Benita Herbert
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You see the
#cutForAmber
movement, it's a common practice with women in the West. When they're not having their way with men, they cut themselves, then call the cops on the men and claim abuse. Shey, they told you ppl to fear women?
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@talk2veee
@okuneddie
How do you leave Nigeria to a place with more opportunities to become a thief?
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@EmpressDaisy_
Some of you don't know the kind of clothes that suits your body type. Anything you see, you want to wear without checking whether it fits you. Could it be peer pressure? The ppl applauding you are not looking out for your best interest.
HBD and Age with wisdom.
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@bibzyCarter
@rebecca_spero
Men are the ones who fund these lifestyles. I guess that was why she called on y'all. 😄
Nails I will get done for 5k in an air-conditioned saloon with good customer care. 😂
The 30k nails saloon is where they go to do big girls shit on men's money.
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@adidasfootball
Unfollow the brand and stop buying anything that has Adidas on it. That's how you register your displease.
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@enews
A woman gets cheated on, ends the relationship and still gets judged for leaving the man. Wow!
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@thepoetpreneur
@LeninPark4
The actual question should be, who raised your mum?
If she was well groomed, she would've known that it's wrong to sweep a house when there's a guest.
I mean no insult to her. Just stating the obvious.
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@Jokotade_ng
@AniNduonofit
Is there a woman in this country that will say this has never happened to her either in the market or in the streets? Made me conclude that most men aren't properly raised in this country. The married ones aren't left out. The way I insulted one yesterday, I felt good after.
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@innosonvehicles
With the harsh realities of doing business in Nigeria, a random Twitter user expects a Car manufacturing brand to gift a car just to appease to a bandwagon of men giving a woman gifts to prove a point. 🤣 Y'all need to wake up! Continue giving her money to pepper feminists.
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@TheAyoAjayi
@alexlobaloba
I have 4.❤️
Two will give once you ask.
You have to really beg one before he gives, then there's one you can only collect money from when you catch him with his babe. 😂
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@oceanic09
You live in a saner Clime, where people are paid exactly worth the services rendered, what took you there could be the need to earn well and live well, but feel the need to compare a strong currency to a weak one just to buttress a point. We don't do that.
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@CobhamsOyibo
I was in my faculty office to drop documents, I met a woman there.
To my surprise, she was too polite to be working in a govt institution. My docs were incomplete. I was expecting insults when she mentioned, but no, she politely told me what was missing.
I felt out of place😂
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@moorff
@Michael_Waters_
LOL. How you switched it to a global problem.
Saving lives is a priority for medical practitioners in other climes, in Nigeria, it's money first before they look into whatever your problems are. 😄
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@excelentspirit
@BenHundeyin
When someone doesn't benefit them, they stand and watch. When it does benefit them, they're involved. Bunch of criminals in uniform.
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@Morris_Monye
Wike does not threaten. If the NDDC doesn't remit the money for the road construction, Wike will finish the road and block the lane that leads to their office. 😄 He said he's not father Christmas. Make them try am.
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@iamrenike
If his curtains are dirty and he can't wash, I would assume he's busy or just lazy to. You're in each other's life to add value.
I would take them to the cleaners and pay with his money or mine.
Making moi-moi is no big deal. I love ppl tasting my food.
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@MsMathebula_
Plus the things he mentioned that were important to him like a career changing decision assistance was a lie 'cause if she had asked for assistance to buy a book, he would've still gaslighted her.
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@Usamali19
@Benn_X1
🤣🤣🤣
My family friend left her Shell job that paid 400k a month in Nigeria for a caregiving job that pays $1,000 for 80hrs.
I guess she would disagree with this your "close friend".
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@Being_Adaa
@unclebayotics
She won't have dated him if she thought he was shallow. She even went as far as using him on her Avi. Ppl wey no get sense go dey give una relationship advise.
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@OgoinaBlezzing
The guys in the comment section are low-key looking for slaves as wives.
And ma'am, try dey dress your bed. 😂 He shouldn't be reminding you your responsibility.
That said, is that how married ppl communicate? "Go and dress the bed, I want to sleep?" So rude.
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@thepoetpreneur
@LeninPark4
In some traditions, picking a broom to sweep when there's someone means you want the person to leave. It's unspoken.
Maybe you can tell your paddy to wait out while you sweep, or you suspend sweeping 'till your visitor leaves.
Some tweets are unbelievable.
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@pepperdemm
@datmastermind80
They called and scammed you 20k by claiming to be UBA. So, you didn't know that your bank will never call you with a regular phone number?
