Tyler Graham
@3mphFatherhood
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📢 BIG ANNOUNCEMENT 📢
I'm launching something new to help dads.
The way you use your voice is critically important in fatherhood.
When you consistently yell or speak harshly, your kids have a higher likelihood of experiencing:
→ Damaged connection.
→ Emotional
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This is one of the most beautiful expressions of fatherhood I’ve ever heard.
Dads, make your ceiling your kids’ floor.
This is the way.
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My fatherhood hot take:
Your kids will be benefit tremendously when you prioritize slow, traditional culture activities.
Teach your kids to live slow & purposefully.
Don't let them live a life chasing dopamine highs.
Dads, which of these resonates most deeply with you?
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The world needs more dads that champion other dads.
I don’t think I could imagine a better compliment to receive as a dad than this 🤣
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It’s impossible to overstate how important it is for a child to hear these words from their dad:
I’m here for you.
I love you.
I’m proud of you.
Speak them as often as you can.
[v/c to the incredible
@mrjasonowilson
. I dare you watch his videos without tearing up.]
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My friend left his wife & kids.
I'll never forget what he told when I asked him why.
We stood together on a cold sidewalk at 6am.
It was less than 12 hours after he'd moved out.
I was trying to grasp how he could come to this decision.
He looked at me & said
"I've been
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A phrase I avoid with my kids:
Be careful.
There are enough things in this world trying to hold my kids back.
I won’t be one of those things.
Do I get scared about them getting hurt?
Sure.
But what scares me even more?
My kids only knowing how to play it safe.
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This is one of the primary reasons we make it a priority to regularly read aloud in our home.
"Fairy tales don't exist to make children fear dragons, but to show them dragons can be defeated."
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The numbers don’t lie.
Strong, present dads are world-changing.
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I have never regretted making a sacrifice that has allowed me to add more kids to my family.
It’s worth it 100% of the time.
Great take. Endorse. Meeting your kids’ needs doesn’t have to be expensive.
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My biggest current challenge in fatherhood:
Speaking too harshly to my kids.
It's the thing that needs my attention the most.
It can too easily become my default response.
[Especially if I'm overwhelmed or in a hurry.]
I don't take the time to connect with my kids.
I
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I've been a dad for 10 years.
Here are the 10 most hard-fought lessons I've learned in fatherhood:
1. It's impossible to be present AND in a hurry.
2. Don't lose your heart to neglect & obligation.
3. A strong vision will keep you on track more than anything else.
4. The
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Dads, carelessly using your voice will leave you with a heart full of regret.
Learn to steward your voice.
Speak firmly when needed, but in love.
Be the voice that champions your kids
And keeps them coming back to you forever.
Thanks to my man
@SaveYourSons
for sharing
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This was always the vision for our family.
And one of the reasons we chose to homeschool.
We want to travel together as a family.
We want our kids to learn in the real world.
So when I had to travel to DC for work last week
The whole family came with me!
We spent time
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Homeschoolers struggle with socialization.
And parents are underqualified to teach their kids.
These are two of the most common misconceptions that keep families from pursuing homeschool.
And they're both flat our wrong.
My wife & I want to change the narrative around
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@lynchpin5
A selfish father will destroy his family.
A present, powerful father will bless his family beyond measure.
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Fatherhood is not about efficiency or life hacks.
There is no substitute for simply being present.
You just have to keep showing up.
Over and over and over again.
There's no hack for that.
Instead, there are 3 things I believe every dad needs.
If you've got these,
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5 ways homeschooling has benefited our family
And allowed us to build an intentional family culture
🧵
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Allow me to re-introduce myself.
My name is...
[Hopefully all my fellow 90s kids finished the lyrics there!]
I’m doubling down on my X content.
So figured today would be a good day to introduce myself here again.
My name is Tyler...and I am a lot of things 🧵
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@trentonfcole
@SaveYourSons
It’s been heartbreaking to watch it play out. He’s so deceived & lost. And his family is paying the price.
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I joined
@SaveYourSons
in the
@GetFatherized
Incubator 3 months ago.
I'm not exaggerating when I say that my time in this group has been LIFE-CHANGING.
If you're a dad, here are 6 reasons you need to join TODAY.
🧵
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PSA: when you meet cool dudes doing cool things
Support their work!
I love
@ruralroamer
’s mission.
And his merch is 🔥, too.
Go buy some now.
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I'm not the greatest dad in the world.
But I am the greatest dad my kids will ever have.
And I'm going to work every day to make sure that stays true.
I'll never be a perfect dad.
I'll also never stop being my best for them.
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Dads, beware the soul-sucking force of reasonableness.
Don't be afraid to go big sometimes.
As a dad, you have to be reasonable like 98% of the time.
