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@TheFineFeminine
Girls should not be used to 'cure' boys. Parents should do the work to raise boys properly. Also, in a mixed situation, it will behave more like a male group than female group. So a net positive for boys but a net negative for girls.
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As someone who was born and bred in Lagos, it's apparent the emergence of Tinubu's style of politics has caused this friction. If you grew up in Lagos, truthfully, what exactly is tribalism???
The reason the perennial Yoruba vs Igbo fight irritates me so much is that IT'S NOT TRUE!
Hausa vs Igbo, Tigaray vs Amhara or Mandinka vs Arab, I can understand. There is real animosity there.
Not Yoruba vs Igbo, the Sheffield Utd vs Sheffield Wednesday of ethnic rivalries.
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@khalil_spencer
@carvellwallace
@adamwinkler
But legalizing abortion, does not infringe on her rights of not having one. She still had the option of choice to have an abortion or not. OTOH, the ban infringes on the rights of those who want an abortion. They do not have the option of choice under a ban.
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@eldivyn
The key is a husband thoroughly dedicated to his wife’s self actualization plans regardless of when women marry. There’s a motherhood penalty quite alright but there’s a worse penalty if married to an unsupportive husband. Financial dependency on men comes with its consequences.
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@sugabaddie
Americans have this superpower of being confident while saying absolute balderdash.
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@ozzyetomi
I think the absurdity is apt. This is what the average African American would do or say.😂The funniest thing is the delusion they were all Queens and kings.
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I dunno how black single mothers do it. Every freaking day, you are being blamed for the degeneracy of black males and your community at large, despite the fact you are the one who stepped up to parent a child. Your altruism has not paid off. Pitiful! You are better than me.
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@Lamimoyin
@idomagirl
@staceyNYCDC
@tressiemcphd
Absolutely. Remove the husband, add someone like your mother and watch that same career flourish.😂
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In Lagos, your friend group will include all sorts of Nigerians. It's not like America here where you are White and one single Black friend you won't have and vice versa.
Tinubu political style caused this problem. Imagine his politics on the national level.
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@iceklean
@bestgirl_tochee
No. This is not our greatest problem. Who came to Igbo people’s defense when that coup was eventually tagged an Igbo coup till present day? How many non-Igbo Nigerians challenged that narrative? Who has challenged the narrative of endsars being tagged an Igbo protest?
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This is her highest honor…first wife of Mr.Somebody. And you think she won’t ‘fight’ for her position? Her highest honor? Lmao! Patriarchal people struggle with cause and effect. So you lay down silly aspirations for women and are shocked at the outcomes? Lol.
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@okemzuruoke
Also, they should stop falsely accusing our Nigerian police ati SARS abeg. 😒From my (anecdotal) experience they’ve always been nice to me. 🥰I dunno why men just hate each other sha.
From your faithful ‘pick me’ police groupie. 🙋🏽♀️
Pick me, pick me, pickkkkkk meeeeeee...
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@Queenprecy_
“Over 98,000 Nigerian women die annually from use of firewood. If a woman cooks breakfast, lunch and dinner, it is equivalent to smoking between three and 20 packets of cigarettes a day.”
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As a Nigerian woman, you must be utterly stupid to present this dumb narrative like you didn’t grow up seeing women who back their children and are hawking wares on the streets day in day out. You must be extremely dense to ascribe such resolute traits as an exclusive to men.
Lady clings to the words of bible after some intense workout in the labour market
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@PaulAkosile
@Adakuuuuu
She’s saying that a lot of women are married, but with husbands that offer abysmal or no input in the nurturing, emotional and social development of the child. And that is analogous to being a single parent. Nowhere she cited ‘preferring’ single parenthood.
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@qgatss
Keep quiet! You are not shouting end SARS because of women. You are doing it because men are assaulted as well and are the primary victims. If it were an issue that affected only women, you would have gaslighted the heck out of them and used their oppression for banter.
