If I’m non confrontational with you, I really don’t like you enough to deem it fit to have hard conversations with you.
Either that or our friendship is already over.
I always think about that boy whose mom hit the school to embarrass him- called him a thief and whatnot.
He jumped into the school tank in retaliation and made his mom carry his corpse while every student drank water contaminated by his bloated body.
I hope she cries forever ❤️
You’re answering patriarchy princess at your big age, you’re literally the Judah Iscariot of women that was, is and yet to come.
You’re literally god’s greatest regret. Someone that women should spit on.
Stop ruining your children, you’re the adult.
Learn to regulate your emotions to avoid the repercussions of your stupidity- children are individuals and not empty vessels to fulfill your failed dreams or live for you.
Nurture, cater and find a balance.
YESSO PLEASE, that incident crossed my mind because it still hurts.
Parents are the most protected class and often excused in their physical and emotional abuse.
They have ruined their kids by their actions and inactions, create a boundary
His mom caused that heartbreaking loss.
A woman told me her husband bar her from working, he left her for a working class woman and ended with, “but marry sha, it’s not good to stay single”.
I know my laughter haunts her day and night.
The funniest thing is married people are not making marriage appealing in any way. What do you mean your husband told you to sit at home and you did and started crying? Una dey constantly kill me.
I WAS BANTING WITH MY VERY ANNOYING NEIGHBOR AND MY IGBO TONGUE UNLEASHED IN A WAY THAT I CANNOT BELIEVE.
Wdym runatic?
How will i show my face in this world?
Thinking about my Danfo Barbie toady;
A passionate woman who is aware of her surroundings enough to talk about her social responsibilities (she drops pry/sec student for free).
The misogyny and how she dgaf
Encouraging women to stop wasting away in financial dependency etc
I bet my mom the next time she pulls public stunt, she’ll carry me and we’re now besties, life is good.
It was her classmate that led the way after all
A blessing and a curse because, nollywood tried replicating every year, and it brought forth this nollywood for third mainland bridge arc.
We used to have varieties; the meeting, isoken, mirror boy, flower girl, figurine.
Now it’s the same 10 cast and island stories 😭
Even an illiterate can wake up an see what feminism is about.
The mothers before us didn’t even need to read or theorize.
As much as you read, touching grass is a jarring reminder of what is happening around you.
TOUCH GRASS AND TOUCH THE RAGE INSIDE YOU.
If you are interested in feminism I encourage to read actual books and theory. Stop lifting your beliefs from TikTok and tweets. Go and STUDY the subject. It’s a discipline just like any other. Cause ngl it’s clear from how some of you talk you haven’t got a clue fr
@shirlsboots
Stop projecting, I’m the reason my brothers and male cousin wash and have kitchen duties.
Learn to involve your sons in domestic affairs or I’ll make them. 🫵🏽
YESSO PLEASE, that incident crossed my mind because it still hurts.
Parents are the most protected class and often excused in their physical and emotional abuse.
They have ruined their kids by their actions and inactions, create a boundary
His mom caused that heartbreaking loss.
NO.
Feminism isn’t a queer movement, it is for women and girls.
The queer movement is for the queers and though they are both on the minority side/oppressed side, they will NEVER be the same.
To conflate them is the main dishonesty.
If we are to use bob in fem+
This is Wrong.
EXACTLY the same ideals and motivations which undergird homophobia provide the driving force for misogyny in every dimension. To deny this is to be dishonest or myopic.
Any distinctions between the feminist and queer movement are contrived and artificial. 1/2
Pop culture yes, queer culture? Yes
Feminist politics? Resounding no.
I feel like feminism exists outside the queer reality, she’s not and has never/will ever have any relevance in the feminist space or politics, she’s literally a pick me.
And whether you like it or not, bobrisky is important to pop culture and feminist politics in general.
Most critiques aimed at her is valid, but to act like we should treat her like a pariah, as if her very existence does not raise awareness for trans women and queer ppl is mad
I have never heard when Nigerian police worked this fast iml but I’m too grateful, I don’t know if I’m still in a dream.
May your chi not allow you befriend a person that will plan to end you.
The weapons they had? These people were transporting my brother to another state.
@Irunnia_
Not at all, this is an extreme case that made me tell my mom that I was thinking the same way- it was a dark time.
It must’ve been terrifying to feel so alone and pushed to leave instead of staying with a parent.
Many children have don that or attempted because of their parents.
