Steve Rubin
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Thrive After Cancer | Overcame a less than 10% survival rate for stage 4 bone cancer and sharing everything I’ve learned along the way at
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For years, I didn’t know if I’d make it to the next birthday, and even if I managed to pull off a miracle, having a child seemed highly questionable at best due to all the trauma.
It’s been a crazy ride and today I feel extremely blessed.
Meet Daisy, our little miracle baby 🙂
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Clear scans 🙌🙌
Very grateful.
If you’re struggling with treatment, just a reminder that I was given a super daunting survival rate and didn’t always know these days would arrive.
One day at a time 🙏❤️💪
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10 yrs ago I met her as a wingman for a buddy hanging out with her friend.
We hit it off. Dated. Moved in together. Got engaged. I got cancer and we canceled the wedding. Went through treatment. Got remarried. Have battled recurrences and fear... Together.
Love is everything.
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Can breathe again! Scans clear 🙏
Almost 5 yrs ago I was told <10% survival rate. Scariest day of my life, totally swimming in the dark... And I busted my ass learning new ways of doing things and staying disciplined every day. Just feeling so blessed and proud right now 🙌🙌
Scans next week and anxious as always but being around friends and family DEFINITELY helps. Noticing that this time more than ever— the soothing, protective energy of good loving people. Just trying to soak it up as much as I can 🙏❤️💪
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If there's one positive to years of fighting cancer, it's that you get pretty damn used to coping with extreme isolation and uncertainty. Hang in there everybody!!
#onedayatatime
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Managing a cancer diagnosis is exhausting, and the grind can wear you down.
Some days you may just not have much to give. It happens to us all.
Account for it. Allow a little compassion, and bounce back as soon as you can.
It’s a marathon.
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Cancer fighters:
Know what to accept and what NOT to accept.
I accepted certain realities and limitations. I accepted that my career was basically destroyed while I focused on healing.
I did NOT accept— ever, not for a second!!— the less than 10% survival rate I was given.
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Finally got my port taken out today. It’s been in since 2016 and after all the recurrences never felt safe taking it out until today.
Small wins 🙏❤️💪
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It’s the tension.
When you wake up; when you’re getting ready for bed; when you’re relaxed and then all of a sudden it hits you again.
The tension of something major looming, that’s out of your control. And that’s unresolved.
Managing that tension is the mental game of cancer.
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It's not so much the task itself of scans, blood tests, medical appointments, or dealing with insurance... It's the constant, life-sucking drain it takes on your soul behind the scenes; the anticipation and anxiety that really wears you down after a while.
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What a long, exhausting and grueling week... But scans came back clear! 🙏🙏
Was told less than 10% chance to live and this makes it 2 years of clear scans.
One day at a time... 🙏❤️💪
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Holiday time after cancer can be heavy.
I really struggled for a while, thinking about what I’d do and who I would be after overcoming a less than 10% survival rate.
Not having a clear vision scared the hell out of me, but the path unfolds as you go…
Trust the process 🙏❤️💪
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Hi Twitter fam/ fellow cancer fighters - I've decided to write a book today. Sharing this so that I don't back out after my caffeine buzz wears off. Please help by holding me accountable! 🙏♥️💪
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Great news today from my health appreciation appointment (scans)! Everything looks good.
It’s been quite a journey turning my health around after getting such a grim prognosis over 5 years ago. Lots of scary moments to get to this point.
Very grateful 🙏❤️💪
#lifewithcancer
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Cancer fighters, what’s been a major problem since diagnosis that you wish you could get more of a handle on?
Can be emotional, physical, financial… Just curious to hear from the community. Appreciate it!
#lifewithcancer
@ThanksCancer
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Cancer is basically the complete opposite feeling of when my dog greets me at the door.
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Cancer fighters,
What do you do for yourself when you need a little boost or self care during treatment?
Something that comforts, a favorite meal, people you turn to, etc… What helps?
@ThanksCancer
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When cancer kept coming back, my wife and I would hear from people about all the trips and adventures they'd be off too if it were them.
They'd say, "Go live it up... I mean YOLO, right?"
YOLO Ain't Easy
#thriveaftercancer
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Fighting cancer takes constant adjustments.
Adjusting to scans.
Adjusting to emotions and exhaustion.
Adjusting to setbacks.