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If you are not a feminist, you are justified to be entitled to Nigerian men’s money. Do you see Nigerian men apologizing for their entitlement to your domestic labor, your cooking, etc? 😌
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Mediocre men are going to struggle in this coming world. Patriarchy provided a cover for these low quality men. Now they have to compete with above average women as patriarchy is demystified daily. They will resort to violence, so we have to criminalize these statements ASAP.
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@sugabelly
Nigerian men also fantasize about Nigerian women fighting other women for them like the way BA women fight for their men and beg the men to notice them. God forbid! Let me die before I fight another woman for Nigerian men.
Nigerian men, that fantasy will NEVER happen IJN!
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Been asking this question- What have these conservative women done for women? We’ve seen the workings of the women’s suffrage and feminist movement. What exactly do these conservative women do for women? They talk about family a lot but American women till date don’t have
Candace Owens: “I would be terrified if I got onto a plane and I saw a woman flying the plane.”
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@sugabelly
I remember saying the same thing. It did not make any sense. So because you schooled in America you think you are automatically part of or higher than the elite kids in elite private schools in Nigeria? Rotflmao! American public schools for that matter 🤣
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Does one need to know feminism before you treat each other humanely? 🤔My parents don’t know what feminism is, but my mum does what she wants. My dad won’t/can’t even infringe on her human rights. People need to stop using ideologies to rationalize their basic moral flaws.
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@newscantell
Chimamanda is telling you to do the same thing for men if you require such gestures from them. It will be hypocritical to expect this treatment but unwilling to reciprocate because 'you're a woman'. This is consistent with the equality argument.
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@maggi_nigeria
This is the most unrealistic advert ever. A ‘Well-packaged suffering’. So the nonsense you people sold to our mothers’ generation is not enough? The only credible ‘difference’ you can make is for Nigerian men to COOK and make themselves exceptionally USEFUL in the home.
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Black women like this annoy me.
The Sex Lives of College Girls needs more men of color on there 😭 why is everybody’s man yt???? Mindy Kaling, pls
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@EniolaHu
I asked some older Yoruba women and they said they didn’t kneel 4 the husband. And that this concept was never tradition but only resulted from the overzealousness of the alaga. Even the marching they tell grooms to do, is not tradition, let alone kneeling to feed ‘oyibo’ cake
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@sugabelly
Nigerian politicians for example. What do they use all that money for? Finding a Nigerian politician with a well-bathed, clean, classic look is an anomaly.
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These degenerates really think Igbo people are tenants in Nigeria. What the heck is this do VP first before aspiring to presidency talk? In our own country? You are mad.
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😂😂😂😂😂
@Makolicious3
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
He is my older sweetiebaby lover. My loviebaby. That is why he allows me be myself. If I married a man my age we probably would be trading blows or no longer married with the nonsense some of your generation trade☺️
Older men have lots of secret up their sleeves🙈
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A Yoruba state ethnically profiled and engaged in state sanctioned violence and xenophobia against Nigerians that came out to vote and you are saying both sides? Continue living in your delusions as your ethnic group has been TAKEN OVER by supremacists. You think
This online tribal war between Yoruba and igbos will have real life consequences if you guys don't stop.
And both sides are guilty here, no one is a victim.
Sane people from both sides need to push the extremists out.
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I’ve seen countless videos of this ‘demographic of men’ finding it ‘challenging’ to appropriately match their reactions to the degree of provocation. This is not self defense. This is a degenerative feral response, akin to a wild animal.
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@AjuluchukwuAgu
@Chyy_Nelo
Let other ethnic groups do it. You’ve already fought a war. You have tried. You can support in ways other than protest if you must support.
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@ozzyetomi
Yeah this has been going on for over a decade now. There was even research on it.
The Igbo/Nigerian men I argued with me on the internet 10yrs ago said that the women ‘provoked’ the men and deserved it.
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@sugabaddie
Even trees are not left out. I was unfortunate one day to see a man 'chooking' his thing in a well crafted hole in a tree on Twitter.
