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welcome to my garden. enjoy the flowerssss. 🌻🌷🌼🌿🪵 🌻🌷🌼🌿🪵 🌻🌷🌼🌿🪵

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@gabryellejae
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8 days
Told my parents about a new hobby I was starting to which my mother replied “oh please, you’re gonna quit it like you do everything else.” When I tell you I slowly rotated to her and said “what is a hobby or project that you started and finished?” The silence was so loud.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
4 months
encountering grown adults with mean girl energy is so scary because what is wrong with you
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
10 months
baby, i will fight your parents for you.
@HobilovesCindy
Cindy ✨JUNGKOOK GF
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I saw this I cried all night like damn
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
7 months
“i have so much love to give” okay so give it to yourself because the way you’re malnourished, dehydrated and sleep deprived all at once is really something.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
3 years
the sexual tension between us and knowing maddy is going to beat cassie’s ass senseless soon
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
11 months
My alarm is so stern like why is she yelling at me…
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
7 months
i love observing how moms, who are really happy to be moms, treat their children. like wow you lucky duckling, this woman loves you more than air. she’s been waiting for you. you’re everything to her. you’re going to have a great time on earth with her.
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@gabryellejae
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2 years
a tough pill to swallow is that people will hurt you. dehumanize you in so many ways and not feel badly about it. they won’t feel a thing actually. they’ll move on with their day, their week, their life, happy as ever but there you are, crushed. loss of appetite. loss of sleep.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
2 years
i think i will want separate bedrooms when i’m married. unless maybe if the bed is super big… no but even so like we can decorate our own rooms the way we want and have sleepovers… man i don’t know. i just feel like we would thrive in our spaces decorated the way we like.
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@gabryellejae
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7 months
like why is it so romantic in there
@whotfisjovana
The Notorious J.O.V.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
8 months
death is sad because why aren’t you here anymore. what do you mean i can’t hear your laugh again.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
1 year
when someone literally kills the relationship with a lack of communication and connecting but wanna act like it’s you
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
3 years
idk who needs to hear this but you can be a kind person and still express your frustration. you can be a kind person and still lose your patience. you can be a kind person and confront an issue assertively. it doesn’t take away from your kindness. let your feelings flow.
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@gabryellejae
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2 years
a lot of people struggle to let go of friends they’ve clearly outgrown and we should talk about it. a lot of us feel this undying loyalty towards them because we remember when they were there for us at our lowest once upon a time. that’s cute & everything but…
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
3 years
i think it’s extremely important, especially in the morning, to be quiet.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
2 years
abandonment issues can be caused by so many different things. absent parent, experiencing a death in your environment, a friend moving away in childhood. so many different things can happen to us & lead to an anxious attachment style. individuals with this attachment tend to…
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@gabryellejae
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2 years
on this weeks episode of kids are fucking terrifying and scared of nothing
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
2 years
it’s such a sick tragedy to have such great chemistry with someone who cannot meet you halfway communication wise. you can have so much passion, great conversation, humor & banter together & yet, their emotional maturity is nowhere to be found.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
1 year
serious question... how do people have so many friends. like even the casual ones, how do you maintain them all... because if i died literally maybe 2 friends would show up to my FUNERAL yet you have 15 showing up to your BIRTHDAY DINNER. wow let me just-
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@gabryellejae
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1 year
how adorable lmao
@truewagner
Alan Wagner
1 year
Did you ever see this in your Uber!?
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@gabryellejae
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2 years
social media is so weird like i randomly get this violent urge to no longer be perceived and i just need to deactivate everything before i explode. i wonder if there’s a name for that feeling because i know i’m not alone.
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@gabryellejae
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10 months
as a therapist i can confirm. establishing a routine, mastering time management skills & accepting that healing isn’t linear so you don’t shame yourself when you can’t do things perfectly everyday. giving yourself a strict time frame in which you let depression “win” for the day.
@fillefoux
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it’s so stupid yet so amazing that the only cure for depression is to brute force your way through completing tasks even if it’s extremely hard and gives you no pleasure at all
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@gabryellejae
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1 year
rejection sensitivity is too real. when you feel forgotten by a friend as an adult, it brings up trauma from highschool experiences. feeling left out is one of the worst feelings in the world and to feel that from someone you love so much is a killer.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
8 months
the depression you get on your period is crazy. like i am fighting for my life.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
25 days
"i'm gonna hold your hand when i say this" is literally such a funny fucking sentence omg.