But in that other 2%, be unreasonable.
Break the script & create memorable moments.
Buy the tickets.
Take the trip.
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I’ve learned a ton in recent months about starting & growing a business.
This is the single best piece of advice that has helped me grow more than anything else.
Grateful for men like
@wtravishubbard
&
@SaveYourSons
that have shown me the way.
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Fatherize is a GAME CHANGER.
The value is insane.
Do yourself & your family a favor.
Sign-up today.
Check out what our member Tyler had to say about his experience so far.
If you sign up in the next 11 days, you lock in the early bird rate forever.
Calling entrepreneur dads, this is for you. Click
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My daughter hurt her friend's feelings.
How she handled it blew me away.
🧵
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What's the most important thing a dad can do for his kids?
My answer might surprise you.
If you asked 100 dads this question, you would get some great answers.
→ To provide for them.
→To protect them.
→ To teach them right vs. wrong.
→To raise them to be a good
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Dads, find a vision so compelling that your great-great grandkids will carry it on.
Also,
@jeremympryor
+
@SaveYourSons
is the combo every dad needs in their life!
People often say they hope they will be forgotten in 100 years as if it’s selfish to want to be remembered.
But we only remember those who live a life worth remembering.
"Become the type of man your great-great grandchildren hang pictures of on their wall."
@SaveYourSons
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I’m not exaggerating when I say that the
@GetFatherized
incubator has been LIFE CHANGING over the past 2+ months.
The community.
The coaching.
The content.
It’s all unmatched.
@SaveYourSons
has created something special.
Dads, stop waiting. Jump into this thing NOW.
WE ARE BACK.
I have it on good authority that our blue check is incoming.
It feels good to be alive. BREATHE in deep and taste the winning.
Go outside. Hug your kids. Lift weights. Build autonomy. Get Fatherized.
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Fatherhood doesn't stop when your kid turns 18.
I'm 34 years old, and I still need my dad.
🧵
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Dads, you’re not raising grass.
You are raising…
Big dreamers.
World changers.
Strong voices.
Risk takers.
Confident creators.
I absolutely love this message from
@RyanHoliday
.
Remeber to let your kids be kids.
And be the voice that champions them along the way!
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I know the day is coming soon.
The day my daughter stops asking me to pick her up.
I'll never know when the last one is coming.
So I'm on a mission to say "yes" anytime she asks.
It's true what they say about fatherhood:
The days are long.
But the years are really,
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@barndon187
It’s taken me a lot of intentional effort to cut the phrase out because I’m pretty risk-averse by default. Replacing it with another phrase like “be wise” has been helpful!
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I think often about the speeches I will one day give at my kids’ weddings.
And it’s for the same reason I think often about the speeches my kids will one day give at my funeral.
I want to constantly envision the type of dad I will be in 10, 20, 50 years.
Because I know I
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I joined this incubator 2 months ago.
It’s an absolute game-changer.
For any dad that has dreamed of creating side income for your family, don’t wait to jump in on this.
@SaveYourSons
is for real.
The community is unmatched.
The mentors are legends.
Get in on this.
There are two weeks left to get in the Beta Group of our incubator
In 2022 I left my 9-5 to run my online businesses full time.
Now I've joined with a bunch of other mentors and we're helping other dads do the same thing.
Click below and add your name:
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2. Deep sibling relationships.
Our 6 kids get to spend so much time together.
As a result, they're best friends with one another.
These friendships will stay with them for life.
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1. Slowing down more.
The more you hurry, the more frustrating it is to encounter things that can't be hurried.
Kids, for instance.
When you become unhurried, you create time to connect.
You build relationship & win the hearts of your kids.
This connection significantly
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@MrJacobEspi
@tobi_emonts
Too many dads feel they’ve got to carry the weight of fatherhood alone. I’m on a mission to change that narrative!
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My current favorite podcast:
@abrahamswallet
.
It’s packed with envisioning + practical content on Biblical, multigenerational leadership of your home & stewardship of your money.
@markcparrett
&
@smanuelmusic
have done an amazing job!
Check out their steps to greatness now!
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The most impactful decision we've made for our family culture:
Homeschooling.
Homeschooling has been a tremendous boost to our family:
→ Gives us more time to raise & train up our kids.
→ Allows our kids to pursue unique passions & interests.
→ Builds deep friendships
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@SaveYourSons
Or….I’ll just ask
@SaveYourSons
because I’m in the
@GetFatherized
Incubator & I have access to him and other world-class coaches on a daily basis to give me unmatched advice on exactly what I need to do!
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4. Inviting my kids to weigh-in.
I've had an intentional conversation with my kids about this.
They know it's something I am actively working on improving.
