Iโm Trickssi! (she/her; 35yo; bi) I make cosplay, host/teach dance/dj anime convention formal balls, and advocate for survivors of sexual assault (& more). Updated pinned - all credits at the end!
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Reminder: Please be respectful to voice actors. They're not their characters. They don't want to be involved in your ship wars. They're real people. Treat them kindly and appropriately. Respect their boundaries and their right to say no. Love, someone to old to witness this.
I just found out the "cosplaying while black" panel was rejected at C*l*ssalcon because the person selecting panels thought it was too exclusive (of white people, they mean).
But then they said this, so actually, fuck that con, I'm never going back! TELL PEOPLE ABOUT THIS.
Rachel Duncan, cosplayer, was MURDERED in 2018 by her ex at her workplace, against whom she had a RESTRAINING ORDER because she knew he had a gun.
Julia Moreno Jenkins's car was SET ON FIRE in 2019 at Anime Los Angeles by A KNOWN STALKER.
COSPLAY IS NOT CONSENT IS NOT ENOUGH!!!
She was not an "e-girl."
She was a CHILD. A person who enjoyed streaming. Don't demean her further by using a term that has been used in casually misogynistic ways.
I went to that panel at Youma and it kicked ass, and was vitally relevant to today's cosplay atmosphere.
This convention just brushed off POC cosplayer issues and called all of us who care, basically, SJW NPCs.
Oh, they also invited Vic in the past, way more than once.
Young cosplayer: *makes consistent multiple posts daily, then takes a few days off*
Young cosplayer: Omg sorry for the hiatus!!
Me, pushing 30: Hello followers, you're lucky if I only take months off at a time without warning in this bitch of an economy, you're welcome
Hey UHHH
Can y'all FUCKING STOP THROWING THE TERM "TRIGGERED" AROUND
JUST FUCKING STOP IT, I DON'T CARE ABOUT THE CONTEXT BEING DUNKING ON THE RIGHT
YOU DEFINITELY KNOW PEOPLE WHO HAVE SUFFERED PTSD AND YOU'RE HURTING THEM (ME) BY DOING THIS SHIT
FUCK THIS HELL SITE
They ACTIVELY encouraged this couple to come back, shout at me and wave the paper in my face (harassing me!), and eventually get their way even though "no lifts" is common fucking knowledge at social dances and in most competitions.
FUCK. YOU.
What do these cons have in common?
They're owned by or affiliated with "alleged" RAPIST AND ABUSER Ryan K*pf.
BOYCOTT THESE CONVENTIONS AND TELL ALL YOUR FRIENDS. DO NOT ALLOW THIS BEHAVIOR TO BE TOLERATED IN OUR COMMUNITY.
Anime-Zap
Anime Spark
Anime Midwest
AniMinneapolis
AniMore
Con+Alt+Delete
DomoCon
Kanpai!Con
Liberty City Anime Con
Meta Con
Norfolk Anime Expolosion
QC Anime-zing!
Star City Anime
Taiga Con
Tri City Anime Con
And the domain animecon[.]org.
The Cosplayer Survivor Support Network (CSSN) is taking action to hold cons accountable for their flimsy harassment policies, but we need SO much more help. Look at how many cons don't make the cut--and we haven't even gotten CLOSE to grading all of them!
We don't exist to fulfill your fantasies. We don't deserve to be harmed or killed for our choices in life.
THE MEDIA NEEDS TO STEP THE FUCK UP AND SHOW WHAT'S ACTUALLY HAPPENING IN OUR COMMUNITY. WE ARE SO MUCH MORE THAN MODELS AND ACTORS.
Don't even try to tell me the submitter was overreacting.
When I said "please no lifts" to a couple on my crowded dance floor, this con's Con Ops printed them out the entire website and highlighted it to tell me I didn't put it in the rules so I'd better let them dance like that.
These new designs are great! But Fire Emblem cosplayers, I'm begging you: don't let them be the reason you go to a waterpark convention. Don't go to the waterpark convention. Don't go to the waterpark, period. You can debut your swimsuit cosplays literally any other way!
