Ibironke Khadeejah Quadri
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RN, BSc (Hon) Renal Nursing , MSc Public Health, Healthy lifestyle activists, CEO https://t.co/YEjq2biMJ5, Muslimah, Break-up and Divorce Coach, Mum and Wife
North East, England
Joined April 2012
I find the tafsir of Surat Duha by Sheikh Yasir Qadhi uplifting and inspiring when life gets hard and I am losing my sense of being and balance. Sometimes even the best of us get frustrated and depressed, it’s always been helpful for me .Available on YouTube , might want to.
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Most of us know Bukky Wright as the Nollywood actress that graced our screens for many years. What most people don't know is that she's now an Information Security Auditor in the US. The part that inspired me most was that she started on this new career path at the age of 44
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AG Abubakar, former RG of CAC, was a no nonsense man. Grandson of Abubakar Tafawa Balewa, he had airs, yes. But he new his onions. Every official car slept in the office. People didn't like that. He stopped official car carrying "oga's" family to school and market. You can't use
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@Yemo247 She’s not returning to Him. That’s a very brave decision, She’s lost absolute trust in Him and possibly cheating is Her deal breaker too. Sad.
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School of Nursing LUTH will make student nurses go round the hospital singing Christmas carol during XMas week, as a Muslim student you aren’t allowed to say no or pull out of it. We tried during our set to pull out, the issue was long , very long and we were dealt with.
A govt hospital in Lagos would place a bible at a Muslim’s bedstead and pretend it is normal.
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The last person I know who was this anxious on Her wedding day eventually got divorced and guess what she requested for it. I know because the person was me. She needs help beyond this talk, proper counselling is required if this is not skits. She’s worried about something and.
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@KingSuleiman27 Well King a lot of your Brothers are not happy with me, they think I am supporting a murderer. I wonder if any one of them can tolerate such within 5 months of marriage. I Stan me a queen that knows Her worth.
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@__Folarin__ lol 😂 she should not carry Her grandchild again and you want to stay married to Her son? .Whatever your age is, you are not mentally ready for marriage .Now go beg that woman and do it profusely too, then she may help you beg Her son. She’s supporting you with child care and.
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I've been married for 25 years. My husband and I never lived together under the same roof all these years. I lived in the South East and worked there before marriage. After marriage, I offered to resign from my job and join him in Lagos but he rejected the idea. He said our.
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@Remzsx If you needed kidney and contacted Him, will he give? Will he pick your calls? Will his new wife and family let him give you? .I wish you well.
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@Otaporju We are all entitled to our opinion, actions have consequences every time. We can’t decide for people how to behave or respond to hurt. I salute Her bravery, it takes real gut to do that. The level of hurt and disappointment cannot be quantified to push Her to such extreme. So.
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So we have 3 bodies of Promising young Nigerians in the UK 🇬🇧 waiting to be buried. All arrived less than 2 years ago. I lost it on Monday when I got called to the hospital 🏥 for another in Hdu, I saw Him yesterday. Nigeria 🇳🇬 must work.If you’ve been here longer please support
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I am always surprised when they paint the UK healthcare systems as eldorado. I have been working in the same system for 19years. Used to be quite good but the last 10years things has deteriorated really bad. Talk about dentals for Instance, how many people actually has access to.
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@IfeePeter Cheating in a 5 month marriage is not a mistake, if the table were reversed we wouldn’t have condone it either. Better for them to go their separate ways than co parents with a cheat that has no remorse and respect for Her emotional wellbeing. The street will equally blame Her.
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@omowo If you create a monster and expect another woman to live with the consequences, you are joking. Train your boys correctly.
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Alhamdulillah for Dads like Him and mine, My father funded my Divorce, He paid significant part of the bill and I returned home with 3 children under 5 years of age with full blown depression, coupled with my Mum , they nursed me back to health and took over the care of my young.
