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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
So I got my name legally changed today. I am officially Dr. Munshya Banda👩🏽‍⚕️✨
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2 years
A lot of things labeled as “mental health issues” are in fact emotional immaturity issues.
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2 years
Tell me your controversial opinions
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2 years
@thottyguhh @heyyitsjanea Girl🤣😂🤣😂 He was like, well I’m glad I’m not on the receiving end of thatttt 🤣😂🤣😂
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Ajia🧕🏽
3 years
To me this was more than a masterclass. Really was an answered prayer and I’m so grateful to God♥️🙏🏽
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
No hairstyle does it for me like a sleek ponytail😍 It really compliments my forehead sana🤭🤞🏾
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
I want a boyfriend this year. I want to see what the hype is all about.
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
A marvelous mystery 🤍🌻
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Ajia🧕🏽
4 years
@WarrenbuffettDT @engadget You mean the chargers that do this
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
One thing about Druberg Studios🤌🏾🔥
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
@nottooshabbbby @solayaismail To you. This says a lot more about what you think about the job & seeing people post the workers that do it, than it actually does about the people that post them. Like, it’s a job that exists. And, like many others that may for some reason be looked down upon, is actually okay.
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
The more I see people my age get married, the more I fear it😂 Like, are you guys sure you know what you’re doing?🤣😂
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Ajia🧕🏽
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@Kiki_199230 @itsandrewviera Just from this tweet I can tell you got issues bc this has nothing to do with him being better/more qualified than said persons & with your outlook on the world, you managed to make it abt that😅 You have this AND therapy, that could be a plus for you but nope. Lol. Hope you heal
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
🤎🫶🏾
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@ItsBubalaB
MoonlightBubs🌙✨
2 years
Black girls in brown🤎>>>>
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Ajia🧕🏽
4 years
@bronwin__ @AlettaNevobasi Yupp. Google, "Kid drinking juice" and check out the image results.
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
What were they planning to do with the victims? Sex trafficking? Rituals? Organ harvesting? Who was funding that house? Keeping them fed? We need to get to the bottom of this. Because there could be more houses like these around Lusaka. We can’t stop here.
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
I’m praying for all the first born daughters out there this season.
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
Shine in all your splendor, that won’t ever blind the worthy 🎀
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
@ML_Philosophy “Don’t worry about anything, I got you.” + actions that came before ever saying that. Felt safe, protected, respected🥰
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
I’m a very simple hun. Receiving money is one of my great joys because it makes me happy.
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
@Kelyceee I understand this. My mind just can’t. I’ll be dry as the Sahara if he’s not someone who makes me happy. Intimacy starts in the mind.
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
The only man I’ll ever post on my socials is my husband.
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
If I marry a non Zambian man would it still be traditionally relevant to do chilanga mulilo??
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
The rate at which married men have been seeking women outside their homes is alarming. It’s either I accept I’ll be cheated on even years after I’m married or I just don’t marry at all. If being cheated on is hard & being alone is also hard, I’ll pick the latter struggle,thanks🥂
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
So next time someone will come complain about how the helper helped deplete their Oh So Heavenly shower gel, Jergens Lotion, Cantu hair moisturizer and people will talk about it’s just soap and lotion😂🤣
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
Dr. Babe on YouTube🌻♥️
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Sparkle ✨
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Quote with a cute 4 seconds video of you 🥺
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
Money doesn’t impress me. Spending it on & giving it to me does. Do you have the mindset of a provider? Are you generous? That’s what the flashy ones don’t understand. Pass sana.
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
… To be a woman for no one other than myself 🌹🥂
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
Me I just don’t lend people money. Simple. I always don’t have. That’s what it is for me because I’m not up for dealing with the stress that comes with it.
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
I don’t pay attention to anything that anybody tells me in terms of how much they care for me. I’ve gotten to the point where I just look at actions. Words don’t matter much to me. What matters most is how what’s being said matches what’s being done, that’s it.
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
Anne Marie is an influencer. Influencing me to work hard mpaka fye🥲🤞🏾
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
I really look forward to my first girlfriend allowance.
