It's a strange realization to have, in your late 40s, just how few people you can genuinely count on. Some people are incapable of being reliable, most are just busy with their own lives.
All we really have is ourselves, for better or worse.
@jldeen
,
@maishsk
,
@nathankpeck
,
@scottcoulton
,
@stockholmux
, and Olly Pomeroy have been an amazing team. Despite challenges and uncertainty, every one of them delivered incredible content, insight, and product feedback. They make Amazon better and ECS a better product.
My team and the small number of people who became part of my inner circle are uniformly amazing technologists and I'll miss getting to work with them every day.
It's just a job, there will be others. People are always the key parts. Good people can make a job feel fun and safe. Bad people can make a job feel anxious and toxic. The ones I got to work with closest at AWS were great people. Those are the memories I choose to take with me.
To
@jbesw
,
@jlb13
,
@shjoshi
thank you for helping to keep me sane during some very non-sane times. It's a small industry and I fully expect that we'll get to work together again in the future. AWS is lucky to have you, but they certainly don't deserve you.
You know what helps the poorest people?
People who care about other people.
That's it. That's the only answer. We take care of each other because we can.
For 2024 I want to be a better manager. I also want to *find* other managers who are trying to be better for the newer generations of people in this industry. People who embrace the need to change as enthusiastically as we once drove that change ourselves.
@rchrdbyd
@IamStan
It doesn't have to be this way. All it takes is a little imagination and any semblance of leadership. I can't tell you how many times I had people come up to me saying that the person who ran the Compute org "hated" advocacy. Once that happens, why should the service teams care?
@rjourdan_net
Hands down, this is the reply that made me the happiest. 100% of my focus has been on building and maintaining a happy and healthy team, and while it hasn't been all smooth sailing we did pretty well.
Don't let them fall through the cracks, please. I'm counting on you.
The chance to work with her again and
@martinwoodward
for the first time was easy to say yes to. If I've learned anything in my career, it's the value of working with good humans, and using the quality and reputations of humans to make choices on where to spend your time.
@rchrdbyd
Thousands of years of inclusivity? 🤔
I seem to remember learning something in school about India having some pretty significant historical social issues with some people being more equal than others for no good reason.
@h0bbel
@wyrdgirl
My first and only cease-and-desist from VMware was about a blog post I wrote as a customer before I moved over, specifically talking about the first VSPP contract terms. VMware has been making a mess of that since the beginning.
I hate when TV shows have a finale that shows everyone when they are old. No matter how futuristic or fantasy the theme of the show, it reminds me how old I am, and that the best adventures are in the past.
Also, the finale of ST: Discovery was really great. ♥️
@vtimd
And "everyone else is getting screwed by this new model that gives you the same product at higher prices, billed in a way that makes no one but shareholders happy, you can't be mad that we are just now doing it to you as well" is nonsense.
@IanColdwater
The pandemic has changed me, part 1,223. I used to be all-in on clicky, and now they make my brain twitch in uncomfortable ways. Tactile is the new default, and linear is growing on me.
I'm still in listen and learn mode (so much to learn) but I'm excited to be given the opportunity to manage the "Enterprise Advocacy" team. What's that? It's a group who understands the voice and motions needed to meet enterprise customers wherever they are...
@lazerwalker
Regardless of how it did or didn't impact any individual, if the government/Capitalism response to COVID didn't convince you that we have proven the system is incapable of protecting anyone, you weren't paying attention.
@wyrdgirl
Maybe, but VMC on AWS is a fundamentally different product. None of the providers *like* delivering a 3rd party bare metal service, but one of those services is not like the others...
@DeepStorageNet
No chance I'm holding my breath for grandkids. With everything their generation has been through, and everything they've seen out of their country, I wouldn't blame them for not wanting to.
There's always at least *one* more adventure.
@astuyve
@rchrdbyd
After my first week of calls, where everyone was on time, on camera, and we spent time talking and connecting to people, I mentioned to
@martinwoodward
how kind everyone was to each other, and he needed me to explain why being kind was such a new thing.