The day my beloved dad said abeg, come back home. How many children do I have that one useless man would be treating you like trash was the day he won my heart 100%. We need fathers who would stand up against useless men. Marriage is not do or die abeg. Leave to live. Ire oh.
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@chrystyn90 My first child labour was supposedly low risk, I was assumed healthy, young and shouldn’t have any problems at all. Labour started, water broke, cervix wouldn’t dilate beyond 2cm 24hrs later, syntocinon up, 24hrs later still no show, terrible pain, Day 3 energy levels dropped,.
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I pray that the first wife in this whole debacle gets the needed emotional support and help to find, rediscover and rebuild Herself again. As Muslims we owe Her fairness and compassion too. Everyone deserves Healing ❤️🩹, forgiveness and another chance. I hope and pray sanity and.
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I suspected so. He made them do the job they were paid to do and of course they don’t like that.
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Another proof that Rahmah of my Lord is limitless. When it’s your time , nothing can stop His Mercies. We waited for 18years for Her, and when Allah was ready, In His own time , He made the mother and indeed us all so happy we couldn’t ask for any other. Alhamdulillah and Happy
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@MoIbrahimEsq If only this was a lie, I wish it was but it isn’t. You will spell your surname from back to front especially from there matriarchs.
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Ya Fattah, please open the doors of good and Halal opportunities for me🤲🤲🤲.
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18years Later 👋, God is not late ⏰. Congratulations 🥂 to us on the new addition to our family. Thank you Lord Almighty. We are Grateful oh Lord, We are, Thank you 🤲🤲. It’s a blessed 😇 day to welcome our new Baby 👶. Oluwaseun gan ni.
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I was divorced but remarried now, some of us don’t stay too long in the market before moving on, no use mourning a Man that’s not dead. Healing ❤️🩹 is a decision and not time bound . Alhamdulillah for His unending blessings and mercies
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Once the replacement from Allah arrives, you will forget what you lost 😞 . Keep the faith, it will all end in praise 🤲🤲🤲.
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It is with deep sorrow that we inform you of the passing of our esteemed member of Nigerian Society (Teesside University) Middlesbrough, United Kingdom Joy Nsude, a student of International Management. She is a Mother of two children which is Girl 2 years and Boy 4 years old.
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@__Folarin__ Thank you for proving Her right. Love me a queen who protects Her sanity. Ode agbalagba.
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@AustinAnadu Because of this your post, God will answer Him and His wife, you and your kind will forever be put to shame, omo irankiran.
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Gladys Durorike Emiko : Daughter of a King , Wife of a King and Mother of a King . This is Iye Olu of Warri Kingdom, Gladys Durorike Emiko, the wife of the 19th Olu of Warri, His Majesty Ogiame Atuwatse II. Daughter of the 50th Ooni of Ife, Kabiyesi Oba Okunade Sijuwade (Olubuse
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I am definitely 💯 posting for wider reach and support. Is is possible to get Social services support in situation like this in Nigeria? Please kindly tag them if you have the details. This woman is visibly exhausted 😴. Every little helps. Thank you 🙏🏻.
I reached out to them yesterday for their permission to post their picture and that of the children, as well as his account details. For people asking for his account details, this is it. 0824703833.Access bank.Sodiq olayode. Also, if you would love to send them diapers or
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It’s not a protest if only a particular region is targeted .Fair is fair, Spread it round . The South westerners have a duty and every right to protect every infrastructure Dear to them. Many have not recovered from the damage and ruins of 2020. Protest but don’t ruin, If you.
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@newmumshub @nsuperbkitchen This system works very well for everything with them. Infact you can go a step further further, if good behaviour is 500naira, any reported bad behaviour takes 1000 off your salary , they don’t want to lose money so school manner and discipline is top notch. All are model.
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@Tiwaorange You need to engage with real people to know this is infact very common, many live in regret of such choices.
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One ☝️ of the many Miracles Allah gave to my family that I will forever be grateful for. Our 18years miracle waiting time is 5months old today. Alhamdulillah indeed. To everyone waiting on Allah, Please keep the faith, hold the faith, Allah is Merciful, He’s never late. Thank
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Never 👎🏽 I am grateful that part of my life is over. It was a marriage that should not have been , but all the same we are grateful for the learning and growth.