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Ajia🧕🏽
1 year
Season 2 Episode 7🖤
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Ajia🧕🏽
1 year
My Chommie, my best friend, passed and I don’t know how to exist with his absence💔 For 2 years he had been the most consistent thing in my life and now he’s just gone💔 He had the happiest and most vibrant soul ever. Such a smart & intelligent baby boy. I’ll miss him so much💔
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
You will always get more out of people with honey than with vinegar. Good manners and thoughtfulness of how we speak to people will always matter.
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
“Certain girls you just need money.” Yes, and I am one of them. Resources, emotional security, spiritual connection and a safe space. Everything. Simple.
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Ajia🧕🏽
4 years
@t0nit0ne I decided to make fupas a thing🥂 I realised we all have the ability to widen the beauty standards for ourselves 🥂
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Ajia🧕🏽
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“People make choices & don’t want to deal with the consequences. They want to convince everybody around them to accept & the world doesn’t work like that. Stop moving through the world of “could’ve, should’ve, would’ve” been. You need to face the world as it is.” - @AllyiahsFace
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Ajia🧕🏽
4 years
@ShaulKramer @WomenReadWomen Except,it’s not the post. It’s the person who was quoted. Alok said what he said and the post was just made to share his statement.
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Ajia🧕🏽
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@avirgoworld I found my signature scent as a child. My mom has always kept a huge perfume collection & she’d let me use them. I once wore one & it became the scent I fell in love with. I’ve stuck with it & I don’t want to smell like anything else, it’s perfect for me✨ I gate keep it too 😆🤞🏾
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Ajia🧕🏽
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@gaialect We are not victims of circumstance, we are victors by choice. We are not stuck, we can choose.
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Ajia🧕🏽
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It’s so hard fighting a version of you in someone else’s head. They’re always ready to confirm their bias of you. Exhausting sana.
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
Being wanted is the bare minimum. Of course you’re wanted, you’re an amazing woman! Wanting you is easy. That shouldn’t move you. Don’t be moved by sweet nothings. Don’t wait until a million unfulfilled promises later to realize that words don’t hold. Actions my diye🫶🏾
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
Your favorite doctor 💋 Worked with @MTN_Zambia on the launch of their new & #UNIK offer! Cheers to many more🥂🌹
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
@MDNnewss Cheers to saving lives from harms way🥂 May the victims of his evil heal and live long fulfilling lives🙏🏽
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
@babylegsss And yet I’m the doctor here you’re not.
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
In 6th year I really convinced myself I had a lot of psychiatric diagnoses from DSM 5. Among all of them, hypomania stuck the most. Elated mood. Super productive. Positive outlook towards everything & everyone. Sometimes I’d just laugh for no reason (alone). Yho ha a. Scary 😅
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Ajia🧕🏽
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Each month we receive pieces of good news and feel even prouder to be Zambian. I love all of this for us👏🏾🫶🏾
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Ajia🧕🏽
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“Emotional maturity is about your ability to understand and manage your emotions. An emotionally mature person has reached (and continues to work at reaching) a level of self-understanding with regards to their thoughts and behaviors and then decides how to best approach and
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
A lot of things labeled as “mental health issues” are in fact emotional immaturity issues.
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Ajia🧕🏽
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@Lehutso_Des I’m so scared of gas cylinders guys😭😭 Have any casualties (gas leaks-big fires) ever been reported before? Or is my fear irrational?
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Ajia🧕🏽
4 years
@DoverDell @pororriken @LetHanLive @DiyaWest @marksnotnice So why is he saying "Nah bro what the fuck"? Is he upset? Is he happy? What's going on? Lol.
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
@TheCosmeticLane Earlier when concerns were shared we were called inconsiderate. Sometimes ppl need psychiatrists & not surgeons. They don’t need the internets encouraging them to make these choices, dismissing the relevance of assessing for a root cause. Public support but individual suffering.
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@beyasiren @t0nit0ne We just have to do that for ourselves 🥂❗
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@brokenxclocks @jaeighsherwood @DanaHabs @CallMeTraay_ Imagine someone having such strong opinions on something he clearly can’t even understand. SMH.