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@NaijaFlyingDr
What is even more ridiculous is their logic doesn’t go either way. Nigerian women who are the breadwinners will still NOT be regarded as head of households. Value in the Nigerian society is per genital conscription, not by finances. And that genital conscription is the PENIS.
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Even in this pandemic, working mothers have taken one of the hardest hits. No school to keep the kids away, no nanny, nothing. Western women are suddenly realizing their husbands remain uninterested in childcare.
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@Jaydon225
It's not even a new conversation that started in 2015. Lagos was very hesitant to join Yorubaland and preferred to be independent.
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@sugabaddie
There are people in your quotes saying there’s nothing wrong in being desperate and obsessed about marriage.
This is why IELTS is necessary for you people cos if you knew the meanings of desperation and obsession you will never qualify them as something to aspire to.
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@sugabelly
Always using race to propagate their foolish agenda. Have you noticed that in many people’s heads racism is a greater sin, but misogyny, prejudices against women are considered ‘normal’ or minor?
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keeping oneself 'pure' for boys who they themselves encourage to be 'impure'. This is impractical in the real world & unstrategic. This generic and conventional socialization also defeats logic. You cannot tell boys to go out & fuck, and then you want your girls virgins.
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@UmegovValentine
Keep your money. We don’t want it again. Brideprice should be banned. It does absolutely nothing for ‘womanhood’ other than relegate her to second class citizenship.
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@ChifeDr
Can’t Nigerian men simply refuse to give these ‘incentives’?
Also are Nigerian men REALLY interested in moving towards more egalitarian relationships knowing fully well they will lose certain privileges? Please say yes, so that we can start the ‘deliberations/negotiations.’
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@cchukudebelu
Because love, humaneness is not the driving force of their religiousness. It is however fear and the violent consequences for failing to adhere to the religion that keeps them religious.
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This thread is proving my 'theory' of male avoidance. 😂 I struggle to write about this because people will say but you're married and truly I agree it's oxymoronic 😂 What I can say is there's a degree of male avoidance women need to practice. For example, you will most likely
In Korea, a growing movement of women is saying no: No to heterosexual marriage; no to childbirth; no to dating; no to heterosexual sexual relationships. They are choosing to stop fighting the patriarchy and instead leave it behind.
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Madam Iweala is over-qualified to be anyone's VP. She is Presidential material.
And you Southerners need to develop small shame and stop positioning yourselves to play second fiddle to below average Northern entities.
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Some people want to be disingenuous like they don't understand. Obviously tribalism exists everywhere in Nigeria. Tribalism and fear of Igbo domination is even the cause of the war. However, this friction we are currently seeing in Lagos na Tinubu political style exacerbate am.
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@jimmy2time
@Eloka51
Igbo people need to write their own articles on how specific ethnic groups have controlled certain industries, thereby controlling Nigeria’s wealth. That’s how you fight this. They write one, you write 5 articles.
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This is why patriarchy do and did not want girls to be educated, so that it can get away with subjugating women.
I am really angry women had/have to dumb down themselves for these illiterate, illogical and inferior entities that patriarchy granted ‘power’ because they have penis
The dictum of the learned Justice Rhodes-Vivour in Ukeje v. Ukeje does not agree with this balderdash.
Je m'appelle chop money. Wail harder.
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@sugabelly
This is one practice we must maintain in Igbo culture. If you are not helping, stay in your house please. I did not do anything other than feed my babies cos I had my mom. I’ve decided to start an omugwo fund for my children/relatives.😂
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@SassyE
Women are wisening up. Told my husband, he keeps the kids if we ever separate/I trust his parenting skills/I’ll be visiting. He said, nah, Lmao! Shouldn’t he be happy he’s keeping the kids? Men whine about women taking the kids from them. Scratch deeply, it’s all a front
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@CenderGrit
@FindingDore
We can’t continue like this as women. Prioritizing other groups feelings ends up being the death of us. I thought we would have learnt some hard lessons while living under a patriarchal system for centuries.
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This thread is necessary because there's this silly attempt to garnish poor as good, rich as bad. It's such a kindergarten way of thinking. People are dangerous regardless of social class. And I'll die on this hill that elitism can be USED for good.
