the bi-cycle
many bi people have noticed that their attraction to men and women fluctuates. some days they may be more attracted to women. other days they may be more attracted to men. some days they may not have attraction to a certain gender at all.
@SE0ULGUK
even if it wasn’t his mom. so what??? also, the fact that they’re saying “girlfriend”. it could be a boyfriend? or partner? or even just a friend?? saesangs i swear.
you don’t have to be attracted to men and women equally
even if you only like the same gender 5% you are still bi! you’re not heterosexual. heterosexual people don’t like the same gender at all. you’re also valid no matter your attraction ratio.
you aren’t “bi when drunk”. you’re bi and repressed.
alcohol only lowers your inhibition. it doesn’t change your sexuality. if you catch yourself attracted to the same gender while drunk, chances are you’re actually attracted to them but just repressed.
it’s okay if you didn’t have attraction to the same gender all your life. you’re still bi.
i began to have attraction to women when i hit puberty. i had crushes on boys first and didn’t have attraction to women until i was 10-13. that’s okay!
we’re conditioned to be attracted to the opposite gender so it presenting itself or being noticed before your attraction to the same gender makes sense!
@fentygun
@KAINENATlON
There’s no reason to not say you’re a feminist. He refused to say he was a feminist and said “humanist”. He literally said he didn’t want to put one gender over the other, inferring he thinks feminism is putting women above men or giving them special treatment...
@fentygun
@KAINENATlON
nope. there’s literally no reason to not say you’re a feminist. like how are people not realizing he’s using all lives matter logic on this.
@SE0ULGUK
since some of y’all are (somehow?) misunderstanding my tweet: i already made a tweet/retweet on what i thought about the stalking. this was just another comment/viewpoint i made. some of y’all need to take a chill pill and lie down. clear your heads. maybe you’ll think better.
@arakkisuperstar
i always say one of the best self diagnosis tools is to get “peer reviewed” by someone professionally diagnosed. often times they know better about the disorder, mental illness, or neurotype themselves than an actual doctor.
@strangerpilott
@godlycia
Thank you. They criticize cis men for being having toxic masculinity but when a cis man shows dresses feminine they criticize that too? The hypocrisy really jumped out.
@seokluvr218
@gwangjubeat
i say don’t assume their sexuality but for both lgbt+ and straight sexualities. it’s disrespectful. someone’s sexuality is not anyone’s business but theirs, unless they choose to disclose it to us. even then there’s boundaries.
@SMDWMD
@anugov1
fr. like i just turned 22. 20-22 is not “grown” like they think it is. they think everyone 20+ is supposed to magically get mature and shit. it’s weird.
@SashaWHater2
lars treated her terribly both in friendship and their romantic relationship. he was emotionally and verbally abusive in my opinion. sure sadie trapped them on an island but she doesn’t deserve to be killed off. she had good intentions.
@ChrisDubbs_
@lauuuuurennnnnn
By speaking out about the things Chris Brown did, he’s also speaking in support of Rihanna (a black woman) and Frank Ocean (a black man). But keep grasping.
@JOONIIIIIIIIII
Even as an army, I can’t really disagree 100% with their decision. So many artists work hard as well and deserve to be seen and represented through their fans. Seeing a whole bunch of army bombs would honestly probably be a mood killer for other groups and could bring them down.
you realize why this happens right? it’s because bi women in relationships with men aren’t viewed as valid by the lgbtq+ community so they feel like they have to apologize for it and overcompensate. very weird that you (especially as a nonbisexual) are judging that in this way.
@vmkive
@jungkookiebbby
like how would you feel if someone started making fun of you for mispronouncing something in korean? i felt so proud of myself when someone told me my korean pronunciation was good. it’s that big of a deal.
@satinsseoul
are bts the MOST relevant korean artists? in my opinion, yes. are they the ONLY relevant korean artists? no. there’s so many artists and groups that have done great things for kpop.