That’s what one day at a time really means. You just can’t solve everything overnight.
You keep rebalancing and you choose to trust the process.
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Light shining from above... Just got the GOOD news back about my scans. I know there are plenty worse off so I’m only sharing this to inspire.
I was given less than 10% to live, this is now 6 mo in clear. Best phrase ever is “keep doing what your doing” from oncology team. 🙏❤️
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New to Twitter - goal is to entertain, enlighten and leave you appreciating the big picture. I’m 33 yrs old, look healthy but have been battling a rare bone cancer.
Asking for a 2 min trial of your time.
#livingwithcancer
#health
#holistic
#spiritual
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Blessed to celebrate another birthday!
And thanks to all the other cancer fighters and thrivers out here for your daily dose of support and comradery.
This game ain’t easy but it’s so much better knowing you’re not in it alone…
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Cancer fighters,
What’s one thing that helped boost your sense of dignity while pushing through ‘less than flattering’ side effects of chemo?
Clothing, accessories, reframing your thoughts, etc
@ThanksCancer
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Cancer fighters - what suggestions would you offer to someone who’s feeling guilt about their family being affected by the diagnosis - what to do and tell themselves?
Also, how to set boundaries with so many people reaching out?
@ThanksCancer
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After 5 years of insanity fighting a rare, fucked up, super aggressive bone cancer, some days I just have to stop and remind myself, holy shit I’m alive!!
There was a time not too long ago I wasn’t sure I’d ever get to say that.
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Made it to 35 when I was told I probably wouldn’t! 🙏❤️💪
New share, “1985”
#cancerfighter
#onedayatatime
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My scariest moment fighting cancer was after treatment didn’t stop the recurrences.
That’s when I realized no doctor or drug would magically make everything go away for me.
It was a huge realization because for the first time, I took on 100% ownership of my health that day.
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Very fortunate and grateful to report that scans came back clear 🙏❤️💪
For
@othercword
, this time around, newfound joy and passion have added a different layer to scanxiety.
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For some reason my oncology has the hardest time giving me ANY sense of optimism or encouragement.
Im approaching a year of clean scans now, giving everything I’ve got to healing and yet always walk away feeling completely awful after meeting or talking to any of them... Sucks.
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Scans next week and anxious as always but being around friends and family DEFINITELY helps. Noticing that this time more than ever— the soothing, protective energy of good loving people. Just trying to soak it up as much as I can 🙏❤️💪
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A little good news after last week: turns out the hip pain has been a result of arthritis and not cancer. Thanks for the support and well wishes along the way.
Also very proud to share that
@Healthline
has chosen The (other) C Word as one of the Top Cancer Blogs of 2020.
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At the point with scans approaching where I'm feeling a little too fragile for the harsh realities of Twitter cancer home feed. I'll check in when I can but in the meantime sending strength and love to everyone fighting to keep their head up along this crazy journey.🙏❤️💪
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@bowelcancerman
Patrick - you’ve been and continue to set a great example of strength and calmness for others to emulate along the cancer journey. Super inspiring... Hope you’re able to take pride in that. One day at a time 🙏❤️
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Each time I have a follow up appointment with my oncology team, and the debilitating Scanxiety starts to take over, I am reminded of how amazing it would be to one day have a cure for cancer. That’s why
#icareforacure
@cure_today
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It's my birthday!
Which feels pretty damn special considering I wasn't supposed to be here according to doctors and statistics.
One day at a time 🙏❤️💪
#cancerthriver
#lifewithcancer
#BlessedAndGrateful
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Pre-cancer Steve would reach for the stars. More recent Steve would reach for the chamomile tea… I’d better figure out who Steve wants to be in the 2020s before it’s too late 🙏❤️💪
“Finding My Edge Again”
#cancerfighter
#livingwithcancer
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I’ve been avoiding updates on my personal journey fighting cancer because I don’t want to draw attention from all the ongoing and critically important issues (racism, police brutality, political corruption) our world is facing.
Any other cancer fighters feeling this? Thoughts?
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It’s important not to let a cancer diagnosis or survival rate take over your identity.
You are still YOU, so fuel your thoughts and beliefs with empowering visions of the future.
