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@SeattleFemdom

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Equally villainess and nurturer, I am the voice in your mind. Erotic Hypnotist, Pro and Lifestyle Mistress, Seattle Dominatrix.

Seattle, WA
Joined February 2019
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@SeattleFemdom
🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
2 years
SWers and other sexy folk: Do you need a SW and/or sexuality-affirming therapist? Think you might someday? Because I'm in counseling school, I straddle both worlds, so I wrote a piece with another SWer to help you find what you need (there's a PDF too):
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
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@myMissLilith @syedmoinhassan It's a culture war. We have this ideology around rising early equalling virtue and productivity, at least in the US (I assume Canada too). And it's totally not true, but our cultural norms, workplaces, and special events all tend to be scheduled around it.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
5 years
PSA: Your favorite dom(me), escort, cam model, or other sex worker may have their social media accounts frozen or shut down at any time. Be sure to bookmark their website or other contact information!
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
5 years
What does the collar mean? Well, it's a lot like a wedding ring; everyone into BDSM thinks they know what it means, but only the people in the relationship actually do.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
2 years
When you write "no limits" on your session petition, I don't care how many dommes you've seen before, I cannot take your application seriously. I may still decide to take your money, but you look ridiculous - or dangerous. Nobody has zero limits, especially with a new playmate.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
1 year
Being booked by another sex worker, as a gift to herself and her body - I can't imagine many better ways to spend my Saturday afternoon. And extra sweetness, finding out this was the first time she'd done this for herself. I'm awash with gratitude. More of this, please!
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
5 years
While the pharmacist is holding my phone to copy my GoodRx number off it, a message to one of my burner numbers pops up: "Gape my ass, goddess." We both pretend nothing happened. Somewhere, erotica is being written which begins like this.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
5 years
If I see "don't top from the bottom" one more time on my feed, I'm going to start muting people. Telling me what you want, need, or are concerned about is not topping from the bottom. It's transparency, and I require it. I make the decisions, but I need all the information.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
2 years
Happy Locktober!
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
3 years
PSA: Cumming "for" someone is not a tribute.
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@SeattleFemdom
🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
4 years
The real reason you have to wear a mask in public:
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
1 year
Feeling bad for all the newer online SWers who misunderstood early pandemic income as their future in this job. Can't say they weren't warned (those who consulted more tenured folk, anyway), but it is hard to watch. 😔
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
2 years
Do people walk into Rolls Royce dealerships and try to strike up a conversation with the salespeople, then tell them, "Someday, when I have money, I'm going to buy one of these", and then leave? Just wondering. No particular reason.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
1 year
Height thread: 5'11"
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
2 years
I may have just put medical mitts on someone who has been in chastity for me for six weeks, fed him a viagra, then rubbed my titties all over him. Other things may also have occurred. You should be so lucky.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
5 years
I will humiliate you in public, yes. I will not embarrass other people in the process. While hot in fantasy, involving nonconsenting onlookers shares attributes of anything else done without obtaining consent. It's not exhibitionism. It's not CNC. It's straight up nonconsent.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
3 years
I could be looking at you like this, if you're as tasty as the good little sissy slut I just got to play with.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
1 year
No, you come to *me*.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
3 years
Some petitioners seem surprised to find out that I not only am a domme, I run my business like one too. It's not just marketing. I only see those whose approach to kink aligns with mine. I say no a lot. Not all money is good money, especially for me. I want the best for myself.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
3 years
Tech career = unrewarding slog toward someone else's dreams. Prodomme career = constant dopamine drip of using your mind and body to satisfy my darkest fantasies. It was really a no-brainer.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
3 years
@SiennaHunter_ How many hours doing this job well actually takes. What they see: 2 hrs of play = $700 Reality: 2 hrs play + 3 hrs prep time + 4 hours weekly aesthetic maintenance + 20 hours weekly SEO and marketing work + fifteen years studying BDSM = $700
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
2 years
I mean, I prefer open concept homes, but otherwise this is about right.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
4 years
Some high grade PPE here.