@hannaweeny
i got bullied for my neurodivergency when i was in elementary school and when i went to the counselor and told her i was getting bullied she BROUGHT MY BULLIES IN THERE WITH ME and gaslit me telling me “i’ve known these girls a long time”. i want her to know the pain it caused.
the fact that bi women are always called “d*ck suckers” or get told to “go suck a d*ck” when we combat biphobia just shows how we’re always stereotyped as hypersexual, promiscuous individuals-by both cishets and homosexual people.
@ashley_alora
i get the sentiment but tweets like this cause people to stay in toxic friendships/relationships and ones where the other person doesn’t care about them. this type of thing is based on situation. and the rule applies to an extent. and that’s honestly a very short extent.
@ihrtacd
he also acted like he was barely into guys (i.e. the “i can accept being lowkey into guys” thing) when the book is constantly showing that he’s very very bisexual.
stays seem to think that cubs are ot9 meanwhile we’re happy woojin left because not only was he treated terribly by jype and stays, he also fits way better as a soloist.
@SyntheticNCTEEZ
@Ioveskoo
I’m so sorry. There’s a lot of armys that aren’t like this (I’m one of them). It’s really sad when my fellow armys have this sort of superiority complex. Like this kind of attitude is not the way to get other fandoms to join us. 💜
also online queer spaces are often times the only spaces young and marginalized queers can be in safely so for these spaces to now be a cesspool of incels spouting biphobia is really not okay.
@BiCapybara
notice how underneath op says “we don’t know if she’s actually bisexual nothing is confirmed!!”
i immediately said “there it is” out loud lol.
@bbymry
@purelydowoo
exactly. it hurts to see some of my fellow armys act this way when bts would condemn that straight away. they’re even friends with a lot of these groups that armys hate. it goes both ways though. i think every fandom needs to realize that this is not what their faves would want.
@taelixies
1) Puberty exists
2) He’s wearing makeup in the second pic
3) He’s purposefully looking cutesy with his cheeks out in the first, while his jaw is dropped in the second
4) If he got plastic surgery that’s none of our business
so proud to be irish. we do this because we know what it’s like. i feel like we’re the only western european ethnicity to understand the effects of colonialism. irish people will always side with you all ❤️.
@wohcuIt
i’ve had to distance myself from bts and i’ve associated them with negative feelings due to the extreme toxicity i’ve experienced from armys. it’s more of a trigger thing. i’m sure what you said applies to some people but for others, that’s not always the case.
@washedape
@stanwestside
@repstinita
@emptywalletsnh
oh wow you got me so good 😭 i’m a dumb kpop stan 😭 let me just go sit back in my corner and reflect with this amazing outdated meme you sent me that’s cropped so bad you can barely read the words.
i don’t even really identify as bisexual but the way you all treat bisexuals (specifically bi women) is very gross and you all always get away with it without fail.
@keyonstrggletwt
1/ i mean. i wasnt far right but i was a republican when i was a child. because i literally didn’t have the mental capacity to understand what politics were in elementary school-parts of middle school or to think for myself. my mom just told me “democrats are the bad guys”
“this character is clearly a lesbian based on how they love/interact with their love interest” is basically yalls argument whenever you’re arguing the sexuality of a sapphic and it needs to stop
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@lowkiri
@damienxpat
@ima90sbabyyy
just because trans people don’t agree, doesn’t mean they’re internally transphobic. maybe they just have a different perspective? or you know...opinion? i hate that the lgbt+ community’s first response to a different opinion is internalized -phobia.
@thefoggysystem
i made this mistake with bpd. although it did get me on a mood stabilizer. we think my 5 year old brother might be autistic. what would you say we do? he gets upset easily so that would be what he mainly needs help with but would a diagnosis do more harm than good?
bi women are CONSTANTLY looked down on in sapphic communities because of their attraction to men. we are talking about bi women in sapphic spaces when we say that.
@isthisbicuIture
or when they say a character is a lesbian and you ask them why and they start talking about how she loves women or is crazy about women. if it’s a couple they’re like “look at how they love each other”. just say you don’t think bi people actually like the same gender and go.