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@astralfvck
@ALilMushroom2
I’m in a lot out mom groups on fb and it’s wild how many women post about their fear of their relationship suffering because their “man” can’t go six weeks without sex
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@living_in_greys
@MsCaShawn
Parenthood really makes a lot of childhood trauma resurface.. parents will either see themselves as a victim to their childrens needs or they’ll become aware of their triggers & use parenthood as a portal to healing. Unfortunately it’s often the former instead of the latter
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@PrinceHAK33M
Right any person who thinks the fact that they’re black is an “aha gotcha” moment is like ten years behind in the conversation. Like please catch up
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@jacksaint101
Young boys are conditioned to have no respect or interest in all things feminine, so why would they grow up to actually be interested in women. If a young boy is friends with a girl, adults immediately frame it as a crush. Its no wonder why men don’t see women as equal humans
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@_ClaudiaDavalos
@spicebae_
Your perspective is just kinda shallow. Just because someone wasn’t ready or sure of how to solve an issue doesn’t mean they don’t deserve sympathy. Life isn’t that black & white
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@BornAlchemist
@1allelaflare
@zariaroyale
Yeah, you give them the balls to handle the world by teaching them how to stay calm instead of teaching them how to lose their shit in frustration. Emotional control is strength and parents have failed at teaching it
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@SuperSexyStarr
@EarthToGazelle
@xoxosymoneb
Hitting kids doesnt make them respectful or well mannered. It teaches them how to act those ways when it will benefit them. Respect is established by treating children with respect, not by beating them. Older kids who act out are lacking role models who know how to model respect
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@prntgdcolonized
I can’t imagine my 6yo stealing something from me and my mind going to “I don’t fck with thieves” …
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@_ClaudiaDavalos
@spicebae_
It’s interesting that you’re preaching about forgiveness and reconciliation but you also have a severe lack of empathy at the same time
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@PillowsCoolside
@NoEmmeG
A lot of millennials are actually taking the time to learn and teach emotional skills instead of just defaulting to the easy way (fear, shame, threats, judgment). Which can seem like “trying to be friends” to someone whose parents treated them like they were inferior
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@RealLathan
@myazwe
Which came first, the lack of respect toward women or the hated toward men
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Society: Why do kids wanna act so grown so fast??
Also society: Your children should be expected & able to act like adult by age 5 otherwise they’re inconvenient & you’re letting them run you
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@CLE4theWIN
@TheConsciousLee
That doesn’t even make sense because they could witness white people not being enslaved..they knew exactly what life could be like if it weren’t for their skin color
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@OMGKristen
He’s the type of guy who is only accepting of men who are like him. As soon as zack wasn’t into sports he was a loser to him
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@D3an0fw4rri
@Postsubman
Shaped you into a person who doesn’t know how to gain respect or compliance from children unless you hurt & threaten them? Not a flex
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@AmeriKraut
I just can’t imagine being so sensitive and judgmental toward a kid. It’s pure entitlement to make such a huge deal about not being greeted.
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@SuperSexyStarr
@EarthToGazelle
@xoxosymoneb
Physical and emotional abuse teaches kids how to be manipulative, and makes them self serving, which shows in majority of adult relationships. Why do you think adults of today can’t have healthy relationships without going to therapy?
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@SuperSexyStarr
@EarthToGazelle
@xoxosymoneb
If you show kids what genuine respect looks like, that’s how they learn. If you seek to control them by physically harming them, you’re teaching them that manipulation is how to get what you want out of life. Society makes that clear. 70% of parents still hit kids
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@ohhDee__
@Tallulah_Chanel
It shouldn’t be used at all. It’s not healthy to manipulate children’s behavior with fear and pain. If spanking in any form and any circumstance was outlawed, fewer children would suffer. But as long as we leave it up for interpretation, children will always suffer.
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@asvplinda
Idk why people expect children to be naturally obedient. They need to understand why the expectations are there, they need to test boundaries, they need someone modeling the expectations instead of acting like an animal when they aren’t met, and they need time to develop habits.
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@prinnylee
@jacksaint101
We teach boys to have “game” how to “get” women instead of encouraging them to stay authentic so they attract women who like them for who they really are. It’s not about understanding women or actually developing a connection, it’s just about “getting” them.
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@UniverseTheKing
@rachelkayw
The child deals with the real world as soon as they start kindergarten. They come home to a safe understanding environment where they feel comfortable talking about whatever issues arose and how to handle it. They’re better emotionally equipped than kids of traditional parenting
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@ReaganGomez
And of course the black character was made to be aggressive. If a white person doesn’t know any black women, this is usually how they are imagined to be and it’s no wonder why.