Imagine you’ve healed… What happens next? Who are you with? How is your time spent? 🙏❤️💪
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I'm taking a moment to appreciate that my blog just reached 100 subscribers; getting people to willingly read about cancer is not the easiest sell and finding a tasteful balance between creativity and honesty is always a work in progress, but it's been an amazing ride... TY🙏♥️💪
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Cancer fighters- researching for a project and appreciate any help!
What are 1-3 things you want that cancer prevents you from having?
For example, a sense of control with your life, more time for family, relief from a feeling, etc
@ThanksCancer
#lifewithcancer
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Love hearing so many success stories from Cancer Thrivers this week.
We ALL need constant reminders and inspiration of what’s possible… And we need to hear it over and over again…
One day at a time 🙏❤️💪
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Control issues have been a big thing for me, especially after cancer.
Would you agree? How do you manage it?
@ThanksCancer
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Ever get sick of talking cancer while hanging with friends? What tips would you give someone for changing the subject?
@ThanksCancer
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If you've gotten bad news with treatment (I did many times), did it make you more focused on using your time to max out new life experiences? Or researching and exploring other treatment options?
[There is no right answer.]
#lifewithcancer
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About a year ago, I mentioned I was going to write a book on my cancer journey and battling back from a survival rate of less than 10%.
Hoping to read through 2nd draft with Kori this week and then will be looking for beta readers. Can't wait to share with ppl! 🙏♥️💪
#cancer
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Rough night hearing someone really important in my life had a recurrence after a long stretch of good health.
Uncertainty comes with the territory but it’s still jarring every time.
Heart hurts today…
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Cancer is FULL of stress, which is why I surround myself with as much joy as possible... I jokingly think of the Seinfeld line where Kramer asks George, “Do you have any conceivable reason for even getting up in the morning?” and better have more to offer than the daily news.
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Cancer fighters, what are some of your go-to strategies when hit with scanxiety?
#lifewithcancer
#scanxiety
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When up against advanced cancer, I was really careful about who I followed, the news I consumed, the statistics and beliefs I adopted...
Can you focus on studying Thrivers and success stories instead?
Remember, you're writing your own story.
#thriveaftercancer
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Fighting cancer is kind of like walking across a high-rise tightrope:
The fear can be paralyzing but just keep moving forward, trust the process, and don’t look down.
One step at a time 🙏❤️💪
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Fighting cancer, I got super intense about healing and always asking myself what I could do next to boost my chances.
This fueled me, but I learned the stress of perfectionism can outweigh any health benefits.
You also need to leave room for moments of joy 🙏❤️💪
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Who and what are you fighting for?
Because treatment isn’t easy. It’s scary. It takes everything out of you… And it’s not even quick. It’s a marathon.
Fear’s a damn good motivator.
But the best fuel is knowing your purpose and reasons for fighting.
#lifewithcancer
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During my darkest days after a less than 10% prognosis, I remember praying and asking how can I possibly feel happy again?
I heard a voice inside answer:
“Just be happy!”
As if doing so without conditions was the easiest concept in the world.
Left an impression on me 🙏❤️💪
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I’ve been pretty down lately- even after good scan results which then makes me angry at myself... But I feel what I feel and wanted to share my experience/approach to facing a wave of depression.
“Riding Out the Blues”
#lifewithcancer
#cancerfighter
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Cancer fighters,
Assume you were completely healed. If you had to rate how happy your life was each day from 0 - 10…
What would realistically give it a 10?
@ThanksCancer
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If you’re struggling through cancer treatment, sometimes you just need to make it to your next moment of relief.
A break from the pain, the fear, from being poked and prodded. Even for just an hour
Then regroup and just make it to the next check point
One day at a time 🙏❤️💪
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To any cancer fighters and caregivers, I’m working on a guidebook based on turning my health around after being given <10% survival rate.
Any topics or areas in particular that you’d be interested in reading about?
#lifewithcancer
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I love this dog.
Penny Lane has been there for me every step of the way since my diagnosis— through treatment, surgeries, and setbacks; she’s forced me out on walks so we both keep active, and cheered me on after every eventual clear scan 🙏❤️💪
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While the memoir marinates, I’ve been working on my first novel. One of the most exciting and also terrifying pursuits of my life… ya know, besides the whole fighting cancer thing.
Same process though. One day at a time and non-stop adjustments along the way.
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When someone you love has been diagnosed with cancer, it’s not your job to save them.
