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Helping you improve your BDSM relationships! Over 10,000 students. Featured in Cosmo, GQ, InStyle, and more.

Los Angeles, CA
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
5 years
Rt if you see your kink: - Hair pulling - Choking - Bondage - Daddy Dom - Spanking - Wax play - Proper use of there, their, and they’re
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@Domsubliving
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Rt if you see your kink: - Hair pulling - Choking - Bondage - Daddy Dom - Spanking - Wax play - Proper use of there, their, and they’re
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
8 months
3 of my favorite K!nk experts talking about something hugely important. Definitely check this out from @VelvetLipsSxEd , @Jimanekia , and @lunamatatas
@VelvetLipsSxEd
Velvet Lips
8 months
Are you really safe in your K!nk? Do you have the internal and external tools that enable your pleasure? Join @lunamatatas and @1marlastewart as we talk with @Jimanekia about her experiences in k!nk and the communication tools you need for a good time!
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@Domsubliving
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Heading to a k!nky holiday party in LA, wanna come? 😉
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@Domsubliving
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If you need ideas for an aftercare kit, check out this great video from @EvieLupine
@EvieLupine
Evie Lupine 🐶🐾
1 year
want to learn more about aftercare? In my latest video, I talk about my own aftercare kit, tips and tricks for building your own, and how I found what works best for me ✨⬇
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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Likes are private now so go ahead and like all our kinky posts. No one will know how much of a freak you are. 😉
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
2 years
We teamed up with some of these top creators & have something amazing in the works: @thewrightrachel @thecorybush @subguide @EvieLupine @subinthecity_ @spicesoflust @ms_nighteyes @LovingBDSM @owningyouro It's coming tomorrow! 😍
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
10 months
Win a premium BD$M collar! Enter at 🔥Want even MORE bonus entries?🔥 * Follow us * Tag a k!nky friend in the comments * Share this post
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
11 months
The K!nk Bundle may be over, but please support the amazing contributors, including @EvieLupine @lunamatatas @subguide @SunnyMegatron @subinthecity_ @lovingbdsm @Jimanekia @thewrightrachel @lolajeandotcom @justineplays and everyone else. They're incredible!
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
7 months
Happy Holidays from Dom Sub Living! Are you on the naughty or nice list? (at @DungeonEast )
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@Domsubliving
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Big Announcement coming tomorrow! We're sharing something we've never done before. (And it's FREE!)
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@Domsubliving
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And thank you to all the men that support us. 🖤
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@Domsubliving
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🔥 Access the ultimate guide to discovering your limits here:
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@Domsubliving
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A must watch from @EvieLupine
@EvieLupine
Evie Lupine 🐶🐾
1 year
Andrew Tate might be disgraced, but predatory 'Alpha males' still dominate on YouTube. In today's video, we deep dive into the world of Natural Lifestyles, their $$$ courses, and the promise THEY can make you a SEX GOD. All while teaching dangerous misinformation ⬇ ⬇ ⬇
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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Happy National Kink Month! Oct. was declared National Kink Month by  @stockroom_com . BDSM & fetish play is a great way to enjoy sexual exploration & expression. All month long, learn safe, fun, kinky sex tips at .
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@Domsubliving
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True dominance and submission are not just roles, they are a way of life. Do you agree?
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
8 months
Join us on the Dom Sub Living podcast as we dive deep into the world of BD$M w/ special guest Jay, who shares his Dom journey and insights into maintaining a healthy dynamic w/ his sub, Alesandra. Listen now for a behind-the-scenes look at power dynamics in D/s relationships.
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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And thank you to all the men that support us. 🖤
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
3 years
Hands down, the best tutorials I've seen for rope are by @shibari_study ❤️
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
2 years
Something big is headed your way next week! We teamed up 17 experts including @lunamatatas @Jimanekia @ms_nighteyes @LovingBDSM @thewrightrachel @EvieLupine @SunnyMegatron @spSafiya . Stay tuned for details (It's free!)
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
4 years
I stand with our fellow Black BDSM & kink members and the entire Black community. We must unite and speak out against racism. Together we are stronger.
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
2 months
Tell us—what's your go-to framework for BD$M? Learn more:
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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Guiding and leading a sub is a very fulfilling lifestyle, and these are just some of the many types of Doms. ➡️ Learn all about the different types + get real-life tips, at
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
7 months
So excited to be a part of this! 😍
@vorpahlsword
Amy Vorpahl ➡️ Gen Con 2024 ✨🧙‍♀️
7 months
Soooo many ways… HAHAHA we love to hear it! Thanks for the candid authenticity @domsubliving — Alesandra has some amazing courses and videos about how to live your kink day to day! And you can hear more by registering at link in bio: @vorpahlsword
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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Explore true dominance and submission at .