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@SeattleFemdom
🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
5 years
It's only worship if *I* enjoy it. Otherwise, you're just slobbering on my feet.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
1 year
This morning, my sleeping partner notified me that last night, I talked in my sleep, and quite coherently. First, I said, "Assume the position." Immediately after? "Good boy." Apparently I literally do never stop.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
1 year
Where do you find a prodomme mentor? Think about it this way: as pros, we're approached by people who aren't serious *all the time*. To be eligible for mentorship, you need to set yourself apart even more than potential clients do. How do you do this? 1/3
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
2 years
Today, a client emailed to say that not only did they have no sub drop last session, but they spent the next few days with their budding gender euphoria intensified. I could not be more delighted. And it speaks to reasons I domme: BDSM changes us. It makes possibility known.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
2 years
Fuck about and find out.
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@SeattleFemdom
🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
3 years
Actually, I don't use filters, thank you. What you see is what you get.
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@SeattleFemdom
🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
3 years
If you're disappointed that they stop being subby after they cum, I have a solution for you.
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@SeattleFemdom
🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
1 year
There are many ways to show your adoration. Knowing me enough to know my humor is absolutely one, but it takes time and training to learn me that well. In this as in all things, I'm very selective. For your studies, Exhibit A, courtesy of a pet who has studied me for years:
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
3 years
Here I thought I had my new dungeon totally decked out already.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
1 year
I've seen everything imaginable Pass before these eyes I've had everything that's tangible Honey you'd be surprised I'm a sexual innuendo In this burned out paradise If you turn me on to anything You better turn me on tonight
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
5 years
Ever question if D/S can be authentic if you pay her? Remember that this is what she asks of you, and you love doing as she commands. With your tributes, you support her whole life - needs and desires alike. If that isn't a beautifully submissive offering, I don't know what is.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
2 years
Look, I do own clothes that aren't black. I give you: navy blue.
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@SeattleFemdom
🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
3 years
It takes weeks to months to get in to see many really good professionals, especially specialists - a physician, a counselor, some lawyers. Why would a top tier dominatrix and erotic hypnotist be any different? You know you're going to need your fetish fix. Plan accordingly.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
5 years
The face of true satisfaction. Corset belt by @creepyyeha_ .
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
2 years
I may have naughty touched Jesus a little at @DomConLA . Of course, I hold @Satanatrix accountable for putting him in that position in the first place.
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@SeattleFemdom
🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
2 years
@mistressmatisse "Female pleasurists!" Brb, updating my sexual orientation on Fetlife.
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@SeattleFemdom
🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
3 years
There is nothing in the world like a follow-up from a client with a long history of seeing dommes, saying that for the first time ever, he felt how he imagined he'd feel during play. I know some damn good dommes he's seen, too. When the fit is right, though...nothing compares.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
1 year
"Allow me to be your emotional labor sub," he said, lying next to me after worshipping me all night with his hands and his words and his endlessly yielding desire. And he brings the skills to support that offer. I don't need to show him how, only to teach him about me. 🔥🔥🔥
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
3 years
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
5 years
Yes, I did make him jack off into his pants in a filthy grocery store bathroom on his way to our session today, and I did not allow him to clean up, to prove his obedience. Five weeks of no ejaculation ended with that. And he'll go right back into chastity. Such a good pet.
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@SeattleFemdom
🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
2 years
Suicide Girls eat your heart out. OG. With @Satanatrix at @DomConLA
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@SeattleFemdom
🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
3 years
What just got delivered to my dungeon?! Wrong answers only.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
2 months
"We like your natural look!" "Post pics with no makeup!" This is as close as you're getting: eyeliner and lip gloss only. Enjoy.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
3 years
My sister-in-law swore up and down that the decorations on her mantel were Christmas trees.