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@Oluomoofderby @CarlislePolice @RishiSunak @BBCBreaking @SkyNews I feel really triggered by this all over again.
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@peng_writer From the perspective of a Single mother who was once married to a similar kind of man in thoughts about trouser uniforms, May Allah genuinely help you if you leave your job because you might end up with financial shege promax with your children if and when He decides to leave the.
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Congratulations 🥂, can this be made official for the peace of all, please help with the handles of the representatives in the house and senates so it can be legally binding. I am personally happy for it if all the hates and killing will stop.May Biafra be actualised, let whoever.
It is official. Yes, Nigeria Flag🇳🇬 was present. Well, for the last time ever. Once raised but now forever down.
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Highlights of my interview with BBC Yoruba on the recent increase in deaths in our young generation of Japa.Constructive criticism welcome 🤗
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Couples shared how they split bills 💵, you might learn a thing or two👌👌
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Having your own money as a lady👩 will boost your immune system.💖.Yes 🙌 or No?.
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Been boxed into a tight spot by my 12years old Son🤣🤣🤣. Was planning to start my Shawwal fasting tomorrow, this boy is already on day four. Shame no gree me look away today, just had to join Him. May Allah swt accept our ibadah and grant Him lots of Barakah for Me. I pray 🤲.
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For those that want to work in NHS and looking for sponsorship. There is NHS graduates Scheme and it doesn’t matter what course you study but you must be a graduate. This scheme opens today.
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I read with despair and frustrations yet again the many anonymous messages going around about mother in laws and daughter in laws . I Have 3 younger Brothers and I remember telling my Mum that if any of their wives complain about Her to me I will personally call Her A witch.
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If you are left inheritance in lagos this take is not for you. Thank you Dad.
Building houses for rent is a bad investment.
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@lollylarry1 I guessed so from the very beginning, CAC has improved, that much is known so couldn’t just accept the narratives. I pray many more of the good staffs will speak up. The civil service is becoming too audacious. Indiscipline is becoming increasingly common even on camera, look at.
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May the Lord protect my Daughters and every single ladies out there from evil partners/marriages and .Viceversa.
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My son is asking what is the English name for AKARA?. Me, akara is AKARA no English name. Don't bastardise my akara for me. I don't want no surname for it😂😂. Abi no be so?.
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Had to rewatch the 2004 one again this evening, after watching the new one yesterday. The 2004 absolutely 💯 did better justice to the story. The new one will appeal more to the new generations and thats okay too.
Which of these is phenomenal? 🤔 . Bashorun Gaa 2004 or House of Gaa 2024
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@PBATMediaCentre Thank you Mr President, Let the Local Government chairmen be held accountable too if they default.
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@MuhammedTijjan7 You can imagine, the level of indiscipline, why would you want to be coming late to work? How would the services run effectively, I just can’t understand that level of pettiness.
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If you are still hating on this Man, the joke is on you. I want a working Nigeria 🇳🇬, a prosperous country that will work for the good of all in various ways. He’s putting in the work to get us through. He’s marketing us to the world 🌎. It’s time for you and I to do our bits. Be.
“I count on you to invest in Nigeria”. Chief Marketer of the FRN tells investors at the NASDAQ U.S Chamber of Commerce🔥🔥.#PBATInUNGA78 .
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Looking at the Car this morning and the enormity of the auto accident we had last night just Hit me. I am genuinely Grateful for safety and Allahs Protection🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻. Alhamdulillah!!! Olorun modupe toduji timi. Thank you Allah for safety. Allah is indeed merciful and.
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The truth is we have so many marriages like this. Married but living singles.
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@DHKRULLAH Either way, whatever the outcome people will talk, so I will always ask even on social media sometimes, you abuse or troll me I block you and move on to the next person. The best support I have received in the UK has been from total strangers that we only connect on the internet,.