If you can’t change your surname for a man, find a man who is okay with it.
If you can change your surname for a man, get you any man you like.
Una dey always do like say them force Una dey date people.
Ke koshi danu
This tweet is SUCH AN AMAZING EXAMPLE OF THE HUMAN CONDITION.
She is voicing resentment and everyone’s is hounding her for exhibiting the human condition.
She can help if she chooses too, but feeling resentful for continually trying to help a person who doesn’t rate you +
Every single time, it's women that have to show up for other women that have made nonsensical patriarchal decisions.
got added to a group where we have to raise money for an old friend who last year became a widow with 3 kids.
Her in-laws and family have left her to her burden
I would’ve started a riot if it was a feminist outchere embarrassing herself with odense.
LMFAOOO may god continue to give birds their misogynistic counterpart. 💓
Show us the privilege, the collective privilege and not the lekki 2 ldn style.
Maybe the underaged marriage, FGM, the consistent femicide, mürder of SWers, unity schools in the north raised the admissions score for girls as opposed to men?
Terrible reproductive health care.
Cishet women don’t understand how privileged they are. Trans women in Nigeria are literally afraid to exist, their existence is considered a crime, both by the law and society & you fix your mouth as a so called “Feminist” to say “their fight is not for us”. You’re a disgrace ✋
There’s always a gutterbred offspring of an ewu waiting to describe what feminism is for us.
Always chirping from their bronze cages, go and open beer or shout ndi nne mama in meeting, pls women are working, when we need boyboy for me, we’ll call you people.
Please be intentional about parenting, this is so real.
Like i said do better, reflect and allow your kids bloom.
So many of us know what we’ve seen, steps we took to break the cycle, stories we had to remind parents to remember.
He will now be asking me foolish questions, that why did I leave home without permission.
If I went back home after I finished uni , I would have off myself no cap. I would have been stagnant and I wouldn’t have achieved all the things I was able to do.
"Bigger shit cannot be left on its own, she thinks I am Baddo, 'cause of my parol, the way I roke, I can be likened to Sango.
Strike am, pierce am, dagger am, use my black man's bulala, kaluba, spend am, oya keles dey worship my Banana."
"Olufunmi Reimagined" - Ft Odumodublvck.
Happy father’s day to my daddy who came back from mass with an insane amount of orange, washed, peeled, and woke me up. He’s currently watching me eat them while asking if anyone is bitter.
Mind you, it’s because I complained about bloating.
more power to my citrus dad.
Yes they do, stop encouraging liars and lagos way of life.
The foundation of polyamory is honesty across the board.
If you want to cheat, go for it but please, let is behave ourselves lol.
Polyamourous people don't owe you "disclosure." The same way you don't go about announcing that you're monogamous to everyone you meet or fancy. If you want to know a person's relationship status, ask. It's not lying by omission because they didn't tell you straightaway.
There’s no religion worst than this one.
You can name 300 and this blight will top them easily.
Regressive, reductive, so so much room for extremism, topping the most violently misogynistic stat too.
Can’t believe women practice this religion.
As of today, this is how women must dress in Afghanistan, according to the Taliban's Supreme Leader.
The following rules are now in effect: The full face must be covered—no hands, nothing visible. The black veil was presented as a "recommendation" a year ago, now it is the law.
I hold no brief for anyone, but Saul (Paul) was a serial killer and when God arrested him, he preached and multitude gave their Life to Christ.
Our standards are not God’s standard.
Sardine is 1,300 in my estate
Naira is bastardized, people can’t afford anything, the government is taxing and bleeding the citizens dry, we are not cows (a country that treats cows better), you are ruining the lives the unborn children, teens and adults
#EndBadGovernaceInNigeria
Need to actually follow more RADICAL NIGERIAN feminists.
No I’m not a liberal, choice or whatever bs feminist.
I’m into radical and a dash of marxist feminism (because I believe we must tackle male/female dynamics as a class struggle).
I just remembered when someone soft blocked me last year because of the church I went to. I didn’t even say anything. She just saw me in a picture with the church’s logo. I’m amused because that’s my home church now and I look forward to being more involved in church.
Joining my village women’s meeting this year omg, akwa na ulari’m abiala!
Revolution because, I’m about to TEACH and let the younger women, and age grade know we’re more that accessories and male centric women!