Bamco: Tales of Link is shutting down
Bamco: also Tales of the Rays is shutting down
Bamco: also next Tuesday we're coming into your house and stealing all your copies of previous Tales titles, taking your merch, and wiping your memory
You CAN--and actually, you MUST--support black cosplayers WITHOUT HARASSING OR STALKING NON BLACK COSPLAYERS WHO MADE MISTAKES.
You know what you're doing when you harass on their behalf? You throw them RIGHT back into the line of fire. You make the whole community look bad!!
If you're wondering why it took so long to
#kickVic
... Seriously? Look around. Most conventions STILL don't have policies to keep you safe. And look at the bullshit victims who spoke up are getting... from other people who Vic's still harming.
This community NEEDS HELP.
And while you're here! My organization
@cosplayer_ssn
is raising awareness about conventions' sweeping lack of solid harassment policies. Check to see if we've rated your fave/local con: . You can help us spread the word!!
Worst take on Vic I've seen yet: "All I've seen in photos are happy fans!"
Do you even know how many times female-presenting people smile to save their lives?
Do you even know how people with mental illness (PTSD included) smile in public and break down when they get home?
There are so many other intersectional things we need to discuss, too, like how gender presentation and skin color/racism affect rates of harassment/assault, and how awful the community (& social media reporting systems) is online. Join me in taking the babyest of steps please!!
Fwiw, there is NO such thing as a "rape joke."
It's not a joke. It's a threat. It's a signal they won't believe a survivor and haven't ever listened to or respected one before.
If someone tells one in earshot, try not to laugh as a defense mechanism. Ask them why it's funny.
@MandaSaysDFTBA
I read "Know My Name" a while back and I truly think it's one of the most important reads for anyone who's been sexually assaulted. It's haunting, it's triggering af depending on what your experience was, but it was SO worth it. It validates every reason why I didn't report.
THIS SHOULDN'T BE CONSIDERED NORMAL/EXPECTED!!!
WHITE PEOPLE, AS ONE OF YOU, I'M TELLING YOU: HOLD YOUR RACIST FRIENDS ACCOUNTABLE FOR THEIR SHIT BEFORE IT HITS THE COMMENTS SECTION!!
Hi. Stop sharing this. You think you're being helpful to vulnerable people but you're actually giving predators cover.
I responded to the one in the Ohayocon group because I'm really proud of how far they've come but this applies to ALL conventions! Do better!!
For anyone who worried about Velvet's outfit being impractical let's not forget that it's canon they took Rokurou to prison immediately after he pissed himself and he stayed there three years in the same outfit
Choose your fighter: ripped up boob window or pee pants boy
Cosplay is NOT for everyone.
It SHOULD be, but while y'all are off in la la land talking about how mean people are and not providing effective, sustainable change through education, it's only getting worse.
Take off your blindfolds!! SPEAKING is the only way we'll move forward!
Cons can't be fun for everyone if they aren't SAFE for everyone.
I'm not gonna back down on policy, EVER, no matter how many ignorant and privileged people say "there are too many rules."
You can't abide by the rules? Fine. You're not welcome in our community.
cw: weight
Uh, hey cosplayers, not really digging this trend of seeing "I'm coming back to cosplay after 2 years but I'm ## pounds heavier, I've gotta lose weight!" etc.
Are you kidding me with that shit? Like, in every way.
It's my birthday!! I never do this, but I realized I'm just under 900 followers. Any chance I could get a boost? More about me here: but the gist is I cosplay, host/teach/dj formal balls, and founded the
@cosplayer_ssn
! I'd love to find more friends!
I'm Trickssi (she/her; 31yo; bi)! I make cosplay, host/teach dance/dj anime convention formal balls, and advocate for survivors of sexual assault (& more). Thanks for stopping by!
BOOKING: contact
@trickssi
.com
CV, portfolio, & more at
Mmkay if you think black cosplayers advocating for their own inclusion is "toxic" or "me, me, me," I'm gonna need you to: 1. think about how selfish YOUR mindset is, 2. knock it off with the willful ignorance, and 3. not interact with me until you get over yourself, if ever.
