Ebelechukwu
@_ebelechukwu
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Not here to hurt your feelings, not here to coddle them either. Enjoy the rollercoaster.
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Joined May 2018
Let’s scatter this table. There’s no divorce glow. What you have are women who let themselves go because they got married. They now got divorced and realized that they would have no bargaining chip in the real world if they don’t get their shit together. It is important to.
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No woman takes 2years to realize she loves a man. If she accepts you after 2 years of consistent chase, it then means she settled for you.
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Spoiling is a subjective term and that's fine. But saying the 10k sent should be worded as ‘please, help me manage it’ is wild. From your post it takes you approx 71hrs to knit a cardigan worth 60k. That's approx N845 per hour. It takes you 11hours to make that 10k.
why are you trying to spoil someone with 10k? Let’s be honest guys really. What can 10k do rn? emefiele Naira oh, Aren’t you guys in the same economy with us? Imo it should be worded ‘please help me manage this 10k’ or just send it home and stop the big man attitude.
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Shaming a virgin for being vocal about her sexual status is bottom barrel. Everyday you are on the TL telling us about how wet you are or how your next sexcapade will be. If you can wear your badge of promiscuity with pride, what stops the virgin from wearing hers?.
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Get down from the car from the other side. Then call my baby to come and see how God saved me from an accident. He will ask me to not do anything till he comes. When he comes, he will manage the situation .
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Lol, what are the odds that a man who isn’t romantically interested in you would send you a money bouquet?. You people are too dishonest on this app.
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“I get party invite. Come let’s go, rich men go Dey there. You fit catch one or two for there”. Girl goes to club and goes home with a random guy, he sends her some money for ‘tp’ and she goes home to tell her gfs about the guy she met in the club . Disguising runs girls.
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If what I am about to say annoys you, use your block button. The parents were too harsh on her and were not supposed to say all the things they said to her. They need to learn better parenting styles. They should have just no to her request and kept it moving. From a.
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Who life butter him bread go think say others lazy.
“Let’s hangout“. - I don’t have t-fare . In year 2025 … from a fully grown human being.
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Men tell the saddest stories with humor as camouflage.
My step-mom asked my father to make a choice between her and me. - Charles Inojie
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Life is largely dependent on luck. You can live by all the principles and still live an unfortunate life.
2. What's your hot take on life generally?.
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Let me tell a short story. Whenever this happens, I just force myself to keep pleading the blood of Jesus and I’m fine. Till one fateful day, I was scrolling through the TL and saw a post where someone said it was sleep paralysis and I just needed to stay calm and wait it out.
If you've ever experienced sleep paralysis, please tell us your experience
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You can't accurately tell how you would react to anything till it happens to you.
What’s the one hill you’re willing to die on?.
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A subtle reminder that as a Christian, cohabiting with your partner before marriage is wrong.
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You can have a career and still have a beautiful relationship. Whoever sold you the idea that one has to suffer on the alter of the other, did you a great disservice.
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Whoever told you you can't attract men because you dress decently lied to you.
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You cannot have nudity on the rise and not expect sexualization and perversion to rise with it. One can not coexist without the other.
Speak your truth this one time about any popular topic. Quote.
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Dey on standby. Once Dem release am arrest am again.
Person don first me arrest my tailor. 😩.
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I believe this ‘I'm a chosen’ trend is something Christians shouldn't be involved in. You do no join others to laugh at your faith. We believe that God is a miracle-working God. We have seen God do impossible things too but if you decide what testimony holds true and what.
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A random man asked you to come over and wear something nice. You told him he can't make such a request if he isn't paying for your fit.He then sends you 100k for ‘uber’ and sends you the location . And you want us to believe you didn't know what cards were placed on the.
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One day, you people will agree that seeing people who are sexually pure irks your souls. It is almost as if their sexual purity sheds light on how promiscuous you all have been. Has to be envy at this point. With how cheap and available sex is you think someone not having sex.
Being a virgin is embarrassing when you are well into adulthood. Adult virgins for either male or female just shows you aren't really capable of attracting mates, and/or you don't have the appropriate psychological functioning to have normal, stable adult relationships.
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Boss, how this works is that you post your best pictures.