You need to be flogged😄
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@mydeji247
@BashirAhmaad
He lacks wisdom. This is the reason certain jobs should be given to ppl who are grounded in that field, not based on nepotism.
A government official, taking side on sensitive international issues. 🤦
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@NwaAdaIgbo1
The things you mentioned don't make women commit suicide. She's got a secured job, a life, at most, she gets a side nigga.
Are you sure there's no misappropriation of funds at the branch she works at?
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@iyeli_blessing
@oyin_debby
No woman wishes for an unstable man. No woman wishes for a man that leaves her hanging. No woman wants a man whose words you can't take to the bank. This guy is a diaster waiting to happen if she goes back. There are ppl and relationships you can compromise, not what I read there
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@jshegz
@tejumania
Medicated glasses are for the correction of sight issues. What has that got to do with intellects?
I wear glasses, but I'm not good in maths. I really don't have to be good in maths. There are areas I do better than maths students.
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@lakeside4lyf
@profmaqari
You mean, a "professor" of Islamic studies? What were y'all expecting from him? They're all the same.
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@Realdyone
@ejirogh3ne
You that believed the first story, would it be ok to say that you want to get head from the guy?
And he didn't spend 111k on her. They were even 8 for the reunion.
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@Coolest_diva
@bibzyCarter
@rebecca_spero
Na for where AC dey blow you. 😂
For my street, I dey run both hands for 1k in an average nails saloon... N500 each for each hand. Then if you bring those acrylic nails, them fit charge you like 2k for both hands.
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@AfricaFactsAFZ
Singapore was ruled by one man, Lee Kuan Yew between 1959-1990. That's 31years.
He transformed the country from a third world country to first world country. He's now a National hero.
If the dictator y'all are talking about is changing his country for good, it's welcomed.
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@oku_yungx
No one is talking about the guy's behavior. They're focused on broke shaming and slutshaming. Why call her out and then put her in such a distressed situation?
"Common 2100 you can't afford". Like you've never been there? Same ppl who police broke shaming.
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@AbdulMahmud01
So my bank account and myself are different legal entities. Thank you APC. I can commit fraud and tell the person to sue my bank account, not me.
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@DivineDDT
@Chydee
He and the protagonist shared a history. It would be natural to trust that person.
Survival instinct made him pull that on Ali. If you noticed, the protagonist equally cheated on the old man. That brings me to the conclusion that humans are inherently selfish.
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@Oye440
Some of you can't even afford to give your girlfriends a good treat, here you are, talking of seeing relationship as poverty alleviation.
Is there a relationship between being given a gift and seeing a relationship as poverty alleviation?
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I think Bella promised her mum and siblings not to do certain things on the show. Reason she and Sheggz could only kiss. I really like this.
#BBNaija
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@MJWilkinson12
@elonmusk
"if a US dollar was to be had"
Is he doing this on the basis of charity?
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@VictorIsrael_
Why I am big on men being financially and emotionally ready before going into marriage and having babies. His behavior could be traced to poverty. He was probably going through financial and mental stress and just transferred his frustrations to the baby. I Know he beats her too.
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@KenWiwa4
@_kimaura
@FaithNkechinye4
The guy said "don't jump into strangers cars"
This is a statement that it's not the ride she ordered and she didn't check for plate number before entering.
Lastly, letting him pick a third person puts you in danger. At that point, you step out.
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@iyeli_blessing
@oyin_debby
That they realized they messed up and came begging isn't reason enough to open your heart to some ppl. They're only going to hurt you some more.
There's no attachment in the text he sent. He never said he loved her. Just I miss your company. She's the one in love, not him.
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@OInnocxnt
Our "pick me" aunties too are missing. 🤣🤣 If it's to call for women to be accountable, you will see them dishing smelly takes as if men have always been accountable. Not that I have men issues, I love my man, but always balance views.
Clowns!
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@AfricanThanoss
I am sure that Jeoferrey received insults from some viewers due to the nature of character he portrayed. Those other guys are babies where he is. T bag was annoyingly funny...I used to look up to his next sneaky plan or action. 🤣
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@chisolifts
To be candid, a girl who treats her boyfriend in this manner doesn't want anything long-term.
A good girl would help him save, not creating bills.
"It's her birthday he should have at least paid". They needed to have that prior conversation instead of the ambush.
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@anitapreye
Maria might end up being more relevant than the show winner. For someone who was evicted 3 weeks ago appearing back to back on trend table internationally, you can't be blind not to see her potentials.
I am betting on her. 😊 Not a fan though.
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@Thatlawal
@elonmusk
Why not create a GoFundMe and drop link to it for ppl to donate? That Elon musk guy may not answer you... Person wey stingy. You should also write and address a letter to Bill Gates... Sure guy.