Lots of great tips here already so I'll say what nobody wants to talk about: harassment shouldn't be expected!
Conventions should be responsible for keeping you safe, so look up their harassment policies beforehand. If the con doesn't have one, tell them you want one! Tips โฌ๏ธ
How bout these apples
RT/reply if you or someone you know ever quit or wanted to quit cosplay because you were stalked, bullied/harassed, abused, or sexually assaulted
Cosplayers, c'mere:
Starting now and lasting infinitely, can we leave our bullshit at the door when we interact in our community? "Drama" is out. "Working out your issues on your own time and not hurting/manipulating others" is in. Do better for each other! Support each other!
Y'all think saying "cosplay is not consent" is actually changing the community in any way, when it's only an asscovering catchphrase that creates a disconnect with the solution (education and extensive policies and resources)
Also WHY DO SO MANY PREDATORS OWN/STAFF CONVENTIONS
Oo, I made a cis man mad that spontaneous public proposals aren't allowed at my formals.
Then go somewhere else? If you ask your date to marry you, and she either is forced to say yes by social standards or says no, you've ruined someone's time and impression of the event.
My god I'm so TIRED but I saw this on Fb and not here so read the latest bullshit from AM, wherein no one is surprised but somehow y'all other conventions MOSTLY DO NOTHING ABOUT THIS
Did. Did someone seriously just try to tell me I'm not allowed to bring up this issue because I'm white and couldn't possibly know what I'm talking about.
*MORE* WHITE PEOPLE SHOULD BE THIS MAD ABOUT THIS HAPPENING!!
One more time for the new visitors:
Block evasion is cyberstalking.
Cyberstalking is a crime.
Going through 3rd parties doesn't make it less of a crime.
And it's probably not wise to try to harass, stalk, or threaten me. Don't do it.
Callout to my fucking peers
We grew up with the r-word being thrown around like "gay" as an insult
If you're still saying that shit like it's not important whether you're hurting a marginalized group, I want less than nothing to do with you.
THERE ARE OTHER WORDS. USE THEM.
I created the Cosplayer Survivor Support Network specifically to unite victims/survivors of harassment, stalking, abuse, and sexual assault (not just cosplayers) in the convention community. If you feel generous, we need $ for equipment & to become a 501c3
Hey, white cosplay/other guests who sign contracts for conventions?
I already asked you to DEMAND the con have an adequate harassment policy and provided solutions.
Now I'm asking you to DEMAND Black cosplayers/creators be signed either alongside you or in your place!!
Friends, we're putting together a CSSN article on why ahegao should be banned from conventions.
Can you rt/help me list all the reasons you can think of? The only thing we won't include is "it's ugly," because that's subjective. (BUT IT *IS* THO.)
Remember this when you hear someone say "ugh stop bringing politics into cosplay/conventions"
This community does NOT exist in a bubble! Anyone who tells you "they're bringing politics into this" has the extreme privilege of not being affected by those politics elsewhere.
As an example of how politics affect your hobbies, Arda is raising wig prices. This isn't because Arda suddenly decided to jack up prices; there's a trade war ongoing between the US and China thanks to the current administrative leaders.
Politics affect you!
@CristinaVee
Lol the fact that some people genuinely think abusers, rapists, and predators have their careers "ruined" when someone comes forward is unconscionable to me. Damage to survivors is always, ALWAYS far worse ๐
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I'm Trickssi (she/her)! I host anime con formal balls, make cosplay, and advocate for survivors of sexual assault & more at
@cosplayer_ssn
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Inquiries about appearances: contact
@trickssi
.com / CV, portfolio, & more at /
Y'all
I know we're all drowning in the news but I just found out (because of it actually) that the woman we hired to replace that kid is queer and married to a trans man and I SCREAMED!!! THANK GOD, A FELLOW GAY IN OUR OFFICE!!!!
What, me? Actually cross-posting cosplay photos here? Naaaaah. Anyway, better be on the lookout bc I have a feeling Date is up to something and that usually means I have to start collecting blackmail material ๐
๐ท @/kenna.sews (IG)
Boss, AI: The Somnium Files
MAGfest 2020
It's okay. Lots of y'all slept on this. Her quest for "revenge" is actually an exploration on the aftereffects of extreme trauma, so I recommend this game to... Well, everyone. Thank you, Velvet. You deserved better.
