@ThatEricAlper
Ubiquitous pay phones. Music on MTV and VH-1. Having to go to the library to do any kind of research. Typing out homework assignments on a typewriter.
@anoticingsenpa1
1/
Spot on! To this I would add:
You punished your child for being human and having normal human needs.
You expected your child to be happy and energetic 24/7 even as they had to listen to you bitch about everything under the sun.
@anoticingsenpa1
2/
You expected your child to quickly "get over" all trauma, disappointment, etc., when you've never gotten over any disappointment.
You found fault with many, most, or all of your child's goals and special interests -- then gave your child grief for not opening up to you more.
@Barbara_K
@CultExpert
You're right. The Guyanese coroner reported that a staggering 80-90% of the victims were murdered by forced lethal injection, and many of the others were shot dead for refusing to drink the poison. May they all R.I.P.
@davidhogg111
Nothing says you can't still wear a mask in public after the pandemic's over. Lots of us are planning to keep our reusable masks for future cold and flu seasons.
@anoticingsenpa1
3/
You constantly ranted and raved about how much you hated visiting your doctor, dentist, relatives, etc. -- then made your child out to be cruel or overdramatic for not wanting to visit them.
@DaxGigandet
You're far stronger than you realize. Relapses are a normal part of addiction recovery. Stay gentle with yourself. Be proud of all your days of sobriety. Then shoot for another day of sobriety...and another...and another. You've got this.
@AutisticallyAK
In the same vein, dear NT's, you do NOT need to beat around the bush for half an hour to ask for a simple favor from us. JUST TELL US WHAT YOU NEED OR WANT. Rant over.
@pdazzleliscious
As cynical as it may sound,
#QuarantineLife
IS more or less my normal routine. I have been working from home full-time for years; am single and childless; and don't have a busy social calendar (to say the least). So my lifestyle hasn't changed much within the last month.
If you are healthy, financially stable, and in a safe home, PLEASE STOP WHINING ABOUT HAVING TO SPEND 2 MONTHS IN QUARANTINE! Our own bodies have been forcing us to live that way for years and will continue to do so long after the pandemic's over!
#AdviceForTheAbleds
@anoticingsenpa1
4/
Your child confided in you that they were mistreated by someone who was old and sane enough to be held accountable for their actions. You denied or minimized the abuse or blamed it on someone/something other than the abuser.
Kids remember stuff like that For. Ever.
@BridgetSterli19
Stuff like that pisses me off to no end! It's one thing if you have to go out in public to work, seek medical attention, go to the post office, or buy necessities. Nobody needs to be having huge parties right now. Please stay safe, Bridget!
@KaylaChowShow
There used to be music on MTV and VH-1. I used to have to go to the library any time I wanted to do extensive research on anything. When I was in elementary school, I had to study cursive and type up vocabulary assignments on a typewriter.
@LeonaLioness6
I just reported Anon Hat Trick for death threats. If you ever hear from the other asshat who threatened you, please let us know. There's no excuse for that kind of behavior.
@lovewins11011
💯Some abusers are traumatized; others are not. Past trauma is no excuse for deliberately harming innocent people. All the innocent abuse survivors I know-including PTSD and C-PTSD patients- are always trying to help and comfort others and would rather die than hurt the innocent.
@Ryan_Daigler
Abusers will say things like, "Just move on," "Get over it," and, "Let it go" -- even though they've never gotten over, let go of, or moved on from any disappointment they've ever experienced.
@davidmweissman
In my neighborhood, the explosions have been nonstop both tonight and last night. With all due respect to the Founding Fathers, I can't wait for the 4th of July festivities to be over.
@dontlickchalk
1/2 Yes, you do! This Aspie wishes you all the best. Just stay extra-patient with yourself and your daughter. Stay away from ABA "therapy" (read: legalized abuse) at all costs. Try to get as much guidance as possible from counselors, scholars, advocates, etc., who are autistic.
@DubleJC
Prezackly! When the first wave of COVID lockdowns started in the U.S., I saw a FB post urging people to spare a thought for kids and adults trapped in abusive homes who couldn't escape to the only safe haven they had -- school or work.
@mhdksafa
I'm far from being the first person to say this, but I find it so interesting that the people who voted for Trump because "he says what he means" have been saying "he didn't mean what he said" and "what he said got taken out of context" ever since Trump was sworn into office.
@dontlickchalk
2/2 Make sure your daughter knows that you love her and are proud of her and that she was made special -- not "broken" or "diseased." Let her be herself within reason. You're probably going to be amazed at how smart, talented, kindhearted, brave, and caring she turns out to be.
@DrDoyleSays
Many of us on the spectrum also have trouble talking on the phone. It's quite common for autistic people to have auditory processing disorder and/or extreme sensitivity to sound. Heaven help you if you're autistic AND a complex trauma survivor.
@Bill_Maxwell_
@TheMicheleWojo
You beat me to it! That book, any other book by Chump or one of his minions, or Mein Kampf would be a dealbreaker for me!