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@gabryellejae
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1 year
omg amazing!! let’s all start doing this because it is definitely a threat!
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
2 years
still, at my big age, i immediately feel like i’m overreacting whenever i try to explain to someone why they hurt my feelings. the way i want to backspace, backtrack, delete my existence and pretend i never mentioned a thing. it’s so foreign to me to validate myself.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
1 year
do you ever look at your parents who are in a toxic relationship but still together and think to yourself how the hell did you guys coexist this long. honestly. who is this fun for.
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@gabryellejae
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3 years
this chapter of my life is called “why do i insist on over communicating & trying to find a deeper reason for their behavior so i can understand them more when i should just focus on the fact that their behavior is not aligning with what i need right now so i can move along”.
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@gabryellejae
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3 years
the moment someone cheats on you, i think you should leave. questioning if they ever loved you or not is irrelevant in the end bc their act of cheating showed you one thing for certain. that no matter how much they love you, their impulse to cheat is stronger than their love.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
10 months
as cute as it sounds in theory, i’ll never make a person my “home”. relax. i am my home. i am my comfort. i am my rock. not you. me.
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@gabryellejae
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1 year
do you guys ever think about the fact that so many beautiful and successful women are someone’s long term long distance low commitment casual girlfriend and basically settling for crumbs from their situationship instead of a whole loaf from someone worthy.
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@gabryellejae
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10 months
i’ve realized that some men don’t know how to be the man that you need because they’re still in the process of becoming the man that they need. they’re not even sure of the type of man that they’re trying to become. just that they’re trying to become one.
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@gabryellejae
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1 year
my life is nowhere near where i want it to be but i still just feel so grateful to be here right now. to show up most days trying my best to just make it happen for myself. the rough days make me appreciate the radiant ones. i pray i can give myself the life i feel i deserve.
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@gabryellejae
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1 year
i really dislike when someone expresses to their partner how their partners actions hurt their feelings and that partner takes space from them in a manipulative way as a means to condition them to never stand up for themselves again.
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@gabryellejae
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1 year
A question I like to ask myself when I’m upset is “is it my feelings or my ego that is hurt?” The answer makes how I plan to approach the situation a lot clearer for me.
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@gabryellejae
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9 months
december is a quiet month for a lot of people. it's the silent grief. it's the spiritual discomfort. it's a lot of things at once.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
2 years
guys omg when me and my ex of 7 years broke up and he was moving out. on his last moving day, we stared at each other in the doorway of our room and said “what happened to us” as tears streamed down our faces. isn’t that so fucking sad? i think about it sometimes still…
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@gabryellejae
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11 months
and yes, isolating yourself and not making consistent time to socialize or bond with friends (in person preferably) is linked to an increase in depression. along with other needs not being met like poor sleep schedule & not getting enough nutrients in the body.
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@gabryellejae
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2 years
i am deeply sorry to any of you who felt comfortable enough to open up to someone about your trauma & insecurities, only to have them throw it in your face when you were arguing later. that’s so unfortunate. that stings in a very different way. i hope you can heal from that soon.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
2 years
i’ve been thinking about how often we confuse chemistry for compatibility. they might make you laugh & entertain you through good conversation but do they make you feel seen, heard & appreciated? are you both on the same page when it comes to communication or emotional maturity?
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
11 months
people be unhappy with a person then bring a baby into this world with them.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
3 years
healthy friendships with women are so sacred. i’ll never take it for granted.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
2 years
if you’re involved with someone that’s stringing you along or trying to have the relationship experience with you without committing to you & you’re annoyed with yourself for always being available for them whenever they need & not walking away. i have some things to say to you.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
1 year
“that’s because they’re dream houses motha fucka”
@FilmUpdates
Film Updates
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What was your favorite line in Greta Gerwig’s #Barbie ?
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@gabryellejae
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1 year
Why do movie theater bathrooms scare me. So many mirrors… and when you go when there’s no one else in there and it’s eerily silent… I don’t know. There’s something in there.
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@gabryellejae
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1 year
not ariana making side accounts chile
@doritenholm
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1 year
Why do we bash “homewreckers” for breaking up a marriage but we never question if the wife and infant child had bad vibes?
