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product designer — thinking, doing, expanding. igbo. | header: deborah roberts.
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I don’t humor bad faith questions/responses. Be stupid somewhere else.
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Imagine having to come to terms with sudden unemployment in the wake of a pandemic and a fake financial advisor is on twitter shaming you for not being “financially literate” or having multiple streams of income.
A LITTLE EMPATHY (OR SILENCE) GOES A LONG WAY. 🤫 Read the room.
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People will rush to call you “mean” when you set and enforce your boundaries.
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Americans are so entitled and selfish. From the house parties to the crowds at beaches and parks... everything’s a mess.
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I don’t get on FB often but when I do, it doesn’t disappoint. 😭
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My nose piercing is such a tiny detail but I feel like it really enhances my face.
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Definitely judging people who are still traveling to Hawai’i.
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I work at one of those “cool, hip, trendy” companies, and every time someone says “fuck” in a meeting, I jump ngl. 💀
Like okay great, I love that for y’all, I guess, but my black ass will nawt be partaking lmao
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everybody who participates in these gotta a lil loser in em 😭
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“lonely, ain't it?”
"yes, but my lonely is mine. now your lonely is somebody else's. made by somebody else and handed to you. ain't that something? a secondhand lonely.”
― toni morrison, sula
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At some point y’all need to grow up... Nobody wants be in all that mess, especially if it doesn’t concern them.
The friends that “don’t pick a side” already picked a side, and it’s not yours.
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When you finally feel indifferent about people/situations that used to trigger emotional responses >>>>
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Shaming people for not giving grace to their bad parents feels to close to victim blaming…
I hate that we’ve made forgiveness a symbol of virtue and maturity. You absolutely do NOT have to extend forgiveness to anybody who denies your personhood. Parents included.
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Friendly reminder, most “preferences” don’t exist in a vacuum, they’re manufactured and inherited via socialization. Ask yourself *WHY* you “prefer” certain people/things... Sorry but, “I just like them/it” isn’t sufficient.
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There’s nothing “cute” about parentifying your child.
Y’all are actually terrible af.
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We are regressing @ such a rapid rate. Anti-intellectualism is so real. Y’all are really at war with critical thinking! 🫥
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I’ve never heard a reason for not dating bisexual men that wasn’t steeped in homophobia.
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This rhetoric is so tired. Y’all never hold the men who impregnate these women accountable.
This baby mama culture is getting too normalised I want better for black women
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I hate the way broke billionaire twitter acts like they’re miles ahead of everyone mentally, like they’re in on a secret no one else knows.
You worship the dollar. That’s not freedom. There’s nothing empowering about salivating over wealth you will NEVER have.
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I didn’t realize the “twitter crop” was a point of contention for so many people.
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@tenderoniTONY
she did what she had to do tbh, the breakfast club hosts are woefully incompetent.
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Verzuz was so special when it was just about the music. These attempts at grand productions definitely took away a lot of the charm.
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Remember when Erykah Badu said Akademiks looks like Jerry from Tom & Jerry? 😭 I really hate seeing that man.
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Going to a man’s house for a first date? The absolute ghetto. I would rather eat a jean jacket.
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I'm proud of women who make the difficult decision to end marriages that no longer serve them. Serial cheating = emotional abuse and nobody should be shamed for leaving.
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Reesa Teesa for The Cut wearing Hanifa. She looks so pretty! Happy for her. 💖
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Heartbroken men are so annoying. They can never just focus on healing. Just misogyny and vibes.
You’re not Future. Grow up!
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A rare glimpse of Ann Marie Lastrassi speaking in her native tongue. Ikdr! 🇮🇹🤌🏾
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Imagine crossing someone’s boundaries and then trying to police their reaction... it doesn’t make sense.
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I hope no one participates in this.
1. You don’t need to “prove” your worth as an artist to these misogynistic rappers.
2. Don’t allow this clown to get bread off your name.
After all the calls,DMs, angry tweets and other messages saying “I am a major gatekeeper in the hip hop world,why don’t I invest in a female who is out here hustling and making a name for herself?” I decided to create the
#SoSoDefFemalecypher
, details coming soon
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@tenderoniTONY
especially angela yee. it's always nice when people put her on hush mode. she adds nothing to the conversation and rarely stands up for the women dj envy and charlamagne harass.