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@SeattleFemdom
🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
2 years
He's old enough to be my father, and an experienced lifestyle Dom too. When he pays my tribute, he calls it "tuition", and that sounds just right to me.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
4 years
Yesterday I realized that all my subs who tributed in advance for a someday session, post-apocalypse, are not just supporting me now, they're saying they want to make sure they're there when my in-person practice reopens...and they want to make sure it reopens. I cried a little.
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@SeattleFemdom
🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
5 years
Why do I charge? So I can continue to do that work. If I dommed for free, I would need to work a vanilla job and wouldn't have time to: - Play with almost any of my clients - Practice my domme skills - Do effective self-care as an introvert (this allows me to play at all)
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@PeachJars If you pay people for things, they might be able to make more things. This is shocking I know.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
4 years
No, if you unapologetically use "trannies" to refer to transfolk in your first few sentences after meeting me, and don't immediately, politely backpedal when I call you on it, I will *not* play with you. I don't care how much money you have. In fact, don't buy my files either.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
11 months
They go together in so many ways.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
3 months
@DrJenGunter @joshmcgoo Not sure where you work, but I and friends have had many IUDs placed , among us, and nobody - not one - was offered anything stronger than, "Take an ibuprofen if you need it. You'll be fine tomorrow." Menstrual cramps, the same. Years of curled up, crying from pain for 24 hours.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
3 years
Living in a poly-kinky household is absolutely unbeatable. From the two humans in the other room, I hear sounds that could be extreme pleasure or extreme pain, but it's impossible to tell...promptly followed by the sound of a dog squeaky toy. Someone is puppin' out tonight! 😍
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
1 year
"The only normal people are the ones you don't know very well." - Alfred Adler
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
1 year
Those moments after you flirt openly online with another domme whose sexual orientation you do not know, and wonder whether she's over there quietly resenting you because you don't know her well enough to do that, and are acting inappropriately, or if she's gonna be kind back.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
4 years
Sent me $10 before ever even saying hello, waited for permission to speak, then thanked me, told me they hoped to serve soon and couldn't talk right now, and sent another $10. I approve. You don't have to be rich to play this game, just don't be a dumbass.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
1 year
Someone brought me what the maker called a "Sanibel cane". Did I hit him with it? Why yes, yes I did. Assuming it cleans as well as they claimed (and he heals as well as claimed), I likely will again, too. If they're gonna shadowban me here, I might as well give them reason.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
3 years
@pigeonize This. This is what's going on at Fenway Park.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
1 year
In my work, I'm showered with offers of vulnerability. Each honors me uniquely, but one I always cherish - though rarely seek - is a safeword. Safewords seldom happen without internal struggle. They're born of difficulty and need, revealed in trust that I'll honor them. 1/2
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
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@agrumpygremlin Just got done with a week long con where other people definitely got Covid. My partner and I? We masked the whole con. We're well, and still tested negative a week later. You can mask *and* have a life. It's really possible!
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
1 year
Last night, on Niteflirt, a caller observed that I sound like a mature woman. I gave my age, and some observations about how it improves my play. He proceeded to talk to me at $7/min for nearly an hour. Youth may be currency in sex work, but age is too - especially as a domme.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
5 years
I am officially spoiled. A pretty boy, whom I've never met before today, is presently weeding my garden just because I asked him to. He could be at his high level, well-paying job, but instead he is working for me, complete with chocolate delivery. Unnnh, service is delicious.
