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@tenorjcs

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Dad, progressive, musician, brain injury surviver. Retiring this year. widowed after 25 yrs, & adjusting. 😊You know I meant what you thought I meant😊

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Just because something didn’t last, doesn’t mean that it wasn’t perfect while it was here.
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My baby girl just left us. Asthma attack exacerbated by Covid. She spent 3 days on a ventilator. She was only 22.
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My daughter was 1. My wife was pregnant with my son. My mom, her mom, both gone. I’m the only one still alive in this photo. This is so messed up.
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@Toto2ozCindy Thanks. My daughter has been gone for over two years, my wife for just over one. Trying to put things back together.
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@Sigmundine2 He was the pregnancy. He’s 23 and living in the city (Chicago) resuming college in the fall.
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@DanielleWeg My wife made it clear that she wanted me to move on.
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@yeah_jamaica He wasn’t born yet in this pic, but he’s alive and well.
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Well, damn. This would have been my wife’s birthday. This is from last year; even with a cancer diagnosis, I thought we’d have more time.
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#NewProfilePic until my daughter is out of ICU.
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2 months
Damned FB memory from 8 years ago is messing me up. My daughter in her first car at 16. She should fucking be ALIVE!
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My wife had the most irresistible eyes. It is touching to know that they are still working their magic in another way.
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My mother and the mother of my children. Missing them both.
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@violetwidow131 Thanks. This is a strange state of life. There’s so much that we’d thought we would never have to deal with again.
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Tomorrow will be a year to the day that my wife died. This picture is from her last birthday in April, right about the time we realized her time was short. Might end up a mess singing this concert tomorrow.
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Could I just go 12 MFing MONTHS without a death in my family? 2022, my daughter, my wife’s sister. 2023, my wife. Today, my wife’s father. I’m tired AF.
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Six weeks ago, we met for the first time IRL. Recreating that first date.
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3 years
My daughter in Cali is in ICU. Cardiac arrest from a severe asthma attack. On a vent and heavy sedation now until brain swelling goes down. She’s only 22.
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@deb_fillman @TheWapplehouse Oh, that’s right, we don’t “see” color. So that makes persons of color acceptable as long as they have no pride in who they are, how they look, or where they came from? As long as what makes them “them” is invisible and unnamed? Please pay attention next month. Thks, bye.
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Lunch and a couple hours walking outdoors were wonderful. Back to our separate ends of the state till next time (which, this time, is only 5 days away😁).
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Checking out Chicago on foot with @LeciaMichelle11
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So I did this today. My daughter Elizabeth (aka Lizzie, Liz, Lizard) died in 2022. My wife is probably rolling over in her grave (she hated tattoos). First ink at 60.
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@_Norah__D_ Right down to the mannerisms. Kid’s good.
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My girls from a happier time.
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My baby girl is gone. 22 years old. Covid and asthma were too much for her. This should not have happened.
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Enjoying the parks with @LeciaMichelle11
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I promised @LeciaMichelle11 a Mexican breakfast when she came to town.
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@afrosabi Thanks. Between losing her and my wife the next year, it’s been a rough ride. I’ve had some good people to help me through it.
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Back from the vet waiting for Samson’s pre-appointment meds to wear off. Little boy is high AF.
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2 months
Nine years ago today. Better times, but who’s that young dude with short hair, and what’s he doing with my wife?
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OK, good news for a change. Saturday morning’s canceled breakfast date is now tomorrow’s dinner date. 😁 Spent some time on the phone, and feeling optimistic.
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Reposting this. To everyone who has shown support for me in this bad time, please make a donation if you can. My losses are in the past, but there are some that can still be prevented. Mothers and children need food and medicine. Let’s make a difference.
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To anyone who happens upon my feed out of concern for what I posted last night, PLEASE consider helping save a life or two. I have a few causes that I regularly support, and this is one of them.
