mayhem femme
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YouTuber. crochet wear designer. melody maker/songwriter. ya favorite doula’s jeweler
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Joined December 2009
i hate when people say “nothing is worth taking your own life”. ok but for that person something was. y’all want people to stay on this earth and suffer because you don’t like the idea of grieving them. it’s selfish.
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Restoring someone’s confidence is a skill we don’t put enough respect on. It’s a spiritual transformation. Shout out to beauticians.
These black women were given makeovers. I couldn’t help but feel their pain before and their joy afterwards 🥹
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Honestly prefer big pimpin Jay-z over financial literacy Jay-z.
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life is hard. people make it hard. people have burden innocent people around them with unthinkable horrors and traumas. sometimes for a lot of people this shit ain’t worth it.
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people literally dissociate and leave their body due to trauma because something in them breaks. sometimes people develop MULTIPLE fragmented personalities because their mind could not process the trauma.
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sometimes getting tf up outta here is the best option. care in this life isn’t guaranteed. you can’t be shocked when folks wanna take their chances on the other side when this side has failed them repeatedly.
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I see some of you have 3 rice grains rattling around in your heads. To make it plain everyone’s choice to live is valid. So is the choice to not continue on in this life. I’m not advocating for suicide. I’m advocating for choice without shame. Hope that helps.
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What’s wild about the Cassie/Diddy situation is how much we glamorized their dynamic not even knowing what the hell was going on. We applauded her for being on the relationship as long as she was and “getting to the bag”. Look at what it cost her.
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Love how the whole TL is giving delroy lindo at the function over this verdict
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That moment you realize you romanticized an entire dynamic & everything you believed about it fit the narrative you needed at the time
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baby’s 1st quilted kimono sweater jacket (and heart brooch). 28 hours of love, completely hand sewn 🥹
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@PinkMaggitKat Love to you and your brother. I know it couldn’t have been easy but there is some solace knowing they are at rest 💗💗💗.
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Love seeing the tl come together to pack that mangy biracial up.
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me watching every clip of the Alabama boat brawl from different cameras, angles, perspectives
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@TheNapMinistry I love saying white perversion over supremacy. Bc only they assigned themselves supremacy. I refuse to reinforce it.
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not “love and light” after an attempt to scam & spiritually exploit the doll
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@meonearth7 Obviously people heal from traumas but some don’t. Some don’t have the resources. Idk what’s hard to comprehend about that.
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Do you remember when big pimpin dropped? I was in junior high. We had no business rapping this song as hard as we did. What an elite childhood.
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Just realized she has a middle finger ring on her middle finger. Her mind.
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ppl beat their kids for lying meanwhile refuse to create an environment where telling the truth is safe.
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am i being mean or am i just not letting you hoes play with me? more at noon.
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@HeckinViv The shame is what i want us to get away from. I’m sending you so much love my dear. You deserve better. We all do 💗💗💗.
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@arianna71948925 I’m not encouraging suicide, I’m encouraging bodily autonomy and people making the best choices for them. Y’all wanna put words in my mouth and project bc you all have comprehension issues.
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weren’t barbaric white men “illegals” when they came here to steal from the natives? #GOPDebate.
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@Vandalyzm Yea like i don’t need political activism and the best lyricist in the world to simply enjoy shit. I like ratchet nonsense and that’s fine!.
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You cannot convince me they didn’t know.
Representation is important because without it, yt ppl see nothing wrong with naming their team chat “Porch Monkeys” 🤦🏾♀️
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I’m referring to Aubrey since all the quotes are asking which one 💀.
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@meonearth7 You chose to make this about you when i was talking about Roy Jones jr’s son and the people who literally cannot heal from the things they endured. You surviving is wonderful. Others simply don’t have the will to. I hope that makes sense now.
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Just like they said Missy never made music about sex 🙄.
Sade sings about murder, adultery, and prostitution. Idk that’s not really clean girl.😭.
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Never said i want or expect jay to rap about pimpin as a middle aged father and husband. I was referring to the era of music. I prefer that to the current one. What about this is hard to process.
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Everybody ain’t boyfriend material & damn sure ain’t husband material. Sometimes men are just dick material and THAT’S FINE.
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N words log on the internet every day to remind us they don’t deserve nice things. Listen to them.
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If you weren’t one of those people glamorizing the relationship i wasn’t addressing you. So there’s no need to jump in my quotes asking “who is we”. Y’all acting like a personally addressed you and called you out. Very goofy minded behavior.
