A lot do you don’t actually seem to be into kink in the way you claim to be since you seem to be woefully misinformed and refuse to educate yourself or learn anything about practicing kink outside of Twitter.
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If I might jump in. Terms matter. Idea of “Trauma kink” pathologizes kink. It plays into misinformed strand of thinking of society at large that BDSM is exclusively rooted in deviance, abnormality, or mental illness, and that this is only reason for someone to be interested in it
You can tell subs or sub leaning people on nsfwtwitter haven encountered far too many or almost exclusively fake doms simply because when an actual dom gives even 5% of real dominance, they get all flustered and are like, “Oh, I’m in danger”.
We have to do better as the nsfwtwitter community to be truly safe and informed. Kink has often been been used as cover for predatory and abusive behavior. We have to get better at recognizing the difference
Switches are great as a Dom because it’s a real test of your ability. When you get them to be subby, there’s a sense it’s out of respect and because of your sheer willpower and presence. They could be a Dom, but they’re incapable of that side arising around you.
Best part about being soft dom is being underestimated. Everyone misjudges your ability because you don’t fit the dom stereotype built up in their head. And then when expectation meets reality, they realize they didn’t know what they signed up for and they are very much in danger
Being both a degrader and a caretaker is such an odd combination. One moment you’re ready to say filthy and mean things to your partner, the next you’re worrying about them and dropping everything just wanting to make sure they’re taken care of.
The way when girls are lying on their back for missionary and all the curves roll up between their tits and their abdomen. Truly the hottest thing ever
Believe doms when they tell you they’re sadists. Subs be out here going, “Sure, sure. Just another one of their kinks”, and then are shocked when they get their shit wrecked.
“Please have your way with me. Do whatever you want”. No, that’s not what effective communication looks like. If you want me to ravish you, you have to explain to me your boundaries. Otherwise, we will get nowhere. Subs shouldn’t just expect Doms to take control without any input
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▪️Bi (Heavy Female Lean)
▪️Hard and Soft Kinks
▪️Just a nerdy guy into slutty girls.
▪️Honestly, here to be horny and meet likeminded people.
▪️DM’s Open
▪️MDNI 🔞
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@c0rruptbaby
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Nsfwtwitter people are comfortable sharing their deepest sexual perversions to the world. But then get all shy and awkward when they have to have a normal conversation with people. It’s adorable.
Fake doms assume attempting to forcefully assert their will will allow them to get their way. But real doms know all it really takes is being an observer of human behavior. Spend enough time around subs in general and you can mentally map out achieving control with minimal effort
I think too many people have a conception of CNC that is very extreme, but it really exists on a spectrum from a low key version that it merely dirty talk/rough sex to a more intense version grounded in roleplay and scenario.
( tw cnc - ish ? )
cute things to say to your sub:
"awh, are you scared darling? good."
"'no'? that's not a real word, silly!"
"poor thing... it hurts? it's meant to~"
"keep crying, it only makes me want to break you more"
cute stuff like that idk 🥰😇
People on nsfwtwitter tend to be weird about people in their late 20s and early 30s being on here, but, sorry, some of us are late bloomers who are making up for lost time being the whores we were meant to be
What do you mean I have to link up with someone who’s not from nsfwtwitter? I don’t want to explain all the weird kinks and sexual desire we collectively have as a community. I want someone who already gets it.
Cw: hypno language
Here, let's play a little game
I try and hypnotize you
And you resist as much as you want
Okay?
Good!
Now, the best way to avoid getting hypnotized
Is to not think about being hypnotized
I can't fill your head with thoughts of being thoughtless
Honestly, the best take down of a brat isn’t ultimately going that hard towards them. It’s through sheer presence and force of personality (and low key soft mental domming). Where you don’t even need to say anything, it’s already in their head that they just know they better not.
Bratty subs are so much fun to put their place. Raising their voice at me and then I reply “ who the fuck are you talking to” ? Then they start stuttering “y-y-you”, while looking up at you with their puppy eyes. “We’ll see if you talk like that again when I’m done with you.
Girls will be like, “ugh, why can’t I be hot like other girls 😫”.
And it’s like, “respectfully, I will be jerking off to you later because you are in fact hot”.
It’s one of the strangest feelings when you’re just trying to be a normal functioning human, and your brain is like, “no, you’re going to be horny and think nasty things all day”.
how are lesbians supposed to recognize each other if straight girls are wearing jorts and carabiners and listening to chappell roan and reneé rapp now😐😐😐
Subs will be like, “Eh, I’m not even sure if choking does anything for me”. Meanwhile, they’ll be melting, their eyes glazed over like they’re in heaven, looking up at you with a massive grin.
@MariSappho
They definitely are. But if they really respect you, they just want consent. There’s a certain formality to some of these exchanges, and they’re probably just trying not to mess up a good thing.
That isn’t to ignore your trauma. Your trauma matters. Using BDSM to work through your trauma is entirely valid. Many people use kink as a therapeutic way to address their trauma. But “trauma kink” implies that the only reason someone could be interested in these kinks is trauma.
size kink thoughts SIZE KINK THOUGHTS
“c’mon baby, let me in, that’s it”
“shh, it’s okay, you can take it”
“don’t worry, sweetheart, i’ll make it fit. gonna make you feel so good”
“there, see? you were made for me”
everybody shut up i’m THINKING
Subs: (getting all self-conscious) I wish I was [insert some desired physical difference]
Doms: Look I’ll overpower you regardless of what you look like.
@sam_is_sw33t
Good doms are incredibly observant of their partners, and their physical body language, verbal and non-verbal cues as to mental states. Good doms are very present and in the moment, and hyper attentive to their subs and their needs. It’s just instinctual
Some of you, I’m begging you, engage with kink outside of Twitter. You are learning so much false information. This is a fun place with some very cool people. But some of you continue to fail to educate yourself outside of this platform
Brats are just misunderstood. They’re just insecure romantics hoping that someone will prove that they care enough to put in the effort to win them over.
Subs will be like, “I’ve never been dommed like that before. I’ve never been in sub space like that before”. And I’m just like, “I dommed you at 10% capacity because I wasn’t sure what you could handle and I was trying to be respectful”.
Sometimes doms are PG-13 domming. Dogs on a leash. And sometimes were X-rated domming. The good ones make the PG-13 domming feel as if it’s X-rated even though nothing particularly sexual or salacious has been said.
People think sluts are so wild and edgy but if you ever ask a slut to talk about what slut they are they’ll all of a sudden get so shy and embarrassed and awkward and flustered. It’s adorable.