Wèrè say I be like broom. If you have a man that's better looking than I am, show evidence and I'll delete my Twitter account now! You have 2 hours!. Ọmọ tó nà báyìí! @TheCakeChancery, àbí I dey enter your eyes 😋🤣
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Because you are a woman, everyone must believe your rape allegation if not they hate you? . For Christ sakes, barely a week ago a young man was falsely accused of rape after investigations turned out the girl was accused him wrongly.She confessed to it.
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The phones .The names they bear, something is wrong. Don't even say they have wealthy parents, the class background is screaming the opposite. We have a problem on our hands. Parents simply need to do better.
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Someone sat down and dashed you money worth 11 hours of your work and time. That you don't think a ‘thank you’ should suffice is absurd. The rationale behind this thought process is beyond me.
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Soon, we will have to start vetting the parents of whoever our kids chooses to be friends with. Cause You can’t be trying to raise a child in the way of the Lord only for the child to go and befriend someone whose parents tell him it is okay to wear skirts as a male teenager.
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I once said something and I will say it again. You don’t even need to agree with me on this but here it is. It will never make sense that people who aren’t married to each other go for therapy to fix a relationship that isn’t working when they can just walk away. You are.
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Homosexuals and mimicking heterosexual relationship dynamics 🤝.
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The day you people sit and realize that you can only marry one person at a time, all these things will not matter. Why do you need a lot of guys to ask you out when you can only be with one? .At the bottom of this is insecurity.
As a darkskin girly I noticed I don’t get approached as much compared to my lighter skinned friends. And ever since I’ve noticed, I haven’t been the same.
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The way Apostle Selman preaches makes you want to drown yourself in the word. Cause there's no way this depth and knowledge is ordinary. You literally want to scream Lord let me experience you fully lest I die!!.
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You are better off with an abortion than having a child with an irresponsible man.
Unpopular relationships opinions that would get you in this position?
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Lmao, you post traps often and yet do not expect pervs in your dm? .Some actions evoke some expected reactions. It's dishonest to feign ignorance of this reality.
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If I feel the need to check your phone as someone I'm with, I will. I will rather know where to channel my energy to than sit and live in the illusion that all is well. If what is in that phone will scatter the marriage by all means let it scatter.
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Men are the enablers of this nonsense. You tell a man you are yet to eat and next thing he’s offering to buy you lunch. A lot of times, this breeds entitlement. So she meets someone else who tells her to ‘try and eat’. She then feels that’s the wrong thing to say because she.
“Have you eaten?” .“Not yet” .“Oh okay, eat soon babe” . yoh hayi.
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Not cooking for your own father in the absence of your mum is a despicable act. I can understand your refusal to not cook for your brother but your father???? .This is not the teaching moment you think it is.
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In a relationship, there are moments you and your partner might not converse as much as you guys are used to. If you aren't careful, you might think they are entertaining other people, or your r/ship needs help. I'm here to tell you that it is a normal phase.
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I hate this thing you people do. It almost seems you people do not understand why life in itself is regarded as vanity upon vanity. What amount of money is enough money for self? .Are we talking about the same money that a bad deal can render you poor . Or the one that can.
Have more than enough money for yourself before having children.
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Bottom line is if you are a young girl striving to make ends meet, keep at it you will break even. All these goodies that you see, you will get them. A little patience and contentment goes a long way. My dad always says “ good things will never finish provided you are alive”.
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Dating without the intention to marry is a total waste of time.
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The way some of you assume that everyone will dump the person they love because of money is hilarious and disgusting. It's almost like most of you don't see yourselves as treasures worth keeping regardless of how much money has been offered to your partner.
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Lmaooo why exactly do you want to break kolanut as a woman? .What part of a man breaking kolanut is detrimental to your existence as a women? . Tomorrow you people will cry about the need to preserve our cultural inheritance.
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So apparently a lot of you don't work hence your parents being your major source of income. Considering the way you people talk about certain amounts and the ridiculous financial standards set, it finally makes sense.
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If you get to the point where you no longer feel shame, know that you've lost something at the core of your being.
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Tomorrow you will open your dusty mouth to talk about how children do not value the sacrifices of their fathers. The same father who chose a friend over his wife and child at birth. You people pull stunts like these and complain about narratives not favoring you😭😭😭😭. Crazy.
