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hot take but bathrooms should never be segregated by gender. if safety is *really* the main concern, then all bathrooms need to be redesigned into non-gendered single stalls inaccessible to anyone from the outside
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neopronouns and xenogenders genuinely embarrass the lgbt community and leave us looking like fools to everyone
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white people benefit from white privilege. hope this helps!
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spanking or threatening to hit your kids is still traumatizing and abusive.
Whatβs your unpopular opinion about PARENTING that will have you like this.
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there's still time for older trans folks btw
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twitter is such a braindead app omg
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4trans mfs are so weird wtf does this mean π
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hot take lgbt hate isnt caused by an irrelevant 17 year old autistic nonbinary twitter user that identifies as lacegender. they'd still hate us either way, and conforming to their bigotry is extremely antithetical to queer liberation
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why is queerphobia so normalized when its towards polyamorous people?.
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come on like?? people can sneak under these stall doors and peer above them, how is this a safe design for bathrooms?
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why did i get blocked for saying this π
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"gender is a social construct" until its an autistic person who perceives their gender differently than you.
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i dont care how anybody identifies as long as its not harming anybody.
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what the actual fuck is this take π
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"polyamory isnt queer" yet this is how polyam people are treated because they don't correspond with society's norms about how you're supposed to be attracted to people.
i just heard the phrase βmy wifeβs partnerβ in public and almost started laughing.
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i'm tired of nonbinary being seen as a vibe when its a trans umbrella term for genders that arent exclusively male or female.
Non-binary is a vibe. Trans is a lived experience. How about dat??.
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as a rape victim we should be able to display these peoples heads for decoration.
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did she just forget the T represents trans people im so confused
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amabs are not inheritely dangerous, predatory, or unsafe people .afabs are not inheritely incapable of harm, innocent, or safe people. amab/afab is stolen intersex terminology, and bioessentialism is gonna kill us if you mfs keep participating in it.
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how it feels being the one guy who started the xenogender discourse on twitter
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y'all infantalize tboys too much.
love tboys but i NEED yall to learn how to flirt in a way that is way less steven universe and way more gay guy.
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@KCDash4400cw this reminds me of when my dad said he was accused of being racist for hating this black guy, and then said he doesnt gaf about race and hates everyone equally regardless of identity.
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@KnownHeretic not being out as trans before having sex isnt "lying" or "sex by deception" or "rape". SHE is not a perpetrator. she is a 15 year old victim who performed consensual sexual actions with a boy, and then was brutally beaten and stabbed for not being out as trans.
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"why are bi people so weird" and its just someone posting about a canonically bi couple
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i wanna emphasize this includes accessible bathrooms for disabled people btw.
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@eliooenver no its not. exorsexism is harmful to the lgbtq community, and youre actively engaging in it by discriminating against my nonbinary gender.
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being transmasc is tiring. all i get to hear is how im such a privileged dangerous predator who benefits from misogyny, while also being a confused mentally ill t-poisoned woman who needs correcting.
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what an absolutely heinous thing to post a famous actor coming out as transmasc, just to only share their deadname.
βOppenheimerβ star Emma Dumont comes out as trans masculine non-binary, changes name
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i actually have no words β οΈ
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@EsBigred only on twitter could you be called a pervert for being a 17 year old expressing discomfort with gendered bathrooms.
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is this not ironic to tell a nonbinary person.
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peak "clinging onto being afab" is when you girlmode out of fear due to extensive transphobia youve faced
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@bdrummondx ciis men still go into womens restrooms and prey on women all the time. if you really care about womens safety, you'd advocate for non-gendered single stall bathrooms that arent accessible to men outside.
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@BreadSwedish yeah thats really fucking weird idk which mf designed that plushgender flag, ive only seen the one in the top right corner.
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if i put "amabs dni" in bio and excused it by saying i was a trans man setting boundaries, i'd get absolutely flamed for doing that (reasonably so).
i see no issue with this.god forbid trans women set boundaries.
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@LawMacaw parents can go into single stall bathrooms with their child if they feel they need to. i see moms go in womens restrooms with their sons all the time, and ive also seen the reverse (just not as much).