Your job is to offer love and support, and ultimately help them figure out the healing and treatment decisions that are best for THEM 🙏❤️💪
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Everything you go through while fighting cancer gives you experience and wisdom that will be incredibly valuable for others down the line who will need someone like you for guidance 🙏❤️💪
#lifewithcancer
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Cancer fighters, remember joy counts.
Joy is healing.
When you feel good, you’re promoting immune supporting conditions.
Do something that makes you happy today. Even if all you can manage right now is a single moment 🙏❤️💪
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Happy Valentine’s Day 🙏❤️💪
10 yrs ago I met her as a wingman for a buddy hanging out with her friend.
We hit it off. Dated. Moved in together. Got engaged. I got cancer and we canceled the wedding. Went through treatment. Got remarried. Have battled recurrences and fear... Together.
Love is everything.
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Fighting cancer is like when Wile E. Coyote would be running off the cliff and then still running…
Don’t stop. Don’t look down. Just keep going.
One day at a time 🙏❤️💪
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How do you explain the hardships (specifically mental and emotional trauma) of life after cancer to someone who sees you looking healthy on the outside? Has anyone found a good way?
Always feels like my attempts get a bunch of head nods but nothing actually gets through.
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A major turning point in my cancer treatment was when I realized it was up to me to learn and do all I could to support my healing.
There are no guarantees or magic pills, but you CAN focus on diet, detox, attitude, supplements, sleep, exercise, etc.
Every edge counts 🙏❤️💪
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Pushing ahead without any comfort or reassurance that everything will be ok is exhausting.
I lived it for years. The fear is all consuming; there’s urgency and constant pressure.
It’s a true test of protecting your belief. But remember, I found my way and you can too.
#cancer
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For anyone interested, I’ve got time today to read your new blog posts and can offer feedback from an impartial reader.
Who’s got something interesting to share?
@BBlogRT
@LovingBlogs
@Cbeechat
#bloggerstribe
#bloggerswanted
#bloggersrequired
#bloggingfamRT
#bloggers
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Feeling a little on edge about my own upcoming scans, I turned to Twitter to ask other cancer fighters how they deal with Scanxiety: 🙏❤️💪
#lifewithcancer
#scanxiety
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Normally I’d be depressed with summer winding down but this year I’m PUMPED for Fall.
After my recent clear CT scan, Im just grateful AF to enjoy the crisp air, fall foliage and return of football with peace of mind... At least for a few more months. 🙏❤️💪
#lifeaftercancer
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Cancer fighting tip: When people question your situation or offer suggestions, and you’re thinking how the hell do I get out of this convo??
“Thanks. I’m still taking everything day to day and this is just what works for me now.”
Then, wrap it up 🙏❤️💪
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When it comes to cancer, be careful about anger and resentment.
Some is healthy and totally warranted, but cancer doesn’t feel the anger.
YOU feel it and your immune system takes the hit. After a while, it’s just not serving you.
Love and gratitude are healing emotions 🙏❤️💪
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#writingcommuity
and bloggers thanks for coming together to help me reach 1k followers for my birthday!
Living with cancer has taught me to appreciate each year more than ever.
One day at a time. 🙏❤️
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As any cancer fighter knows, bouncing back proves difficult, and I’m still navigating through the the mess.
“The Rebuild”
(*Photo taken pre-quarantine)
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Tune into your WHY every day.
I remember looking in the mirror before scans, years back when things were really bad.
And I thought if I somehow found a way to make it through, I’d do everything I could to help other cancer fighters.
I try to never forget what it felt like.
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Immediately after a blog post draft: I can’t wait to share this, what incredible wisdom!
2 hours later: I can’t publish this! What was I thinking??
After multiple rounds of edits: Ok, might have something interesting to say here...
#bloggerlife
#bloggercommunity
#bloggers
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If you’re feeling like you can’t dream or plan a future again after cancer, I’ve been there…
And eventually that ability came back.
So even if you can’t see the path right now, it helps to know that regaining the feeling of “living” instead of just surviving is possible.
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(1) Been on my mind all morning:
A few years ago, after my 4th or so recurrence with bone cancer, I ran out of conventional options. Chemo didn't work, no clinical trials for me... Searched frantically for ANYTHING that might save my life...
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Amazing birthday wknd. Really, really special...
