women have confused sex appeal with just being raunchy & revealing. it’s one thing to be sexy & show a little but i’ve had enough of the stripper outfits😭that’s not fashion
it’s nothing wrong with getting your body done , do what makes you happy.
it’s the nasty attitudes , talking down, fake personalities & ego’s some of y’all be having afterwards that makes you a mean girl. you can still be you & have confidence.
PLEASE DON’T BE AN ERICA BANKS .
once you start seeing the results of self improvement it really becomes addicting. you start falling in love w/ the person you’re becoming, the places you’re going, and the things you’re doing. it just motivates you to go harder and harder!
i do agree that time is money. and if you don’t have a balance between time & money, you shouldn’t be dating. if you in that mode cool but you can’t always “not have time” for somebody you pursuing.
@Rosa_notso_Nice
somebody else screenshotted it and posted it. i quoted it & just like you went out your way to comment twice about a post you disagree with? gone head on ugly
normalize not posting embarrassing pics of people on their bday, as i get older don’t flood yo story w/ hella pics of me down bad. that’s some hating shit
as you get older, you start to understand the difference between friends & associates, family & blood, love & lust, wants & needs, and most of all what's important and what's not.
i’ve learned that everybody isn’t meant to be 4L . some people are meant to be around, learn something , give some, take some & move on when it’s time. God’s divine order is set in stone.
graduating college is rlly going to mean so much to me, through the adversity i rlly didn’t quit & that shit make me smile every time i think about it.
i think women get so invested in a man & forget about / slack off the things we know we should be doing. it’s not on purpose but it’s so easy to be all in. we get so invested that when something happens and we’re forced to just focus on ourselves .. God allows things to happen.