will crack and spell out the pattern,
in as many languages as she knows,
spoken or performed,
so that we can quit bumping heads onto the same wall over and over,
and escape this maze altogether.
This, she swears.
@clara_ng
@RistyRianda
Sekiranya ada waktu dan tenaga sila dibaca, Mbak 🙏 Bukan apa-apa, jadi keinget pesan narsum yg turun jibaku di development: mau bikin perubahan struktural, pertama-tama ya harus pegang data.
Ga pernah sekesal itu dng topik di Twitter. Aku tinggalin berjam-jam buka Twitter. Tapi masih kesal huhu. Perlukah cerita kenyataan di lapangan bagaimana kami yang sehari-harinya mengolah limbah fashion? Bukan tentang salah dan benar tapi baiknya urgensi ini diperbincangkan.
Circle yg problematik but privileged. (atau problematik karena priveleged?)
Privileged enough to preach activism but act dirty in the shadow. For years.
@huftbosan
@_haye_
Emang ngeri bacanya kalau doi lagi tantrum. Tapi bingungnya, temen-temennya kan banyak yang menyuarakan pelecehan seksual, tapi kok doi begitu ye. Coba dimulai dari mas
@anggasasongko
deh, komentarnya?
@Rude_Astrology
I wonder, does this Aries season have something to do with electric utilities breaking down at the same time? My fridge, motorcycle, laptop, and just now charger-- It's not even mercury retrograde, I'm confused.
@s0u1ed0ut
@jupemava
cause cancers are just too impactful, either evolved or non evolved 😭 also, cancer energy are so undercurrent & psychic. People don't see it coming and couldn't prevent it. Couldn't make sense (intellectualize) it either, and thus the hate.
@arman_dhani
Lah 😂 orang dia awalnya akun lucu2an + curhat. Mau serius bikin riset perbandingan gaji aja udah faedah bgt. Ga semua orang kudu KIRIKIRISENJA keles.
The stages of A Cancer trying to get you to love them:
1) The empathizing phase: “ah poor baby tell me your trauma”
2) the “you probably hate me” phase
3) the “let me act like I hate you to get your attention” phase
4) the “ after all I did for you” phase
5) the “I hate you too”
Pengen muntah tiap nemu istilah 'Global South'. Macam arogansi yg sirkuler aja.
Kyk, "Kita pernah eksploit lo di masa lalu, and wE dEepLy ReGreT tHat--jd mari pake istilah yg netral dan gak merendahkan untuk... kembali ngomongin seberapa wilayah lo penuh ketertinggalan."
Ha???
@br___ian
limerence, from what I understand, is not grounded in direct experience with the other person. It's developing feelings for our imagined version of that person, or their cherry-picked personality for our comfort.
Used to dread small talks. Came to love it and practice it cause one day it just "clicked" in me how we humans, too, are primal. Cats need to be familiar with other cats' smell and sound, eating together, before they can get along in one room. That's us humans, too.
I want to hear stories of people going from shy, cold, introverted, disconnected, to warm, social, curious, open, playful, connection-oriented
If this happened to you plz tell me about it
Friends truly are a blessing, and yes everyone should have one. But trying to befriend someone out of sense of entitlement, such as "I insist that we're friends cause I'm lonely"--Isn't that just another incel-like mindset in the form of friendship?
@millymichelle
What if the cancer person themselves exhibiting traits of internalized misogyny?
I've once been called "not feminine enough" by a female cancer deeming me "too bold". I've also met a male cancer seemingly invested in feminism, but it's just became his vocab to objectify further.
"Romance" of resistance:
- seeing pastoral nomads as 'proud and free'
In reality, the resistance found in Bedouin community was specific in response to authoritative/disciplinarian measures from Egyptian state, which was looking to "integrate" the Bedouins.
Ini kan masuk Saturn retrograde ya untuk 5 bulan ke depan, kata gw kurang2in dah banyak ngomong, pokoknya diem aja dulu buat 5 bulan kedepan.
Hindari aja pokoknya 😁
Kita juga menolak penggunaan terminologi deforestasi yang tidak sesuai dengan kondisi yang ada di Indonesia. Karena di Eropa contohnya, sebatang pohon ditebang di belakang rumah, itu mungkin masuk dalam kategori dan dinilai sebagai deforestasi. Ini tentu beda dengan Indonesia.