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My biggest mistake in life was forgetting I’m that bitch.
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I had 2 abortions in my lifetime. I was 17 & 22. 1st by someone who took my virginity by rape and the other beat my ass. I’d do it all again in a heartbeat. Grateful i don’t have kids by any demon ass niggas.
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@RTGatsby I’m not watching anything. I said what i said. They regretted it and that’s them. Thinking that will be everyone’s experience is beyond silly. Death is relief for some after a life of suffering.
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@missjia this man begged me for a golden shower. but in his mouth. & he drank it. like swallowed it :(.
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@Modest_pop i love hearing that your prioritized yourself and your own feelings throughout it all. Sending you so much love 💕.
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Ruby, sapphire, topaz, citrine. What colour is the gemstone of your wildest dreams? http://t.co/65kukQw89l.
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Women should cover up more so there’s more room for you to imagine what they look like naked. Got it.
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@monetxchange The fact that someone thought to call immigrants “illegal aliens” still trips me out.
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when they ask you what the occasion is tell them you’re the occasion. Floral hair pins are up 🌸🌼🌺
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Y’all keep saying Megan is booed up. The gag is i ain’t seen her claim none of these niggas. Am i missing something?.
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@eyeslikebadu I was wondering about their relationship. Everything about it seems very strange.
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All this controlling & humbling discourse is so interesting. Someone needs it though. Hopefully the younger girlies are soaking this up. I wish these convos were happening at the time i experienced it.
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Made these nail cuffs & was PRESSED to see them with claws 😭😍
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Lmao the girl is literally and figuratively shedding skin like snake. My question is do y’all think snakes wear dungarees and blazers up under their skin? What was she supposed to be wearing?.
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No wonder these niggas were shook about me. They saw power i couldn’t see in myself at the time.
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CLOCK IT, VOGUE!!!
Why does @kaepernick7's peaceful and perfectly legal protest strike more of a chord than, say, killing a man?
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I know vocal coaches have a field day with Beyoncé’s shit. It’s 1/2 education 1/2 stanning 😭😭😭.
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crystal, cowrie and beaded hair pins are in the shop 💎 💫 :
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@rodneythavoice Whenever you say Porsha thinks slaves were standing at the bus stop sucking on a lollipop i have tears!.
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J Cole on Beyoncé’s ‘Party’.
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When i dated a gold star lesbian she made a habit of telling me i wasn’t gay because I’d dated men prior to her. Y’all are always trying to measure our gayness against your own like some sort of weird competition and you all should examine that.
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@arianamericana Thank you for taking the time to explain because the entitlement on this app is wild 💗.
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Also, i hope Oshun beat y’all asses for lying on her name.
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iggy saying she knows the history of hip hop but calling Q-Tip a stranger & a troll. #FactCheckThat.
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I’ve given up on having a goal weight. I’m just gonna dedicate myself to fully being in my body and loving it no matter what.
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I saw Richard Lawson’s likes and it was some ol regla shit in there. y’all are some prudes.
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Jay is married to his biggest skeleton. What’s not clicking?.
I hope Jay Z and Nas don’t have any skeletons.
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99% of this shit ain’t about love, toots. Paywall men. Keep your pussy. If you aren’t sure how they feel about you, leave them alone. Never ignore your gut.
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Did Trick Daddy just say Veronica Vega speaks better English than Amara la Negra? You can’t make this anti black shit up. #LHHMIA #LHHMiamiReunion.
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@fyrelyon24 Exactly. Death is guaranteed part of the deal of being human. So taking your life is supposed to be such a heinous act? These people are insane lol. The lack of compassion kills me. People want a way out of the suffering.
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made this top 2 years ago and recently dug it out of some forgotten bin. I really need more velvet yarn
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“iFeEL a sHiFT cOming iN tHe aIr”. You’re corny and using someone’s death as moment to be weird.
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@SoledadFrancis That i need to address things as they come up instead of “keeping the peace” to avoid emotional wylin.
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We’re definitely both. Be blessed ✨.
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i can’t wait to go back to therapy. That emotional rawness/edgelessness >>>>>>>.
Get a therapist, they said. What they don’t say is therapy will undo you and you will still need to manage all your responsibilities as you process your edges being gone.
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I don’t want the divest girlies tusslin with me but centering friendship over romance isn’t gonna get my pussy eaten any faster. just do what works for you.
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I know we’re supposed to be community driven right now. “Checking” on ppl etc but anyone else have days or weeks where they don’t want to speak to anyone at all?.
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