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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@_pem_pem How about we let ace people speak for themselves about being ace, and not be "scared" by it?
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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At @910weho for New Year's Eve 🎊
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@Domsubliving
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What do you think about K!nk at Pride?
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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Do you struggle with: ✅ Wanting to up-level your b0ndage practice ✅ Dealing with shame and past traumas ✅ Creating non-boring punishments and scenes Then check out this free event just for YOU! Get your ticket ⬇️
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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With the one and only @justineplays at @DungeonEast 😍
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
4 years
BDSM is 80% about the mindset and 20% about the skills. Do you agree?
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
3 years
"Giving back" should be part of every kink educator's role. That's why we give a portion of all of our sales to @rainn , and to date we've donated thousands. Together, we're committed to giving back, speaking up, and doing something about the injustices we see in the world.
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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Watch this from @EvieLupine for what NOT to do in your profile.
@EvieLupine
Evie Lupine 🐶🐾
7 months
let's talk about incels on dating apps. we've seen the cringy profiles, the online screeds. but what does the research show? I was shocked by what I found.
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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Did you know? The human brain isn't fully developed until around the age of 25. Dom/sub age gap relationships can bring unique challenges, due to differing maturity & emotional levels between partners. Let's explore this on our latest episode. #DomSubLivingPodcast #BDSMEducation
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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Do you struggle with your mindset as a Dom or sub? Check out our latest podcast episode where we interviewed a kink-aware coach, and get tips and strategies for your D/s journey!
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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You'll thank us later. ;-)
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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For k!nky ideas today and everyday, visit
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
10 months
Awesome video from @EvieLupine breaking down Kinktok. ⬇️
@EvieLupine
Evie Lupine 🐶🐾
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thanks for watching 🖤✨
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
3 years
Being on social media today is a form of high level masochism.
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
4 months
The first presentation for Day 3 of the Dom/sub Dynamics virtual summit kicks off in 3 hours! A couple of today’s topics include protocals, polyamory, and scenes. ⬇️ Join us for Day 3! ⬇️
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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@FetLife Yay! This is so awesome! Thanks.
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@Domsubliving
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Proactive service in Dom/sub relationships ⬇️
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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Are you a kink or Dom/sub creator with a digital product or course? DM us for info to be a contributor for this year's Kink Bundle™! Make $, and grow your audience! Please share 🙏 (Back for 2024: @PlanetMidori @SunnyMegatron @subguide @lunamatatas @spicesoflust @lolajeandotcom )
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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There's nothing wrong with sexual sadism when it involves consenting partners. 🖤
@PallaviGunalan
i can be your long lost pal
2 years
it’s terrifying the number of men who enjoy when sex hurts their partners
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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In the next few weeks we're going to be doing the exciting (and daunting) task of deciding on the Dom/sub Dynamics Summit line up! 🎉 So we want to know... who do you want to see grace the virtual stage this year? No wrong answers... think big! Let us have it in the comments.
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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Stranger: Are you single? Me: Umm... *Briefly considers explaining the entire concept of Dominant/submissive dynamics* Me:  I’m seeing someone.
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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🎉 Join us for the free Jumpstart Your BDSM Journey Bootcamp! Mastering Dom/sub dynamics can transform your life. 🔥 We're going to help walk you through it all in this free 4-day bootcamp!⁠ Starts July 22! Register now ⬇️
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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Age is just a number. The key to any relationship is happiness and mutual respect. #AgeGapLove #DomSubLivingPodcast
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
4 months
The first presentation for Day 2 of the Dom/sub Dynamics virtual summit kicks off in 3 hours! A couple of today’s topics include shibari and Female Led relationships. ⬇️ Click here to join us for Day 2 ⬇️
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
4 years
The real BDSM community has and always will be against racism, misogyny, and homophobia, in all forms. Fear and hate will always be defeated by knowledge and love. ❤️
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
8 months
So excited for this!
@vorpahlsword
Amy Vorpahl ➡️ Gen Con 2024 ✨🧙‍♀️
8 months
Y'all! For "Be Horny On Main" summit, I'm interviewing Alesandra at @Domsubliving about Embracing Kink On Main! What should I ask her?
