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we should all strive to be abstract systems that exist in all possible worlds
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the coolest psychoanalytic discovery is that people unwittingly communicate things about themselves by accidentally inducing feelings in each other. and that this goes both ways between all people in all relationships. and most people are not aware of either direction.
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I feel like half my TL is like "you must build god in your computer. you must sleep 4 hours a day and code for 26. you must eat cod oil." and half of it is like "my toothbrush is too sharp it gave me trauma :("
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all relationships contain a doubly-confused conversation where no one knows what they or the other person is saying. like a convo between two people with tape on their mouths and earplugs in.
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I'm still digesting this realization but it kind of rocks. It makes my social anxiety make so much more sense, and not just this defect. it clarifies so much about my new and old relationships, and encounters with strangers.
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it's fun to think about the possible woo-analogies for this: you could say our demons or our angels are always communicating with each other and that we humans just hear the echos of those conversations in our minds. or that our vibes always create patterns of interference.
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or that literal telepathy is actually possible
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@kogemusi @ryxcommar ok but has anyone ever answered the man. like, what actually is going on here
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in contrast to the image of psychoanalytic theory as covered in dust and doomed to abstraction, this is an extremely vivid thing to tap into
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hahahahahahaha dude. want your model to make less mistakes? just find and turn off the mistake-making part of it's brain. god is actually trolling
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In another example, we suppressed a "code error" feature, and Claude fixed a simple bug in the code 5/
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The keyword for googling is “projective identification.” Melanie Klein coined the term but a lot of people have written about it since then. 1/n
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@pointed_max What is this called? Where can I find more info about this?
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@sam_d_1995 @kogemusi @ryxcommar docusign will solve the loneliness epidemic
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@sleuthingfox both are possible. your insecurity might induce a feeling of insecurity in another person, or it might induce a feeling of criticism, judgement of YOU in response to your insecurity, even if the other person wouldn't have otherwise felt that way about you.
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The keyword for googling is “projective identification.” Melanie Klein coined the term but a lot of people have written about it since then. 1/n
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@visakanv its sad that it's possible to exert effort in a way that 1) feels so bad that you end up institutionalized AND 2) doesn't get you want you want
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i’m telling you, it’s all about walks. you need to be going on walks. you need to be contemplationmaxxing. so much alpha in turning your problems over in your head on a little walk.
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I have decided to become a parent to my inner child and, as a parent, I would just like to say that I never gave my child permission to create an account on this website
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the ideal humanities syllabus is: - getting the gist of Hegel - reading Allen Ginsberg in a park on shrooms - Salt Fat Acid Heat - Fong and Spivak's Applied Category Theory - Godel Escher Bach honors students read Nick Land
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recently learned through trial and error that 600mg of caffeine a day is actually emotionally load bearing for me. so that's awesome
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@goth600 there are data centers everywhere for those with eyes to see
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1 year later and my books finally arrived, am i a type of guy
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@TylerAlterman monogamy but where you don’t cheat
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I think I will homeschool my kids. The one homeschooled person I know well is a cracked 17 y/o software engineer working full time and living in his own apartment.
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To be completely honest, I am totally shocked that my post about the feelings we induce in each other blew up as much as it did. This is one of the most important I've learned about anything ever! I had no other idea people cared about this idea as much as I do.
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@getjonwithit what's your critique here
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@skooookum the latter and honestly it’s a relief to find that wording for it
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so much dating discourse on this website is just like 4d chess on how to avoid intimacy and the associated frustration... which like, relatable. but I think a lot of people are causing unnecessary harm by following discursive logic from the internet vs like, looking within...
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almost every doctors appt I've had in my adult life went like: - I have a problem - I go on ZocDoc, OneMedical, or a hospital's website - I schedule an appointment with a rando - I describe my problems to said rando and get pills. is this how it is for everyone? feels weird
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@KanekoTheKoolio @sleuthingfox abso-lutely. You know those people who you wouldn't have swiped right on on tinder but just make you feel so turned on and special when you talk to them? A reasonable explanation is that they are inducing their own desire in you. different for every human of course.