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really disliking the rise of transphobic transmedicalists who are favoring the term transsexual over transgender to differentiate from those "cissexual theyfabs who wanna invade our community".
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your ass is NOT getting picked by them
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being on twt is insane because how do queer "allies" turn into nazis seeing some random autistic minor say theyre :3gender and autigender. do mfs even have any real problems to care about anymore because this is the most first world discourse ever.
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@StarSuitStudio the joke is that often the queer community doesnt accept newer things they dont understand, because its supposedly making them look bad, when in reality homophobes hate all of us.
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being nonbinary sucks tf do you mean my gender can start mass discourse all because ciis and binary mfs dont understand me.
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600+ likes within less than 10 hours Please Blow This Shit Up??! as a nonbinary transsexual, gendered bathrooms are extremely distressing for me and my safety has been threatened in Both Mens And Womens Bathrooms. everyone deserves access to a bathroom π©΅.
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y'all are gonna hate it when you find out the two nonbinary flag colors represent people who are multiple genders, and people who are a mix of male and female
@lesboytism >lesbian.>nonbinary man.ok buddy.
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pick me gays when they realize being in the queer community means they share a community with xenogenders.
I am not queer. I am not queer. I am not queer. I am not queer. I am not queer. I am not queer.I am not queer. I am not queer. I am not queer. I am not queer. I am not queer. I am not queer. I am not queer.I am not queer. I. Am. Not. Queer. I AM NOT QUEER.
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you want to cancel netflix because they donated 7 million to kamala harris.i wanna cancel netflix because theyre a shitass large greedy cooperation that canceled the best shows ever. we are NOT the same #CancelNetflix
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y'all are gonna hate when i say the two different therapists ive had before didnt even care and supported me id'ing with xenogenders
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the sad reality of being nonbinary is the fact that our support is based on how easy it is for binary people to understand our gender. if you actually express you have a complicated gender that doesnt appeal to the gender binary, youre too queer and mockery to "normal" lgbt mfs.
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thought about the 'transmascs dont go through misogyny' crowd as i read this
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"transmascs dont go through misogyny"
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so did we finally figure out autigender and adhdgender just mean those conditions affect/influence your gender, or do y'all still think its literally saying your gender is audhd.
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how its feeling to be on this app recently
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i LOVE terms like birthing parent!! i LOVE terms like uterus haver!! i LOVE term like menstrautor!! i LOVE differentiating myself from CIIS women who refuse to acknoledge my transness!!.
Hey @nytimes. Donβt call us βnon-transgender women.β. Just stop it. Stop all the offensive terms for us. βbirthing parent.βuterus haver.βmenstruator .βvaginal presenting (from the Olympus spa hearing). We are WOMEN!
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as another lesbian i feel like its true men arent typically seen as "nothing more than her husband" but its also horribly ignorant to say men cant struggle with compulsive heterosexuality.
comphet isn't real for men, it's a misogyny thing. a woman can be "nothing more than his wife" but a man will never be "nothing more than her husband" it's just not possible in the world we live in where men are the dominant group in the hierarchy.
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is this not kind of ironic and ableist
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@KINGTHEMAIN im actually going insane at how the white queer community treats black queers, people like this cannot srsly exist irl.
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@themortalstate i actually love being a gender freak and not being forced into binary womanhoid.
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nonbinaries can be men.nonbinaries can be women.nonbinaries can be neutral.nonbinaries can be androgynous.nonbinaries can be genderless.nonbinaries can be xenine.nonbinaries can be a mix of stuf/fluid/flux.nonbinaries can be whatever as long as we're not exclusively men or women!.
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how transmisogynists look in replies
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genq why do (some) trans people think its okay to undermine the oppression of trans men? genuinely how are we hysterical little girls, yet also privileged male predators that benefit from misogyny?.
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tw sh // twt is so funny because while thousands of people are saying im a "mockery" to "actual" trans people, im sitting in urgent care with a large open wound all because of severe gender dyshoria. y'all need to care abt real problems and to support your trans siblings more.
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leftist/queer spaces tend to be much harder on trans men than ciis men because they view transmasculinity as some ultimate misogynistic betrayal against women, and wish we were ciis.