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Still waiting to hear the sacrifices men are making that is equivalent to women dumping their self actualization for the progress of family/husband. It's all men don't talk. Ok, please talk. Let us hear these sacrifices where you slowed down ambition for the sake of family/wife.
Notice how its always women who have to deal with years of discomfort, have to talk about compromise and how relationships are hard work that could make you miserable. And men just breeze through. Maybe it’s just me but I’ve never heard Obama say half of the thing’s Michelle says
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These feminine/masculine words are apparently the newest passive aggressive tactic men devolve to when they lose an argument. An older tactic was to call women emotional.
“You a little too tough, you need to be more feminine” 🥴
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@sugabelly
They are THIEVES. Patriarchy is a thieving enterprise. Reminds me of this tweet.
One of the laws of power says. “Do not outshine the master”. In a home , naturally the man is the master outshining him by buying a car before him is foolishness.
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If you think Nigerians will relent on assassinating your character and threatening you, omo you need to wake up. They will come for you every single day of your life. All gloves are off. You have to go litigious. Take the prime actors to court.
What does justice in this context look like? What would Oge have me do? I don’t think she or the the people she’s sent after me have ever really mentioned so I’m listening.
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It’s why I try not to use Yoruba in my reference to them but jagabandits, Agbadorians, APC riff-raff. They are looking for ways to feel justified for their actions.😂 Na lie! Jagabandits, you did what you did for your god Tinubu not Yoruba people. You said other Nigerians
There is a reason they are slowly trying to convince you "Yoruba people voted for Tinubu"
Two reasons:
1-They need you in your frustration to attack "the people who caused this". They need you to attack Yoruba wholesale knowing that the bulk of Yoruba people are against them
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@Ha99ibal
@NaijaFlyingDr
Women overestimate bottom power. The facts are in, bottom power so far has been useless as a used panty liner.
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It’s not even only about choice feminism, there’s been this critique and eventual demonization of the ‘girl boss’ archetype. I argue that the girl boss needs to be brought back. The spice girls ‘girl power’, ambitious woman era should be brought back.
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It says a lot about the person's character if they knowingly date married people (wherein the married is not in a polygamous or amorous relationship).
Date married men in peace as it is your human right to but I don't see how it should be a feminist topic of concern.
As a Single feminist woman I Should NOT bear the burden of guilt for dating "married" men!
Face your partner who made the commitment to you.
Women are not the custodians of morals!!
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@ugochi__n
@ulxma
Yup. People really hate fat people. It's like these weird people only see the fatness and nothing else in the person. Fat is the only identity they see, nothing else. I have never received that level of vitriol as a skinny person.
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Why are you people’s marriages always filled with compromises? Are you people married to your arch-enemies or what?
And in Nigerian parlance, that ‘compromise’ is code word for very damning situations people can’t get out of because of societal judgments.😂
When you have a conversation with married people, you'll realise that all these takes on twitter about marriage is just vibes. Nothing deep; opinions of people that are not even in a relationship
People are actually compromising/putting in the work to have a successful marriage.
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@deadsbirth
There has been no law or policy that banned women from aspiring to be dependent on husbands. It was however illegal or against social norms for women to exist outside of patriarchal ramifications. FEMINISTS fought for women like us. Providing financially for yourself are mere
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Me I like seeing married couples that excel in their careers. Highly suspicious of any man who excels but his wife has to dim her light for him to succeed.
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@SheisBoki
Igbo Man goes into marriage with an agenda, Igbo woman came with her own agenda. Ojoro cancel ojoro! They’ve forgotten it’s the same Igbo blood flowing in all of us veins. Why are they now angry? Because the superior Igbo village women outsmarted them all. 😂😂😂😂😂
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It’s why I laugh when some Igbo women that don’t know themselves come here to promote wife dependency on husband in kindergarten attempts to attack feminists.😂
Go and make your own money please. If you want honor and recognition go and make wealth or do something tangible.
