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Detailed Writer. Always believe that you can achieve great things. Self respect must always be 💯.
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I don't know who needs to hear this but move on. Accept what was done to you and move on. It doesn't matter what you should have done to help yourself, you need to forget about it and move forward.
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@MrMekzy_
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They are driven by Lust, not love.
They don't know anything about the person but they are sure they want a relationship.
When they get what they want, they simply move on to the next.
Lust is for a good time.
Love is for a long and prosperous one.
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@feyiszn
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Once a party make his/her intentions known, things can't go back to the way they were before.
It can't happen because it will destroy the party that wants more.
He/she will be forced to compromise which no one that craves true love deserves.
Self respect must always be 💯.
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@feyiszn
Truth
We always know because the signs are always there.
We just hope that the outcome will be different but every single time, it plays out in the same way.
Dear Men/Women
Never force connections
If it's meant to be, it will happen.
Self respect must always be 💯.
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@Bqmbulu
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Not just with women but with people in general.
Scarcity mindset makes you tolerate people who don't even deserve 1% of your time.
People come and go so you always have to make sure you're in the best possible state.
Self respect must always be 💯.
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@bod_republic
How their attitude is during times of misunderstanding.
I expect my partner to understand that I would never intentionally do anything to hurt her.
I expect that we should be able to handle our misunderstanding with maturity.
It should help bring us closer and make us better.
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@CHI_funmii
Simple economics.
The state is leading in rise of prices but he thinks it's good.
School bridges a gap and will always be valuable.
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You can't be friends with someone that you wanted more than friendship with but got turned down. It's unhealthy and toxic and it messes with your emotions as well as your mind. It's painful if you cared and it just didn't work but that's how life is sometimes.
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Abroad, It's a relationship where you must bring more than money to the table.
Abroad, you must bring more than just breast and ass.
In Nigeria, it's seen as a game because of too many low value individuals.
9ja Men travel abroad where they can’t use free food to knack hungry babes and it’s stainless all the way
9ja Babes travel abroad where there’s no Gee that isn’t loved at home wanting to splurge just to see G-string and it’s stainless all the way
Remove ‘Money for Pum’ type of
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@TheSilvapr
@Winifunds
The love is mostly fake.
My own is to have money and be private.
Once you have the funds to take care of yourself, you don't need or want anyone around.
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Don't ever in your life value a person to the extent that you forget your own value.
You are smart too.
You are fun to be around too.
You rock his/her world too.
You deserve unconditional love too.
If they can't see that, You're better off without them.
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@MrMekzy_
Dear Men/Women
Always think long term when dealing with people.
Be Discerning so you don't entertain people that you should be avoiding.
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@khanofkhans11_
Be wise.
Always protect yourself and make smart decisions that give you the best chance of success.
Be intelligent, powerful and strategic so you don't end up dead.
This is how I interpreted it.
Is it correct?
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Honestly 😔
Me explaining to my children what Tinubu did to my generation
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@Wizarab10
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Discipline requires balance and wisdom.
Knowing when to be tough and mixing it with a bit of softness so the child doesn't get the message that he is not loved properly.
The reality is that Parenting is one of the hardest jobs in the world.
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Really insightful thread.
-You have to be patient and wait for your seeds to fully germinate.
-You must work really hard if you want anything close to success.
-You must be bold and go after what you want. Fear and timid behaviour is recipe for average living.
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@Chimaforkeeps
@Wizarab10
@ThaBoyYom
I stopped when it got to the point he knew she was actively cheating and still continued trying to please her.
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@jon_d_doe
Agba, which relationship is better, Growing together or meeting when you're settled?
I'm asking because growing together has its drawbacks.
For Men, the girl can leave for a wealthy Man.
For women, the man can dump her for a more attractive option.
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It's not generousity.
It's stupidity and foolishness.
Men in general need to do better.
It's better to match the energy than to overdo and create an entitled monster.
Nigerian men are too generous and we have created ingrates. Someone can mock you for sending them a sum of money which they consider little, not because they ordinarily have more than that or get that from home, but because they expect other men to send more.
A pandemic
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People pleasing is low value behaviour.
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Do good but don't be a fool.
People will guilt trip or try to manipulate you into spending your money and it's on you if they succeed.
No one has the right to tell you how to spend your hard earned money.
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Monsters.
We are all monsters with this innate need to dominate and oppress other people.
We are greedy, selfish and jealous coupled with the ability to resent other people if our lives are not going well.
Human beings are the scum of the earth.
What have you made of the human experience so far? When you think of humans and the world, what comes to mind?
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You shouldn't use money to get a woman to date you.
True love shouldn't be tied to money but money is important as an individual because it gives you comfort.
As a Man, you should ensure you have a good source of income.
