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she/her 🏳️🌈 alt acct || trans-inclusive feminist || studying radfem theory
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she was violated multiple times during the shoot (asked for men to not ejaculate in her eyes n they still did) there was no proper std checking, the girl started sobbing afterwards in an interview and said she disassociated for most of the shoot. it's not the same.
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i saw some guy comment on that clip saying that what she went through the same discomfort as eating a 100 servings of pasta, and that yea it feels shitty but she'll be ok afterwards. wtf is going on why are we downplaying the trauma she went through.
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@justababeygm i missed this part. i'm so glad you mentioned it. all of this makes it so depressing to barely see anyone actually listening & empathizing with what she went through.
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one person raped every 68 seconds in the US & our revolutionary men are here online campaining for rapist pedophile rights.
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calling rape the worst crime is puritanism apparently 😳.
@discordspies the way sex crimes are treated as the most horrible thing that someone could do or that could happen to someone reeks of puritanism. these mfers dont react this strongly to murder so i think these people unconsciously believe that sexual assault is worse than death.
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@anamorphisis exactly. i feel so bad for her bc she is constantly downplaying her feelings in these videos and even worrying if the participants enjoy themselves while she's clearly distressed. and people want to blame her for making the choice, not understanding everything else at play here.
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i saw a twt where a woman said she puked during a bj and couldnt breathe & the man kept going and all 1000s of comments/likes + the poster were supporting of the man's actions & joking abt it. idk idk bjs are not feminist as long as violence like that is normalised during them.
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"sex work is the worlds oldest profession 🫶🏻🥺" meeting in the replies.
i have bad news for you about most men in all of human history.
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maybe we've been too mean to billionaires n thats why they oppress us 😭😭😭 we should reach out to them and improve our messaging so they know they can join our fight to liberate the working class 🥰 bc capitalism hurts EVERYONE 😢.
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men have to think this bc if rapists and abusers were actually held accountable by the law they would lose 90% of their friend group 😭💔🥀.
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lobotomies chill me to my core i can't bring myself to enjoy ppl joking about getting one or w/e. i can't think of few things more evil than that procedure, anything that alters someone brain and mind like that is beyond scary. also its misogynistic history. .
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@MillieDStar outside of this industry everyone likes to remind us abt enthusiastic consent & all the other scenarios consent can't be assumed etc, but the moment it's about SW it doesn't matter if a SW is financially coerced to have sex with men in order to survive.
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no one has a problem calling ppl who use instacart hitler slavers who should be killed but try to say that survival SWs are exploited and raped suddenly SWs fully 'consented' to work the job & johns shouldnt be criticised and they have the right to buy women's bodies.
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ppl are saying this a selection of videos purposefully downloaded for this ?? if so i feel even more disturbed that i did when i first saw this. medical professionals downloading misogynistic, dehumanising and borderline pedophilic content for men to get off to.
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@magionline_ yes like she's the perfect example of someone "consenting" to this yet she was still traumatised and physically harmed by what happened to her. & we can see so many of the factors that could've pressured her to keep going. it goes against a lot of their talking points re: SW.
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everyone crying how KAM and other "misandrist" jokes are the reason men r getting radicalised, but cant extend the same empathy to women & why they might've turned to hating men after millenias of violent oppression. okkkk lol.
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it's awesome that men can just say class oppression is the first and root of every other oppression bc rly that's the only one they mostly really gaf abt (it can affect them after all) 😭.
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why are women defending with their LIFE that man jumping in the streets happy he can fuck his gf raw. who cares omfg it's not even his account who posted it, no one knows what he looks like 😭 no harm is being done.
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you've all been chanting abt enthusiastic consent all this time but the moment it comes to SW then having to choose between having sex w a client or being homeless is not being coersed into sex? you talk abt & critique power imbalances all the time & but here it doesnt apply?.
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guys straight people feel alienated and depressed bc woke lgbt got human rights so they are turning to the far right bc of it. so we need a leftie equivalent of Podcaster RapistMan to lead them and show them positive heterosexuality.
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first days of women's history month and bro's arguing that the gov should start selling women's bodies to incels thank u comrade!!.
this is a tweet I made about the Dutch government sponsoring sex work for people with disabilities who'd otherwise have low chances of having sex. it's me expressing support for consensual sex work. I did delete the tweet because radfems and tankies are batshit about SW however.
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never see men going through such discomfort n violence just to please their female partners loll. even being mildly inconvenienced/delayed in their pleasure is too much for them. the imbalance of how normalised bjs are compared to cunnilingus.
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the fandom talks about her as if her only purpose in the show was to serve as a parallel to viktor & his 'love' for jayce. she is her own character you know not only a literary device for ur yaoi ship.
