Men who are not gynecologist’s & have never been treated by one are quoting this tweet, insisting that most women prefer male gynae’s. This is really a mental illness.
@docneto
Responsible fathers talk to their babies/read them story books while they are in their mother's womb. They are also active in nurturing their child before age 1. It is called being a parent. If you want to be a rolling stone to your children do it with your full chest.
@NotSoNewlywedPC
I am not throwing shade on the ladies oh (I just find it odd) Women have been socialised to view marriage as a jackpot hence the dramatic reaction to proposals. Plus I've been told guys like the overly dramatic tears too, so I guess they are trying to please their partners.
@demigodgeovs
When I saw that tweet my first thought was, this woman is married to someone's driver making 50k a month. Alot of the debates on Naija twitter stems from abject poverty.
@niggazoid
People who don’t have a mind of their own. Most of them wldn’t have noticed there was anything wrong with her outfit if an oyinbo person didn’t point it out. What they don’t realize is if Tems was Oyinbo she wldnt have gotten this much hate.
@gxrshm
And they work long grueling hours 12-14 hr shifts on their feet. My sister is an ICU nurse, she is permanently exhausted, thankfully her husband has always been the kind of guy who never wants his wife stressed. So he comes up with ways to make her life easier.
@Doreenglm
Patriarchy has men convinced that women exist because of them. I see shirtless men all the time working out & I don't bat an eyelid. Dude needs to mind his business or stay home.
@Gbemisoke
@BlessingsDigha
Imagine claiming someone is unhappy because they are single then follow up with a question like that. If her married friends are don’t trust their husbands, aren’t they the unhappy ones?
@demigodgeovs
My theory is the colleague exists but doesn’t speak to that woman’s husband. He has a crush on the said colleague, made up this fictitious story about her sharing her food with him because that is one of the only fantasies he can share with his wife.
@ayosogunro
Being trans doesn't make a person above reproach. You send emails pleading with a person then turn around to start a smear campaign against them online even though you know their true stand about "trans-women". No where in that letter did she bash them for defending trans women.
@abitofjoie
I was with a group of women last year talking about pregnancy and child bearing. A lady in her 20's said she thought having babies was easy. I started to explain the difficulty of the process to her, when an older lady asked me to stop discouraging her.
@HrhKingAlex
@dondekojo
That is a CU rites of passage, papa most curse you before you graduate. These people are not half as powerful as we make them out to be. I even doubt you escaped curse free self, because he does general cursing out in chapel anytime he gets mad. Which was all the time in my day.
@docneto
It does, because children are more observant than adults give them credit for. They appreciate the parent who nurtured them into adulthood. You need to speak to pp who had fathers who chose to be a hands on, they hv a certain dynamic with their fathers.
I am not putting my mental health & safety on the line for anyone. If I try once & you go back to your abuser, I'm out! I can love you from a distance, with the understanding that victims go back to their abusers an avg of 9X before they are finally able to leave.
I am BEGGING y’all to read at least one book on domestic violence bc this isn’t being a girls girl, this is helping to isolate a victim further bc she didn’t respond how you wanted her to
@TheOluwabukunmi
Someone who just completed A Levels is 18 yrs old tops. I think you should have added that he rapped a teenager. Even though she may be an adult, she is technically still a child. I know the article referred to her as a woman but that ain’t right either.
@AbdulrahmanUWF
Supposedly!
I rooted for her , but coming across her almost naked pics online broke my heart : cos I could not link the relationship btw cooking and going naked! They don’t relate!
@Naijasinglegirl
You know when a person’s vocabulary is limited, they sometimes use the wrong words to express themselves. Hence the misplaced use of the word “clout”. You can’t blame them.
Black men seem to have a major preoccupation with women dating down, I'm not sure why but it is beginning to look like a mental illness at this point 🤷🏽♀️
@UjuAnya
She spoke of friendship and betrayal of trust. But this person started an online smear campaign against her. Trans people are not above reproach simply because they belong to a marginalised group, remember Cis-women are still fighting for their rights too.
@Okkevwe
I also have a fear of "unintentional & thoughtless people" because I believe that their unintentional behaviour is in itself intentional. I can't even keep people like that as platonic friends. It is a narcissistic trait.
@demigodgeous
Samson was a psychopathic mass murderer. Killing people in the name of his god and faith. Delilah did their world a favor but the patriarchy would have Christians believing otherwise.
@Vash_Offo
A regular 9-5er works an average of 8hrs daily. Nurses do an upwards of 12hrs. I know nurses who loose their hair from stress & look older than their pairs in other professions because of the stress of the job. I don’t blame anyone who doesn’t want to share their pay cheque.
