doesn’t agree with you so she must not understand 🤔.
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@carolecadwalla It thought it could get away with it because of the deafening silence over the vile abuse she was receiving while celebs all tripped over each other to criticise her for having an opinion. The faux outrage at the Sun on here is quite stunning.
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@helenstaniland I was on that thread explaining that crossings like this are confusing and therefore a problem for people, like me son, who have learning difficulties. I got lots of abuse in return. People with LDs are about as vulnerable as it is possible to be but not one person cared.
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@jk_rowling @bindelj @Nah2gametes For me it��s deeply depressing. I will never quite recover from the realization that so many left wing/labour men have been nodding along with women’s rights for decades but, under the slightest tension, have no hesitation in dismantling them. I can’t now unsee it.
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@TheArtNewspaper @vagina_museum That prob was t helped by them being rude and patronising and then wholesale blocking women on twitter. A vagina museum run by people who hold women in contempt was probably always going to be on dodgy commercial ground.
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@phillutton78 Wow ‘hysteria’. Nice to headline that you’re going to advocate for women losing their sport.
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@antitrans609 @Glinner He keeps saying ‘you’re not listening to me’.He simply can’t process that she is listening, heating and still thinks he’s talking bollocks. He’s such a mens rights activist. Such a toady little misogynist.
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@jk_rowling @eyre_ann @apmeehan Absolutely this. The number of males who feel qualified to assert what constitutes being a woman, believe men who say they are women and also agree what ‘living as a woman’ must be - and yet they ignore actual women? Almost as if they actually do see men and women differently 🤔.
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Back in the west end. 2 years after booking we finally get to see @rickygervais Totally worth the wait. Fearless, funny, thought provoking - so few comedians push through the bullshit. Great night #RickyGervais
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@AustinRSheridan What’s inaccurate in the headline?. Regularly when some violent man kills his ex wife / wife/ family the newspapers write eulogies about ‘loving father snapped’ rather than ‘woman hating monster slaughters family’, Ive never seen you complain. Is it misogny? Is that your thing?.
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@DrProudman His. He’s a rapist. He’s a male .Males are not a vulnerable minority. Rapists are not a vulnerable minority. Why do your think internalised misogyny is so easily overwhelming your logic right now ?.
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@BucketsOf_Rain St Mary’s ascot is just about the most expensive and privileged schools, even within the group of expensive schools of surrey, and has no academic requirements 😬. So the richest of rich kids who do not have to be even remotely clever to get in. What could go wrong?.
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@GoldsmithsSU Celebrating males cheating in women’s sports isn’t motivational. It’s misogyny.
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@ABC Omg I would have never forgiven my husband if he’d pulled this crap. Why is there a group of men who make literally everything about them. Sit down, hold my hand and STFU while I concentrate.
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@Temperance_Brew You could have recovered a little integrity by saying ‘whilst we still feel this event could have gone ahead the safeguarding of children’s events is paramount and we must cancel.’.But no, you lie on top of everything else.
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@theJeremyVine @Keir_Starmer Then you clearly don’t hear women a voices. Which says more about you and tv journalistic standards than it does about the issue. Why are womens issues always, always sidelined ?.
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@PennyRed ‘Be kind’ is the message thrown at girls from birth, through their education and socialisation which leads them to doing most of the housework, most of the caring, trying to understand emotionally unavailable men - that their most significant values are empathy and selflessness.
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@alrightPET @BBCWomansHour Wait, my daughters right to persue her sport fairly is right wing? My 90 year old mothers right to same sex intimate care is far right? My right to get rape support in a male free environment also right wing. When did misogyny become left wing 😳.
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@Willsaber2 @Tara_lyn1 @blefuscu74 @NVGhost005 @NYCMayorsOffice @OldAintDead It’s absolutely right to find a route to make the lives of vulnerable people from trans communities safe and comfortable but the minute you think sexual assaults on girls and women is a price worth paying, you lose any moral high ground and are part of the problem.
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@Indy4Scotss @ForWomenScot @olafdoesstuff How dare you say my biology is either simple or in anyway a cheapening part of my life/experience. My biology matters and your idea that a woman is some nebulous essence is just misogyny.
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@jk_rowling @yipadeedoodah @UKLabour Labour and @keirstamer happily briefing against @RosieDuffield1 while remaining quiet and unconcerned as @lloyd_rm spits fury at female MPs and crosses the chamber to physically intimidate one. Definitely lost my vote now . #LabourLosingWomen #misogny.
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@GreenJennyJones @cvaria Did you really just agree to put them in the women’s prison and wait to see if they rape anyone? .Because the criteria doesn’t seem to involve checking on the health & welfare of the women these males are locked in with?. Are you aware now that you prioritized males entirely here.
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@Lauralols Im pretty disheartened. I knew I’d be worried about her but she and her friends just talk about how crap it is, they can’t ever really relax but that’s just the way it is. I asked her if she’d go to a girls only club and her reaction was just ‘omg how brilliant would that be!’.
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