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calling ppl swerfs for implying women in the brothels he frequented were most likely forced to work there 😢 making him a rapist !.
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mimicing blowjobs is not feminist female liberation like. it's just performing a sexual act but there's nothing feminist about it. no need to reframe it as feminist? besides lets not act like it's not just performing sth that has been expected & imposed on women since forever.
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first u found the concept of intimacy coordinators funny and now whats funny is that a man w/ a history of abuse follows an acct posting porn actresses that look like his ex.
He’s lowkey kind of romantic.
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you guys are fucked up for attacking this man he's already had a vasectomy and he's cheering because his gf's IUD insertion was painless! he's a male feminist who reads dworkin and protests for women's rights every day. misandry has gone too far.
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and then all of a sudden all jobs are equal under capitalism so going to a brothel is the same as going to mc donalds to buy a burger.
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instacart workers are exploited men and society's most vulnerable, abused by ppl buying their services but women in prostitution are all girlboss self employed queens who complain too much anyway bc they 'chose' that line of work :).
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w/ the whole expecting a bj when a woman is on her period/post birth. shaming women for refusing to give oral while women expecting it in return has been considered an anomaly.
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@DreadPirateEsk @LeftHonJens slavery. and i don't believe it's an uncommon view for people who understand capitalism? wage slavery is a commonly used term. why is it so hard then to admit that coersed sex is rape ?.
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DO NOT FEAR 💗 rapists will continue to prosper for a hundred years more you do not have to worry for them 🙂👍.
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@kelpzaddy @botherbug she's still getting rape & deepfake threats and her selfies are being posted on incel forums elsewhere please stop adding to the dogpile. she's just a child who called men ugly.
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@GiGi_992216 i agree 🙂↕️ it's been used as a way to degrade and to exert power over women and other men, often nonsexually. i can't divorce it from that context and the patriarchy live in. plus the ever present expectation to service men in this way without getting anything in return.
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how u sound talking abt men. bffr ofc the opressor class will feel sad for losing power and ownership of the people they opress.
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i get too depressed when i hear people talking about it lightly 😭 everyone needs to be like me and have at least one night where they REALLY think about what that procedure does and get 5 panic attacks about it. then proceed accordingly.
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@Human156 trust me no rapist is getting his rights away any time soon they remain happy, loved & defended by their communities & the gen public 😚 victims have no power over them and this will continue to be the case based on everyones reactions to victims wishing harm on their torturers.
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@MillieDStar it's crazy to see ppl who are actually well read & care abt marginalized ppl saying exactly this omfggg we are doomed.
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only a man could be this willfully ignorant abt this. do u think men have been appreciating stories about women's struggles so far? the conservatism comes from YOU MEN !!! for not being able to relate to women's stories lmaoo.
i know it's meant to be like yaas girlboss but the idea that men and women occupy complete different spectatorial positions and can only relate to/identify with characters of the same gender is just boring men are from mars women are from venus style conservativism sorry.
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once we have our revolution everything else will be solved as well! 😍 i find it crazy though that so many of our 'revolutionaries' are racist and misogynist themselves hmm. will they, too, suddenly be enlightened once they aren't exploited by capitalists?.
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never let celia see u washing ur hands in public after getting a nosebleed bro wordt mistake of my life.
All. BLOOD. Is. A. Biohazard.
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someone calls him gross or qts to talk abt current affairs re: women's reproductive rights & medical research/treatment relating to it & misogyny, and all of a sudden everyone rises up to defend this random faceless man. bc maybe he's a male feminist who has a vasectomy already.
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@JadeOpal16 she's a child getting an overwhelming amouny of rape threats maybe don't call her misogynistic slurs.
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@dimitrescugirl1 i dont thing anyone is trusting any state with that power truly. it's just fun to dream of a world where rape is taken seriously.
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this is just misogynoir you ppl are so insecure abt mel getting the spotlight & being loved by one of ur fave men that you have to humiliate her at every chance you get so you feel less threatened. so pathetic.
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@c45789542 sex work is different. if you were in a situation where you had to have sex with someone in order to keep a roof over your head you wouldn't really have a choice. that would be sex under coersion which is rape.
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she said her boundaries were violated constantly during the shoot (men kept ejaculating in her eyes when she asked them not to, it was hard to get the men off her), that she disassociated to get through it, and she starts crying when she talks about the experience.
Can’t believe this whole website is currently being scandalized by gangbang porn. Really pathetic stuff. You know you can just not fall for the bait, right? You don’t have to get riled up by every play to emotionally manipulate you. You can just ignore it.
