I have a question but hopefully it’s a good topic. I know when people pass away, people often don’t know what to say or how to comfort you and it can make for uncomfortable convos. What’s something you wish someone would have said to you while dealing with a painful loss?
In light of me posting something that can stir up a lot of feelings and it blowing up. What’s something positive you learned this year or during of the pandemic that was beneficial to you and/or share an achievement you made!
“Passive aggressive behavior is literally someone passing the responsibility to you, to say what you really mean because THEY can’t do it.” - wise words by the queen herself
@jackieaina
@ysiscarissa
@quenblackwell
I just hate that they put the responsibility on the woman. Like tell the GROWN MAN ADULT not to look at women who live in the house especially when they are related or family friends or whatever.
@Jazrealpretty
It’s okay to say “I appreciate the kind words but I’d love to sit in silence with you or just would prefer to be alone.” We have to ask for what we need.
@kemimarie
Sags let shit go and look at the positive, we’re optimistic. Idk what Nicki is on. She just can not accept that she is getting older and either has to bring the heat in the boothe or needs to give it a rest.
@dxngkhm
@orbgoddess
Well I’m glad you all aren’t dating him anymore, I hope in the future you have better sex with someone who actually asks you what your likes are and acts on them ! 🙏🏽
@dera_theking
@PrfXavier
I think he means only making a girl feel sauce because you want to sleep with her, like that’s the only reason. I could see that as a form of manipulation, it’s an ulterior motive.
@Lesliee317537
@aj_fairley
@trinidadianx
This definitely use to be me. But I grew our of it after I turned like 20. I had a severe fear of dissappointing the people I loved and really cared about so I just wouldn’t tell them when certain stuff would happen, it was very counter productive.
@Rainelle_
@tayethediva
I need to get tested for this, when I’m on my period sometimes I get lightheaded and feel like I’m going to pass out from how bad the pain is. My cramps the first few days are unbearable and medication hardly helps. I almost feel like the first 2-4 days I have to be in bed 24/7.
@ChasityLondyn
We care and we love hard as a mf. Yet, we know there is a 50/50 chance it might not work out and we also know there’s billions of people out there. If it’s not you, it’ll be someone else. We love you to the depth of our heart, but you have to add to our happiness.
@Rainelle_
@tayethediva
and I feel like no one takes me seriously. I have horrible back pain, these weird internal cramps, my joints hurt, I have strong food cravings, I’m exhausted, my periods are so heavy and long sometimes up to 7-8 days.
@KundaiChiyanika
@BrianMatonsi
It’s very interesting how despite your vulnerability and honesty people in the comments are still searching for some type of flaw or dysfunction in your truth because they believe you can’t possible be happy or thriving without a man.
Regardless of gender, if you ask someone out on a date, you pay. It’s logical. I don’t know where the miscommunication of paying for dates has now come from lmao. Unless there was a clear communication of a different process. You ask, you pay. It’s simple.
@4ryss4
@conejitaashh
@Isis____
Lot of shaming going on here, the point is getting tested and making sure you’re clean before you sleep with someone else it doesn’t matter how many bodies someone has.
@SupernovaMomma
This child definitely needs some type of mental health services but it sounds like the teenager has been doing things like this for a while, I wonder how they were even left home alone to begin with
@TarotByBronx
People say Scorpio’s are the hoe of the signs??? Scorpios are so passionate and deep loving. When they love someone it’s intense as fuck, it reminds me of that “ride or die” feel. They’ll find out anything for you. They’ll do romantic gestures for you. I think Scorpios love hard.
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@SupernovaMomma
They are anti-woke now and appealing to people. Thrive off of wanting to “shake the table.” It’s a mess. They just had Tiffany haddish on the podcast too.
@zvvzhe
Usually not love, just lust. As a person who has had a history of “moving on fast” which I dedicated 2020 to dissecting I came to realize that it is usually a distraction from going through the painful healing process of heartbreak. The honeymoon phase can be exciting-
Treating yourself to items and goodies is fine and dandy but one of the best ways to care for yourself is by honoring your needs, upholding your boundaries, making decisions that align with who you truly are and will benefit you in the long term.
@OkSoMik
Idk why people who are struggling blame other people who are struggling for not being able to help instead of the capitalistic systems in place that allow these issues in the first place.
@thesammiisofar
It’s so sad that men react like this. Like how about showing some compassion, I’m sending you so much love on your healing journey and I’m sorry you had to endure such cruelty
@AstrologyVibez
Gemini’s are so fun to be around, they are great listeners and they are caring and hold great conversations. Scorpios are HILARIOUS and they are intriguing, you can’t help but me curious about what they have going on.
@zvvzhe
but it’s usually never love, just overwhelming lust and mental stimulation that often times resembles the same “high” you feel when you are in love.
@prettyxnicole
@JasariFromMars
The history of the word. It is literally a masculine presenting black lesbians. That’s the orginal definition but it was colonized over time.