Halimat Soft Life Magaji
@thehalimat
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You can’t dismiss God if you tried. I am living and breathing proof. How can you not believe; When you see God in me?
Blossoming In The Peace of God
Joined January 2020
From today and for the rest of life, I will experience ease. Life will not be unnecessarily difficult for me. The universe will bring good tidings my way.
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When my mum and dad got married my mum was working with a shipping agency that paid really well. My father pushed for her to quit and for them to start a new company together. She was reluctant at first but eventually, . She agreed.
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I’ve been so stressed with Mid semester exams. This man sent me a mini exam care package 😭❤️
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World THM Day! Happy birthday to me, 20 has never looked better!
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I have this app on my phone called Be My Eyes whereby blind people call in and you can help them identify things or pick out things they can’t see. I just got my first call and it was wonderful. Helped a guy in Scotland pick out wine and I haven’t felt this way in a while. ❤️
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Low key, high key I’m genuinely shocked that I’ve made it this far. Halimat 1 - 0 Sickle Cell.
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Happy Easter babies! I Hope I’m not late 👀 ❤️
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I like food and you’re looking Rice.I’ll lick you, ya like chicken spice
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Forgot to add that it was my mums sweat and hard work that enabled my parents to pay for these boys schooling in Atlantic Hall and some of the best schools in the UK.
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This is a testimony. I kept telling God I can’t fix this one. He kept telling me it wasn’t my duty to but His and all I had to do was believe. I had lost so much hope but God did it. I’m waking up tomorrow to no inheritance problem anymore, the mental break down is over ❤️ TYJ.
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For 10 years my mother worked with this man. She did most of the work. She never got paid salary once. She had the mentality of what is mine is yours and had a joint account with him. That was her only account. For 10 solid years.
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She built that company from scratch and they made a lot. They worked with multinational companies like Dangote and UN. My mum started encouraging my dad to buy properties in Edo (where he is partly from) he didn’t want to but she pushed and pushed. He did eventually.
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He eventually woke up one morning and left. He left my mother with not 1 dime. He cleared out the bank account and left. My mother had to rebuild and she did.
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January 13th 2020 my father died and that was the beginning of the horror. I was never allowed in meetings with regards the burial and Fidau prayer. My step brother Aliyu outrightly told me to forget feminism and I had no place at the meeting.
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Bruh Justin Bieber’s Justice album is everything.
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The emotional and mental trauma has come to an end. Till today I can’t kneel properly on the knee aziz hit me on but it is well. I can’t stop crying. I had so many spiritual attacks. So many. I battled with a lot mehn.
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Being my fathers first daughter and favorite for the longest I was livid. But I came to terms with the tradition and reality. I wasn’t even allowed to watch him get buried. Anyway, we left to go back to school.
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He first of all started with a family house. Now keep in mind my father had a previous wife who had two sons Aliyu and Aziz. After he built the family house he bought a quarry then properties for a big hotel. About two acres.
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20 years a sickle cell warrior💕.It’s only God who knows the fights pains tears prayers near death experiences. Happy Sickle Cell Day to my faves all over the world. Gods got us babies.#SickleCellAwareness #sicklecellday #WorldSickleCellDay #SickleCellDisease #SickleCellWarriors
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We came back for the fidau prayer and we started talking about inheritance matter na so kasala burst. My mother went to the bush barn to ask my eldest brother (step brother and first child) about some burial rites regarding goat blood and all of that.
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Na so aziz slap me. He slapped me and dragged my top out. Some members of the community were there and my fathers domestic staff. My whole breasts were out. Aziz dragged me on the floor while kicking and beating me and my leg hit one of the railings.
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While all these were going on I had to deal with mourning my father, final year and heavy depression with work stress because school fees wouldn’t pay itself. There were nights I cried. One property was left which was my fathers hotel.
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Aziz who was clearly intoxicated started shouting at my mother what do you want from me? Who are you? Then Aliu joined in and started shouting at my mum. My younger brother Hafiz, my elder sister Becky and I heard the argument so we ran out.
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They threatened to shoot us and all of that. 4am the next day we got into the car and made our way back to lagos in fear of our lives. It wasn’t up to two weeks later we got a call from my fathers friend that Aziz and Aliyu had sold one of dads car and property.
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These boys didn’t ask other branches of the family before they did so. We were so upset so we called them and asked for it to be split according to Islamic culture. They cut the phone on us. Keep in mind this was Lm my mother’s sweat and work.
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We begged and begged for our share. My mothers sweat. They blatantly refused to give us our share. I cried so many times to God I was livid. I kept telling God I couldn’t handle it and I didn’t want anything and they should just go.
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To my many lovers reading this, don’t try to do any date calculation, you will only break your heart the more. To my many haters, if we ever break up, don’t try to do “this you”. Yes dear it’s me. A ni rogo. Signed, .Management.
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I immediately went to ask my mother what happened because I try my hardest to not be impartial family or not. She told me them I went to aziz to ask for his own side of the story.
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The plan was for all three branches of the family to run it. That hotel was my fathers dream. He and I had so many plans for it. Matter of fact I picked wallpapers for each room and they were imported.