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@yettie_ade
@madebycharles
Spending the night with a man you've never talked sex with is a risk not worth taking.
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@Neo_Marshall
The 'fear women' crew will come, forgetting that men do this too.
You were probably not ready, and more serious person came along.
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@Max_J619
You ppl don't carry trash cans in your cars in this country. Y'all contribute to littering the State. And, you and the lady actually fit.
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@ally_citizen
@9Yommie
@tolanibaj
Etiquette demands that if you're with a lady, then you should open the doors. Context is important here.
Tolani didn't indicate the condition. Don't expect random ppl opening doors for you. No one owes you anything. That sense of entitlement is even annoying.
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@LeninPark4
@thepoetpreneur
You don't sweep your house when there's someone in it. You excuse the person at least...depending on relationship.
If your mother's house is dirty, why didn't you sweep it? 🤦 What does that tell of you? SMH.
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@___Muna_
Ladies need to learn how to be assertive. A man pestering you for your contact or a date isn't enough grounds to share contacts or go on a date. There's need to be sure that you're dealing with a human before anything. One would think she took his money and didn't show up.
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@MasangoSisanda
@Gr8edd
He has his own life aside the relationship. You could've done Uber. So petty.
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@king_lainz
@Letter_to_Jack
LOL. There's this popular primary school in PH. A married woman started the school and had documents in the name she assumed after marriage(her husband's). He cheated and married the girl, then claimed the school was his and that was how she lost the school and marriage.
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@Letter_to_Jack
There are traditions in which you and your bride to be must appear before elders of the family. Must pay homage to certain family members.
If this wokeness is introduced, I pity the person's marriage. They'll make you understand that a community is powerful. 😄
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@nikkybanks
@nmachijidenma
What's the usefulness of pointing out mosquitoes that don't stay at a spot for too long if it's not sucking blood? The technology is useless.
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@JoysSparkle
@Akumneri
How your bio has "God first" but you don't mind being a sidechick.
Just a sisterly reminder that y'all should also consider the emotional stress.
Once you fall in love with this one, your mental health won't be the same and it would be worse when you're just an alternative.
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@ThinkThank15
@Morris_Monye
And they will use "insecurity" to campaign. They'll proffer solutions, but they're the direct cause of it. 🤷
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@BadGirlMo
When you finally find the LOYL, don't tell your friends of all the good things that he does for you, don't tell her how good he's in bed, the less that they know, the better. The less interested they'll be in your relationship.
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@SeniormanOA
@sadboyg4b
Have you ever heard of the fraud triangle?
Tell your dad to set up a good internal Control system.
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@Odogwu_Nomso
@BlaqBonez
If you're referring to the generation of African women in the 40s, 50s, and 6Os, those women didn't have much of a choice. They were held back by society and culture. How many African women as girls had the freewill to openly dress for the club back then? A lot were seen as taboo
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@drpenking
@Chiddonz
A pastor preached in church that he married his wife while living rent free in someone's house. These stories don't motivate me.
You can suffer with a man only for him to dump you later. If it worked for anyone, good for them.
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@_Gentle_Kabir
@FinPlanKaluAja1
Kabir cannot read data, however he needs to defend Buhari. Wahala!😃
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@collinz022
@oloye__
They're merely putting up a show with a dead man on the line? Would you agree to be George since it's planned?
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@baddestcash_
@Nappyblaze
There's a difference between computer science and computer Engineering. One deals with computer softwares, while the other deals with hardwares.
It's not his field to fix your faulty laptop. Take it to a computer Engineer.
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@ladyopalz
@SeniormanOA
I watched a South Korean movie titled "nihilist". The guy sef didn't see the need to be in a relationship or get married. This one is busy looking for her type. 😄
She's not half of those things she thinks she is. Just want to be rebellious.
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@mickiebrownkie
How this
#OccupyLekkiTollGate
became an IPOB thing explains how much of hatred y'all have for IGBOS. RINU and the likes of Dipo who are promoting this hashtag are Yorubas, but it's more convenient to blame Igbos. Mumu somebody!
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@FinPlanKaluAja1
Someone was suggesting Ola of Lagos. Even Ola of Lagos is a bad PR suggestion for a brand that wants to be global. Innoson should be selling to other African countries if his management team was first class.
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@OInnocxnt
They're not in the CS 'cause this clearly isn't romanticising. Ideally, if a woman could literally do it all, chances are that she won't need a man, especially not the average Nigerian man.
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@instablog9ja
The lecturer deserved it!
Mine fixed a 9:am test. He hever showed up till 11:am
It was moved to 3:pm and we all left. Suddenly, he fixed 12noon. Before 12, he has shared scripts to end at 12.