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@starbennettt i see someone say this or "she deserves better than a MAN 🤢" i open their profile and it's someone obsessed with jayvik w/ 0 mentions of mel 😭 + wdym u think these men are undeserving when ur page is dedicated to obsessing over them omg like be honest !.
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the fact that the latter has been going on for way longer and is an actual problem & has political power to fuel it, while the former is just mean comments online from the smallest minority ever that has no power over men.
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your words ring hollow if u dgaf abt sex workers and think the circumstances of their consent doesn't matter. ur "feminism" is worthless.
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yk i feel like the intrusive thought explanation wouldn't work nearly as well if the bigotry was anything other than misogyny 🤨.
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@ConNor1388859 so we agree. actual rapists aren't threatened and their rights arent being taken away. and no sane feminist campaigns for any current govt to start rounding up rapists n killing them. we already are victims of a patriarchal justice system, why would we trust it with more power.
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objectification is dehumanisation and violence, it's insane patriarchal thinking to say all sex involves it. it requires unbalanced power dynamics between men and women. no, lesbians do not objectify women.
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"i can't believe i'm about to defend a man but-" calm down ladies you dont have to defend the friend of this man 🙂↕️ you can rest 🫶🏻
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@aretheygay @BDP65082214 there is nothing wrong with the phrasing. our societies raise misogynistic men worldwide, in the current state of the world it's valid to say men shouldn't be in gynecology.
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@dvotackatri right, as if we haven't been coddling men for thousands of yrs like how did that end up working for us 🫥.
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@bobo_circus it wasnt his wife, he violently raped a woman who was completely dependent on him could you please talk about this respectfully to the victims. i'm actually really disgusted by your tweets.
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@clownarisha @sasufag rfs criticize the industry and its supporters not women and marginalised people who work in the industry. if you want to argue against feminists maybe learn the basics before trying to join a debate. & the ppl making fun of SWs dying are usually ppl who consume porn, not rfs.
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and u have to dig to find "misandrist" online (bc there are almost none irl). even communist & left spaces are overwhelmingly pro patriarchy & cryptomisogynistic. this is so pathetic.
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@angedipus it said 'their' lobotomy on the post so i legit thought at first they both got one and were coping together or sth which could be more heartwarming ig but no 😭 kms.
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@Human156 so many women posting abt this are well read in feminism and politics we are well aware that rapists are human and created by a patriarchal society! we are commenting on how rape is a horrifying crime that happens all the time, & the only thing that gets leftist men care-.
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@anamorphisis exactly and they're too scared to not steal our wages bc they have internalised capitalism 💔😭 someone free our billionaires.
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@lousopp i look at these yaoi shippers pages and 70% of the time they're gooning over some omegaverse forced pregnancy rape fics like i'm sorry. i hate men and heteronormativity but jst bc it's gay men SAing eachother it doesn't make it any better 😭.
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idk what to say that hasnt been said. i wanted to continue and talk abt medical misogyny & sexual abuse in this environment but we all know abt it and i wouldnt be saying anything new. depressing.
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@BigSquid0508 @JadeOpal16 she's a child and all she did was call men ugly. she's receiving rape threats and sexual harassment. whatever wrong she has caused in your eyes, i am sure she paid the price of it.
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@c45789542 bro are you telling me ur family members would feel the same having to work at macdonald's at minimum wage as they would working in a brothel?.
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@meltingshining it is, EDs in general are. many girls develop one when they start going through puberty to avoid being sexualised & harassed by men. and it's encouraged by our patriarchal societies too. the culture where i grew up girls were praised for not eating bc of beauty standards.
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there simply isn't enough "voluntary" sex workers to meet the demand, especially if women are economically secure enough to have a choice. the vast majority of women working in gov sponsored brothels will be there involuntarily, most trafficked from poorer countries.
this is a tweet I made about the Dutch government sponsoring sex work for people with disabilities who'd otherwise have low chances of having sex. it's me expressing support for consensual sex work. I did delete the tweet because radfems and tankies are batshit about SW however.
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kind of crazy how u hear someone talk abt sex and its all porn tropes the way they describe it. is there sex anymore that exists outside of roles and scenarios that have been built on top of eachother for years and years of ppl getting desensitized to porn.
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the only time this fandom will acknowledge mel's existence is when it's time to create some cuck humiliation fetish slop. god free her from these people 😭.
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@strawbrryfemme this 😭 it's so annoying like why the disclaimer just own it since u gaf sm to protect the honor of a man u don't even know.
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i do think most gay men are misogynistic bc how do u know abt everything women go through worldwide and aren't enraged like us. u can find more gay men who read feminist lit and care abt us (more than cishet men) but it's still extremely rare. soo i don't rly view them as allies.
