Can’t imagine how it feels to be a young man struggling to find proper employment and knowing finding a spouse will be hard because of this too. I’m assuming it’s increasingly difficult to deal with mentally as the situation persists. What’s the advice for such cases?
Stay single if you’re Muslim and still think of some ‘ex’ that you’ve convinced yourself you’ll never get over. Save everyone else from having to deal with you.
at 23 i just to have to buy my first car, get a job, have my first man, go to the gym consistently again, eat healthy, fix my sleep routine, have better savings, have more of a life and not neglect my hobbies and I’ll be fine.
I honestly don’t feel like I have anyone. People will respond by saying, ‘good, Allah is enough’ but what’s wrong with wanting good company in the dunya? There’s much a person can benefit from mentally, emotionally and spiritually with good platonic and romantic relationships.
I know of a couple of relatives and locals in this situation. 100% a few of them seem suicidal and it sounds terrible, but I completely get it. If you’re not doing anything with your life, it doesn’t seem worth living to some. It’s haram, but I’m just saying I can understand.
It’s kind of heart-breaking seeing relatives I grew up with like this now. I don’t know how I’d cope if I had a son and I knew he was feeling this way about his life either. Or even if I was a man, but I was in that situation knowing full-well what society is like.
Being lonely isn’t great. I often feel like a nobody, that perhaps I’m not good enough to be cared for by someone. And it’s much more easier to succumb to negative thoughts too, because that’s all you hear. And dealing with problems alone is tough. I could honestly go on and on.
@romantic_nomad
People have always struggled with money and managed to get married. But times are different now in the sense that if you don’t have a proper established career, people don’t have respect and families don’t even consider you as a potential. That’s the community of today.
Even when I think all doors are shut for me and there are no options and no possible way for something to occur, when I really want something, Allah makes a way for me ☝🏽.
Babe hold the camera properly, I told you this the last 6 times I forced you to film. Just ignore the people watching you start recording and cueing the holding hands and running in sacred places for Instagram likes.
I went to tell my dad the story and as soon as I said I found a TT that said would you remarry your spouse, he said I’d marry your mother 20x. They’re both acc as HORRENDOUS as each other.
@halalfrijole
@thecrookedrib
Sister, you are expecting. Just silence the notifications from the original tweet. You are bound to get heaps of opinions online and many don’t need to be read at a time like this. Prioritise your state of mind! May Allah grant you a healthy pregnancy!
Last of my friend group said she’s getting married. Suddenly feel lonely. They get so busy and with married women, you tend to rarely see them as much as you did.
When I have had very serious and important du’aas, I’ve always taken advantage of the rain to make them. All have been answered, even those I originally thought were an unlikely outcome.
Alhamdullilah, I’m happy with myself. Whatever I desired, I put my all in to it, trusted Allah and let it work out. I’ve achieved more than what I ever expected to achieve. I believe I made teen me proud.
@uniqpov
@soulofsoulss
This post isn’t about justifying haram relationships. It’s embarrassing ppl with a surprised reaction for not engaging in haram. Please go justify major sins under another more relevant post.
We were only told that a car had spun out of control and slammed in to the front of his, which has totalled his car. And no-one would elaborate on his health fgs, other than just get to the hospital as soon as you can.
I love looking at a man’s account and it’s just wholesome content in the likes, little to no female interaction in the replies and no controversial tweets just crying because his lame football team always lets him down.
I love when the adhaan plays on the radio because then I have to stop reciting study flashcards otherwise it would be rude to speak over so it’s like a little mandatory study break that I don’t feel bad about.
I don’t know much about football except there’s an overwhelming amount of male mutuals that come crying to the TL every so often over another Manchester United loss. Makes me wonder why they can’t just change teams at this rate.