Kimonnnn
Uwa was brutally mûrdered in the house of the lord btw
Nigeria is one of the worst place to be a Christian because of the numbers of christians killed yearly
The victims in the owo were celebrating in the church, same as nyanya
9ja has the highest number of church goers btw 😅
See this empty headed son of dunce?
1) Computer Algorithm credited to Ada Lovelace.
2) Radia Perlman is called the mother of internet. Designer of the STP btw
3) Hedy Lamarr collaborated with Antheil for our bluetooth wifi GPS tech ground work.
4) cont’d
Igbos didn’t have surnames but siblings called each other “nwanne” (children of same mother)
Women and men had separate “cults” or society strictly for themselves you can still some in umuada/nna
You must remind yourself that Africans weren’t so dumb.
It’s not a western invention
Once upon a time, men and birds used to use chimamanda as a slur against young girls reading on feminism or their first interaction with her tedx talks or books
Matter of fact, a man tore my book one time because it was by chimamanda
That is how much they hated her.
You are a man
@Nnennawithdpen
Afford not in monetary but the emotional abuse, stalked and unalived for leaving, segregation and slander of their name, who kîlls for no reason?
You think they’re like some married men?
Biko kpachara anyi gi.
I don’t know what impression I’ve given that someone would think I should take my child to a 42 million naira per annum school. 😂 Maybe na why my helper never help me be this.
Rewatching afamefuna and somehow, the younger Oga daughter and Nneka exudes better personality than the adult version.
She was reduced to an accessory 😭
I can’t believe grown women are spluttering and projecting over the major reason our extended family went neutral with domestic house chores.
Why will you ever see progress, when you’re holding on to the pillar in a bid to play a role.
Meekness will never cause change. 🍅🍅🍅
The 19 year old me is the ultimate rage feminist icon, I can never touch her hem again because she’s tired. When I hear my cousins, my village women hail me, the men fight the urge to call me a man as a compliment.
When I remember how I went on a real rampage, phew.
@Theariaspeaks
Let us hope they send him to yabaleft and please does he have a social media account, time to start digging up proof of him being stable enough to tweet and all
@shirlsboots
That’s on you, I’m the first daughter, I have a life, I have a sister that cookd and enjoys it without being told it’s her duty.
We have adults in my house who shuffles between bulk cooking or not waiting for a woman to cook.
Set your house in order.
Tempted to listen to that guy but he thinks two drunks are better than a woman with Phd.
He really thinks women have the an IQ lower than the Mariana trench.
Honestly, poverty is so humiliating in a capitalistic society.
It strips you of so much that even your own blood will join the crowd to strip you of basic decency.
While I acknowledge that some people are lazy, there’re cases especially in Africa.
There’s poverty in the land
In my dictatorship era, I will destroy choice feminism in ways that it can’t recover, gotta give the future women a life where they’re not obsessed with dancing to the tune of misogyny and slamming choice as their coping mechanism.
Our mothers didn’t fight for us to be ewus🙏🏾
Today is Jamb examination, I don't know why parents follow a grown up to the exam centre. will you follow them to the university when they finally gain admission? Which kind of parenting style is that one?
Cry harder ozu, women will speak, my heels will tr
@mple
your adam apple and your diseased ballsack.
Woe did betide your mom and sister because imagine having this mistake as yours.
A spit bucket.
I curse the men that actually gave some women right to speak . Now I know the reason why those days women aren’t given an opportunity to speak in public .
@Davidakindosu
@ill_nojie
A child of a healthy parent’s mind will not utter that, his mates will even question why that thought crossed his child’s.
A pity tbvh ✋🏽
What a day. I called someone and they said it is Sunday so arrests might not be possible. The next thing i calmly said was “if he is not arrested in a few hours, I will fly to Benin this afternoon and perform a citizen arrest myself.”
I meant it
Saw one of mutual that helped me during my brother’s case, who I cried and beg everyone to pray for.
Someone I wrote about on strangers that changed my life.
I saw this mutual thank god for the person that ráped Suga Belly.
So you are faulting the superiority and how quick her brain is able to comprehend/process language fluently including tone and range?
You are faulting a Nigerian child speaking one of its most popular language because you were to deficit to express such finesse at her age? 😅
The level of fluency in her vernacular is what I don’t get. As a child it took me up to my university days to learn how to speak pidgin fluently but she does this with little effort. Omo.
I’m a feminist and I’m always in support of women making informed decisions. I’m also human, and I will judge you so much if you tell me you can eat a man’s ass.
OK OSAMA BIN LADEN.