And they have full permission to speak up when I mess up.
"Dad, you're not speaking kindly right now" gets my
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If your family is interested in making the jump to homeschool
But you’re feeling overwhelmed or underqualified
My wife & I want to help you!
Check out the Homeschool Foundations cohort we’re launching in October.
Message me to learn more!
Homeschoolers struggle with socialization.
And parents are underqualified to teach their kids.
These are two of the most common misconceptions that keep families from pursuing homeschool.
And they're both flat our wrong.
My wife & I want to change the narrative around
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My wife is out of town for a girls weekend.
Which means I’m flying solo, 1-on-6.
I always start these weekends with a trip to the grocery.
We load up on food & treats for the weekend.
Dad-mode: fully engaged.
Dads,
What’s your go-to when you’ve got a solo weekend?
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Your kids are learning what it means to be human.
And being a human is hard!
The best thing you can do for them as their dad:
1. Have a tremendous amount of grace.
2. Be self-differentiated.
3. Don’t get wrapped up in their big emotions.
4. Set the example of regulation.
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3. Cultivate family values.
We get A LOT of time to infuse our home with our values.
We get to be creative, eat meals around the table, work as a team.
Every day promotes the values we want to be true of our family!
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Fatherhood (not so) hot take:
It is GOOD for boys to sword fight with sticks.
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5. Knowing & understanding our kids.
The increased time alongside our kids helps us to know their hearts.
We get more insight into who they are & how their wired.
We get to know their hearts more deeply.
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2. Understanding affect regulation.
This is something all dads need to learn about.
Emotional regulation is key to maintaining a steady presence.
When you know that early signs that you're getting overwhelmed
You can take healthy action to calm down before you hit a tipping
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Dads, you are responsible for your wake.
And your kids will be the ones caught in it.
When you live a hurried, frantic, unintentional life
Your kids are the ones that pay that price.
Because you're not present.
And you miss the moments that matter the most.
Find ways
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Dads, don’t look back on these days with regret.
Slow down & show up fully now.
These are the good days.
Friendly reminder that the good old days are happening right now
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A friendly reminder for dads:
Climbing trees > scrolling screens.
Let your kids be wild & take risks.
A broken bone is a small price to pay for your kid to realize they’re strong & capable.
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4. Collective learning.
We get to learn alongside our kids.
We know what they love & what they're interested in.
We get to pursue those things with them!
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1. Slow family pace.
Homeschooling lets us set the pace of our life.
We can speed up & slow down when needed.
We can live at 3mph.
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These are the kind of notes that keep me going.
I’d run through a brick wall for my family.
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As with most challenges in fatherhood, this one requires a deep connection with your kids.
If you need some help as a dad finding more opportunities to connect with your kids, sign up for my monthly newsletter below.
You’ll immediately receive my free PDF guide, 21 (mostly
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Teach your kids to slow down.
Show them how to appreciate beautiful things.
Life is much more joyful this way.
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@dustinthedad
@Stoic_Father
It’s been absolutely heartbreaking to see it happen. When a father abandons his post, it has such devastating impacts on tbe family.
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@jeremympryor
I bought my wife a Flikr fireplace for her birthday last month. Great way to signify time that is set aside as intentional for date night it.
Also creates a great ambiance & pairs nicely with a glass of wine or bourbon!
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There’s nobody better at this stuff than Harrison.
He is committed to seeing other dudes succeed.
Stop telling yourself you’ll do it tomorrow.
Get on this TODAY!
1100 dads have gotten my free course for buying back time with their family through online business
It will STOP being free in 7 days
To get it 100% free, just comment COURSE under this tweet and I'll DM you the link
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Dads,
Share your story with your children.
Tell them about times of struggle & perseverance.
Tell them about times of joy & celebration.
Tell them who they are & where they come from.
Tell them of the legacy they will be entrusted to continue.
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@jeremympryor
I’m way late to the party — but
@abrahamswallet
has been my absolute favorite listen since picking it up a couple months back.
@markcparrett
&
@smanuelmusic
drop so much wisdom & insight in every episode. It’s a must listen for anyone wanting to biblically lead their home!
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@SaveYourSons
@GetFatherized
Don't sit back & watch other guys win.
Join
@GetFatherized
& starting winning with us.
Use the link below to sign-up.
And because you followed along to the end of the thread, use code TYLERG to take 20% off your fee!
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These guys are the real deal.
@tyromper
&
@MikeSchiff_
are changing lives.
Check out their men’s community & jump in while they’ve got some spots left!
You are in full control!
There's no need to TRY.
You either make up your mind & DO or you DON'T.
@MikeSchiff_
& I are opening a couple more slots in our men's group.
If you're interested in being part of a community of men growing together DM me ARENA & I'll send info.
