phrasing sex as a need in relationships has done irreparable damage to the way yall treat your partners when they go days/weeks/months without sex bc of mental health and other life situations
if going without sex makes you suicidal, unloved, or paranoid you need THERAPY, not sex. you have a bad relationship with sex. you need help and im serious about that.
yall build ur relationships on sex as a foundation and wonder why everything falls apart when one of u cant have sex for a little while due to pregancy, motherhood, illness, mental illness, stress, etc.
adding to this: calling it a "need" is giving manipulative......like just say its smth that has a little importance to u in a relationship....but calling it a need has done more to manipulate into sex you dont want than it has to create a healthy sex life
@gothichadassah
also not to mention when sex workers say theyve been abused before or during their career, its quick to be shut down immediately bc "thats their job" and immediately resort to calling them slurs or degrading them and their worth BC of their profession.
with all the stories im seeing in regards to this, none of you trying to argue with me are going to change my mind on this. sex will never be more important than making sure my partner feel good mentally and emotionally in life. sex should not be more important than that
@arijabdI
damn u got hella guys mad at u under this tweet 🧍♂️🧍♂️🧍♂️ yall know u can date multiple ppl at once if ur not exclusively dating anyone right? like thts the whole point of dating
@Baileymoon15
like its really just reading too deep into it. "sorry for the rejection, but i already have a gf" isnt really that bad. its just being polite 😭😭
@plazynoodles
also its for a store associate position 😭😭 like its literally just cashiering and stocking. the hiring manager at that place needs to get a grip and im so serious
hey i know a lot of people from the alternative community on here shop from Kreepsville 666. Here is what the owner posted on facebook about it. Please don't shop or support the store anymore im disgusted
@intergalactex
no fr! like sorry but in real life ppl do not have sex constantly when we're all working to make ends meet, take care of ourselves, homes, see friends and family, like theres rly no time to Constantly Have Sex its not realistic or sustainable in the long term
touch starvation - normal ✅
being suicidal from a few days to a few months of no sex - not normal
paranoid ur being cheated on - not normal
thinking ur undesirable - not normal
only feeling loved and wanted through sex - not normal
can u dance? in giant heels too? do you have the body strength for the pole? can you guarantee your safety? do you actually support sex workers (strippers are, in fact, sex workers)? do you think it actually has anything to do with having no morals? i wish yall would shut up
@BeeBabs
i feel like casual dating goes with this too lol.....like ive been guilt tripped and embarrassed for not exploring my options more but i just.....dont like to waste my time and energy on people who arent going to stick around....
@LifeIsRufus
@aaliyahhbbb
hi im mentally ill. u can be mentally ill and toxic. mental illness is not an excuse to be toxic and mentally ill people should still be held accountable for hurting people. thank u for listening
clothes and items marketed to goth people and its all pentagrams, cauldrons, baphomet, bats, etc. can yall not just make accessible good quality clothes for us ? lolll
feed ur cats on plates. they r not assholes for eating the middle of their food and complaining about "their bowl being empty". they have whisker sensory overload and it makes it uncomfortable to eat out of bowls when their whiskers are constantly being rubbed. use plates
the entire time ive had eating disorders, NOT ONCE did i think to join pro-ED pages on social media, document it getting worse, or POST FATPHOBIC SHIT. more than anything i wanted everyone else to feel beautiful in their body. some of u r literally just pieces of shit n thats it
@celesitial
also me talking abt the abuse ive endured at the hands of my exes doesnt mean "im not over them" it means im traumatized by them and need to talk about it 😭
@hausofchisme
im heartbroken at the stories im seeing in my quotes and replies. most of them were struggling with trauma, grief, mental health too. sex will never be more important in a relationship than empathy, compassion, and genuine love for my partner
@AriDrennen
when they let me assess for a diagnosis they sat me in front of a computer in an empty blank room and told me to press a button when a certain shape came up???? i play video games and read regularly as a hobby????? inattention is not the only symptom and they act like it is
@pierrefleury_
i am v tired of seeing ppl say they want a crazy or toxic relationship or wanna be owned and controlled. like they rly have no clue what kind of danger they are straight up inviting into their lives
sex should be an added benefit of a relationship if its something ALL parties involved want it. sex is fun. sex is normal and healthy. physical intimacy outside of sex is normal and healthy. thinking the only way to have intimate relationships is thru sex is NOT normal or healthy
@v4mpgrI
shes complaining about us doing the exact same thing they do 😭 religion is FAITH BASED!!! its almost like every religion does some form of witchcraft 😭😭😭
can miw twitter stop giving R*nnie R*dke the attention hes craving like.....quite frankly as a trans person i do not want to keep seeing his and his fans transphobia every single day
how are yall thinking this is me saying affection and physical touch and sex in general is bad.......yalls reading comprehension is ass....stop being dense cus i never said SEX was bad nor did i ever say u cant WANT it (and other physical touch things)..........
@obscurepluto
my ex would call me violent names during arguments and the like....3 or 4 times??? i called him a name back?? was cus i just lost it and reached my limit AFTER telling him i needed to stop and step away lol. reactionary abuse is scary as shit
i like it when christians r like "the devil comes as everything u want" like why does ur god want u to worship him but keep u from anything that makes u happy and the things u want lol tht sounds like such a toxic ass relationship
@adoseofmars
the worst is when u make plans to go out w ppl and they get mad at u for....dressing up to go out ??? bc they wanted to wear minimal makeup and pjs....i came to serve ok
sex should not be the main part of a relationship or the main reason u get in a relationship. sex should never be the foundation of your relationship. its ok for it to be important to u, but to make ur whole relationship depend on how much sex ur having is gross and weird idc.
@sophiethebitch_
@M355435868s
@bloodpilots
the way i FELT this.... anyways i now have brown hair and it's extremely damaged but i had so much fun 🥺🥺 i plan to let it go natural again to be healthier and then dye it again hehehehehe
ppl who wanna drink and smoke with u immediately upon meeting for the first time do not have good intentions with you and yall need to get that through your head
to clarify: i am a recovered hypersexual who used to believe it was a need. i have since worked on my own relationship with sex. my relationship is the happiest healthiest one ive ever had. sex is not bad. ur allowed to fuck ur partner. no one is stopping u from fuckin
btw nowhere in my tweet did i say sex is inherently bad all i said was calling it a need is bad and that it is 100% normal to go periods without sex. yall are dense as hell.
also im a sex worker bc i have bills to pay, not because i want to be one 👍🏻
ik these mfs kill mosquitoes and are harmless but how the FUCK am i supposed to not run and scream in terror when they're the size of my fucking hand and chase me
@281megs
i'll add my own. ive been HARASSED to make a premium snap so i made a poll asking if i should and if they'll buy and everyone said i should make one but they wont buy so it was.....real clown hours 🤡🤡🤡
autism is known to be underdiagnosed, especially in women, and this is an actual cause for concern. psychiatrists shouldn't speak to their patients like this. just do the fucking assessment and give ur patient a diagnosis or peace of mind.