personally I IDed as ace first in a “no one seems to like me since I’m fat so I don’t like anyone else” way, then as queer, then bi, then finally lesbian and it still took a few years for me to ID as femme
the implication that masc automatically = top, turning the intimate exploration of ppl’s boundaries into a joke abt feminization, the idea that a partner should seek to change the other’s boundaries and doing so is a victory
before I mute this tweet I just wanna say that mascs and butches have explained quite eloquently why this is a harmful joke, so if you think this is just a silly joke please listen to what they’ve had to say <3
I’m saying this once and never ever again but if you post fat fetish content, you are not welcome anywhere near my fat femme friday posts or me at all.
@prietodyke
I think they were mad from conversations earlier this summer about minors and adults interacting here, they claimed their crush was called a groomer 😬
plenty has been said abt the stone discourse but I will say knowing people think that way abt stone lesbians makes not having much of an irl lesbian community feel so much more harrowing