...and help them understand the value that GitHub can offer. Whether it's an executive briefing, a conference, working with a partner, or creating and sharing content, I'm excited to get back to work helping customers evolve.
@MarkGabbs
@AmericanAir
It's just unnecessary bullshit. This is hard enough, just treat people with kindness, especially when you are the reason we boarded 15 minutes late.
Mostly, I'm excited to get back to a culture where I feel I can thrive and a group of coworkers that I'm excited to work with, or work with again.
@ashleymcnamara
told me when we left MSFT for AWS and Google that we'd get to work together again, and as usual she was right.
For the most part, we became terrible managers. We couldn't let go of our IC roots. We couldn't make the context switch from "me" to "you" effectively. We couldn't embrace the wave of diversity and inclusion that tech desperately needed.
@lazerwalker
100% and I am a HUGE Amtrak fan. I used to take the train from college to Baltimore to visit my girlfriend in college, and it was wonderful.
@DynamicWebPaige
did a rail pass a little while back and I'd love to spend a summer working from a train.
@girlsnamewillis
I once woke up the person sleeping next to me by talking in my dreams about SCSI motherboards.
In case anyone was wondering why I'm terminally single.
@nathankpeck
IMO the companies who do this best are the ones who have a defined inflection point to take a product from an emerging/growth status into a more mature phase. How customers want to use things changes over time, how you build the product has to change too.
@lazerwalker
@bitandbang
Second this statement, WAY different from company to company. Some places have painfully non-technical PM orgs, and these are the folks that translate conversations with engineering. YMMV
@bitandbang
I continue to be surprised you bother using Microsoft products at all anymore. 😂If there was a way not to, I'm confident you would have found it.
Not really in need of a girlfriend as much as in need of a person who will respond "omw!" when I suggest taking road trips to see concerts, National Parks, and railroad museums and then coming home and collecting the models of the coolest trains we saw on the trip.
not really in need of a boyfriend as much as in need of a person who will respond with "omw!" when i suggest coming over to read tech histories + program + watch videos about building things + find similar things in my apartment to take apart and put back together again 🙏
It's a very strange and unfriendly job market, and I'm very grateful for how this process turned out. I'm excited to learn, excited to lead, excited to help customers and especially excited do it in a place where kindness isn't a foreign language.
@lazerwalker
The Zephyr/Southwest Chief, the Sunset Limited from New Orleans west into the desert, the Cascades in the PNW, the Coast Starlight from Seattle to LA, so many adventures to have.
@nathankpeck
I'll be fine, but you know me. I worried a lot about making sure everyone on the team was okay. It's a huge relief to see people start landing where they belong. Makes me happy.
@mattgillard
@wyrdgirl
Also remember that their cloud sucked not because they had the wrong people building it, but because EMC and Cisco saw it as a way to pad hardware sales until it had no chance to NOT suck.
I get that space is hard, and I celebrate every accomplishment from every company putting in the effort.
That said...
Why does everything have to be "a milestone achievement for the future of spaceflight"? Can't it just be "We checked the box, time for the next box" instead?
AWS was an adventure, and I'll miss my team there very much. We had an audacious mission, one I still believe would best serve the products and customers, but when a org decides there's no room for advocacy, you accept it and move on with all the grace you can.
@vtimd
They've asked me to run for local stuff and I always decline. I don't need that kind of power. I'd be a Chicagoland-style mob boss in 25 minutes flat.
@C_R_Mile
Everything was slightly harder than was strictly necessary. I look back and all I got was older. No joy, no progress, no accomplishments, just sickness, pain, disappointment and anxiety. Just a lost year. Good riddance.
@lazerwalker
I get you on this one. I've always struggled with the "realistic" shooters, and this one is *maybe* too close for my comfort.
I miss Destiny sometimes.
We were the high achievers, but once we got there, we didn't really have a blueprint for what happens next. I have friends who just stayed in the field, and kept collecting checks. Some moved into other roles, like product management or marketing. Some became managers.