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i deleted a tweet cuz i disagreed with what i wrote. guess what? no consequences!!! heres a pic from my morning walk yesterday:
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To be honest, I learned more about this idea by talking to psychoanalysts in and out of therapy, and by rediscovering it in my own relationships, than I did from reading. 2/n
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@abacaj tbf, your wording is ambiguous. Maybe both can travel at 20mph, but in particular you never specify that that's the car's max speed
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forever thinking about the time in group therapy when someone was trying to cheer me up and the therapist said "No, no. Max is the star of his own tragedy."
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@coldhealing very cool account
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If you’re curious about Klein, the book I found that included essays from different points in her career was this: I also learned a lot by reading essays from the school of Modern / Spotnizian Psychoanalysis. 4/n
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@ThanksThoth I think their lives basically get amazing 🤔
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@zeta_globin people regularly live out self-destructive patterns for much longer than 7 years
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@sanjehorah no this is to bring us back to life!
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I just remembered the time in the first few months of high school when I mentioned to of my peers that I was gay, and he replied "oh, I'm homophobic :/" as if I was a shrimp and he was regretfully informing me of his shellfish allergy
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when I lost a ton of weight I was not looking at the scale or counting calories at all, I simply had a therapist who forced me to question my relationship with food and, probably more importantly, did Grubhub delivery on my non-electric bike as my only source of income for 6 mo.
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@hopes_revenge Sadly agree with this as a survivor of non profit employment. also love how u kept the weird spacing for this post
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@yacineMTB every time you post I become more convinced that your whole meta is to confuse the populace and throw people off the scent of some dark technofuture brewing in the background
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loving something, attempting to understand it, and wanting to become it are all the same thing. and that thing is called cathexis.
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the reason twitter makes you feel bad is that it emulates the preoedipal stage when everything was formless sensory information and it was impossible for you to outwardly discharge aggressive impulses. that's why when you read a bad tweet it literally psychically damages you
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cs people, is this real (obligatory chat is this real) why should a general purpose programming language be able to implement its own compiler?for example can python actually do that
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Overindexing on any one canonical definition might create more confusion that it would resolve, since psychoanalysts love to contradict each other. That being said… 3/n
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not to be a current thing guy but you need to do the vision pro demo at an apple store. absolutely horrifying. I said "Jesus Christ" multiple times
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honestly im looking forward to seeing what happens with stuff like this. what if all of everyone's instincts are wrong and it's actually amazing
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trying to get a boyfriend while the "agi has been achieved internally" meme is still hot so I can post "a guy has been achieved internally"
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I think one fear I have about meditating is that I will withdraw from the world too much if I go too deep
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I got into gwern
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remembering the time a guy told me my sex face makes me "look like I've been shot" 😐
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imagine being this persons therapist in 20 years
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This generation is COOKED jesus christ its so over
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biggest tragedy that psychoanalytic thought is dominated by people who love to be like "Oh blah blah, according to Freud's concept of 'le quoi quoi quoi omelette du fromage bippity boppity boo' " like no this is real actually. this stuff is very real and affects everything
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@ThanksThoth tank tops are good. gay guys will stare at u even if they think u are gonna hate crime them. then you make the eyes back. then ur in business baby
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One time this woman, who was hired to my co. because of her ability to sell brands, cultural savvy, and general knowledge of how shit works, told me: "I've never met the kind of person... that you are."
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I never really post like this but I'm actually crying right now. I am so frustrated with my body lately. I have had this knee tendonitis forever which I keep making worse, it started affecting my sleep, I got this cold (probably from not sleeping), then I sprained my ankle ...
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wow I might have massaged it into being like 40% better this has never happened
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lotta Lacan on the TL. I think it’s a good time to admit to anyone who might have the wrong impression that I’ve never actually read Lacan, only secondary sources 👍 the reason is it’s boring
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A lot of people correctly pointed out that this has a lot to do with the concepts of transfernce and countertransference. Another great pair of terms to start rabbitholing with. I will try to find some more concrete recs later if people are interested! 6/n
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for example, assuming that sexual desire is just like this unquestionable, end-all force is so common when questions about cheating, monog vs. poly, attractiveness comes up and it's just like... no. all of that emanates from porn brain. you always have a choice
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we need to bring back the word "betwixt." stop saying "bEtWeEN." you sound stupid
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I saw a few posts about vitamin D and started taking 10,000 iu in the morning and ive gotten about 20hrs of sleep this week
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someone at a party was like "you're kind of a strange guy aren't you" to me recently
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awkward silences in sf are honestly a skill issue. everyone here is a beautiful, beautiful, genius nerd, so much so that during any lull you can just languidly call out "but what is computers?" to no one in particular and multiple people will just start telling you information
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@tautologer that's just a friendly cue to get really defensive and start an argument, right?