So crazy the swings life has brought this past decade. From living my best life at 30, to the misery of 5 years in non-stop survival mode. Now finally riding high again.
Finding happiness again IS possible.
Stay locked in 🙏❤️💪
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If you’re freaking out reading headlines like how the Great Depression is on the way:
One thing I’ve learned fighting cancer is that thinking about the past makes you depressed and thinking ahead to the future leaves you anxious.
Stay in the present the BEST you can
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Great May! 🙂
Celebrating my sister’s engagement with the family and being able to make my brother-in-law’s bachelor party was really special. I’ve missed way too many occasions over the years battling cancer.
Appreciate each day. 🙏❤️💪
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A few years ago after my 3rd cancer recurrence I thought I was done… Then I remembered about my sister’s upcoming wedding. And how I REALLY wanted to see the next season of Billions or where LeBron was headed.
FOMO’s a great motivator.
@briankoppelman
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I’ve learned to prioritize self-care for the day after scans.
Booked a massage, will rest and try to hold off any big decisions because when anxiety is up, our ability to process goes down.
This helps my mind and body bounce back quicker 🙏❤️💪
#lifewithcancer
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Cancer fighters,
Another week of trusting the process.
Just keep going… It’s ok if the solution or breakthrough hasn’t popped up yet.
It not being easy is why turning your health around can be one of the most amazing accomplishments of your life.
Stay locked in 🙏❤️💪
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Iced coffee on a cold walk home? What drives me to take such chances!
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When fighting cancer, finding immediate relief is easy to fixate on, but patience is key.
Healing can take time, just like any other big change in life.
Keep showing up the best that you can, protect your belief, and trust the process… One day at a time.
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While fighting cancer, sometimes the best thing to do is just lay in bed for hours with the lights off and let your nervous system settle.
Listen to your body and recognize when it’s time for self-compassion.
Healing is a marathon 🙏❤️💪
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“I am grateful to have healed and be in remission, in spite of what doctors and statistics say.”
I started saying that to myself after receiving a less than 10% prognosis.
With no answer in sight… Well before my first clear scan.
It starts with belief 🙏❤️💪
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Compassion, compassion, compassion…
Fighting cancer is a wild ride that nobody signed up for.
Sometimes you just have to pat yourself on the back and say “It’s ok buddy, you’re doing the best you can.”
One day at a time 🙏❤️💪
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Riding such a high right now! Earlier this year I started a coaching program sharing how I overcame a less than 10% survival rate with bone cancer.
And just heard from 2 different clients this morning who got great news back on their latest scans.
Best feeling ever 🙏❤️💪
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There are no guarantees with cancer, but you can boost your odds.
Keep learning as much about holistic healing and wellness as you can. Stay disciplined and determined.
Then keep it simple:
1) One good decision at a time.
2) One day at a time.
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After surgery, I felt a ton of pressure to travel and live it up because you never know what’s around the corner with cancer but it just stressed me out. 🤯
“YOLO Ain’t Easy”
#cancerfighter
#lifewithcancer
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If you’re struggling with cancer, I always found it helpful to look up success stories and focus on people who managed to turn their situation around even in the worst cases…
Read what they did, keep that sense of belief going 🙏❤️💪
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Hey all! I was diagnosed at 30 with osteosarcoma (bone cancer) and have been fighting to overcome a less than 10% survival rate. I started my blog to share the journey as I figure out life after cancer
#WorldCancerDayYayOrNay
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Looking back on healing from cancer, a make it or break it ingredient was belief that I could survive— and more specifically, belief in the idea that my treatment approach could work.
I had to first buy into it being possible in order to really put my heart and soul behind it…
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How satisfied are you with your cancer support community?
Sometimes I have my guard up because when you put yourself out there you never know what kind of triggering stories or attitudes you’ll run into.
At the same time, meeting cancer fighters that I do vibe with is amazing!
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My 5 year anniversary was also when I overcame a 5-year, less than 10% survival rate for metastatic bone cancer.
It proved daunting statistics don't define us.
#thriveaftercancer
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Cancer fighters struggling with uncertainty:
You don’t have to know today exactly how you’re going to regain your health.
You DO have to put blinders on and maintain belief that a solution exists, somewhere.
Blind faith may be uncomfortable, but it’s absolutely critical 🙏💪❤️
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