@rottenicarus
they aren’t genetic in the sense that they’re “passed down” but if your parent had an ed you are “predisposed” to it, meaning you’re more likely to develop one. ed’s develop due to a number of factors like your environment and brain chemistry/genetics
@jrad30
@faerymo
the point is that by choosing to comment on the body of a victim of revenge porn rather than commenting on the fact that the perpetrator was nasty as hell for posting it, you are upholding the patriarchal belief that that is acceptable and beliefs on how a woman should look
My brain rn is like “let’s b/p” “let’s starve” “let’s exercise until i physically can’t anymore” “let’s sh” like omfg it’s not even noon yet can you get a grip maybe ?
@jrad30
@faerymo
yes and no. you can be clean and well groomed without being completely shaved. shaving is a long since established behavior that is part of the gender roles expected of women under the patriarchy. by commenting on her body hair and implying that it’s gross/needs to be removed,
@CentristRally18
@Xyz00684068
@lylacandes_
doesn’t bother me that you replied, it bothers me that it’s quite literally spelled out and the person you replied to is acting like there’s not an issue with making light of it
@roxiethins
like yeah I noticed but can we stay focused on the topic at hand?? she’s literally a groomer who cares if she’s “thinspo” or whatever like come on now
@jrad30
@faerymo
I’m not sure you’re understanding what I’m saying. One can be groomed and still have body hair. It is seen as less/unacceptable under beauty standards set in place by men (the patriarchy) for women to have body hair. Enforcing that idea is upholding the patriarchy.
@shakabrah83
@peachcarving
it’s also possible they have a condition/are on meds that make it hard to lose weight. when I was on seroquel I was eating less than 1k every single day and still wasn’t losing
new pinned cause some stuff’s changed
-blair
-he/him
-22 (‘01)
-edtwt, occasionally looks at shtwt but i will never post sh
-sporadically active
-adhd + autism
-dni; basic dni criteria, fatphobes, non edtwt/shtwt ppl
♡/↻ to be moots!
@jrad30
@faerymo
It is WAY less common for someone to see a man with a hairy pubic area and tell him to shave than it is for someone to tell a woman the same thing
@jrad30
@faerymo
It’s not just about pubic hair though it’s about body hair in general. I only mentioned pubic hair bc that’s the example we were talking about
@babyblushyyy
weed but i vape sometimes instead of eating cause it suppresses my appetite. sometimes i smoke weed and work out cause it raises my heart rate and makes me burn more cals
I was telling my therapist I’ve been wanting to sh and she was like “I don’t endorse this but maybe you could get super stoned and just hide the sharps where you can’t find them” she’s so 😭😭
@rexiebby
only if you use it to mean “scared of being fat”. idc if anyone else is fat cause i know there’s lots of reasons why someone might be. but i just don’t want to be
Tired of people saying this stupid shit. There is NO WAY it’s cheaper to go to mcdonalds than it is to go to the dollar store or find a food pantry or something. Just a dumb ass loser excuse bc I know you didn’t even TRY to find something affordable.
do you have stats on that or something because me personally i’m not thinking about cheating when i feel hurt by my partner i’m thinking of making barcodes or offing myself. ableist ass tweet. get fucked
if you are dating a borderline person I promise you they have cheated, are cheating or thinking about it every time you don’t meet their expectations. borderline people are incapable of being faithful