Good rule of thumb ;
Support the person you are interested in.
Show interest in how much they love their hobbies etc. Pay attention it goes a long way & makes them feel seen.
I want to get with a woman.
And do her no less than all those love songs in the 80s & 90s. I want your soul to experience the energy those songs were created from.
Finding someone and growing an intentional bond and Choosing them everyday is not and should not be associated with settling.
It’s someone beautiful in the phrases “you are mine” and “I’m yours”
Get into the habit of asking people for direct intention. People will often manipulate your assumption.
Don’t make someone a friend in your mind, when they only see you as a beneficial associate
Sad dating reality ;
Being the one leading every conversation, coming up with all the activities and Micromanaging emotions etc ..
is the most taxing thing in the world
Delete all the extra energy out of your phone. Text messages , contacts , photos etc. sometimes the thing that keeps you feeling down and heavy is your phone