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Now we had to pay school fees my mother hasn’t been working for a bit and my savings wasn’t enough for the school fees. We called and begged and pleaded they never responded to us. Instead they’d insult us and curse us out. We eventually rant to the traditional ruler there.
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Aliyu went to meet the inheritance committee people that I don’t deserve any inheritance as I am a Christian and not a Muslim like my father. They disagreed with him. I hen it was time to hold meeting with regards how the hotel was going to be operated. Aziz disappeared.
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Keep in mind they had all the title documents to all the properties my father had. We held a meeting with the Auchi Inheritance committee and king only for Aliyu to get up and tell them to remove my mother because she never contributed to my fathers life.
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Lmaoooo but the babe belongs to the streets too 💀☕️. Or should we go back to review every BU Fest?.
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My fathers driver joined him. Hafiz my younger brother came in to intervene and separated us. I had already started having a crisis at this point. Aziz then tore hafiz shirt and started hitting him.
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I was so upset and I fought. No wahala. The properties were divided in accordance to Islamic law and we tried to retrieve our own share and properties. Na so Aziz and Aliyu sell all of them and swallowed the money. They stopped picking my mothers calls and texts.
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Next thing Aziz and Aliyu had sold two other properties. Give us our portion in the proceeds. They didn’t pick our calls nor reply our texts.
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Eventually the community decided that due to the disunity the hotel be sold. Aziz and Aliyu fought it and said no. We dragged the matter on for the longest. I hope this was happening . They sold all the other properties left including car and pocketing the money.
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We are talking about rape you’re talking about a legal and consensual relationship a 19 year old knowledgeable entered with Timini. Some of you have ice block in your brains. Please don’t sideline an important topic for casual gist. A ni siere laye wa.
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Halimat 22 - Sickle Cell 0 . Raaaaaa we meuve!!!!!!!.
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RAPE CULTURE NEEDS TO END! STOP KILLING WOMEN! Leave us alone! We have rights to live and right to human dignity! #JusticeForUwa #justiceforjennifer #JusticeForTina
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She said underneath all that makeup, I said girl where?!
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Category: Legs
Sho ni fine legs? Flaunt am.
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@pee_deevah Egg for 100k? . I just fucking hate everything about this country. We scream government this government that when we ourselves go lengths to cheat one another. The sad part is someone desperately in need of money will opt for this when the money isn’t worth 0.1 of the procedure.
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This is why I keep screaming that socialization forms the bedrock of the values and beliefs people hold as adults today.
“daddy in the parlor watching film,.mummy in the kitchen cooking rice”. This is the origin of modern day patriarchy.
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8 months with this man and he has never for once missed sending me a good morning text. Even when we fight ❤️. Blessed 🙏🏾.
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Category: Smile . God dey create Abeg 😍❤️. E remain category body, talent and brains. #ThankYouJesus
Sho ni cute smile ? Flaunt it 🙈.
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I take full responsibility for my actions and I truly do apologize for my insensitivity towards the SARS matter. And I do agree that my timing was completely wrong as a lot of people have made me see and this is definitely not a gender war thing.
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I love it when I see men openly defend women and talk about them in such a respectful manner. It’s such a sexy sight 🥰😍.
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This is blowing up 🥺 ❤️. Let me plug in somethings:. My boo is a petroleum engineer and business development officer 🤲🏾. I am a communications consultant and digital content creator 🥺❤️. Incase you ever need any of those services. 🥺❤️.
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Merry Christmas Sugar babies, Rich Aunty Hali dey for you 💕
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Surrogacy should be normalized . Sex work should be legalized . Gender Based Violence should be criminalized . Keeping your last name as a woman without a compound name should normalized . Abortion should be legalized . Adoption should be normalized.
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You owe us an apology. .We’ve given everything, We’ve birthed nations, We’ve died trying..We’ve ruled civilizations..Strength, blood, sweat, crying..And let our light shine..We’ve been the Alpha, the Omega, and everything in between..We hold divine feminine energy.
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Mgbeke feeling funky.
You wear natives? Flaunt it.
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You guys, my nail guy does amazing nails so I decided to capture it. He is so professional and his feet wash and massages are the best. Literally had an orgasm with the jelly bath one. JoFixNails: 08137977452.📍: Ogba, Ikeja
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How can you be scared of death? .We were all born for that.
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Gullible! . Na Edo and igbo spirit I dey use move when it comes to men. Because this can’t repeat itself in my marriage. Thank God for the law I’m studying no breathing space to misbehave.
@thehalimat Yoruba women can be gullible. Thank God my mom woke up from her slumber early.
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One thing I definitely hat about being a sickle cell patient is how easily and frequently I fall ill. I could have sworn I was good yesterday morning.
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No matter the backslides my father had in his role as a parent, he still accomplished a lot while he was present in my life. My diction and ability to speak fluently and impromptu on any topic? My dad. At 10 my dad made me type his UN contracts & agreements.
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Sho ni fine face, flaunt am?.
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I need to stop this nasty attitude of second guessing myself, my abilities and my skills.
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The day I knew women were fucked in Nigeria was the day I applied mens reaction to rape to the SARS situation and I received 6000+ death threats.
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Can’t wait to celebrate about God changing my genotype too. God when? 🥺.
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