@poorpuppy
@BridgetSterli19
If it only affected the
#COVIDIOTS
, I wouldn't be too sad about it, I'm sorry to say. But what if they got the virus and passed it on to unsuspecting people who weren't at the parties (e.g. their friends, relatives, or coworkers or people who work at the stores where they shop)?
@ForEvermore1982
@ThatEricAlper
Contrary to popular belief, "Paint It, Black" is not about the Vietnam War. It's about a man mourning his lover's sudden death. However, a lot of Vietnam vets strongly relate to the grief, depression, despair, and loss of innocence expressed in the song.
@ShannonDingle
My heart breaks for you and your children. I'm so, so sorry for what you all have been through. I wish more people understood how traumatic birthdays and holidays are for many people!
@ubnsrvd
Welcome back, comrade. It's great to hear from you again. So thankful you survived! As utterly hypocritical as this is coming from me, please take all the time you need to rest and recuperate and try not to push yourself too hard!
@Alison05233724
"Popcorn is prepared in the same pot, in the same heat, and in the same oil, yet the kernels do not all pop at the same time. Do not compare yourself to others. Your turn to pop is coming." (Unknown) So often, the "late poppers" are the ones who change the world for the better.
@Theholisticpsyc
I hate corny cliches, but for me, the darkest hour does always seem to be just before dawn. When I go through a "dark night of the soul," part of me feels depressed, and part of me whispers, "Hold on -- a great change is about to take place in your life." And it always does.
@gunsnrosesgirl3
My exalted ex-therapist:
*Repeatedly breaking confidentiality just for fun.
*Ghosting me for days, weeks, or months on end whenever I asked her a question she didn't want to answer.
*Throwing an hourlong temper tantrum in her office when I demanded professionalism from her.
@Stanford
@StanfordMed
Please drop Simon-Baron Cohen from your neurodiversity summit. He is not an autistic advocate. He is a misogynistic eugenicist using outdated, debunked "research" to try to justify eradicating autistic people who aren't geniuses at things like math.
@AmberlynWhite
Thank you so much for tweeting this. It drives me BONKERS when allistic people (particularly those who know how hectic my schedule is) think they have to beat around the bush to half an hour to ask me for a simple favor or relay a simple bit of information.
@davidmweissman
You DO deserve her, David. Make sure she knows just how much she means to you, if you haven't done so already. She and you are lucky to have each other. Your kids are lucky to have you both in their lives as well.
@judgerc
Happy faces? Does that mean that they are being released from your prison and no longer have to worry about being electrocuted, starved, restrained, or otherwise tortured just for being themselves? On second thought, those smiles look fake to me.
#StoptheShock
#ShutDownTheJRC
@ThatEricAlper
Charlie Watts had been married to the same woman for some 57 years by the time he died.
Tom Jones had been married to the same woman for some 59 years by the time she died.
@adamfare1996
If you won't accept a non-gifted child...
If you won't accept a child who pursues a career or hobbies different from what you had in mind...
If you won't accept a child who converts to a different religion or marries someone of a different religion or race...
See above.
@mhdksafa
I recently saw a Facebook meme that referenced this very issue. Its conclusion was, "The difference? Coronavirus affects the rich; starvation doesn't."
@mysticcshadow
If you need a break from Twitter, by all means take it, but please don't leave us for good. We need people like you more than ever now. We love you and are here for you when you need us.
@rak_strong
My family and I like to tour old cemeteries. Over the years, we've seen some truly hilarious names on headstones, including Newton F. Pickle, Fountain Moody, and Rhoda Stout Builta.
@ColoradoMom19
@ThatEricAlper
You and your family have my deepest sympathy. I'm so sorry for your loss. The singer's name was Israel "IZ" Kamakawiwoʻole. He himself was gone too soon.
@WhereTrueLoveIs
If you won't accept a spoonie or non-gifted child...
If you won't accept a child who pursues hobbies or a career different from what you had in mind...
If you won't accept a child who converts to a new religion or marries someone of a different religion or race...
See above.
@AutSciPerson
How does exhausting other people and attempting to control their every movement, facial expression, communication effort, etc., give them independence? How can anyone gain independence from being taught to blindly obey others' commands- even if it means submitting to abuse?
@BecauseIMatter
Being asked to speak clearly when I'm having a major autistic meltdown and can't.
Being shut down and told that my ex-therapist's years of psychological abuse don't matter in light of what she did to help me 25+ years ago as part of her job description that she was hired to do.
@brycetache
I unfriended him months ago after I got fed up with his obnoxious anti-Biden rants. Today, I blocked and reported him. It takes a special kind of stupid to think Biden's no better than the guy who's trying to turn the U.S. into a police state even as we speak.
@KayeSteinsapir
She'll always be by your side, Kaye. You might not see or hear her, but she's there. Stay gentle with yourself. Cry when you must; scream when you must; but do not give up.
@duty2warn
@MamaChryl
Only 3 days ago, a few other Twitter users and I were arguing that narcissistic abuse awareness classes should be compulsory. My high school and college Psychology courses barely touched on narcissism. I never heard of gaslighting until years after I graduated from college.