Photo Dump alert!🚨🚨🚨
I had planned to post these on my birthday but they somehow weren’t ready & it reminded me of the need to celebrate myself everyday. It is still my birthday month so here’s to many more years of the glow Debbie 🥂
@EniolaHu
True morning people don't even need an alarm, we wakeup early regardless of when we go to sleep. We start everyday with a jump but loose steam before 8pm 🤷🏽♀️
@Mochievous
The scariest part is this “it is not enough for women to leave an abusive ex, they have to be on the run for most of their lives”. God have mercy.
The concept of work life balance is so alien to the average Lagosian, they think spending endless hours in traffic is a sign of determination & hardwork. 🙄🙄🙄
@ThatPHCBoy
I like Genevive, but I can I assure you that you don’t want to know her opinion on a lot of things. The few times she’s made her opinions known about issues, it always landed on the wrong side of things.
@stunner_xoxo
Obviously envious of your freedom and is likely unhappy in her so called marriage. The more unhappy a Nigerian woman is in her marriage the more she projects on the single women around her.
We know you can't choose which baby comes out first, but misogyny has made you so dull, you think people can't tell this is a lie. You are willing to risk loosing your liscence over this retarded tweet. I hope the validation from your fellow misogynists is worth it.
OK while we are on this topic, Nigerians in diaspora please stop telling Non-Nigerians you migrated because you don't want your children to grow up in your own country. Please stop washing your dirty knickers in public!
@Sisi_Yemmie
You can tell from that short clip that this is a norm. I won't be surprised if she is the primary earner in that household. I hope she finds the strength to leave. As for the animal, there's video evidence so he'll definitely get what's coming.
@Ore_Yusuf
What I find most upsetting is the popular belief that because she is rich and famous, she has no right to complain about her mental health. How does a person saying they are struggling with depression make them a brat? See ehn people are really wicked.
@asemota
Big house poorly finished & don't get me started on the guy in the video. Absolutely no one who makes legit money is buying from this guy. He doesn't know anything about real estate.
@Ambrosia_Ijebu
People need to allow black women breath. One can’t spend 60 secs on this TL without seeing “if you are a BW & you like this, then you are that”. Live and let live
@asemota
A lot of them are married people who are just mean and have unrealistic expectations of their partners. We all know loads of people IRL like them.
@t0nit0ne
Awww this is so cute, thought you both went on a holiday last year or something. Whatever it is best of wishes, sending positive energy into the universe for you. 💕💕💕
I've never been a fan of the "I have my own problems, I can't be there for anyone else" school of thought. Each phase of life comes with it's issues & the way I see it, if you are waiting for a day when you'll be problem free, you'll never be there for anyone.
@sugabelly
Hmmm I thought the was that when the colonizers came, the killed all the marabouts (historians) & documentation was only done by them & blah blah blah 😑
@cchukudebelu
Our history has been whitewashed and our people will believe anything the oyinbo’s say. People who took over other territories of the world with brute force couldn’t have come to us peacefully that’s all I know.
@PeterROCK_
Forefathers that sold their fellow humans into slavery. If they were so great why didn't they leave any great legacies behind? Like the founding fathers of other first World countries? Mschewwwww
+234 Genz don’t fall into the trap generations before you fell into!!!
Tribalism has been used as a tool to divide & conquer our people for decades! If we don’t stand united against the political class we don’t stand a chance!
@greysweaterdude
@NgoziPreshy
Also in reality, 90% of the women who want this would not end up with rich men. There simply aren’t enough of them & they typically marry women in their social circles. So it comes down to them marrying a struggling guy. Single income household = a lot of suffering.
Poland and Hungary have been among the fiercest opponents of immigration, but their economies are desperate for foreign labor.
@k_kropidlowski
goes inside one "container town" where up to 5,200 mostly Asian workers will be housed
We need to normalise telling off toxic elders in Nigeria. Imagine having to silently tolerate a person who never has anything nice to say to you. Pays you off handed compliments & bad mouths every single person you care about, while desperately looking for ways to berate you.
@thekangminlee
@dondekojo
I can’t believe no one came to that lady’s aid. How do you stand by and watch this? This isn’t about race! This is pure evil! Why can’t we just see people as humans first? I hope she gets caught though, this is unacceptable.
@hartng
By the time the guy is in his 70's young wife is still in her prime and may step out on him or walk out of the marriage when the scales fall off. What these men don't realise is no woman can empathise with them like the wife of their youth.
@MazeDaMouth
BW should please date other races abeg. When a lot of these same BM start making good money, they go for other races. They only want BW when they broke.
@NaijaFlyingDr
It's either single people, people in bad marriages or people who have been married for two weeks. People in happy marriages rarely say much.