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Since I run a thrift store, I might as well drop a few tips. 1. Always buy first grade. Second grade isn't so bad either. If you go below these two grades na wash and die you don buy. 2. Go in the morning for quality stuff and variety. Go in the evening if you like awoof but.
Okrika 101:.
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Today all of you are good women that were fumbled😭😭😭. Carry your performative selves away from my TL😂😂😂.
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Present!!!
Dear Igbo babes, please bless us with JPEGs.
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If your man travels to come visit you and you can't fix him a basic meal, you lack decency and don’t deserve to be in a relationship.
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If a babe you talking to is feeling you, she will most likely hide the fact that other men are chasing her or she's going on dates with them. If she opens her mouth to tell you this, it is either; she's trying to manipulate you into applying more pressure or she's not into you.
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What exactly is wrong with sending your woman monthly allowance if it’s something you can afford? . I need to understand the school of thought behind calling men who do this ‘weaklings’?.
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For a woman, the best friendships you will ever make are quality female friendships. It remains the best support system you will ever have as a woman navigating through life.
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One day you people will realize that a lot of the long-lasting marriages you see are that way because someone in that marriage lost their voice, endured, ate trash, and gave up their freedom for that marriage to hold. Most often the women are the ones who give up everything just.
I have so many older ladies as friends. I’m talking women in their 60’s, 70’s and I kid you not, when they are talking about their marriages? Bruuuuuuh!!!!! You go wan chop stone.
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If you storm out of your man’s house at midnight, one would expect you had plans A-C. But no, you went home them no open gate, you now sent message that you were coming back🤣🤣. Zero pride, say na most embarrassing moment🌝.Goes to say that most of you are sauceless baddies.
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Happy Birthday, Ebelechukwu.Hitherto has the Lord helped me. Cheers to this new phase of life and all the beauty it brings🥰
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Work and make money for yourself as a woman. How much you earn isn't the problem, just get something doing that can feed and carter for you. A lot of times, the shege women see in relationships is because of their inability to provide for themselves.
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If your man comes to visit you from a long trip, it is common decency that you make him food especially if you know how to cook. If you have a chef, the chef can make the food too. Or you buy the food before he comes. Waiting fit him to come from a long trip and expecting him to.
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The Bible says wisdom is profitable to direct. If you lived a life such as this, what you should do is try to clean up your past digital footprints and not come on the internet to post a compilation of that life to show that you’ve repented. It makes no sense….
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“We listen, we don’t judge”. One week later. “This you?” . Lol they will judge you like madddd.
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1. A woman should never accept to be the provider of her home. She can assist or augment whatever the man brings but do not be the primary provider. That brunt falls on the man. 2. A man who is comfortable with his wife providing will ruin her. This class of men are often.
Marriage palava: I was successful, Now I am almost homeless. So sad 😭
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His laptop, his rules. I don't see the problem. If you own an iPhone 11, chances are you most likely will be able to get a laptop in the not-too-distant future. You will either save up or you will get gifted. So he decided to give it to someone who has a lower chance of ever.
Sadly, I wanted to give a laptop to someone but went to their page and found they owned an iPhone 11. It may seem petty but I believe you’re doing just fine and you’ll eventually figure things out for yourself.💛. Let it go to someone else who is in a more desperate position.
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Biology takes its course at some point. But then making it a gender issue gives it sensationalism.
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Watching the man you love eat the food you made for him is priceless. Makes the stress worth it.
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If you people understood the fickleness of attraction, a lot of you wouldn’t prioritize it when choosing a partner. To make it worse, a lot of you have missed out on good people because you felt you weren’t attracted to them. Herein lies the mistake a lot of you make. You.
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After everything they will come online to post about how God’s grace is on their business. Tension young ladies and the clueless young girl will be wondering why she can’t afford the things you afford yet she works hard.
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The aim of this thread is to tell you to your face that you are a rubs girl regardless of the front you use . Own up to it and stop making these young girls feel they are not doing enough. Dropping motivation quotes in the morning and sucking balls for money at night.
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The cons of cohabitation slaps harder on the woman than a man. Averagely most women will seriously date 3-4 people before finding the one. So you will keep cohabiting with them all?.The longer you cohabit, the higher your chances of getting pregnant and in turn abortion(s).