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@SuperSexyStarr
@EarthToGazelle
@xoxosymoneb
What about them? Where is the evidence that kids and teens of the past weren’t “as bad” as the kids and teens of today? Youth violence was WAY higher in the 90s than it is today. Adults are just sensitive to children vocalizing opinions, that’s why you think they’re disrespectful
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@katiebaby_24
If it’s a promise to get engaged then why not just get an engagement ring lmao
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@SupernovaMomma
Right like I appreciate it being taught in school but there’s no way in hell that’s gonna be the first place my kids learn about unprotected sex lol
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@InesViolet
@queenveej
This, and it drives boys to desperate measures to get their hands on these symbols of “wealth”
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@ZekesMommasKid
@caitlinnmanning
No one thinks that criminals won’t obtain them. That’s like making no regulations for automobiles just because people are going to break the rules anyway. It may not stop mass murders completely, but reducing the number of people killed it is the next best thing isn’t it?
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@missdanaaa_
@KitanniLove
I think its any combination of low self esteem, a lack of attention/affection from family (either parent), sexual abuse & trauma, puberty, a lack of validation in other aspects of life (like talents, interests, intelligence), etc. That’s why its so important to pour into children
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@CraveMePlz
@sarahlugor
You can’t “make” a person respect you. Respect is fostered through mutual respect. You can make them fear you and become hypervigilant around you though. That’s what people confuse for respect.
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@KingNjayc
@jadorejontele
If this is how men have been raised, and you look at how the majority of men are doing..we should probably stop doing this
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@StoneloC6
@gmalone
If a man isn’t sexually attracted to women then he’s not going to make babies with them. It’s hilarious that you think black people are choosing their sexuality based off music videos 😂
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@XGrammar_Police
@thecindynoir
She disrespects her mom because her mom clearly models chaos & violence. Parents need to stop acting so entitled to respect and actually give their kids an example to learn from and look up to. Because that mom is not it.
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@CLE4theWIN
@TheConsciousLee
You can enjoy your life while also acknowledging the ways that history is still impacting the present in negative ways.
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@KHAENOTBAE
I think in at least 2/3 of those cases, the wife was trying to leave. It’s terrifying
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@okaygworl
@IvyKungu
I think at that age you’re still optimistic, you think you can “change” them, your standards are based solely on how the person makes you feel in your presence and if that’s intoxicating enough then all the flaws can go ignored
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@SuperSexyStarr
@lillexissss
@EarthToGazelle
@xoxosymoneb
Physical discipline is literally violence. Hitting a kid, no matter how you go about it, is violence, and when the goal is to change their behavior, that’s manipulation.
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@_Catiaaa
@ashurejvox
@_brohan_
@ktko54
@ESPNFrankie
I have no clue the reason why it happens. But you can see how curly my hair was before I got pregnant (my ends) compared to the hair that grew in during and after my last pregnancy 😩
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@EqualityEd
@RealLathan
@myazwe
So women started hating men for no reason, just like out of thin air?
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@doowezlah
@jacksaint101
We are equals on the level of humanity we deserve. One sex is not above the other or less worthy of respect.
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@judi_amato
@BornAlchemist
@1allelaflare
@zariaroyale
Right like “deal with it, get over it” or the child is sent to isolation until they’re “done crying”. How is any of that actually helpful to the child?! It breaks my heart that parents are more celebrated for being tough & harsh than for being understanding and proactive.
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@jfnoz
@Divyaadu
@blackandboujie
You can, you just have to try to be super conscious of it. You can control what you dream
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@thecindynoir
Right, just because their parents were together doesn’t mean the person had an example of a healthy relationship. A single parent could instill emotional tools for a healthy relationship and a two parent household could model toxic relationship habits.
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@ohhDee__
@Tallulah_Chanel
Like even if there was a healthy way to hit a child, who is there to protect the child when the imaginary line is crossed? When the child has been conditioned their whole life to believe being hit is normal and they deserve it? It’s safer to say—don’t do it at all.
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@SuperSexyStarr
@lillexissss
@EarthToGazelle
@xoxosymoneb
Why would you have to choose between understanding gender and learning how to tell time? How did this suddenly turn into a conversation with a transphobe
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@katiephelps_
@UniverseTheKing
@rachelkayw
Right, I won’t be conditioning my child to passively tolerate the bs of the real world or to match their energy. They’ll learn how to navigate those people in healthier ways, not match their energy
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@MoreAndAgain
I think the negative aspects of community have caused a lot of trauma & fear of vulnerability. Community also came with a lack of healthy communication, boundary issues, groupthink, gaslighting, abuse.. which made a more individualistic lifestyle seem more appealing.
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@4_playray
@BethuneTheory
It didn’t have to be achieved through fear. Your parents and other adults in your life just took the lazy way out (fear) instead of taking their time with reason.