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
4 months
serious question, please don’t make fun. where can i meet kind humans to date? is there a place they usually gather?
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
2 years
trust me when i tell you. when a person loves you more than their ego, everything flows. no conversation too uncomfortable. no bare minimum task too great. no reasonable ask too unreasonable. they will move mountains for you because they want to. your happiness makes them happy.
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@gabryellejae
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3 years
having your emotions consistently invalidated as a child & one day waking up as an adult expected to validate your own emotions in order to set boundaries & trust your feelings over everyone else’s is an extremely wild fucking experience. be gentle with yourself. you’re learning.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
1 year
my type is gentle and considerate.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
7 months
just because you were triggered again, doesn’t mean you haven’t healed some. repairing wounds takes time. just because you relapsed, doesn’t mean you haven’t made progress. don’t discount your hardwork. don’t beat yourself up for being human.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
1 year
begging for communication. begging for consideration. begging for love. begging for attention. begging for quality time. i want more for you. you deserve them to be given to you freely without limit. i want you to meet someone that finds it difficult to not give you these things.
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@gabryellejae
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4 months
financial abuse, threats to isolate them from family, removing their access to things they value. some people age 18-25 cannot finance their entire livelihood completely alone & the threat of having to do that before they’re ready is enough to keep them controlled.
@RubiRose
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I never understood people who were grown as fuck letting their parents control them
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
7 months
of course your parents can trigger you easily, they’ve been a source of your trauma since the beginning. they are the first and ultimate trigger.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
2 years
there is something so endearing about someone putting in the effort to communicate with you. it’s considerate but ultimately so sweet that someone would want to contribute to getting rid of any anxiety you may have. to fill the silence & fog of confusion with nothing but clarity.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
3 years
don’t fake laugh at their joke. let people know they’re not funny.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
2 years
relationships are scary because the whole time y’all are getting closer, you’re hoping they’re on the same page as you. you hope each laughter and passion filled night is enough for both of you but realistically, you never know.
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@gabryellejae
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10 months
bad communication stresses me the fuck out like stop you’re stressing me out can you just tell me what’s going on in a clear and direct way FUCK sake
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
3 years
i love people who laugh at their own jokes. especially when the joke isn’t funny. it inspires me to always support myself no matter how embarrassing i am.
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1 year
why the past 3 years feel like 1
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1 year
if you are someone that needs a little extra reassurance from your friends or partner, i’ve found it really helps them when you are clear about why you need the reassurance and what you need it about. “i’m feeling insecure about…” “how do you feel about me or my ability to…”
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
11 months
be scared and do it anyways
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
2 months
at least you showed up authentically. at least you moved with honesty. at least you were direct with how you felt. at least you communicated openly and maturely. at least you tried. at least you never reciprocated their cruel behavior. your actions are a reflection of you.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
1 year
“relying too much on one friend may also lead to possessiveness.” i use the butterfly example when advising people who lean towards possessiveness in relationships & friendships. it’s great that you find the butterfly beautiful & unique & so special that you want to keep it…
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
2 months
i forgot who said it first or who said it best but it’s so true, how someone takes photos of you/captures your beauty and essence can speak volumes about how much love they have for you.
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@gabryellejae
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4 months
it’s scary the way you can kill off the love you have for someone. you just continuously remind yourself of the reality of the situation. you internalize how unfairly you were treated (even unintentionally). you do the work & then one day, you feel nothing for them. not a thing.
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1 year
oh you’re a momma’s boy? you love your mother very much? that is so sweet & wholesome. tell me, is it because she taught you core principles & values or because she still does your laundry & cooks for you regularly while rewarding you for doing the bare minimum everyday?
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
1 year
Ghosting is the modern day way to completely dissolve a relationship while experiencing zero accountability for doing so. It usually causes the victim of the ghosting to feel indifferent or completely betrayed.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
10 months
hate when my trauma is triggered
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
11 months
i would rather be alone than feel consistently neglected or taken for granted. if i can treat myself better than you can treat me then what are we really doing here.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
2 years
you do a lot for people because it’s who you are… but i can’t help but wonder if that was instilled in you at a young age. that you are only worthy of love if you are useful to that person. so you over perform and do the most for people you like, who may not even deserve it.