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I hate m*n that act like they’re doing you a favor by simply liking you… 😵💫 I’m not moved bc I’m a likable person, now get in line with the rest of em babe
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wow. i suddenly need a hip thrust belt. this is so convenient!
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I told myself I’m supposed to be saving money but yeah lemme take my ass to Sephora ASAP. 🫠😭
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The is really how everyone dresses now and I hate it. 😭
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I don’t want anyone to change *for* me, because ultimately it breeds resentment – and it doesn’t last. I want the people in my life to feel inspired to change/grow/heal for themselves.
This is where vulnerability and love thrives!
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Corporate speak is really annoying, flowery, long winded and passive-aggressive.
Make your point and GO.
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*only with people who actually like art
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Woke up and my helmet of salvation was on the floor.
Monique…????
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Khloe Kardashian is the same person who called Jordyn Woods (who’s also struggled with body image) a “fat ass” on national television in an attempt to disparage her.
Miss me with the bs.
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“lonely, ain't it?
"yes, but my lonely is mine. now your lonely is somebody else's. made by somebody else and handed to you. ain't that something? a secondhand lonely.”
― toni morrison, sula
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We don’t have to lie like this every time black celebrities attempt to capitalize on police brutality imagery.
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M*walola is a disgusting person. But her inability to construct a good read always sends me. 😭 it’s always some middle school-esque one liner. It truly speaks to her lack of intelligence & creativity.
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This pandemic has has created IRREPARABLE financial damage for many families. A $600 stimulus check is borderline offensive and even $2k isn’t enough. Make that shit *at least* $10k.
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“Tryna fix your inner issues with a bad bitch” is the perfect summary of modern day dating
Y’all niggas need to HEAL. Go to therapy. You’re scaring (and scarring) the heauxs.
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classic projection. bc you lack morals and ethics, you have to convince yourself that others are just as pathetic.
seriously stop pretending, yall aren’t boycotting a FUCK THING, if anything when i go to work and pass starbucks i see it even more packed than before 💀 like please stop pretending for this internet advocate shit, y’all are not that in real life fr
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Not y’all talking about moving to Canada like they aren’t actively oppressing indigenous ppl. Lol.
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Southwest >>>>>>>>>>>
Idc. When it comes to domestic flights, I’m choosing Southwest every single time. Two free checked bags + carry-ons is unbeatable.
Missed my Delta flight so had to re-book with Southwest… it’s different over here
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Y’all don’t think it’s weird to praise white people for tolerating, liking, or loving us?
The bar is in hell. Stop doing this shit.
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I’m so tired of y’all posting and sharing videos of black children being mercilessly beaten by their parents and guardians. I’m even more tired of seeing you fools defend it because you “turned out fine.”
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I don’t wish complex traumas on anybody & I’m actually *very* happy there are people who’ve had largely positive life experiences; but relating with those people can be frustrating at times because it requires a level of patience that I sometimes don’t have, to be 100% honest.
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I’m so happy Wizkid is getting his flowers globally, but I need y’all to move beyond “Essence” because the whole album is flawless. Made in Lagos has zero skips.
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No bc this is really how y’all tweet @ the top of every new year. I can only imagine how insufferable y’all are in real life. 😭
Like shut up and let ppl work out in peace esp if it’s only for a few weeks like y’all claim
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Your friends can’t even share the things they’re going through without yall claiming they’re “trauma dumping” and/or discarding them bc they’re not following your advice but you lot are constantly yammering on about community. Please bffr.
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Kodak Black telling someone to k*ll themselves like he didn’t plead GUILTY to the s*xual assault of a minor… I don’t think he’s in any position to have a conversation about the insignificance of anyone’s life.
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The PSP was a cultural reset. Way ahead of its time. Classic. Unforgettable. Always remember the Nintendo Switch is her son!!!
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Y’all don’t get tired of fantasizing about incels demeaning black women?
Yuck.
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