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Oh Allah! Al-Hafidh, on this blessed day, grant me stability and growth in this new chapter I have embarked on. Grant me immeasurable peace, ease , health, happiness and abundance 🤲🤲🤲🤲. For all you have done, still doing and you will do , I am Grateful ya Allah. Thank you 🙏🏻
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@Odd_Legal @Otaporju How can you tell what I am saluting though? Every decision she took requires gut irrespective of whatever you are considering. So yes she’s got gut! Most ladies won’t walk out of 5 month marriage not to even talk.Of abortion. None is easy decision.
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Tell me how you won’t be proud 🥹 watching this and Dancing 💃🏽 💃🏽💃🏽 along even. Sincerely our Culture is Beautiful 🤩 and amazing
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As a natural optimist that I am, I absolutely 💯 believe in power of Reconciliation, If God will solution will come that will restore the peace ✌️ of that family Insha Allah. We are all Sinners anb.Allah is Al Ghafur ArRahman. Every single one of us can be forgiven no matter how.
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Nothing can convince me that the Husband ex is not at that event 🤣🤣🤣🤣 crook 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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loving memories all these years. My heart is so heavy and I don't know how to heal from this. #Copied. #notmystorybutworthsharing.
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@iyaboawokoya You are very welcome Ma. Both system has its merit, I genuinely can’t understand the fixation of always projecting the Nigerian system so negatively. The Primary Health care system in Nigeria is good but most people don’t use it engage it. I always recommend to friends and.
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3 years ago today we made the transition with tears 😭 pain , frustration, and lots of fear of unknown with my kids, it took a lot of grits, to walk out of all you know and known to start all over yet again, you could officially call me the Queen 🫅 of starting over, given the
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Once the replacement from Allah arrives, you will forget what you lost 😞 . Keep the faith, it will all end in praise 🤲🤲🤲.Fa’inamah al usri usra- after every difficulty there’s relief. And the promise of our Lord is true.
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@Arowolo_007 I have not insulted only gave an opinion based on what I know, used and worked , still working within. And yes I do come home, a business owner in Nigeria and also a tax payer both in Nigeria and Uk . And certainly pay salaries to people in Nigeria. I am not responsible for what.
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I am not Perfect 👌 but I am good enough! . Allāhumma yassir lī amrī wa-bārik fī aʿmālī wa-awqātī. Ya Allah, ease my task for me and place Your blessings in my works and my moments🤲🤲🤲. Bless our efforts Ya Allah and grant us your blessings all around🤲🤲🤲. May the day and
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@davidfatunmbi Thank you so much, let everyone speak up please. Thank you for speaking out, I don’t know Him personally but I experienced the improvement in the CAC process and knowing what some aspects of our civil service are , I suspected fowl play with that flier and started asking.
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It’s coming a bit late ⏰ but here nonetheless. Eid Mubarak to all my Brothers and Sisters across the globe 🌍 . May Allah swt grant us many more in good health, happiness, wealth, peace and answered Prayers🤲🤲🤲. May He make His deen easier for us to practice and accept our
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@melissasigodo @mikecmorgan This is ridiculous, give Him His money, people donated to Him or simply refund everyone, How’s this difficult.
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@KemiBadenoch @renewal2030 When She’s ready she will change Her colour. She hates Nigeria 🇳🇬 so much and she still won’t win. Oniranu.
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Eid Mubarak Everyone, May Allah swt grant us many more in good health, peace ✌️, abundance and happiness . Love ❤️ to you all from all of us
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I didn’t earn the title ‘ the mad black Nigerian woman’ for fun . The rule is simple , Never 👎🏽 hit first, but if they hit you, Bea-t them blue black! Only once has any of my kids experienced bullying of this nature, She hit back so hard even the adult trying to separate got some
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It feels good 👍🏼 being celebrated by in laws with these set of pictures. I wonder 💭 how long He’s been keeping them just to use today. And my team, that makes me feel so special. Everyone in my team feels like family now. We look out for each other a lot. Sharing birthday 🎂
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@ahmedhalimah02 Exactly, the video should not have made it out. The intensity of it is my issue.
