Disabled. Trans. Catch these hands. He him his. I can't think of a rhyme but rats are like tiny dogs that can fit in your pocket.
@anothergaystoner
.bsky.social
All hbomberguy did was discuss the manipulative and illegal ways James Somerton built his platform. James Somerton actually did those things not hbomberguy. James Somerton is responsible for his own actions and the social consequences of those actions not hbomberguy.
@DinosaurJaime
Back when I was in middle school I used to follow Arielle and her now ex. They released a video announcing their engagement on Brooklyn bridge and not long after her ex came out as a trans man and they broke up. That’s when Arielle started reading TERF literature.
When Arielle Scarcella told me I didn't pass well enough to be in a video I was stealth in my day to day life. She was planning on having another trans guy read a script I wrote about my experiences because I didn't pass enough. I left her on read.
So we know Buck Angel outed Lana Wachowski. He was speculating on her gender since at least 2006 in a disgusting Howard Stern interview but when you realize Bucks ex wife left him for Lana in 2003 you start to realize how bitter this man really is.
“I don’t want phalloplasty because I don’t think I would be able to handle the recovery” is a perfectly fine way to discuss why you don’t want a surgery that other people go through. Shitting on a surgery you’re barely educated on or the results you’ve seen isn’t.
Calling attention to a serial plagiarist doesn’t equate to killing someone. If he took his own life he took his own life. Not hbomerguy, Kat, or Jessie. At no point did they encourage harassment. To assert they have blood on their hands for discussing plagiarism is ridiculous.
Back when Arielle intimidated me into keeping quiet about how she was spreading misinformation about my community when I was only 17 she would frequently make comments about me and my body that made me wildly uncomfortable.
I’m proud to announce that I am part of the newly founded
@AgainstGroomers
coalition! It is going to take people from within our own community to put an end to the harmful ideology and abusive behavior directed at children.
Follow us and spread the word!
#GaysAgainstGroomers
@sharkbath_
The same reason Buck Angel and Caitlyn Jenner would agree with her. They think they’re the good ones. They’ve deluded themselves into thinking they belong on the merit of hating of all their internalized, lateral bigotry, as well as their pale skin and/or money.
@arianadotgov
1) Ned risked their buisness to get his dick wet 2) Eugene has trauma surrounding his father being unfaithful which he attributes to him being emotionally stunted to this day 3) It actually sounds like he was planning on leaving before and couldn’t because of Ned’s departure.
I can’t imagine how someone that follows this logic would fail to realize how much more traumatic it is to be labeled responsible for someone’s death when you aren’t than as the plagiarist you are.
So last year I was at the mall when
@nailogical
was filming a video and narrowly missed an opportunity to meet her and today I embarrassed myself my saying "hey it's Cristine!" while she passed me. All I can say it I'm sorry I'm on new medication and I think you're great.
@AphelionXII
Hbomberguy said “if you harass him you’re worse” he did his due diligence. He palagrized for years from many people and frankly we don’t know who was harassing him. To place the blame for a suicide on others before his death is even confirmed is entirely irresponsible.
This was after multiple dysphoria inducing comments about my body and voice mainly when I was 17-18. At the time she was 27. As I get older the more I realize how inappropriate the dynamics of that situation were and how glad I am I cut ties when I did.
@DinosaurJaime
I was always more of a fan of her ex because I liked that they would lip sync to paramour because this happened so long ago that was a legit means of gaining a following on YouTube back then.
I’m so glad Colleen Ballinger is finally getting dragged like she deserves. Her entire career is based off of mocking neurodivergent stereotypes via Miranda and manipulating her child fans into harassing anyone who dares mention it isn’t actually that funny.
When transtrender discourse comes up I remember how the one trans guy I knew loosely plotted to steal my testosterone because he thought I wasn’t trans enough.He contacted me years later wracked with guilt and radically angry at society for pinning us against each other.
Weird how the same people saying hbomberguy is responsible for James Somerton’s unconfirmed suicide for discussing the fact he stole from smaller creators are fake claiming my disability while misgendering me because I disagree. It’s like they don’t care about mental health.
@motherjuniper
I saw this yesterday and OP explained it by saying it was about the fact the lips are open and the tongue is out making the mouth look like genitals 🙄 sounded like some hard backpedaling. That isn't what the progression shows.
3 times 2014, 2017, and 2022 they’ve “accidentally” put swastikas in their crosswords. This time it happened on the first day of Haunakkah. Anyone remember what you learned about patterns in elementary school?
Don’t do this for testosterone. This is an option for E but doing this with T is potentially life threatening. I almost had a stroke because of improperly managed testosterone levels and still experience long term effects as a direct result.
Literally self medicate lol.
If you're having trouble getting a prescription for HRT or you're on a waiting list or stressing over the possibility of access to it being further restricted by fascists then you're fucking up. You're being so silly. Literally just self medicate.
I'm so sick of transphobia being dismissed as "political views" in order to shut down conversations on it. Yeah people have the right to their own political views but when we are talking about my right to exist I'm gunna have some shit to say.