What could we do? Ppl came after the test had ended.
They don't care if you fail.
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@DebbiesDebbie1
@DavidHundeyin
@UBAGroup
Access too. I was in the market buying something and this old woman received a call, she didn't understand what the guy was requesting for, so she gave her phone to me to talk to them. I told the guy to get a job and he called me a Prostitute. 🤣
She said she just opened an A/C.
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@instablog9ja
46 cows to bury a dead woman. This is the problem with Africa. In a village where there are lot of hungry people and some people are praising them.
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@AkonStacy
Please, let's not pretend and call out wrongs when we spot them.
This practice is common as I know someone living in Oklahoma whose wife got severally to sleep in cell.
The Cops always believe the women when they see these self-inflicted injuries thinking it's the men.
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@samuel_kaydot
@mrfestusogun
Mike Pence proved otherwise during the capitol riot saga. Was he not a VP?
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@ThinkThank15
@Igbo_Times
LOL. Producers probably exploit him. Why does he live in the market when the likes of Destiny Etiko buy mansions? Are they not all in the same industry?
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@chinda___
@BeverlyNaya
Within Port-Harcourt, no.
In rural areas, yes. Flooding occurs in periods like this when Rivers overflow their banks due to the downpour.
In Lekki, ppl built beautiful houses on sandfilled lands. What were they expecting?
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@instablog9ja
She just knows her right. Why will he take her to phase 2 when she said phase 1 and want to collect money?
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@stelladamasus
How did we all miss this for years? 😂
If you had not mentioned, I would've said it's Damascus.
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@Oyinlee1
@DanielRegha
@tumissss_
You didn't read the nonsense he said about organic sanitary like he's been using them. 🤣
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@OloriOfOloris
Did you just call them naive? Ppl who pride in it. I have one that prides in dating one that just graduated. She goes give him knacks most times and comes back looking for what to eat. 😂
The girls want love, the guys are looking for where to release hormonal urge. Funny.
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@LeninPark4
@thepoetpreneur
You ppl will always try to make tweets about people. 😂 Crazy!
In my house, I sweep and mop every weekend. Rooms, parlour, kitchen, toilets. I don't have a problem with chores. However, I should know when to help a man with chores.
A GUEST shouldn't be sweating in your house.
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@irenedontoh
@nelo_x
"the right channel"
You mean to say that she should've called 911 immediately she got the gun shot instead of tweeting it?
Abi, what's that out emergency number again?
You be really goat.
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@biolakazeem
Some of you have a high propensity to join trends without understanding. The 20k was supposed to be a late payment charge. How rational to charge that as late payment when school just resumed? Failure to meet with the VC's deadline of on Saturday means forfeiture of admission.
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@oku_yungx
From a foreigner's perspective of Nigerian men on Quora. 4k views 🤣
Nigerian men are strategic when it comes to dating. Most of the time, they rarely date for love. the reasons they date women could be for financial benefits or residency papers.
Link will be on my TL.🤣
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@JajaPhD
This is why I prefer meeting people off the internet. There's no feeling like being chased by a man on the streets. You can tell he's attracted to your physical appearance 'cause that's what pple see first.
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@orla_mide
Time is money. No wonder you can't pay your rent. You spend more time having sex than you shld spend thinking of ways to better your finances.
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@Y2e0l2u4
@CobhamsOyibo
These ones are rare to come by. 😂
You needed to see how I was staring at the nice woman. I actually tested her niceness if it was genuine with the question of "what's missing?" And she told me.
The regular ones will scream and send me to the notice board or just ignore me.😂
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@simply_queenmo
@MoIbrahimEsq
These marriages last 'cause families are vetted. Both sides have people they're accountable to, so when there are differences that threaten the existence of that union, couples are called to order. The reverse is the case with the other types of marriages.
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@GodspowerOgemdi
@instablog9ja
I wished you made sense. There's something called prudent spending. The phone you wished I had given out serves me an academic purpose. You're clearly a mistake of how humans should reason.
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@_Copah_Jay
@Mirexshotz
My first thought. They'd be like "why are you seated backing the class? Your parents didn't raise you well?" 😂
I know a lecturer who would say that.
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@Ada_mommy_
@perfectskones
He wasn't referring to you.
Y'all hastily reply posts without processing what's being said.
Ask yourself, in what condition(s) is 'generalization' allowed?
Another question, is their room for exclusion in generalization?
'most' girls in that age bracket just want to date.
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@Drmuzoic
@profmaqari
They're the sponsors of Boko Haram.
The difference between this Imam and the Boko Haram group is location.
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