Missed this yesterday: Tales of Berseria released in the US 2 years (+1 day) ago. Velvet Crowe embarks on a quest for revenge after the events of The Advent leave her burdened with daemonic powers and imprisoned for 3 years.
Oo, okay, this conversation was being held on theater twitter, but: it's no secret that theater/performance excludes Black people by not giving affordable access.
Black cosplayers who want to do skits/dance/singing at a masq: I CAN COACH YOU FOR FREE!
I'm Trickssi (she/her; 31yo; bi)! I make cosplay, host/teach dance/dj anime convention formal balls, and advocate for survivors of sexual assault (& more). Thanks for stopping by!
BOOKING: contact
@trickssi
.com
CV, portfolio, & more at
Happy birthday,
@Uchikoshi_Eng
!
I wanted to share that this past weekend, I married
@GrumpsterKitty
(Hitomi below)โand we met in 2016 because of Zero Time Dilemma! Thank you for bringing my bluebird to me ๐ญ
๐ท 1,2 @/kenna.sews (IG); 3
@yenra
; 4
@MadsterPhoto
Cw animal death
Hey, everyone.
Our cat, our baby
#AbbysoluteUnit
, had a sudden, steep decline in health and passed on today. We were grateful to be there with her and so lucky to be her two mamas, and we will always love her so much.
Velvet: I think I'll change out of these clothes from my former lie of a life and create a jagged, threatening appearance as a reminder of how strong I want to be and feel in my emotional journey
Rokurou: I peed in these and I'm keeping them
Anyway, say "content warning" instead of "trigger warning" because you can't guess what will trigger someone.
Make content accessible to people who know themselves are without implying you know what's best for them. Language matters. I guarantee we've all accidentally assumed.
Con harassment policy specialist here. Definitely keep a whisper network, but be aware that there is a very slim chance MOST con chairs can or will do if those people aren't breaking rules AT the con.
Lists can also get you in a LOT of legal trouble and can be abused very easily
Twitch: We're taking a stand against white supremacy so we're removing that ol' P*gCh*mp emoji!
Twitch: *literally throws Critical Bard into the lion's den of racists without providing consequence for the fact that the racists are harassing him to the point of locking*
If y'all are seeing the harassment and threats Laura Bailey is getting right now (and it's HORRIFIC), think about how many cons would still allow those harassers to attend a con she might be at because "it didn't happen at the con."
There should ABSOLUTELY be a vetting process in place for panels at anime cons. There should also be transparency in who's making the selections, and it should never just be the same one or two people.
I CAN'T BELIEVE HOW GORGEOUS THIS IS AND IT'S FREAKIN'?? FOR ME???
Almost a decade of waiting to cosplay default Judith turned out to be SO worth it. I hope I can do this cosplay justice, for I am a lowly potato!! ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐๐๐
We need to educate this community until NOBODY takes a "piggyback" shot. If a cosplayer is posing for someone else, they're not posing for you. This spectrum includes everything from hall shots to long-distance upskirts, etc.
Ask for your own photo!!!
If you're going to Katsucon, be aware of your surroundings and plan ahead, not just for COVID safety.
As of December, their harassment policy was missing. Now, their policy exists, but it's "Find security as soon as it happens." The "Page a Chair" option leads to a 404.
Anime-Zap
Anime Spark
Anime Midwest
AniMinneapolis
AniMore
Con+Alt+Delete
DomoCon
Kanpai!Con
Liberty City Anime Con
Meta Con
Norfolk Anime Expolosion
QC Anime-zing!
Star City Anime
Taiga Con
Tri City Anime Con
And the domain animecon[.]org.
Lrt if you can say "wow cosplay is SUPPOSED to be FUN," YOU HAVE PRIVILEGE.
And if you keep saying it without helping anyone less privileged, by not using your platform to speak out against oppressive forces, YOU ARE PARTICIPATING IN THE PROBLEM.