It blows my mind that people still think Buck Angel was ever anything but a laterally transphobic grifter. He launched his public career by outing a trans woman, calling her a fake trans woman, and making fun of phalloplasty.
I’d really like to know why
@Esqueer_
thought this post implying trans men pose a threat to cis women was okay to make in the wake of a Choctaw trans masc kid being brutally beaten in the girls bathroom at his school.
Sex is just a collection of phenotypes some of which can changed. Hence the term transsexual which Buck uses incorrectly to separate himself from other trans people. Medical transition isn’t just skin deep.
@MaltPalt
@AphelionXII
So because some people are unhinged we should never discuss when someone is being manipulative, abusive, or profiting off criminal behaviour? Makes so much sense. That’s not a walking red flag at all 🙄
Honestly even blanket saying “it isn’t advanced enough” is a little weird because 1) it is really advanced 2) you are talking about other peoples bodies. If you don’t feel comfortable with having an implant or going through multiple stages to get were you want just say that.
Someone that doesn’t want to identify as transgender but rather a “female that lives as a man”, “Medically transitioned female man”, etc. very much gives the vibe of folks that have gone through conversion therapy identifying with “same sex attracted” rather than gay.
We need to talk about how sketchy a lot of the og youtube crowd is. What Colleen Ballinger did is nearly identical to the tactics used by Arielle Scarcella to manipulate trans teenagers and how Shane Dawson would talk to his fans. They both knew Shane too.
@Q_Review
People need to learn to sit with the fact victims can perpetuate the cycle of abuse. He’s not a monster he’s a person which is in some ways worse because people are messy. It’d be so much easier if the world was black and white but it’s not and we can’t force it to be.
As for the trans men who felt like I didn't have them in mind: YES. I DON'T THINK ABOUT YOU AT ALL. YOU ARE NOT THE TARGET AUDIENCE FOR ANYTHING I POST. Everything I say should be read with the context of it being for tgirls (and secondarily chasers). Hope that clears things up.
When she was upset with me it was how I wasn’t far along enough in my transition and going into detail about my body as to why she felt that way but when I was doing what she wanted she would call me hot and gas me up. I recognize now that was love bombing.
I was scared of Arielle and tried to avoid pushing her buttons online for years because of how she treated me when I was just a kid and I wasn’t even close to her. I feel for those that were.
Everything Arielle hates and projects on others is a reflection of her.
@stormryan5
Thank you for calling this out I know talking about it is always a bit difficult. Having a friend, especially as a kid, manipulate you like that fucks with your head. I’m sorry that happened to you. I hope you’re giving your younger self the grace you more than deserve.
When people claim there’s no such thing as trans kids it’s wild because I was a trans kid. A good chunk of the trans adults I know first came out as trans kids. That’s kinda just how time works.
17-27
3 overdosing on T due to medical neglect, 2 months off, 4 months ineffective microdosing (basically off), 6 months off ft lupron, a few years actually microdosing, 11 months post hysto, 5 months off testosterone, and about 6 months on the correct dose for me.
It’s not hard to be respectful when having these conversations but we need to put more effort into it than we have been. Plus you’ll notice when you are respectful about it you’ll get to see more than just the same stage one results from a decade ago.
Ngl being misgendered repeatedly and having my decade long transition reduced to “a few years” on a post that was supposedly meant to be wishing me a happy birthday was super fucked up. More so since the last thing she said to me was “man up” because I set boundaries.
@doombr0
Is that from when he lied to incite anger? Because it’s one thing to say that and mean it while making truthful claims about misconduct you can prove and another to say that out of obligation while lying.
@AlphonseBC1
Do you think all trans people think the same? I know keffals manipulated shit and I don’t believe in guilt by association as she does. The people on kiwi farms that post doxs and shit are vile but idrc about the platform as a whole. Targeted harassment is also not criticism.
The colours on the flag actually do have meaning please don't bastardize them. The blue stands for serenity. It's pretty hard to feel serene surrounded by bastard cops.
@chronicparent30
@JMikaelOlsson1
@nannou
Me and my boyfriend are going for a walk in the park today because it’s one of the few safe and accessible walkways near us. I don’t think people understand they aren’t just places for kids they’re for the general public.
More like he almost dies at 22. Wakes up screaming in the middle of the night because he’s experiencing the worst pain of his life. Has to be admitted for stroke intervention treatment. Can’t weight bear on his feet for 3 months. He’s now permanently disabled.
@YuvalMimi
@And1Freddy
@Jasonsuperboi
@Beyonce
Didn’t Israel literally systematically sterilized any Ethiopian Jews it did let immigrate there for a while? Nobody said racism is unique to Israel but there’s every reason to criticize an ethnostate committing acts of genocide regardless.
@i_am_remy_bot
@Esqueer_
They seem to be really fucking confused about basic biology. Like what do they think nipples are for? A not insignificant number of cis men lactate and experience sympathetic pregnancy without even trying. So like?
I’m still willing to make a deal
@ArielleScarcell
. If you keep your obsession with trans people between yourself and your therapist I’ll stop talking about where you told me it came from when I was 17 on that weird Skype call.