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The wise thing to do is to walk away. You can't force anyone to be receptive and you can't negotiate genuine desire. What you can do is to make the best decision for yourself.
Move on and be happy.
Self respect must always be 💯.
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Normally, she sould also spend on you and spoil you with gifts.
I dont understand the lifestyle of just sex and the guy will spend heavily.
She is enjoying the sex and money but cant spend or contribute in her own way because the brain dead guy doesn't demand it.
My own is this is 2024. As a guy that’s doing well for himself, try not to be with a broke babe
Try experience relationship with babe wey get money make you sef enjoy relationship small
No be only breast/yansh or sex man fit enjoy inside relationship
Stop shortchanging yourself
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@talk2veee
Cheating is lack of respect.
Everyone knows what they are doing. The offender was fully aware of the potential consequences of engaging in the act but still did it anyway.
You can't claim to love someone and still disrespect them.
Man or Woman, Cheating is gutter behaviour.
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Make peace with what happened before.
It's gone, finito and there's nothing you can do to change it.
Good and bad things are constant in life. it's something we all have to get used to.
Forgive yourself, let go of the anger and move forward.
It will get better 🙏.
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Dont make decisions out of emotions.
Take a deep breath, calm down and approach the situation logically.
Emotions birth brainless decisions and it can destroy good relationships.
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I immediately withdraw when I notice the effort is not equal.
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+1 today
I thank God for everything he has done for me since the beginning and all he will still do for me.
I pray that everything returns to normalcy ASAP so we can all resume our activities in a safe and friendly environment.
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@Vikky4_
Investigation of the highest level.
The friends she keeps: It plays a major role on her personality. If she doesn't have a mind of her own and she blindly follows her friends, big red flag.
She fits my criteria
- Kindness
- Empathy
- Intelligence
- Forgiving spirit
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Getting no messages from her is also a message.
Learn to read it.
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"Not all publicity is good publicity"
We need to help young people understand this totally, or else, they'll want to do anything so long as it gets them views and likes.
Many of those mistakes are difficult to come back from
Selah
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@BlessedGirl001
It's woman nature.
Women will always be loyal to their feelings than the sacrifices of men.
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@jon_d_doe
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She has a right to decline your love and affection regardless of how genuine or authentic it is.
It's not about you, it's just how the situation is.
It's wise to know your place early enough and act accordingly.
Self respect must always be 💯.
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The female was designed to be a receiver while the man was designed to be a giver.
"Love" requires unconditional acceptance.
Always being there in spite of life's challenges.
This doesn't exist in the Woman to Man relationship. Men are loved under the condition that they
WOMEN DON'T LOVE MEN.
Sit tight, get your popcorn and enjoy this ride with me.
After what I will call 'A Critical thinking', I'm of the opinion that women don't love men. A woman's love is majorly centered on two things; her feelings or how you make her feel
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A good reputation is very important in this era with the existence of social media.
It only takes one night to undo years of sweat, effort and consistency.
The game is rigged against men so we have to prove time and time again that we are fit to play.
If you touch a woman sexually without getting consent from her, she could accuse you of harassment later on.
That's not all.
You can sleep with a woman after getting consent, and she'll still accuse of you of taking mental advantage of her.
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@_Ayomide_
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Relationship is a two way street.
Both genders had expectations before going into the relationship and it doesn't make sense that one gender gets all their needs met and the other doesn't.
Dear Men,
Use your head. You are kings and deserve to be treated like royalty.
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You pick the best of the best.
Scarcity mindset is also a bye product of weakness.
A weak person will always be limited in everything.
God help us all to be strong gladiators🙏
We all deserve the best.
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@omowo
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It doesn't make sense to dehumanise and belittle someone, the person cuts you off and you feel he will regret it later on.
People who do this are chief manipulators and the ones who don't have the guts to cut them off have low self esteem.
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Don't ever in your life value a person to the extent that you forget your own value.
You are smart too.
You are fun to be around too.
You rock his/her world too.
You deserve unconditional love too.
If they can't see that, You're better off without them.
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"Everything happens for a reason".
-People have suffered and gained nothing positive.
Just baggage and trauma that has negatively influenced their future.
The above statement is flawed because there are situations that are just for suffering.
You don't gain anything.
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@YomY0m_
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Nonsense and useless effort should never be tolerated.
Tolerating it is stupidity on the part of the person.
One thing about life, you always be punished for being stupid. It never stops until learn to toughen up and delete useless people from your life.
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When you make them feel comfortable, they start misbehaving.
When you don't care too much, none of her cheap theatrics get to you.
It's better to not be too civil with them because they always take it for granted.
E get as you suppose dey treat Nigerian woman for relationship.
And I commend you guys who are doing it the right way
As long as she's crying.
The relationship will live long.
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@Wizarab10
"It is left for Christ to forgive it. It is not for Christian Brothers to suffer the consequences"
Actions have consequences regardless of emotions or feelings.