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On some days, it seems older women are out to mislead young girls.
@Wizarab10 this was @TiwaSavage few days back too 😂. They want what comes with the narrative but they hate the narrative
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@brownn_magic My tweet was specific enough. Women who let themselves go. With out being said, you should know that for every rule exceptions abound and my tweet in no way aims to be less empathetic towards them.
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Women hold their kitchens sacred. If she lets you in their, better get in there. Don’t blow your chances at family acceptance for something as inconsequential as a few minutes in the kitchen. It really isn’t deep and definitely not rude.
i think it’s actually rude for you to meet your partners mum for the first time and she expects you to help her in the kitchen 😭😭 like ma, im a guest?.
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It is your personal bias that makes you assume that women who hold views you don't endorse, do it for men. It often implies that the views you hold are because of how you perceive men. It is also a savior complex that will make you hope and pray that women who don't hold the.
my annoyance.with pick-me women.is that the men you support.WILL tear you apart.and it’s the women.you fought to be picked over.who will pick you up.and mend you piece by piece. fools.
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1. Do not let men into your house . The fewer the people who know where you live the better. 2. Never give people the impression that you live alone. 3. Always have a weapon of defense. I used to have a knife in close proximity. Always lock your doors.
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Teach your man how to love you. People love you based on their perception of what love is and directly affects how they express it. That man you are upset at for not gifting you stuff, have you ever told him that’s what you love or are you just assuming he should know?.
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@ijeoven You are wise enough to understand that exceptions exist and my tweet doesn’t invalidate those exceptions. My tweet is specifically for women who let themselves go in marriage. This should be commonsensical na.
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I remember someone once said that her boyfriend allows her to go on dates with other men provided she's just eating their money and nothing more. In my head, I was like do they need to tell you you are dating yourself before you know?.
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She will go on trips that her business can obviously not afford. And you you will be shouting God when because you don’t have sense. I know you are about to type some coke from rich families, resist that urge because those are not the people I’m talking about today.
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For those of you who catch feelings fast and start building castles in the air, this is for you.
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Or is it a case of your conscience judging you? If a person decides to preach purity let them be.
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If you enjoyed ‘ladies shall we’ you should not be crying over ‘when you started hating your girlfriend’.
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You don’t need money to have a healthy relationship.
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See, if you want to live a reckless and wayward life do it with your full chest. You don't need to lie to yourself and try to force it down people’s throats that you've seen good girls who suffered from being good.
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Ant wey dey cool- coolant .Ant wey dey celebrate - celebrant .Ant wey poor - peasant .Ant wey get belle- pregnant.Ant wey dem say dem dey use buy benz- pant.Ant wey go program - attendant.Ant wey dey illegal - militant.Ant wey get amebo - informant .Ant wey popular- rampant.
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@inahscript There are things you work on and there are things that you just run from. Someone who cuts ties with you as they wish and is dishonest is not someone you should be mending a relationship with.
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@ToyosiGodwin Stay around teenagers long enough and you realize everything isn't black and white. I can't say they are being dishonest sha. It is more of not looking at the bigger picture.
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There's a new generation of women rising who do not care about being married.
Singles prayer conference 2023.
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Let’s not forget the random, “ my friend is in town with some of his friends and he will like me to come with my friends, no worry they will treat us well”. Or the ones who travel interstate to go see random men off the internet that invited them Over.Then get paid when leaving.
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Happy Birthday, Ebelechukwu. May the mercies and blessings of God never depart from your life and Amen to all your silent prayers. Cheers to a new age of grace.
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Let’s not even delve into the corporate babes using their corporate va***** to climb the ladder and making every other hard working babe feel her effort is not enough.
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A Christian who doesn’t believe that juju exists might as well dump the Bible for atheism. It is a funny thing to accept that we wrestle not against flesh and blood and in the same light refuse to accept that principalities and powers exist.
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You do not need to cohabit to know a person fully.
What's a hill that you're willing to die on 1000% of the time?.
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The reason why a lot of you can not hold constructive discussions and arguments is because of your emotions and the bias you feel towards the topic being discussed. This is also the reason you are always projecting.
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Funny enough, we know some of una reach una papa house oooo .
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