@athletic80s
@phrenologylover
People I considered to be friends threatened to kill me when I first cut my hair to transition meanwhile my parent was setting restrictions on how short I could cut my hair. I’ve been strangled by a family member my vision went black and both of those traumas are very real.
@Cramsalot3000
@doombr0
Did you miss the part where the claims hbomberguy were making were true and the ones Somerton made were occasionally just false and intentionally crafted to insite anger? Because that’s a significant factor here.
Kids learning how to evade an active shooters in school before they learn basic sex Ed is really messed up. There are kids fully aware they could be shot before they know what their body parts are called - how is that just normal?
@keffals
Almost 10 years sober from my drug of choice: stay off public social media profiles while getting sober and remember acknowledging that you hurt others while in active addiction doesn’t negate that harm. Forgive yourself while respecting others boundaries.
Baby trans guys being pissed at "already transitioned" trans guys for not being truscum is a weird and awful trend I'm noticing lately. None of us are out here being inclusive as a means to say "fuck you I got mine" - it's the exact opposite.
You don’t need dysphoria to be trans.
A common thought behind what gender dysphoria is that it’s a response that can manifest in trans people when placed in an unaccepting environment. Meaning in a vacuum trans people exist, dysphoria doesn’t have to.
Both he and I deserved better but we were being constantly compared by our cis peers. My coming out and the fact I felt connected to a queer identity while he didn’t brought additional visibility to him and he harboured resentment for that.
@RemyLevin
@estruby
@Andrew___Baker
I frequently didn’t use my laptop when I needed it because I had teachers with similar policies. It outed me as disabled to my classmates which meant I’d get intrusive questions.
Tried coming out at 4 years old, told it wasn’t possible, and by 7 I had prominent suicidal thoughts.
Came out at 17 after kicking a drug habit because I ran out of ways to numb my dysphoria. I had to face it.
Social and medical transition saved my life.
Requesting trigger warnings is fine but requesting someone place a trigger warning because an aspect of their appearance makes you uncomfortable is really fucked up actually. Some people have scars, colostomy bags, and missing limbs - get over it and keep scrolling.
A TERF just accused me of insinuating Arielle is a pedo.
So to clarify, I mentioned my age and how she would make dysphoria inducing comments because they were major factors in how she was able to manipulate me. I'm not trying to insinuate anything beyond that.
Its pronoun day so I just want to say not all nonbinary people use they/then pronouns and that's okay. While they/them are gender neutral pronouns they are not "the gender neutral pronouns". Surprisingly pronouns themselves don't actually have gender just a typical association.
This is incredibly and almost unbearably true. I’ve acquired my physical disabilities within the last five years I’ve gained a wealth of knowledge in that time I’m still learning but I’ve had to unlearn virtually everything I “knew” about disability before I got sick.
If you’re going from Nondisabled to disabled please know that a majority of what you know about disability is a lie meant to serve your nondisabled self.
It will not serve you now.
@AaronLinguini
Unfortunately, yeah. I used to criticize her trans content on tumblr. We had this really weird Skype call where she steam rolled me, made comments about my body, weaponized her mental health, and told me she would be monitoring my post so I didn't continue critizing her.
@CloudRunner13
@thegothbae
@prntgdcolonized
Expecting people to communicate their emotions in hyper specific ways especially in a society that doesn’t value teaching emotional intelligence is in itself ableism. Conflicting access needs exist and we kind of just have to acknowledge that.
Tip for neurodivergent people that have a hard time conveying their tone through text: Grammarly has a feature in beta that can tell you what tone is indicated in your text.
They aren’t even just suggesting DIY with manufactured hormones at this point they’re legit suggesting compounding your own T and shamming trans men that don’t feel comfortable putting themselves risk.
This will kill people and it will be on those that promote this shit.
@transphilosophr
@FelixAuDaan
I'm sorry she did that to you. Her channel clearly violates YouTube's terms of service for hate speech - I'm not sure if YouTube ever plans on inforcing their TOS or if they're just for show though.
I just can’t get over James Charles saying there are no famous gay men between the ages 20-25 when 1) we are in an area where drag queens, a majority of which are young gay men, are out there killing it in mainstream media and online and 2) 24. He’s 24. His cap is 25? Red flag.
Hey Kalvin remember when you reacted to a tiktok of me standing next to my wheelchair last year and started laughing because it reminded you of
@anticrapitalism
? Stop acting like this is a past mistake you made once when it is still very much an insidious issue.
No offense but this tweet was years ago I’ve made it pretty clear that I didnt fully understand chronic illness/part-time wheelchair users clearly I disagree now and I literally don’t speak about you lol it’s ridiculous to keep acting like it’s my fault random people on reddit -
If you feel the need to guilt people for triggering your dysphoria because some other trans men and their partners call their genitals “pussy”, you’re weak.
You’re dysphoria is your own to deal with, process, but not to project on other trans people.
@elijahdaniel
@Uber
Dude I was kicked out of an Uber because I use a wheelchair and apparently I wasted the drivers time. It was awful I was shaking and they only refunded me what I would have been charged for the ride. They need to train and screen their drivers better.