Women should understand this and live right because society won't be smiling if they are promiscuous.
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@khanofkhans11_
-Stress.
-Responsibilities which will take its toll on the body as time goes on.
-We have to deal with our problems alone. We don't have the luxury of speaking out everytime.
-No one is coming to save us, we have to do the work. You can only do it for so long.
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You have to say goodbye in order to have the opportunity to say hello to someone new and better. People say that Men should be able to entertain such because of less emotions but what people don't get is that not being too emotional doesn't mean there won't be damage.
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Congratulations 👏👏
Your content is good 💯
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Sometimes, the good guys have to do bad things to make the bad guys pay.
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250k.
Las Las, the dinner won't pass motivational talk.
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The best way to go.
I don’t like explaining shit to stupid people.
I’d rather ask you questions until you realize your own stupidity.
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Better to focus only on people that reciprocate.
None of that "help out of the kindness of your heart" nonsense.
If it's not coming back, nothing should go out.
You can look out for someone 1000% and they’ll still put you after the people that have never done anything for them.
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@Vikky4_
-Self care is always 💯
She fully understands that I'm not interested in being a father to a full grown adult.
The only way to vet successfully is to know the kind of partner you want.
-If he/she doesn't fall into that category, Red flag.
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@khanofkhans11_
@Wizarab10
@BlessedGirl001
@Vikky4_
@PenTitan
@_ebelechukwu
Thank you for the insight and education.
Leant a lot and still learning.
May 2024 be good to everyone 🙏.
Before we drive into 2024, kindly say thank you to an Account that made your 2023.💥🙌👍
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😂😂
All those people should keep their personal issues private.
People will start thinking they are cursed or useless.
You have been posting "this will be my last ramadan without marriage" for the past 5 years. Are you still going to post it again? 👀
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@kingdubie_
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Men should learn to look beyond physical appearance.
Long term thinking.
We deserve the same love we give people in equal measure.
No one special.
It's why women don't hesitate to punish such men because they know they are not special.
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Marriage: Man is at the peak of his powers with his darling wife while being very attractive to women on the outside.
Woman has to protect it because she's done if anything goes wrong.
Relationship: Woman is in her prime and weighs her options while she can.
In marriage, women are more faithful.
In relationships, men are more faithful.
Argue with your keypads.
End.
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I will succeed and prosper in life.
I will impact the world in a positive way.
I will be wealthy and highly influential in my life and career.
I will always have a reason to smile and be happy.
I will enjoy, prosper and dominate in anything I set my mind to.
So help me God🙏
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@Wizarab10
Portugal played well tonight.
It was just tough because Czech Republic were good defensively.
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Thank God a Lady is saying this.
It's always about your interests and I've realized that it's not really a bad thing when you see things from the other sides perspective.
It just sucks to be the guy that the stuff happens to.
The Notebook (2004) is a good example of it.
Ah😄🙆♀️ I wonder why I'm having a different opinion on this.
See ehn, not every lady will stick to her man especially when he's trying to find his bearing, trying to put one or two to fend for himself & family
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The world is turning into something else.
We can complain about Covid but things like this and racism are becoming more current and its sickening.
May the lord have mercy upon us 🙏🙏
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@BBNaija
@BetwayNigeria
Praise shouldn't leave the house. The energy he brings to everything is second to none. Hopefully he's there for as long as possible.
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If they don't care about you, Do yourself a favour and bounce.
Your efforts and sacrifices mean nothing to someone who feels nothing for you.
Again, your efforts and sacrifices mean nothing to someone who feels nothing for you.
Lastly and finally, just to remind you:
Your sacrifices and efforts mean nothing to someone who feels nothing for
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@feyiszn
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Some mistakes will always hunt you as time goes on.
The shame and embarrassment will leave a painful scar that follows you for the rest of your life.
When you heal and feel better, you still feel irritated by sudden events. You will want to injure yourself for making
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@_theladymo
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It will be evident in the actions of the person that there is love.
You won't have doubts and you won't question if the love is real.
Dear Men/Women
Never settle for what you don't deserve. Be Discerning and pay attention to the signs
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@YomY0m_
Men took on the roles of being full providers as well as shouldering all the responsibilities.
Financial constraints came along and some realized that it would have been better if the wife was contributing all along.
They start to lash out and take their frustration out on the
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Ram or cow meat?
It can't be the other one.
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"The longer you suppress your emotions, the bigger the explosion". Emotions will get in the way and you will forced to keep them down because the other person is not being receptive. It's plain torture and you can run mad if you're not careful.
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This is why we must be ruthless.
Ruthlessness from Men shouldn't be seen as a big deal because women do it with no regard at all.
They only complain when it's not in their favour.
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A mistake made more than once is a choice.