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Nigerian Twitter men are hilarious especially when they want to argue against feminism. Always gives me beer parlor vibes.
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@popkulturejunki
@DonCorleANN
A big FAT NO! You do not extend grace to people dedicated to your ruin and your collective interest. They are not your friends or some naive entity.
That is why I will continue to say feminism should not be a fight for all women. Feminists fought for women who exist outside of traditional ramifications and wanted something different. It has never been illegal for women who want or wanted to be ‘housewives’ to exist.
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@ChidiIdika
@DavidHundeyin
For a whole Oba of Lagos to come out to say that sh*t he said that time, obviously things have degenerated. The Igbo people wanted to vote for another Yoruba person o not even Igbo. 😂It's not a Yoruba people are tribalist thing, it is that TINUBU's political style is tribalist.
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‘Leftist’ Nigerians who have sold their bones, sinews and souls to Western leftists and its ideology, aggressively attack Christianity from morning till night with zero grace to the religion, then clutch their pearls when Islam is being mentioned.
You must be UTTERLY crazy.
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@eldivyn
Women in the West(especially white women) can get away with this though because at least in the advent of divorce they are more likely to get half,the courts are more favorable to them. The courts protect them. What would be the cushion for women who don’t live in such societies?
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Anyway I have previously washed my hand from all SAHM wahala. They should fight for their rights themselves.
My own demographic is career women and women navigating both jobs/careers and family. This is what concerns me.
2024 na for every woman for herself for me. Find your
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@Lamimoyin
@idomagirl
@staceyNYCDC
@tressiemcphd
Anything after pregnancy and maybe 6months or thereabout after pregnancy where you have to breastfeed the child, is no longer motherhood penalty, it is HUSBAND PENALTY.
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@Femiakuti
We hope you’ll see a better Nigeria before you leave this earth. Your family’s efforts shall not be in vain. We will make you, your father and grandma proud.💪🏾
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@EuginhoCortez
One thing I have realized over the years is that sharing ‘Black skin’ does not equal kith or kin o.
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Me I want Nigerian feminists to resist this charity expectation. You don’t have to do charity in feminism. There are so many other things you can do to address what women face in society. Nobody really expects political parties to be doing charity, in fact they request for
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This is benevolent sexism. The ideology based on women being less than men but should be ‘protected’. Sounds cute on the surface for people who don’t think deeply. But it’s all a fraud. Anybody that truly respects you will see your humanity as equal to his.
Me and my wife are not equal. Equality is scam. I will baby my queen and make life easy for her. Premium princess treatment. Be safe
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This is what happens when you don't know your culture. A traditional Igbo woman is an independent woman. Go and read your history and stop saying nonsense. A traditional Igbo woman must be able to financially provide for herself and family.
Feminists crying so much on this tweet..the quotes are hilarious. I’m a typical igbo woman. I’ll say it again. No equality with my man, I’ll kiss his feet every day and submit to him. Call it low self Esteem. I accept!!! My man my crown!! Bye
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Once again, women themselves downplay the labor required to run a home on a daily basis that’s why they think they are capable of accomplishing such demands.
It’s very realistic for men to make these demands o, but it is very UNREALISTIC for you to accomplish them.😂
1am, hubby wants pounded yam, I'll wake up and pound it.
3am, hubby wants rice, I'll make it.
5am, hubby wants me, I dey available.
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Women do everything possible to avoid rape from birth, even to the point of losing opportunities that we know will better our lives. We have tried. Men on the other hand have refused to hold themselves accountable for so long. Enough is enough!
Re: Fatonyinbo/Coza
Me: You're always quick to advice women when they are raped. What advice do you have for pastors that rape women?
Robert(a caller on my show a few mins ago): "erm erm...uhm...eem.."
Hear him here 👇
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@Chivie__
Lmao! We have work to do. So these girls in ghetto aesthetics actually believe they are the representation of how BW should look? Lol. Can you imagine this person with blonde hair, criminal ‘baby hairs’ and scary eyelashes believing she’s presentable than that woman? Lmao!!!
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