@amyisquitebusy
@clhubes
So much of having relationships with other people involves acknowledging that what may be trivial to you is important to the other person, without judgment.
@DavidDTSS
He’s like the one person who when people found out he had a white wife it was like “yeah, that makes sense” and then went back to arguing about splitting bills or some shit
@_JESSrelax
CHILDREN, who are legally prohibited from having jobs, should not be required to pay money for food in a place where they are mandated BY LAW to be for 8 hours a day. Especially when that place forbids them from leaving the premises to find their own lunch.
@comfort_nchaos
He was literally in that threesome for two eps straight… Sun is rising and setting, plotlines are moving along & ole boy still in bed kissing the same two people 🤦🏽♀️
@MoreAndAgain
Also! “I want cheese, eggs, yogurt” when you can find all of those at almost any bodega. Some will have fresh vegetables and bread and meat as well. So like…
@868nathan
Fun fact: your amygdala (part of the brain that processes fear) can actually register a dangerous signal before your visual cortex even realizes you’re looking at something dangerous. Both of these systems work faster than the process of conscious thought.
@iamlexstylz
Y’all really think you’re being revolutionary by excluding certain people from blackness, whole time your rhetoric mirrors the same principles used to uphold and justify white supremacy…
@ineedja_kadeeja
Honestly I’d go so far as to say it’s never worth it. Opportunities can be once in a lifetime, whereas boys almost always come back around.
@Waynebangg
@aeziroth93
@softbabyyoda
@FinesseEness
I see what you’re saying, but as a young girl it’s never a good idea to play chicken with a man. That’s a quick way to end up dead or assaulted. If you’re dead you lose, if you’re assaulted you still lose because the judge will say “well why didn’t you leave”
@Dreadful4Tymes
This is crazy to me, because I feel like if you have made it the norm in your marriage that it’s OK to go out and fuck other people how do you manage to feel upset that your partner abided by the rules that YOU set
@raptalksk
Her admitting it out loud is so funny to me bc I remember the first time I thought Jaden was cute, googled him and he was 17 (at the time I was 18) and I never mentioned it to anyone until now because I was so ashamed 😂
@BittieBoss
He calls an Uber, next thing I know we’re in the tunnel and the “karaoke place” is some random little spot in NEWARK across the street from his house. He then basically prevented me from leaving until like 4 AM because I wouldn’t have sex with him.
@spicebae_
Something that’s really been on my mind lately is, if men don’t like crazy women, why do they do everything in their power to make their women crazy?
@9BillionTigers
I feel like I spent close to a year trying to decide if bi or pan was more true to how I felt just to ultimately be like “who gives a shit”
@BittieBoss
Now that we’re talking about this exact scenario, a few years ago when I was much sillier, I met a man in lower Manhattan at a bar I’d never been to, which wound up closing at like 11. The place closes, he suggest karaoke, I’m like cool.
@ladywhotravels_
@TrulyTafakari
Yep, that purpose they want you to find is “always putting yourself last” and “running yourself ragged so you don’t have time to consider your own feelings”
@TheJessieWoo
I wonder if it has anything to do with popular media constantly casting 20 somethings to play high schoolers, giving them a misguided idea of what they’re supposed to look like at that stage of development.
@ALittleMorgs
@Puff_Iya
Seriously, not him utterly disregarding her feelings and saying they don’t matter when she’s trying to communicate calmly, then taking a potshot after her frustration bubbles to the surface because she’s, you know, A CHILD
@Mau1019
@RoxyTall
So what you’re saying is a) I’ve never used instacart before but also b) I’m too lazy to get my own groceries
You don’t get to collect money for a service and just decide to do a bad job because you think it’s superfluous. Do a different job then…
@Felonious_munk
Ironically enough, these dudes seem to think they can spend years openly bashing women and being overall unpleasant and then magically find a hot 22 year old virgin when they’re ready to settle down
@BrianMcLight
Plus she got sober and actually changed her life up. The rest of them just kept doing to same nonsense but managed to stumble their way into different outcomes.
@Felonious_munk
Oh so thiiiiis is why they’re so obsessed with “homie hopping.” Because they only date girls their “friends” might want to steal? I’m tired
@OchoBuckets
Turkey is lean, yes, but she also overcooked the patty and all the juices ran out. The pan wasn’t hot enough when the patties went down, so she had to leave them on longer to get some color. Using a cold pan is better for filming, but with burgers you want that bih smoking.
@skreynolds3
@bfscratch26
@suburbantwink
If the problem is people not having money to buy their insulin, how is donating to a large charity more effective than just giving that person the money? Don’t be obtuse
@jasebyjason
I love Samantha, she is my favorite of the 4. But she completely ignored Miranda after she had her baby and often delighted in making people (especially Charlotte, but also Carrie’s bfs) uncomfortable with open vulgarity at the dinner table
@Denzeldiesel
@SWEETENERMANl
No… no. You can be on someone’s “team” and “want to see them win” without there having to be a direct competitor. It’s called being supportive.
@nattykasambala
Once texted a dude I was on the way, just for him to call me between train stops panicking because “my messages were going green and I thought you blocked me” … I soon found out why he was so prone to being blocked
@thecindynoir
Seems to me like it’s yet another consequence of anger being the only “manly” way to process negative emotions. A 2 y/o gets embarrassed and cries, he’s told to toughen up. A 2 y/o gets embarrassed and hits his sister, his sister gets a lecture on why not to mess with boys.
@umberghauri
100% — I moved neighborhoods at ~21 and I thought that was why. Went back to my old neighborhood and the old men don’t bother me anymore. Guys of all ages suddenly take no for an answer.
@Vokk_
@RobertSecundus
@MeganBitchell
@JonnyIROC
Someone went outside the proper channels to obtain her personal information. How would you like it if the next time you ordered a pizza the delivery man DM’d you on here like “yo bro I’m outside”
@lolennui
I honestly think this is like one of those things where a person with Alzheimer’s or dementia suddenly becomes lucid for a brief period of time
@SkinnyLegend21z
@iamlexstylz
Calling Zendaya black has got jack shit to do with the one drop rule.
Saying biracial people can’t be black because they’re “mixed” is blood purity obsessed nonsense. Race is phenotypical, we don’t all “look” black depending who you ask, but NOBODY is confusing her for white.
@thegentledyke
Now at my ripe old (not really) age of 25, I feel like it’s super weird that prom pics go viral every year… why are grown folks having whole discourses about kids playing dress up
@MishhOn
@Nerdspringbreak
Seriously, I feel so bad for them. All they get is their phones, which have GPS so they HAVE to be in the house always. And we wonder why moral extremism is at such a high point, even though (on here) all roads kinda lead to Rome
@2003_cinci
@jondo88
Yeah and that they’re not out of shape because they’re lazy, but because they’re so overworked they don’t have time to prioritize exercise and nutrition
@missmayn
As someone who works with the public, I think we vastly underestimate how many people’s sense of joy and luxury is tied directly to whether they can be the force behind another human’s discomfort/misery