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Ajia🧕🏽
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Knowing that no one’s going to save me & that I must save myself because I am the creator of my reality & therefore responsible for whatever I want to make out of this little life of mine has been one of my most freeing realizations. Never seen it as a sad truth but a helpful one
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Ajia🧕🏽
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@jaeighsherwood @badgalmaya11 @CallMeTraay_ She’s a bloody child, a first timer. She didn’t even know that she got her period in that moment. And many women bleed through what they wear sometimes depending on their flow on that day. You clearly don’t know anything about menstruating. Shut up pls
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Ajia🧕🏽
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I had a patient today who could only sign. I’m so happy and proud of myself for choosing to invest in learning how to sign, especially as a medical doctor ♥️⚕️
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Ajia🧕🏽
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@MirthCity
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May photo dump? 🥺🥺🥺
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lemme see y’all in pink right now 😡
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Ajia🧕🏽
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Could these guys have deliberately created a problem with a plan to “fix it”? Are we being played? Could they really have everything under control? Is this a political move to display chaos & then restore order? Electricity was one of their campaign points, I wouldn’t be shocked.
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The President has constituted an energy taskforce comprising of ERB, ZESCO, REA, Ministry of Energy and other key stakeholders to urgently address and initiate crisis mitigation, and implement solutions that will ensure electricity sufficiency and a surplus in the long run.
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Ajia🧕🏽
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@TendaiSia @stefflondon Girl tell me about it!! This really isn’t a “Zambia ku chalo” moment🫠
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
Invest in your brain too. Intelligence is beautiful for life✨
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Ajia🧕🏽
4 years
@Twitchell_eni @stingg_ Ikr. Female humans have that property. It's not acting like a male, it's acting like a female human. Testosterone is a human hormone found in different amounts based on reproductive organs in that human. Females tend to have it in less amounts than males, but it's not exclusive.
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Ajia🧕🏽
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Women with good intentions still want money. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to be provided for and taken care of.
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Women have made it clear to men that it is all about the money and not about the so called little things anymore even tho they still claim it is the little things. Those little things now cost money not opening car doors again.
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
@boks84tm @MojiDelanoBlog @Sisi_Yemmie That part “When a vendor posts the price, people seeing make a mental note of the cost.” No one’s impulse buying in this economy unless they’re cornered with no solution or they’re desperate. Ppl budget & plan. If a client wasn’t ready to buy at your prices you can’t fault them.
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
Routinely reminding myself that no one owes me anything is what I feel has helped me remain a grateful person. Really and truly, what others do for or give to me is not owed to me but they do it anyway and thus, I am genuinely filled with gratitude and express my thankfulness.
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Ajia🧕🏽
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I don’t identify as a “slay queen”, an “aunty rich rich”, a “bitch”, a “baddie”, a “pye/pie”, a “guza”. I just don’t want any of those labels for myself & that’s okay. I’ll call anyone what they want for themselves & avoid what they don’t want, & I’ll request for the same grace.
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
I hate being taken fi eediat 🥹 Like just tell me the truth and be straight with me🫠
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
I have the best landlady & landlord ever🥺♥️🌻 They’re like my landparents. I feel so loved by them🥺♥️🌻
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
A birthday babe✨♥️ Wiser. Stronger. Sexier🥂♥️
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I deserve my flowers while I can still smell them
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
Eat well, hydrate, stop being cheap with yourself in all ways, cut down on the people in your life who are committed to be nothing but a headache. Devote yourself to feeling worthy and deserving🌻
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Ajia🧕🏽
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@boks84tm @MojiDelanoBlog @Sisi_Yemmie Same here. And what’s so puzzling is that sometimes in all the comments where others took time to ask, hoping to see the price, the page is responding, "We will DM". Gosh 🥲 I don’t support businesses with hidden prices, I just leave them alone. It’s so tedious as a customer.
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
On that note. I offer collateral based loans🫶🏾 500-50,000, instant and quick. No long queues. No hefty paper work🫶🏾🌻
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Ajia🧕🏽
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@gothboifriend @ebukaemmanel @DportStudios @BlackSoth59 @hornymustache @s_1195r @Bojack_tanman @AguaType @MoneyOsk Ikr. Learnt so much from a different perspective✊🏿 I'm grateful. I also liked how @hornymustache realised the fault in his thought process. We need more of that🙌🏿
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@Puligod1 @Miss_Dmorgann @officialLyc0 How do you even know it’s a small number of men? Repeatedly or not, you are being told that 97% of women have gone through it. Why must you come and make it about fairness? Can’t we focus on the issue at hand instead of caping for men against the victims of their actions???