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@ubersoft @huntthesnark @maureenjohnson Compared to other leaders, my behavior’s quite unusual My twisted tweets and pissed-on sheets have managed to amuse you all I have to drink two-handed ‘cause my fingers are the teeniest I need a sippy-cup with the inscription “Stable Genius.”
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To anyone who happens upon my feed out of concern for what I posted last night, PLEASE consider helping save a life or two. I have a few causes that I regularly support, and this is one of them.
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7/8 I don't talk much about them, cause the harsh truth is we can never save everyone. Will I help any families today? I don't know that's really up to your generosity and if you have any to spare.
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Breakfast and hitting the road. 😊
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@afrosabi Love the dad/daughter stories. I’m sure he’s proud AF of you.
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And the best case scenario is meeting that Twitter person IRL, and discovering “like” is not a strong enough word. @LeciaMichelle11
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Facebook: where you find out you don’t like a bunch of people you know in real life Twitter: where you find out you like a bunch of people you don’t know in real life
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Hoped to find eagles at the Chain of Rocks Bridge, but ended up with a breezy walk instead. No complaints 🥰
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We would like to thank everyone who as expressed their support and encouragement in the last few days. It has been overwhelming and a source of strength. I request that you NOT use this particular tweet for political replies. I’ll express opinions and engage, but not here. Thx.
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@dhoodson Thanks. Covid in 2022
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@NGrandpa69 Praying your sister can make it. My daughter’s oxygen was down too long due to Covid and asthma to bring her back. Hoping you don’t go through what we are dealing with now.
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Well, shit. The day is here, and I’m ready to dress up, go on stage and pretend not to be a mess. In the back of my mind, I’ll be doing the “This time last year” thing all day.
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As I bend over, I’m doing my best Freddie Mercury “Find me some tummy to rub, find me some tummy to rub…” I think the singing annoyed her but the tummy time was worth it. She’s lucky I wasn’t using my opera voice.
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@LeciaMichelle11 Then and now. Same table, and the delightful young lady who served us remembered a lot about our first visit. Well, Lecia IS pretty memorable.
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Six weeks ago, we met for the first time IRL. Recreating that first date.
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We had a chance to visit Elizabeth’s apartment when we were out in Cali. Her last drawing was taped to her bed. “Christmas Cat” She was creative from her earliest years.
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She’s been gone 9 months, and this might be the last major Amvets clothing donation. Guess I should top it off with some of my own stuff.
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WTF, I’m 60 years old and still get first date jitters.
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It’s taco and tequila Tuesday. The salsa might last longer I I didn’t keep drinking it.
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My actual anniversary is Thursday, but this pic is so perfect, I’m posting early. We made it to just shy of 25 years. This week would have been 26. How TF did I get so lucky?
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Yesterday was absolutely perfect. Lunch with @LeciaMichelle11 , followed by a brisk outdoor walk. Finally, something warm, sweet, and lovely. And the hot beverages were nice as well. 🥰
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@PortiaMcGonagal Couldn’t happen to a better basket of deplorables.
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@kim_amerie I am SO sorry. In January, my baby girl who was supposed to graduate from college in May, died of asthma exacerbated by Covid. We should NOT have to go through this. My heart breaks reading this.
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@rose_stabler I appreciate different perspectives, but I know that for myself, it’s time to move on. I guess one good selling point is that after 30 years of monogamy, I come pre-domesticated.
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@EktaShahMD Mine was well on her way. She died just 4 months shy of college graduation in 2022. I was looking forward to grad school and grandkids, but damn. She was definitely daddy’s Angel all her life.
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@RandyRainbow Thots and prayers for the virus. Imagine having to live in THAT toxic mess.
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@ClaudetteGGibs1 I hope you are in a position where you can enjoy retirement soon. Counting down the days myself.
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@ChildPleez007 Once, in 1998. 23 years and counting.
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Pulled this out of a drawer. Not reviving the habit, but once in a while, good memories.
