that’s the main reason i left that app ; the amount of encouragement of eds that goes on is insane. i’ve seen so many people try to make it seem like eating disorders are some quirky & fun thing and not only is it triggering to many, but it’s an extremely unsafe way to paint eds.
society’s view on bisexuality is so warped that a bisexual is instead seen as a trend, a cheater, or a liar. bisexuals are villainized NONSTOP. why do u continue to spread the idea that being bi excludes trans ppl when we’ve said time & time again that that’s not the case?
they aren’t something fun and they aren’t something you should be “flaunting” on an app full of tweens. the atmosphere on that app is often not safe for people struggling with an ed & posting things to make it seem “cute” does no good.
wilbur telling tommy that learning about marginalized groups’ issues & being stressed about doing so is a privilege in itself & that it’s not about how you feel in a situation where you have to educate yourself was such a smart thing to say and i’m so glad he said it
mocking the fact that bisexuals are attracted to men; using phrases such as these (pictured below) to do so
* please note that lesbians not being attracted to men is not biphobic !
woah this got notice overnight ; i’ll be muting this for a bit but please listen to ed survivors and those in recovery, and please listen to what may trigger someone. struggling with & being in recovery from an eating disorder is such a hard thing i can’t even put into words. +
i’m recovering, but my eating disorder haunts me every single day. it really is not something anyone should ever have to go through or endure and i am sending endless amounts of love to anyone who is or has struggled with one. you are so strong & i’m so proud of you. i love you
adding onto this, i’ve seen a few of you say many people turned it almost competitive and you are completely right. the way some people would post videos mentioning eds and the comment sections would be filled with people comparing their calories or weight was insane.
@mellohi_disc
no :) the “upset” that you feel when heterosexual people are “made fun of” is NOTHING compared to the fear, worry, abuse, and harassment that so many members of the LGBTQ+ face every day. you have absolutely no right nor place to complain. get over it.
- sexualizing bisexuals, claiming they’re only looking for sex or hookups, proposing the idea of threesomes when they come out, or anything of that sort
- the idea that male bisexuals don’t face discrimination because they’re attracted to women / that female bisexuals don’t face discrimination because they’re attracted to men
ranboo & wilbur soot : * exist *
lgbtqia+ teens who grew up basing their self worth on things such as their grades and hobbies & consistently felt as though things were moving too fast to keep motivation :
YOOOO THAT’S MY SHIT
- claiming that bisexuality does not include trans + non-binary people / using phrases such as “hearts not parts” to distinguish the difference between bisexuality and pansexuality . these images by
@sapphicbisexual
explain the difference well !
- pretending that bisexual women, especially non-cis bi women, get treated the same as cishet women. for example, bi women, especially bi women of color, are at a higher risk of sexual assault.
i saw loads of people asking for a clip of what wilbur said to tommy so here’s the main part of it! the time stamp is a little bit after 1:36:00 of the stream if you’d like to go and watch the conversation through yourself
// transphobia
florida’s house of representatives has passed a bill requiring transgender young women in high school and college to play on sports teams based on their assigned gender at birth, and the FL governor plans to sign it. please take a look in the thread below
// ableism
watching my mutuals get pqrted just for opening up about their psychosis or the fact that they’re non-human is seriously breaking my heart. i’m disgusted at the lack of care that so many of you have. listen and STOP PQRTING PEOPLE WHEN YOU’RE ASKED NOT TO.
ranboo: exists
teens who grew up taking the roles of adult / parental figures due to their anxiety, had past fixations on horror stories and games, and now have some form of nd diagnosis : Holyyyy shit...
also a fucking reminder that racism, homophobia, etc isn’t “dark” or “unfiltered” humor / jokes. stop trying to excuse shit like that with phrases that you aren’t even using correctly.
the way that zoe laverne girl had to clarify that a thirteen year old wasn’t the father of her child ... maybe that’s a fucking sign you should stay away from kids weirdo
@mellohi_disc
sorry heteros but your sexuality goes against what i believe in :/ do whatever you want i guess but just don’t do it in front of me. and please don’t rub it in my face... it makes me uncomfortable.
guys what do ur Genders feel like ... i feel like mine is kinda like a planet that hasn’t been discovered yet or a dimly lit street that’s empty on a winter night