even if periods didn’t come with cramps and hormonal imbalances and all those other symptoms, the fact that we have to bleed for 3-7 days is already disruptive enough
it was on this same twitter that Evsss shared that the reason she doesn’t grow her hair is to honour her grandmother who died of cancer and nigerian men were in the comments asking what she would if her husband didn’t like it
if you're 18 years and above make sure you get a permanent voter's card so you'll be able to vote in the next election
This war is far from over
#SARSMUSTEND
so what if she’s had multiple sexual partners?? if that makes her less attractive to you, move on. why would you say she’s passed around?? what is that
on tiktok i found a site where they post remote job openings everyday. i checked and i’m seeing that i have to pay😭i literally just told you i’m jobless and you’re still asking for money?
Nigeria is one of the most religious countries in the world(there's a church or mosque on literally every street) yet there's a very low level of development, high level of corruption and extreme poverty.
last year when the girls posted pictures and videos from hertitude, you people were foaming at the mouth and looking for faults. this year too, same thing. cry more, you will never be invited and you will never have an event like that. ntorrr
nigerian parents like to act as if our ancestors and forefathers didn't have piercings and tattoos or wear waistbeads and anklets before the colonisers came
If you've ever raped, sexually abused or harassed someone I just want you to know that you will never get away with it. The victim may not speak out, but I promise you one day you will face the consequences of your actions.
it always make me laugh the way Christians are always so pressed to tell atheists or agnostics that God(or god) doesn't exist
Like are you trying to convince them or convince yourself?
It always makes me laugh the way aethists are always so pressed to tell Christians that God doesn’t exist
Like are you trying to convince them or convince yourself?
I'm sincerely asking, where are women going to feel safe?
not on the streets, not at parties, not in school, not in religious institutions, not even in our homes.
so where exactly? will this ever end?💔
someone tweets something as stupid this then you'll see people(who are obviously his friends) in the comments saying things like "they'll drag you" or "here for the violence" and I'm so confused. like you're really encouraging your friend to be stupid? do better
was it not on the same Twitter that we saw Nigerians defending Donald Trump and holding prayer walks and parades for him because he's a Christian and he shares the same bigoted views as them?? abeg yall are the same 🥱
men will never take screenshots from a boys only group to send to women for any reason. if anything, they know how to stick together ah gosh i hate birds so much🤦🏾♀️
you dumb ass niggas will slut shame and call her the worst names on the tl, then beg her for sex in her dms. you people should leave this girl alone biko
I don’t want to have to post some of my business page dms but some men are really pushing it.
I’m not for sale, you can’t buy me, I don’t do personal deliveries, I won’t sleep with you, stop sending p*nis to my business page. Please respect yourself so that God will respect you
isn't it shameful that a private international news station is doing what the Nigerian government should have done since?? shame on the Nigerian government! shame on sanwo olu! shame on the Nigerian army! shame on each and every single one of you! shame!!!
If I ask you for your skin routine and you tell me to drink water, na ogun go punish you because I don't understand why you will tell me such. What else will I drink? Blood?
this is where i’m at rn. unlearning shame. i can handle a lot of other emotions to an extent but i still struggle with shame and it’s so limiting. it holds you back and prevents you from reaching your potential. time will pass and you won’t even remember why you were so ashamed
It takes years to remove the stigma of shame from your own spirit. Shame of struggle, shame of lack, shame of “finishing” late, shame of being misunderstood. Years. But it’s much easier when you have therapy and/or very great friends.
Being a black woman is so scary. You're dealing with misogyny and patriarchy from men(regardless of race), racism from white people & sexual abuse and harassment. You're just going to keep asking yourself "am I next?"
@interludetheart
it doesn't make sense. we were in heaven them you brought us to earth and said that if we didn't do what you wanted we would go to hell
why did you bring us here in the first place??
Zikoko actually has an agenda they are pushing. And it's not a godly one!
Knew this for a few years now, but they are bolder with it more than ever.
Be careful of sweet, interesting content that normalizes things that are wrong. Be guided guys!!!
this week was super stressful for me because i had tests almost everyday at school(all bulky courses) plus exams start the week after next week so this is my last chance to unwind before the real shege starts and meet fine women in a safe space thank you🥺
Christian homophobes are the worst. you're a pathological liar, you do yahoo, you watch porn, you masturbate but of course I'm the only one who is going to hell because na scissors i dey do
wait now that i am older thinking back: parents reading their child’s journal unexpectedly without asking feels like a serious violation and invasion. i heard so many kids say their parents did this to them. what was that about
i just learned something new about manifesting. a lot of people don’t get what they request for because they’re not clear when they’re asking. example if you’re like me and you need a job, you have to specify what you want to get from the job
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Why can't you people be genuinely happy for others?? You see someone doing something that makes them happy and then you come with your bad bele and useless advice and kill the person's vibe and you claim you want the best for them
There was one time I went to Yaba market to get something and a man kept following me and telling me he wanted to f*ck me. I was really scared cos I was alone. I had to go back to my hostel without getting what made me go there. Since then I've had this fear of going there alone.
@christabel0o
"you believe there are other gods and only one God" ?? maybe you don't know that there are other religions and these other 'gods' are worshipped by followers of these religions so you should also refer to them respectfully
gender roles/stereotypes, profiling people based on physical appearance, living vicariously through kids, organised religion. might even end the generation with me lol💀
all these means of identification and yet criminals keep getting away. nothing concern una with plans to make life easy for regular people, it’s how you will steal money