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@bubbagump324 Thanks. And her brother is cute too. :)
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@SaysHummingbird @NancyGaldeano @realDonaldTrump I'll see your tRumpChin and raise you two
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@datgirlniy Daughter Covid in 2022, wife cancer in 2023.
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OK, so the name. On our first date in January, my lovely romantic interest referred to me (kindly) as an old geezer (she’s 3 years younger). Last weekend, at the same location, she said that I was “such a kid” because of my boyish sense of humor. So I have a rap name.
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@smc429 @MysterySolvent Uncooked chitterlings.
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@AngryBlackLady Charging the phone overnight leaves more time for twerking, etc.
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This is NOT tuxedo weather in my zip code. Gonna be a long hot day on stage.
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@michelle_byoung @LCARS_TechGuy I knew I wanted to be a dad before I wanted to be a husband. I was blessed to be both, and it was picture perfect while it lasted.
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Driving home in a light rain and had to pull over for this double rainbow.
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@annamaria1word Nothing ugly about you. That dude has the problem.
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@james_ellis19 @shannonrwatts Nothing says dad of the year like killing your girlfriend. The fact that dude sympathizes with him says a lot.
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@afrosabi This skeleton of a dog at 18, could barely see & was deaf. The day she refused food twice (even when I was trying to support her so she could eat) was the day I made what I knew would be a 1 way trip to the vet. As long as she showed interest in food and contact, I was there.
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Finally going to the CPA to do my taxes tomorrow. Second tax year in a row with a deceased household member. Last year my daughter, this year my wife. Can 2024 just be fvcking normal?
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@Thanos24055605 @KaylaChowShow I moved in on him like a bitch…
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3 months ago to the hour. Missing Daddy’s Angel.
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@MrBenibo @UndeniablyJen Personally, I'm ok with my good luck😊
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@Ange_Amene U need a wellness check?
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@SaraNature1980 Covid in 2022
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@Dangchick1 Haven’t yet, but my daughter just died Covid positive yesterday. We were with her in her last moments, so we’ll test when we get back home from Cali. She was in ICU and we were gowned, masked, and gloved, but still…
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My daughter’s marker finally came in. 7 months to the day tomorrow. Missing daddy’s Angel.
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So I’m doing comfort food therapy to deal with the disappointment. Pulled pork on mac & cheese. My new favorite vendor at the local market.
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Had an enjoyable birthday dinner. Mongolian tofu at my favorite Asian restaurant in town.
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@beyzhive @SpicyNoCajun Had me at “soft kisses on some fat lips.”
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@TheBeckyBecksss Thank you. I can still remember the moment when the doctor handed her to me. The best day of my life.
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Got this boy to the vet for that BIG lump behind his tags. Hoping it’s not serious.
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My daughter’s car arrived from Cali today with all her stuff boxed up. Not sure how soon we can handle unpacking it all. Thanks to her friends for making the arrangements.
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@LeciaMichelle11 Hung out, had Mexican food for dinner. Tomorrow, it’s hiking and taking pictures.
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@myronjclifton @LeciaMichelle11 When we first connected IRL, we joked about being the next Eliann and Myron.
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@DawnandKevin1 It would be happier if she were still here. Almost made it to our 25th.
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Comfort food dinner tonight. I needed two separate walks after this. Love these small town dives.
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It takes a funeral to get me into a suit these days. Unfortunately, my family has had too many in the last couple years.
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@emiranda_writes Then what would I keep on the ledge on the way down to the basement?
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@annearah Thank you. Coming up on the 1 year anniversary a week from Sunday. Feeling it a bit this week.
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@NikkiNikkinow2 the hot sauce came in the mail, and it ROCKS!! There’s a decent amount of heat, but not so much that I can’t taste all the spices and pepper flavor. This bottle won’t last long.
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@antgilbax That is already happening on more days than expected. Bittersweet memories where the sweet eventually overpowers the bitter.
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