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@DannieDoll
@living_in_greys
@MsCaShawn
Look into parenting styles..authoritarian vs authoritative vs permissive. Authoritative is the balance between being too hard and being too passive 💗
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@shayestx3
@howiszhu
If the good people actually overshadowed them then it wouldn’t be a topic of discussion
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@MyBeautyIs_REAL
@PillowsCoolside
@NoEmmeG
Exactly.. people think Respect can be demanded from kids but they need to be treated with respect and understanding, even at their worst, if we want them to be respectful and considerate. Boundaries don’t have to involve shame
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@YannatheGem
@_slimarella_
People care more about what other people think than how their own child feels
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@whatsupsadie
@KaylarWill
It’s hard to come by people to practice on especially for color corrections 😂
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@FPSViego
@metalh0lic_
@janiorbrue
They are both human but one has an underdeveloped brain and the other has a fully developed brain. If he’s too traumatized to be able to manage his triggers in a school setting then he needs to get help before working in a school setting.
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@wkbp_jr
@zionnndestinyyy
@AnxiousPsych
Everyone parents differently but respect and human decency should be the baseline standard. Not just letting people create more mentally unstable people.
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@_BarringtonII
@ElijahSchaffer
“Class” is everyone acting the same & a lack of authenticity. Yawn
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@pierrefleury_
The fact that he ran to the Internet to shame her tells us a lot about how he must be behind the scenes honestly
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@XavierC73245061
@kkianana
@only1HEIDY
Was this literature written by native Hawaiians or colonizers lol
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@doowezlah
@jacksaint101
I was literally explaining what I meant by equals but you just wanna argue lol
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@Mrs__P
@tanyajunghans
It’s not about being right, it’s about what children deserve which is respect.
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@GenoG81
@MileHighDrmr
@nowthisnews
@AOC
I mean that’s really cute but people arent just going to start ignoring the color of people’s skin. These biases are subconscious at this point so let’s be realistic with solutions
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@GirlMelanie3
@Splashystackss
As a parent, I’ll never understand how it’s so acceptable to go about “discipline” in such childish ways that can’t even be applied in real life situations. Too many parents take advantage of the fact that kids are powerless & then they wonder why the kids lack respect for them
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@CarmenGranddau1
@prntgdcolonized
Considering that’s when puberty begins, I’d say that’s an expectation that’s gonna set you up for a lot of stress 😂
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@urfavdumbbitch_
@TheMamaLifeBlog
@LittleNestCo1
Regardless, it’s your human right to not have to sacrifice your body as an incubator for the next 8 months if you don’t want to. You’re not obligated to do so ❤️
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@CrustyAve
@iamtamiarenee
@liltyp0
@yagrlabby
@killbyundrscore
This crusty girl just ruined the whole vibe of this thread..you’re dismissed
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@oshunsbitch
@CruzanChoklate
The problem is you think discipline means physical or emotional pain. Neither are necessary in discipline
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@JosephineEsenwa
@scarylordjack
@prince_basant2
@ArtificialSteez
@Lonz_Sigabi
“Keeping a guy somewhere” without your mama knowledge would definitely be cheating lol
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@FLOCKAfierce
If a mother realizes that she resents motherhood, she can either let it out and take it out on the kids, or she can hold it all inside and fake loving it so her kids don’t have a clue. Either way it sucks & they should be able to vent online without being demonized
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@Oriental_Kush
@Toptech1Audio
@Irene_toldyou
@curatedbymike
I can read. She still said that it's our fault. It doesn't matter how someone presents themselves, they don't deserve to be assaulted
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@pizzaratwasfake
@TruthfulMD
@nicunurselifee
I feel like that’s why it’s important to not just say “don’t do it”. It’s more important to educate on how to make the safest bedsharing environment. To leave it at “it’s never safe” is like teaching people to just abstain from sex instead of how to engage safely
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@doowezlah
@jacksaint101
Yeah that’s why it needs to change. Idk why you’re convinced that there has to be a hierarchy between the sexes just because it’s been that way for so long
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@MoreAndAgain
So first we need to unpack all the things that have caused us to become more reclusive in the first place and learn how to avoid the trauma that can come with letting others in. We all just want acceptance.
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@CLE4theWIN
@TheConsciousLee
Totally. I just wouldn’t consider that “happy” I would consider that defeated
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@emmKay_joy
@Glass3Davis
@lexiloathesyou
Being unheard/dismissed for your entire life and then experiencing it even when you finally have a mediator is a great excuse. Another excuse is that her mom never gave her a good example of conflict resolution (clearly). This is the mother wound and moms should be accountable
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@JustErinR
@DjWalt_
Your upbringing is the foundation to who you are. Things that you experienced during childhood, even things you don’t remember, have an effect on all of your emotional responses as an adult. That’s when our subconscious minds are formed
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@Rowdy_Raccoon_
@EndWokeness
Lol no one’s in a competition over whether city life or rural life is better. And y’all would be pissed if we started moving out of cities and into your towns 😂
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@unfollowkjen
@RealLathan
@myazwe
I think women complain about the lack of love FOLLOWING their experiences with men, not before. It’s rare to see men holding other men accountable for the violence, manipulation, and deceit that so many women experience so if we don’t talk about it & denounce it then who will?
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