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@hawillisdc honestly the comment sections of his posts are so depressing it's either platitudes like this or blue checks farming engagement by copy pasting the same image under every post (often AI art too).
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@JadeOpal16 i'm against everyone using it :/ and that's good at least. but i wish you didn't add to the dogpile that's terrible already.
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you and all that liked this are not the ally you think you are. this rhethoric leads to the minimization of transmisogyny within the community and u do realise that trans women are especially at risk of misogynistic violence? he/him stfu.
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nothing's been less concerning ever than women decentering men in their lives & refusing to date them.
the way you guys talk about sex strikes is deeply concerning to me. sex is not something only men enjoy. and it is certainly not (or shouldn’t be!) something that happens to women. please find a new angle preferably one that is not baked in rape culture. maybe an actual strike!.
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actually horrified by the cruelty, condescencion, and disdain "pro sw" people have towards fssw who talk negatively abt the industry and people who support it financially. i've seen some of the most dehumanising and disrespectful tweets on my tl by these ppl.
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@matildae22 no dw you didn't at all! you are exactly right. this line of work is statistically one of the most traumatizing ones too - it's crazy how ppl claim to care abt sex workers but then insult them by minimizing someone's visible distress and experience like this.
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the fandom has been hating on Mel dispoportionally compared to white characters, have weaponised misogynoir and antiblack tropes against her bc of real world racism. there's no misogyny or heteronormativity in arcane either btw. so either stop calling arcane gay ships opressed.
You always understand the oppressor vs the oppressed dynamic when it comes to talking about Cati and Vi but never when it comes to Mel and Viktor.
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retraumatising the victim by refusing her request to have journalists present to see the videos of her rape, and making her rewatch all of them alone w/ 51 of her rapists present in the room. cruel unimaginable abuse on top of the trauma she already suffered.
“Gisèle Pelicot a demandé à ce que les vidéos de viols soient publiques face aux journalistes, mais que le public sorte. Le Président a choisi le huis clos. Finalement, elle s’est retrouvée seule avec ses 51 accusés dans la salle.” . @JulietteCampion dans #CàVous
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where was all this crying like literally ever when women were the target. dont pretend to care u are an MRA goodbye.
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people are acting dumbfounded bc people are clowning on this man is so annoying. it's not like getting an IUD can be extremely painful and patients' pain is notoriously ignored & not properly managed + women are getting them in droves in the US bc of the loss of abortion rights-.
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and dont misunderstand me there's a reason i dont use these apps myself, and i think everyone should avoid using them, they *are* exploitative. the discourse got so messy and out of hand though, and the hypochrisy started to annoy me!.
no one has a problem calling ppl who use instacart hitler slavers who should be killed but try to say that survival SWs are exploited and raped suddenly SWs fully 'consented' to work the job & johns shouldnt be criticised and they have the right to buy women's bodies.
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there wasn't even proper std checks iirc; no specified time frame for test results, men bringing in their friends last minute. she was clearly in pain in the interview post filming, yet she seemed most worried abt disappointing thw participants. this is not anywhere near safe.
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god forbid a black woman is loved by a man you like omg now she has to go through weeks of humiliation and degradation as punishment. is this part of your fetish atp? you can't goon to jayvik art without depicting mel next to them getting cucked? bc you COULD leave her alone yk.
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@hamzoidcaliph @cybervirginmary there's no way of knowing if the porn is consensual even if it's a "happy couple". there's been cases of human trafficking even on OF or abusive husbands pressuring their SO to perform. and ofc they have to act happy under the threat of violence. it's better not to watch.
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@BigSquid0508 @JadeOpal16 all she is harassing is the femb0y community, a community that is racist, pedophilic and transmisogynistic. she is correct, and you might think it is okay to wish rape on a child but the majority doesn't agree with you.
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insane that men really dgaf about us and will fight for any liberation movement except for women's lib. they see how their female friends cant walk alone at night n hear them talk abt their SA stories and yet. nothing. you get furious abt any other injustice but ones we face.
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@scarlettfaiyrie exactly!! once you know enough about misogyny you see how deeply ingrained it's in all of us and in society. it's so silly to say that some men aren't misogynistic. it's just impossible for that to be true.
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@quesofrijole222 this is not the post, the one i'm talking abt was posted a couple of days ago. it was specifically about a man not stopping when the woman had thrown up. idt u will care to listen so i'm writing it here for anyone else wondering.
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queer twt showing their ignorance (transmisogyny) by pretending we have sooo much good trans women rep in animanga & therefore having a straight relationship between a gnc c!s man & woman is more necessary & progressive. dont piss me off.
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no matter the media u guys just have to get ur yaoi omfg.
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