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transmisogyny under this post is actually fucking rampant so i just wanna say you arent advocating for womens safety if that doesnt includes trans women. ciis men have gone into womens restrooms and preyed on women before, why not advocate for bathrooms where they cant do that?.
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my mom called me a trans woman because she said i'm transgender and a woman. i came out as a nonbinary transmasc four and a half fucking years ago ππ.
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@yule_2024 the transmisogyny you go through doesn't cancel out the privilege you receive from being white. you still very easily can weaponize your whiteness against people of color, and recieve more privilege than a black trans girl ever would.
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why is my pronouns cc on the fucking battle for dream island fandom wiki π
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@somethingmoder how can you simultaneously think trans women should be able to transition and be supported, while thinking trans men are transphobic mutilated women??
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it/its were used on trans people to dehumanize us, and now some trans people happily choose to use and reclaim them. reclaiming queer identities from bigots is fucking awesome and i love being my authentic self.
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"but rape is horrible-" yes and as a victim myself you're correct. you're just missing the point that while white ciis men often get away with this shit, innocent people in marginalized communities are still accused of being sexual predators for just existing.
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@worstamericngrl the point of being non-binary is to escape the limitations of a strict gender binary, not create a gender trinary.
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ive explained to about 20 people, including staff members what xenos were. they thought it was interesting and cool even if they didnt fully understand.i think you guys have just never met an autistic trans/nonbinary person irl before
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κ° what are xenogenders? a thread sparked by my pronouns cc blowing up. #TransRightsAreHumanRights #nonbinary
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@somethingmoder how can you simultaneously think trans women should be able to transition and be supported, while thinking trans men are transphobic mutilated women??
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@mattxiv omg thank you so much.people keep obsessing over whether my gender is "valid" or harmful or not, but its so extremely harmful to police random niche queer identities that dont even harm anybody. thank you so much for posting this it really means a lot π©΅.
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the reality is that Actual Men have gone into womens restrooms and gotten away with the same shit y'all fear trans women do, which they don't. if you actually want safer bathroom conditions for women, you would also be advocating for non-gendered single stall bathrooms.
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y'all are honestly just ableist transphobes that are too scared to admit it.
@lesboytism β:3β Is NOT a gender and takes away attention from REAL queer topics. Iβm so sorry you are so slow that you donβt realize that.
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@cloverlovania dude this is awesome actually could i repost this?? i could credit you too if you want this is a really good representation of what xeno discourse is like.
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lesboy discourse is honestly just reformatted xenogender discourse where mfs agree gender is a social construct, until a nonbinary person expresses they're actually Not Binary.
if you still use the term lesboy to refer to masc lesbians im going to assume that you want to be yelled at, the term has been seen as harmful on social media for years now and you people continue to use it ππ.
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"i support nonbinary people" until you call a nonbinary lesbian who has a complex masc and fem gender a straight man for liking the term lesboy.
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mad cuz he mogged your ass without even having top surgery.
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btw real feminists fight for all women and people affected by misogyny. trans women are especially affected by misogyny due to being women that dont fit in society's standards.trans people with uteruses are still impacted by abortion rights + experience misogyny through cissexism.
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womens clothing sizes are actually extremely evil and misogynistic and we should honestly just ungender clothes as a total.
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desisters are not detransitioners btw.if you thought you were trans, never medically transitioned and realized you're ciis, you're a desister. not detransitioner.
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this xenogender discourse in my replies makes me feel like im in 2021 again.
the irony of being nonbinary is that people say they support you until realizing you're a gender freak and not simply just a third gender or ciis
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you guys really need to unpack your transphobia towards nonbinaries. victim blaming nonbinaries for transphobia because they have "weird confusing identities" is exorsexism
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fyi xenogenders are extremely nonbinary and genderqueer. how does "i'm a boy in a femininely genderless, genderfluid, neurodivergent, futch lesbian, creepycute, frilled, lacey, nature-filled way" not sound like the queerest and most confusing nonbinary trans shit ever?.
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coming out to my very large mexican catholic family about my preffered name and that im a nonbinary transmasc Wish Me Luck!!!.
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