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@SeattleFemdom
🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
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It's true, @officially_gia 's work is utterly stunning, unusually comfortable, and so well made too. Can't wait to shoot in this! Gratitude to @Hypnodrone2 for the marvelous (if horribly belated) custom fitted birthday gift. It's so thoughtful it's almost like I chose it myself.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
4 years
I have so much respect for the amount of vulnerability submissives show to me. This is a sexually unwelcoming culture. Coming to my doorstep with your desire, verbalizing it, and trusting me not only with that but with exploring it too - these are acts of profound courage.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
5 years
@DrRJKavanagh My father spent many years doing maintenance work in a high security prison, and even from his socially conservative perspective (inmates = bad people), he always said the only difference between the inmates and the guards was that the guards hadn't been convicted yet.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
4 years
I'm speechless. And if you know me, you know how rare that is. Two of my best boys, who are plenty philanthropic, so abiding by my Covid birthday wishes, have been collaborating for months for my birthday. The outcome? This amazing piece. The wings even open. *speechless*
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
5 years
Tonight's look: somewhere between Breakfast at Tiffany's and the girl at the gym who could eat you for breakfast.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
4 years
Ever wonder why so many of my hypnotized subs always have Icy Hot or Tiger Balm at hand?
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@SeattleFemdom
🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
1 year
But do they make them in adult sizes? 🤔
@DesireeAlliance
Desiree Alliance
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Self-raping!
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
4 months
Twitter old folks home: drop a selfie with your age if you're over 30. 44 and getting better every year.
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@SeattleFemdom
🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
4 years
Try this on, Millenial/Zoomer boys: When I was young, porn was never free. Never. Not unless your girlfriend made you some. The industry may have been abusive, but you literally could not ever get it free. Check your entitlement when enjoying porn. It's not guaranteed.
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...and also hot AF
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4 years
Tonight, I am awash in gratitude. While service boy and I were painting my new house and I was imagining where furniture will go, I realized something: My new dungeon is almost as big as the house I grew up in - just the dungeon. I have come a long way. And I am truly blessed.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
1 year
@AutisticCallum_ Last night, another ND person told me that NT people, when they have a long lapse in communication, typically do not feel the way I do when I pick up communication again (I feel as close as we were, if we were close, like we've never been apart). I cannot even comprehend this.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
3 years
In 11 years together, I have never seen my primary partner sick longer than two days, or with symptoms longer than three. He's been highly symptomatic with Covid for eight days now. No underlying conditions, and only 51. I am so thankful for vaccines. This could have killed him.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
5 years
So you said you prefer thud to sting.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
5 years
Today, he offered to subsidize a substantial portion of groceries for myself and my household, ongoing. This, even though he hasn't been in my practice or my dungeon for half a year due to external circumstances. How are you showing your devotion to *your* domme today?
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
2 years
Oh really?
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
1 year
Having unfettered access to someone's mind and body, to change them, mold them, and shape them how I like, is extraordinary. Usually, these offers come from horny brain and must be declined. A fully formed adult human actually offering me everything is the gift of a lifetime.🔥
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
3 years
Seeing that Wolford was out of black in my size, I told him to send my second choice color, and bonus points if he could find them elsewhere in black. He sent me not only the black pair, but an extra in my alternate color. That...is how to make an excellent first impression.
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@ShreyaGoddessxo Reading these answers, I am acutely reminded how many online dommes (and these days, I'm guessing in-person dommes too) have zero real life kink training.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
2 years
Kudos to today's playmate, a master of nonverbal communication who let his (non-negotiated) pink lacy panties fall out of his bag at the edge of our frame of play, allowing me to choose how and if to respond to them. (If you were wondering, I delightedly made him wear them.)
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
4 years
The fate of the first sub in my dungeon after Covid.
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
2 years
One of my service subs is putting together a google doc contact tracing list for positive Covid tests of @DomConLA attendees. If you only posted your status in the app, he will be reaching out to see if you're OK being on the list. Please reply if you get a message from him!
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
1 year
He took me to lunch and brought me a lovely toy I've been coveting for years. Of course I couldn't help but hypnotize him right there, in the middle of the park, with people all around us, who had no idea. For more of my adventures (and lots of hypno):
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🔞 Seattle Dominatrix Katherine Control
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Happily going through my followers and blocking anyone with clear MAGA affiliations. If you're going to be part of the anti-porn party, you can start by not getting to look at mine.
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