Kurang 'dry'. Kurang biarin penonton mikir sendiri. Built-upnya udah komidi, tapi temponya kayak drama. Alhasil ada dramatic pause buat bagian2 yg diarahkan jadi punchline.
#WeWantEstes
, or else you'll pay the price of not respecting the community. Maybe you do need a reminder on how potent the power of people your empire was built upon.
@MobileLegendsOL
3) "Sexually irreverent discourse"
- women make fun of men and manhood
- seemingly glad when men fail to live up to ideals autonomy/manhood - esp if failing bcs of sexual desire
- 'making fun' of baby boy, seeing possession of pissers as 'lack of womb'.
The backdrop:
- 1960s and 70s saw rises of resistance studies, mostly due to insurgence of peasant studies
- overlooking its relation to power
- a tendency to romanticize resistance
The proposition:
- use resistance as a diagnostic of power
Beyond the enlightenment you gave on structural oppression, really, what do you have for the existential despair that comes after? What say you, unforeseen to you I imagine, about the victim mentality that follows?
Dear, Feminism. Dear, Marxism.
Bisa gak kelarin ribut2 "astRoLohI gAK SaIntiFik,,!"nya dan fast forward ke bagian para psikoterapis pake birthchart sebagai pegangan unpacking trauma?
Iya, gak harus either/or a.k.a. milih.
Save hours of therapy 👌
Obsession is not love.
It's a form of self-sustaining, ego-driven, emotionally-charged act in which you fantasize that another being, whose mental image is distorted in your head, has the capacity to fill your emotional hole.
Let's draw the line there.
@gnolbo
Bakmi Alok @ Hasyim Asari, Jakpus. Di basement sekolahan. Pas jaman ngantor suka berbondong2 ke sana, ngejar jam 11. Karena kalau lewat jam 12 mesti udah ludes 🙏😭 Sembari nyeruput sembari ngayal betapa enak punya usaha yg bikin kerja rodi setengah hari, sisanya bebas blass~
Somehow I landed on a girl's page talking about how
#Selingkuh
(a.k.a. adultery) is not forgivable at any cost--how to her its incomprehensible since it's clearly easier to just 'talk it out with your partner' instead of looking for 'outside fulfillments'.
Eager to consume. Never to question. Signing up to mass sedation. And you asked yourself why your life went in shambles when the tide change its course?
Sadar ga, kalo keputusan yang kita buat seringkali bergantung pada kondisi 'mood' kita. Kita menganggap bahwa mood yang baik😄 → keputusan yg baik
Tapi yg mengagetkan, penelitian terbaru menemukan bahwa 'good moods' justru lebih sering berujung keputusan yg buruk loh. THREAD
(A thought) Life and death carries on without us. Maybe it is us, humans, that often times become too egocentric to acknowledge: that neither life nor death exist to serve/annihilate us. We're just so lucky to be contained in between.
Ajaibnya struktur tuh ya, bikin kita mikir oknum & korban sehitam-putih itu. Iya, ini termasuk semua keburukan yg dilekatkan ke orang Jakarta. Hina banget dah jadi orang Jakarta pokoknya.
Coba Mas, kasih unjuk idup 100% sustainable tuh kyk gimana. Kalo bisa kita replikasi rame2.
Feminisme mau main gatekeep?
Okay, then, let's check up on how much of the movement's narrative swayed by the interest of urbanite women to have their sexual life structurally justified.
Sa ae bambang jawaban diplomat. Nggak inget ada adegan Tibum (Ketertiban Umum) bentak-bentak di ospek fakultas?
Buat panggilan dosen, emang fakultas lain kagak?
@graphicalhazard
Yang saya dengar begitu. Ada fakultas yang menjunjung senioritas, ada yang menjunjung egalitarianisme.
Di FISIP, nuansa kami selalu Paris 1789: Libérté, Egalite, Fraternite.
Di seluruh UI, hanya FISIP yang membudayakan panggilan dosen (junior sampai profesor), Mas dan Mbak.
@nu_mindframe
Yes I noticed this as well!! As a libra it's tricky to find something I'm proud of that isn't related to other people 😂 And there, I found it on the house Leo's sitting in.
Identifying the Leo can go as far as guessing someone's rising sign, I suppose.