It's always your fault the second time because you made the blunder after having experience the first time.
Be wise, Learn from your mistakes so you don't become an easy target.
If someone disrespects you once, it’s on them.. If they do it twice, It’s on you
If someone Hits you once in a relationship, it’s on them.. If they do it twice, it’s on you
If someone breaks your heart once, it’s on them.. If they do you dirty again, it’s on you.
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As it should be.
There must be balance.
Let your pride match your humility, always.
Humble enough to give courtesy to everyone.
Proud enough to take shit from no one.
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"What you allow, you condone".
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Everyone wants to be in a relationship but not everyone wants to do the work to make the relationship work.
No one wants to be fully ready and be willing to make sacrifices to ensure that the union flourishes.
Reading most of these anonymous messages I can tell that most people crave companionship, they tell you “I have money, I just want someone who can take care of me and be there for me”
I feel sad about this and the only reason is because there are hardly ever healthy r/ships out
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People in a relationship have the obligation of respecting each other.
If you respect someone, you want to make them happy and you will very conscious of the things that can annoy them.
Both will set boundaries with people outside to avoid
Yesterday, we talked about how living in fear of outside parties “snatching your partners” from you is unhealthy.
Today, let’s talk about the responsibility we have as partners to set boundaries, honour them, and do everything we can to make our partners feel safe and secure.
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We aren't missing anything.
People are too messed up and cruel for you to be an extrovert.
You must be very selective.
The true introverts know what they’ve lost due to their unwillingness to communicate & socialize.
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You nailed it.
You value them and hold them in high esteem but you find out that you're just an option.
It's very humiliating and embarrassing.
Dear Men/Women
Call people the names they are to you.
Coursemate.
Roommate.
Person I see in school.
Say it the way it is to you.
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He should confront him because it's low level behavior to go after someone your friend is dating.
He's a sore loser for not moving on after the rejection. The friend is not at fault for moving to the girl and the guy should be mature and let it go.
Many fishes in the sea.
If your friend had been the one that wrote this, I would have asked him to be happy for you since the babe chose you.
But since you wrote this, it is important you know you're not a good person. You should have aborted the relationship the moment you found out it was the babe
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Bayo 👐
Precious is very stupid for what she did. The useless ex boyfriend she went to meet couldn't pay for her flight to Lagos but she wanted to use the money of someone else 🤦♂️.
I hate girls that try to play smart. If you can't do what is expected then stay at home.
How can you invite a girl from Abuja to Lagos, you paid for her flight and every logistics.
She got to Lagos, and on the first night, she said she wanted to go say hi to a friend.
Anyways, Bayo just came back from US for just 2 weeks holiday, he lodged at an apartment in Lekki
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This is why it's important to have an identity.
Identity means standards and in turn zero tolerance for nonsense or anything that doesn't align with your goals.
Anything less and the person is used and abused.
Don’t let them change who you are into someone they need.
Read that again.
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@omowo
No one holds power over the success of anyone.
God created us all
God will see us through in the journey of life🙏.
Dear Men/Women
No one is worth compromising your mental health.
Self respect must always be 💯.
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If you forgive someone for something they shouldn't be forgiven for, they will punish you and still blame you for forgiving them.
If you don't want to do your own back then cut the person off and don't be cordial if you see them anywhere.
Holding grudges is self respect.
Pay evil with evil because people know what they’re doing.
Forgiveness is weakness and if people know you’ll forgive them, they are inclined to do it again.
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@TheSilvapr
@Winifunds
True but you're better off alone with your money.
The love is fake because most people will come as opportunists.
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Father
Please protect our families, relatives, friends, from all forces of evil.
May your grace, mercy and favour continually be upon us.
I pray that we will live all our years in good health and prosperity.
Please help us to live a life that is of you.
In Jesus Name
Amen
🙏🙏🙏
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I like that he was stubborn.
If he had apologised, he will be on the bench while the team is underperforming.
It's good to be stubborn.
It shows you have a mind of your own and you're not afraid to make tough decisions that won't sit well with other people.
The same Sancho Ten Hag kicked out of the club because he refused to say sorry but stood up for himself, the same Sancho is in the Championships League finals while Manchester United is in their worst season because of the proud and failed disciplinarian.
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We accept the love we think we deserve
People should love themselves more so they won't accept and tolerate nonsense.
The day I stopped being friends with a lady(name withheld) & never get myself involved if any lady have serious issues with her boyfriend, was the day she slapped me because of her boyfriend. —Hear me out first😂
Her boyfriend always hit her, then she comes crying to me. As her
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Anything legitimate.
For those that think it's go ahead to do fraud and drugs, It's not.
Find a legitimate hustle, Pray for guidance and hope for the best.
God help us all.
Anything you are doing to escape poverty. Do it with all your might.
It is worth it….
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