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@visakanv dude im tall too. you should get the good shirts. seriously. get big enough or too big shirts and get them tailored. tall guy to tall guy I want you to have this
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hanging out with twitter anons is kind of like an inverted masquerade ball in the sense that you are meeting people as their true identities and only later learning which fictional persona they map to
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@crystalxduan when im really killing it in the sleep department there have been times when i jump right out
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@postjawline 100gecs is good
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you guys… dont do stuff like this to me. I was the youngest cousin. I got pranked so much that i have zero ability to trust if unlikely scenarios are happening or not
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im actually so confused if they are sunsetting gmail atp
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@pythonandpanda stealing that one!
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@JonathanShedler saw this thread, he is the goat of evidence based psychodynamic therapy. I’m not sure if he’s written about this specifically but he probably has. 5/n
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@Geminiselfie @pointed_max It's discussed in the psychoanalytic literature in terms of projective identification. Consistent with neuroscience research on mirror neurons, and research on autonomic co-regulation or synchronization
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I've tried out a lot of therapist for one or two sessions in the past few years and I just end up annoyed at most of them
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@dickcheneyavi @ichthys30 obsessed with the way "yeah they have wojaks in china but it's a panda instead of a guy" sounds like a vaguely racist speculation but is actually true
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someone just showed me this. I don't even know. I felt like you should see it.
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I want to continue to clarify this idea more and more. It's so hard to put into words but it feels so real to me. A bunch of people were confused by it but decided to reply anyway, which I think means there is a lot more to say... thinking
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the coolest psychoanalytic discovery is that people unwittingly communicate things about themselves by accidentally inducing feelings in each other. and that this goes both ways between all people in all relationships. and most people are not aware of either direction.
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Im in new york. Im wet. Im on the subway. Im contracting covid-19 on the subway in new york. I am fighting off a gang of homeless nyu fintech interns with a 2bros pizza box. I am arbitraging shitty bodega umbrellas in prospect park. in new york. im eating a bagel.
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Here are some other general recs for learning about psychoanalysis: The Impossible Profesion by Janet Malcolm
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@allgarbled self-deprecation is part of an invisible social accounting system on the east coast. on the west coast it can fail to parse. language gap! not that im a huge fan of mainstream tech coverage atm…
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guys I don't know what to tweet now. follower count doubled in the past day and I feel like I owe you guys more than my regular "horny-gay-and-sleep-deprived" rigamarole
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one of my first jobs was as an accounting clerk. I was bad at it and my boss was mean and hated me. but, one time, I learned that my boss was doing this insane thing to every single spreadsheet she was uploading to the accounting software which seemed totally unnecessary to me.
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Bullshit Jobs book review The basic summary of the book is: Roughly half of the jobs in the world are bullshit, so we could get rid of them and divide the remainder up to have a 20 hour work week and less impact on the planet. This book grew out of a smaller essay:
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The Unconscious from Freud to Lacan by Anouchka Grose (essay/chapter) from Introductory Lectures on Lacan - Find this wherever you like to get your paywalled PDFs
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when I was a lowbie I just posted about different guys I had crushes on. gone are the days
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wow I might have massaged it into being like 40% better this has never happened
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@coldhealing sorry that was me... sorry
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@jicapal read this tweet and you don't need to try to read Lacan
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@202accepted lmao did you mention haskell at all in the prompt
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there's a setting where you can change YouTube from a dopamine flytrap into a free database of publicly available video and audio bliss
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@thechosenberg it's cuz other-love is an outward motion and love for a memory is really love for the self. two separate things!
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@allgarbled things are such as they are
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@ThanksThoth do u wear tank tops?
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@andersonbcdefg I think it's the store?
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a few months ago I made another alt. one of these mid-40s lowbies is actually me. again. you can not escape my takes. the more you zoom in, the more pointed_max you encounter
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@ThanksThoth this is beautiful
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love is allegedly all around you
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@iamaheron_ which?????
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lot of people lot of ways to be. that's what's really nice about reality and being a human being
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