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@gabryellejae
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10 months
i tried
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gabryelle
1 year
you deserve the love you dream about
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
9 months
i truly believe when you lower your non-negotiable standards for someone, you will regret it every time.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
7 months
i don’t like when people push you to your breaking point then villainize you when you snap on them like bitch you asked for this.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
5 years
people who are motivated in gloomy, overcast weather are out of this world. how the fuck do you do that? i haven’t met one but i’m sure they exist. i’m sure someone wakes up and goes YES 20 degree weather and fog and NO sun, PERFECT. where you at?
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@gabryellejae
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4 months
social anxiety in a nutshell. it goes very deep & the roots of it come from a fear of being perceived or a fear of being unable to control how we are perceived. could be a trauma related response or simply our anxiety exaggerating our insecurities.
@thevirgomaryy
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do y’all ever get super paranoid that people are just pretending to like you and you’re actually just some big inside joke that everyone is hiding from you to keep making fun of you in your face? is that a common thing?
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
10 months
the longer you hold things in, the more you end up resenting a person. animosity builds when you aren’t speaking your truth or when you feel unable to.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
1 year
once you internalize that miserable people cannot help but attempt to project or displace their misery onto you, life gets a lot easier to navigate.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
1 year
you can be emotionally mature in some aspects & immature in others. you’re still human. you won’t always know what will trigger you until it does. i don’t strive to be perfect because that sounds more harmful than helpful. i strive to improve & feel great when i realize i have.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
4 months
you’re doing it again… forcing yourself to stick around longer than necessary for their potential instead of accepting them as they are and walking away because you know they are not up to your non-negotiable standards.
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@gabryellejae
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1 year
i’m scared of the change happening in my life right now but i have this overwhelming sense of calm and a feeling that no matter what decision i make, everything (and i mean everything) is going to be okay.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
1 year
Just paid rent
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gabryelle
1 year
i’m a romantic who needs to date another romantic. i’m trying to live in the fantasies i envision. yes to the flowers & sweet treat surprises. yes to the picnic where you feed me fruit & take photos of me slaying to show our children one day. yes to the candle lit dinners. yes.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
11 months
people really wait until you’re dead to speak about your impact in their lives and i find that interesting.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
3 years
i’m telling you. for me, love really is about these gestures. i need that mindfulness. that attentiveness. that person who doesn’t stop doing all the things they originally did to make you smile. i’ll need this bc i’ll definitely do shit like for my partner & reciprocity is nice.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
10 months
acknowledging that you are a sensitive person is the first step. then realizing that you tend to react to things in a purely emotional state is the second. then reflecting on how your emotional reactivity makes you feel after it happens is the third.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
3 years
yikes
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
1 year
whenever issa rae was on the screen
@PopBase
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1 year
What was your favorite part of #Barbie ?
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
9 months
i couldn’t date someone british they’d be sick of me saying HARRY POH AH every time they spoke.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
2 years
i never realized it was my people pleasing qualities that was draining me in social situations. when you are hyper vigilant of everyone’s emotional state due to the inconsistent emotions you experienced from parents in childhood, you spend your socializing focused on others.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
11 months
that one friend you have that you think is the coolest human ever and you’re so glad they’re your friend because you find them to be so beautiful, unique and awesome but you also just look up to them in so many ways.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
4 years
hey babes, idk who needs to see this but read this. 🤍
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
11 months
if someone is annoyed by your need to connect, leave them alone please.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
2 years
raw dogging a breakup by not using any dating app or flirtationship as a distraction is some strong shit. like what did you do just isolate in a field and meditate the pain away everyday. that’s really something.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
2 years
my heart goes out to all of you who had friendships or relationships that could not stand the test of time. for those of you who watched the person you love so deeply, turn cold right before your eyes, due to the constant demands & pressures of life & the rude people around them.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
1 year
he was nice but i deserve someone who’s crazy about me. there’s a lot of “love out loud” that i missed out on as a child. i would love for my future life partner to give me that. love me out loud. speak of me with pride. best believe, i’ll be doing that for you too.
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@gabryellejae
gabryelle
1 year
i refuse to sacrifice my peace and comfort just to keep someone in my life. i refuse to allow consistent disrespect from someone just to keep them in my life.
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