Kinda cool to think someone somewhere is having the best day of their life today. Someone’s hearing “I love you” for the first time. Someone’s gonna get the job of their dreams today. Someone received some kinda good news today. Tomorrow it could be your best day, so keep going.
The older I get, the more I realize the value of staying low key, of cultivating your circle and only letting certain people in. You can be open, honest, and real while still understanding not everyone deserves a seat at your table.
Men deserve to be spoiled and told how handsome they are on a daily basis. How do you expect to be treated like a Queen if you treat him like a Servant?
I know most of us wants to manifest material things (jobs, cars, money, houses, etc.) but don’t forget to manifest healing, balance, & inner peace as well.
Those things are equally as important. Don’t feed your flesh while neglecting your spirit.
One day,when you least expect it,you are going to crash into someone who is going to be so soft & gentle with your heart & you are going to be so glad that you kept it open. You are going to be so glad that you continued to fight for it,that you chose to believe it deserved more.
Give love a chance. Don't expect perfection. Understand that there will be mistakes. Know what to hold onto and what to let go. Don't bring tons of baggage to a new space and experience.
Develop meaningful relationships with people you know are willing to match your effort.
Take chances,take a lot of them.
Because honestly,no matter where you end up & with whom,it always ends up the way it should be.Your mistakes make you who you are. You learn & grow with each choice you make.Everything is worth it.Say how you feel,always. Be you & be okay with it.
Having an emotionally mature partner is TOP TIER. You’re able to freely express your feelings/thoughts without judgement. They don’t insult you,they don’t ignore you,they don’t become aggressive or manipulative - they listen, they respond,they patiently hold a safe space for you.
You don’t know a person until:
They don’t get what they want.
You live with them.
You travel with them.
You say “no” to them.
Money is involved.
You deal with them when they’re angry or sad.
When you find someone who gives you their attention, affection, appreciation, time and all of their life.
Cherish them and don’t take them for granted. Good people are hard to come by in today’s world.
Biggest lesson I’ve learned is to not hold onto relationships or friendships just because of the memories or how long you've known the person. If they don’t wanna act right, LET THEM GO.
As I look back on my life, I realize that every time I thought I was being rejected from something good; I was actually being re-directed to something better 🥺🤍
Attachment has a self-centered approach to love, where you focus too much on how your partner makes you feel and not enough on treating them well.
Connection has more room for balance, where you both seek to support each others happiness and communicate instead of control.
Here’s a list of things that WILL NOT make a Man act right:
~Great Sex
~Being a good woman
~Being a good cook
~Buying him things
~Supporting his dreams
And here's a list of things that WILL make a Man act right:
~When he decides he wants to act right.
“The beauty of life is, while we cannot undo what is done, we can see it, understand it, learn from it and change so that every new moment is spent not in regret, guilt, fear or anger but in wisdom, understanding and love.”
You are allowed to prioritise and choose yourself.
You are allowed to let go of people.
You are allowed to rest.
You are allowed to walk away from things that don’t serve you anymore.
You are allowed to celebrate yourself.