*Not
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Update: goat house is ready for action!
It’s a blessing when your family works together to bring a vision into reality.
This is the good life.
🐐
Weekend plans:
Build a goat house 🐐
Anyone else got fun plans this weekend?
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If you're lucky enough to still have your dad in your life
Call him today & tell him thank you.
So many guys would give anything for just one more conversation with their pops.
I'm one of the lucky ones that still has my Pops around.
I am forever grateful for him.
And
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Nothing has taught me more about God, love, & life than being a dad.
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3. Remembering the vision.
I know how I want to be remembered as a dad.
And it's not for speaking harshly.
When the vision is clear & strong, it's a powerful reminder.
Each moment when I'm feeling overwhelmed or hurried
Becomes an opportunity to build the intentional legacy
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I am a homesteader.
It's a dream that's slowly becoming a reality.
We have 2 bunnies, 4 ducks, 2 goats, & ~40 chickens.
We planted a large garden this year that has provided so much.
My dream is one day add a couple highland cows to our land.
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Weekend plans:
Build a goat house 🐐
Anyone else got fun plans this weekend?
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I am a Christian.
I started following Jesus at 17 years old.
My faith is foundational to everything in my life.
It changes everything I am & do.
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I am a husband.
My wife & I have been together since we were 14.
We've done a lot of life together & it just keeps getting better.
She is the most incredible woman I know, hands down.
She loves deeply & leads boldly.
She started a homeschool co-op that is flourishing in
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@Stoic_Father
Definitely worth the quick read. John Eldredge has some amazing wisdom for dads.
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I am a father.
I've got 6 kids [3 girls, 3 boys] that are 10 & under.
Fatherhood has taught me to much about myself & life.
It's my greatest joy to be a dad to my kiddos.
They are wild & crazy & funny & amazing.
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1. Coaches.
When you join the Incubator, you get access to DAILY calls with some world-class coaches.
These are guys that have walked the walk.
And they freely share all they've learned on their way to success.
Imagine having access to guys like this at your finger tips:
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Every other week, I get together with 5 other dads.
We dig deep on faith, marriage, fatherhood, work, & more.
These guys have made me better in every way.
They've helped me be a better husband & dad.
They've helped me get in better shape.
They've helped me improve my
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Counterpoint:
There is literally NO ONE more qualified than you, as the parent, to decide the unique educational needs of your kids.
You are not qualified to homeschool your kids.
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A dad skill I’ve recently started to love:
Grilling good food.
Costco garlic chicken wings getting fired up tonight.
Dads,
What’s your go-to grill item of choice??
Hit me with your favorite recipes & tips!
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Dads,
Here's a way to get free babysitting for date nights:
1. Find some friends that have similar aged kids.
2. Pick a night of the week that's typically open for both of you.
3. Alternate babysitting for each other after the kids go down.
4. Both couples get a date night
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How many dads out there are feeling this one?
It’s easy to lose yourself in duty & obligation as a dad.
You get so wrapped up in everything that needs to get done.
You forget to simply enjoy the goodness of fatherhood.
Slow down & take it in.
Soak up the beauty of being a
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Dads, is there any home maintenance project more satisfying than pressure washing??
What’s your favorite thing to work on around the house?
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@Jacoblmendoza
@MikeSchiff_
@mrjasonowilson
My man! Here’s to changing the world as present, engaged dads!
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Each of these mentors are incredible. They’ve walked the walk. Now they’re teaching others to do the same.
I’m telling you: one meeting alone with these guys is worth the monthly fee.
And you get these calls daily.
The value is unmatched.
Get daily, on-demand help from me, plus
@AndrewStrohm
@DrRichHuntsman
@wtravishubbard
@tobi_emonts
And lots more. This is especially ideal for dads who want to start a consulting/coaching/agency business
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Between stimulus & response there is a space.
What you do with that space makes all the difference.
(Please ignore Rusty the Rooster in the background 😂)
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The greatest joy of my fatherhood:
Seeing my kids give their lives to Jesus.
I had the honor of baptizing my 7yo last weekend.
It sets us on a new path as father & son.
My role is to help him learn to wrestle, test, learn, & live by his faith.
It's a role that will never
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1. Apologize to her friend for excluding her.
2. Ask for ways she can better include her going forward.
3. Create a plan to address in the moment if it happens again.
[They came up with a secret hand signal they'll use!]
4. Pray together for their friendship to last a long
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@SaveYourSons
Bro he was psyched out of his mind. Literally sang his heart out with the band for 2.5 hours 😂
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@jeremympryor
Jack Pearson in ‘This Is Us’. Imperfect but present. Full of wisdom. Clear multi-generational impact. Always leading his family with intentionality.
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