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Ajia🧕🏽
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Take nothing personally🌻 When you know who you are, it doesn’t move you when you hear the incorrect opinions of what others think of you. Especially people who don’t even know you or think they do. You simply observe the labels but you don’t absorb. They don’t shake you.
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Ajia🧕🏽
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@mihlalii_n “My husband and I will get back to you on that.”
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Me DM’ing for price days ago on IG : K2,000 Me finally visiting the store physically : K1,600 No sale, no special promo or anything🙂 This is one of the reasons why I just refuse to support & buy from businesses that tell people to DM for price.
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
@its_a_GF2 Her redeemers live😂
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Ajia🧕🏽
1 year
Birthday girl🥰🎀 I’m so grateful🎀♥️
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1 year
Say no to struggle love.
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Ajia🧕🏽
4 years
@_ammohammed @ElsaAngel19 She’s treating Beyoncé like she’s Beyoncé. You are the one viewing/perceiving her admiration as though Beyoncé is God.
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Ajia🧕🏽
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Earlier this year I asked God to provide me with management when I got so overwhelmed doing med school, business, content creating & everything else all on my own & yesterday I signed my first ever management contract. Grateful 🌻
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WOMEN ONLY: Quote this with your favorite picture of you so far in 2021
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Ajia🧕🏽
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If you have to push a man into a relationship, you will have to push him through it. You have to decide if you will make time to convince a man to see your value & worth. If he can’t drive the momentum of the relationship or his direction is one you don’t desire, leave him alone.
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This death reinforces my fear of & paranoia over posting my location in real time. Ppl could make it their mission to follow you only to hurt you. It’s not right & change is needed but it’s what happens in this world💔 sad that these lessons are being learnt at the cost of lives.
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“Comparison is the thief of joy.” Before comparison: Your job gives you joy… until you put it up against someone else’s. Your partner brings you joy… until you put them up against someone else’s. Your car gives you joy… until you put it up against someone else’s. etc…
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Ajia🧕🏽
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@L_RightOff @GoddessDose When people give that as a reason I doubt that they mean it should be the only reason why. I think it's simply serves as a very good reason as a start to being unconditionally kind. There's so many people who are rude on purpose.
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Seven years of study in my field means I have gained the credibility & have a duty to find all other possible causes of things. Having been through the years & gained the qualifications I have means I am not narrow minded enough to think that effects have only one cause.
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Ajia🧕🏽
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@Anne_MarieSx Hi, thank you for asking. So in order to understand what emotional immaturity is we need to first understand what emotional maturity is. From an article by Health Line (link below), the following are qualities of emotional maturity:
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I want Black Friday shopping money.
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I’m so glad to see that finally society is starting to hold the cheating husbands accountable. Leaving your whole household to go look for women outside your home is so shameful and deserves it’s much needed attention.
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Ajia🧕🏽
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I look forward to the day we’ll talk about how it’s so many people getting married because they feel they “should”/“have to” and not because they see that they want to be wedded to their partners that are getting divorced. 3 divorces before 30, ladies and gents, slow down.
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Ajia🧕🏽
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@Anne_MarieSx Taking responsibility, showing empathy, owning mistakes, being unafraid of vulnerability, recognizing and accepting needs, setting healthy boundaries. Emotional immaturity is not “childishness”. Far from it. They are not the same thing at all. I have a thread where I define it:
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Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
“Emotional maturity is about your ability to understand and manage your emotions. An emotionally mature person has reached (and continues to work at reaching) a level of self-understanding with regards to their thoughts and behaviors and then decides how to best approach and
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@drbabe_
Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
@FaithfulAma @mightbeluela “The tiktokers” Faith😂🤣😂🤣
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@drbabe_
Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
Contrary to popular belief, aggression isn’t strength. It is weakness. It is a display of how weak a person is, lacking in self control. Restraint is a virtue.
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@drbabe_
Ajia🧕🏽
2 years
It’s only until people get jobs or a form of work or responsibility when they learn that fast replies all day every day aren’t feasible. Either that, or they just don’t respect the work you do or don’t acknowledge and understand the responsibilities you have.
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