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You only realize how insignificant most of your worries are once you have health issues.
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@PiousGeek Nothing more to add except He should work on Himself to be a better Man, it’s obvious from His message that He’s neither caring enough nor fully understand the complexity of pregnancy, gentleman go get non wireless pregnancy supporting bra in a size that’s one level bigger than.
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@positivesideofx Tell me what else is more beautiful 😍. So happy and proud of both of them . Parenting can be so hard and so rewarding at the same time. Well done 👏🏽 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Kevin and cheers to an amazing future beautiful soul, Thank you Mum for being so compassionate.
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@dammiedammie35 You can almost be sure it’s not the first time. Her repeating I will call my Dad is trying to warn Him off but No He still has to exercise His silly ego. Only a coward of a man test His masculinity by Hitting a woman, If you are that powerful go to the boxing 🥊 ring. Go fight a.
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When I feel really low in mood I find the tafsir of Surat Duha by Sheikh Yasir Qadhi very uplifting. Try it, May Allah swt grant us all ease in our affairs. Available on YouTube.
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I don’t have to walk round the entire hospital singing carol from one ward to another before I can be seen as tolerant. My mum was a Christian she was never forced to go to mosque. No my dad didn’t do that. A large percentage of my maternal families are still Christians till.
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@mubieadam May Allah swt accept Her return, forgive Her Sins and grant Her Jannah. May Allah swt grant you succour and comfort you and all Her loved ones.
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@tosinraj Alhamdulillah for Dads like Him and mine, My father funded my Divorce, He paid significant part of the bill and I returned home with 3 children under 5 years of age with full blown depression, coupled with my Mum , they nursed me back to health and took over the care of my young.
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I feel we are now hearing the balanced truth about life in the UK 🇬🇧 on Nigeria 🇳🇬 X space. There was lots of misinformation before in my view. Hopefully our expectations will now be managed the right way. Many are doing well and will continue to but sadly lots are genuinely.
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Are You Still Taking Pap (Akamu)? See What It Does To Your Body Each Time You Take It. Corn pap is a Nigerian fermented cereal pudding made from maize, also known as akamu, ogi, koko, or eko. This super light food has been around for decades now and a lot of people in Nigeria are
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ZAKAT is a quarter of a tenth from ur money, dedicated for the poor. The rest is yours. I love 💕 the illustration
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May Allah swt not test us with poverty🤲🤲🤲.
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What a wicked world 😭😭😭. *SAD NEWS!!!*. Mrs. Yinka Adekunle travelled to Lokoja on official duties. She was expected to spend 5 days but as fate would have it, the programme only took 3 days. Since she could not reach her husband because of phone issues, she decided to return
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Marrying the right person is one of the surest and safest cheat code to success. When two people work together in harmony, peace and unity success is quicker and way easier. I pray 🤲 we all get it right soon enough. And if you got it wrong the first time, Don’t despair 😞, Our.
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@ChinnyOluchi Fantastic! Another Professional colleague in the making, Well done 👏🏽. Nursing is a beautiful , fulfilling and rewarding profession . I wish you massive success with it all.
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@tosinraj And the use of the word careless is absolutely wrong too. They should have kept it in, there’s cold feet and there’s anxiety, we can and should address both. I was specific about what I said. So please do not misinterpret my take or project it wrongly too.
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By this time next year, may we be filled with thanksgiving, gratitude and lots of Alhamdulillah for our all our Dua and supplications this season Insha Allah Rahman🤲🤲🤲. May our satisfaction be greater than our needs and may we be fulfilled in true happiness and abundance of.
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Nothing but praise and gratitude 🙏🏻. Thank.You Lord for the gift 💝 of another year. I am grateful for your unending grace. Plus 1 and -1 but ever so grateful 😇
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