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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Pride + K!nk: Uniting love, liberation, and limitless self-expression. 🏳️‍🌈 Celebrate the beautiful intersections where authenticity thrives and connections flourish. Join us in embracing the power of love and the freedom to be unapologetically ourselves. Happy Pride! 🎉
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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Thank you to everyone who bought one of our courses yesterday! We were able to donate $342 to  @RAINN ! ❤️
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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@instagram @ChelseaFCW @samkerr1 Hey @Meta ! My @Instagram acct was removed, then reinstated cause they said it was a "mistake", then an hour later deleted again. This has happened 3 times w/o me even posting anything. Can you fix this "mistake" & let me keep my account pls? (it's domsubliving) @InstagramComms
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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Thank you!
@ProfessorPayton
Professor Payton, Dominatrix, Angel, Findomme
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Excellent Resource BDSM Safety Philosophies and Practices @Domsubliving
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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We stand with women and pregnant people in the US and across the world in the face of this attack on human rights.
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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I stand with our fellow Asian BDSM & kink members and the entire Asian community. Every person deserves to feel safe. Together we are stronger. ❤️
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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🎉 We're hiring! Position: ✨ Executive Assistant (virtual, part-time) Learn more + apply at . Apps due 10/8, midnight PT. Q's? Message us at . Know anyone who would be an amazing fit for this role? Share this w/ them or tag them! ❤️
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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I'm creating 2 huge blog posts w/ my favorite kinksters! I'd love to include some of you: Tell me 1 thing you wish you knew before becoming a Dom or sub, and why. And sign up at so you don't miss these huge blog posts. I'll send you a DM if I pick you.
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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Without their collar, a submissive feels completely naked. Do you agree? See the only 2 types of collars you need at .
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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Happy International Women's Day to all the: Dommes submissives Mistresses slaves Mommies and little girls ... and thank you to all the men that support us. ❤️
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@Domsubliving
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📢 We start tomorrow! ✨ It's your time to master Dom/sub dynamics & achieve a fulfilling BDSM lifestyle! ✨ Just a few steps away from confidence & balance! ✨ Join the FREE 4-Day BDSM Jumpstart Bootcamp! Starts tomorrow, July 22! Link below ⬇️
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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I'd proudly say I'm a BDSM and kink educator. 💁‍♀️
@ServeAugustina
Mistress Augustina 🇨🇦
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So like, what do you say your profession is if asked.... for jury selection? 🙃
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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The first presentation for the Dom/sub Dynamics Virtual Summit kicks off in 3 hours! A couple of today’s topics include b0ndage and punishments. Click here to join us for Day 1! >>
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
3 years
100% agree. 🖤
@NekochanMittens
Mittens
3 years
Part of what I enjoy the most about the BDSM community is how embracing people can be about different kinks or curiosities others have, even if they are something you’re not into yourself. Don’t kink shame
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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I can confirm this is 100% true. 🥺
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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Go to and we'll send you an in-depth training on this & a worksheet so you can jumpstart your BD$M journey as a Dom or sub.
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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Are you just starting out in the exciting world of BD$M? Or have you been exploring the lifestyle for a while? We're pulling back the curtain to share our experiences so you can avoid making these same blunders!
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
3 years
⚠️ LAST DAY TO ENTER! ⚠️ Win a sexy collar and leash set! Go to
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
3 years
Access the ultimate guide to being a submissive:
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@Domsubliving
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Wow. Who knew #KevinMcCarthy was such a huge masochist and had a degradation kink?
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@Domsubliving
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Celebrate Small Successes: The Key to Progress Over Perfection ➡️ Listen to the full episode:
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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10,000 downloads! 😱 We can't believe it! Thank you to all of our listeners, we appreciate you so much. ❤️ If you're not already listening, check out the podcast here ⬇️
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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The mantra I repeat to myself when things get tough: "I am a strong, obedient submissive." What's yours?
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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@SunnyMegatron Happy birthday! 🥳
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
4 years
Interested in consensual non-consent? Here's 5 things you need to know about CNC:
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
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Help please! We need a new waterproof pad. Give us your recommendations. 💦
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@Domsubliving
Dom Sub Living
3 years
BDSM allows me to become the best version of myself possible. And it’s given me the tools to truly express myself, and live life more fully engaged. My mindset is now more completely aligned with my needs and desires.
@youwillpleaseME
EVA OH
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To the BDSM Community and kinky people in general... How does BDSM uplift you? Please reply below so that we can all follow the thread and share this tweet so we can share in the joy! #SafewordPodcast
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