I went to therapy and had to learn giving ppl a chance does not make me inadequate in any way shape or form. Nor do I make poor decisions. Ppl do misuse you. That ain’t something for me to internalize. That’s their loss.
It’s wild how people will do you dirty, and you’ll beat yourself up for giving them a chance to hurt you…as if the problem was you giving them a chance. Not them using that chance incorrectly.
Imagine being so grateful & happy to receive the bare minimum from a man.... nah sis. Love yourself better. Why wouldn’t a man want to talk to you? Why wouldn’t a man be interested in you ? You are the prize. You are a blessing. Require more than a little bit of nothing.
Ppl out here don’t give a fuk about no one’s mental health. People treating people all kinda fukked up. Wondering why suicide rates so high, mental illness so high, etc. folks wanna bitch and moan bout the government but won’t even try to be a positive influence in the community
@dis_is_slime
“Judge not, that ye be not judged. For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.”
@AloraMilan
Who makes more? Where are we financially? Is it a dream job for us both? Would it be in a place we both want to live? How’s the tax break there & the community? A lot of moving parts. But if the relationship isn’t that deep... umma do what’s best for me sweetie pie. 💛
I’m dating to marry, leave me alone if you don’t look at me and see a future. Leave me alone if your heart doesn’t skip a beat every time you see my face, leave me alone if you don’t feel a tingle in your spine when I hug you. Simple.
Cook together.
Clean together.
Shop together.
Eat together.
Sleep together.
Read together.
Bathe together.
Build a real bond.
Actually get in tune with your spouse.
You stuck with them forever anyways 🤷🏾♀️
Ain’t nobody helping you through your depression. They’ll drink with you. Get fukked up with you. But how many of your friends gonna get on their knees & pray with you !? How many of your friends gonna meditate with you?
I like long sex sessions because I like foreplay. I like exploring with each other. I enjoy you just laying up in it for a minute and going again. 🤷🏾♀️
If I can’t raise babies with you, do business with you, go out on adventures with you, be romantic & realistic with you, fuck up with you, I’m not wasting my time.. I want something that’s real. That time won’t taint or shrivel away...
One thing I’ve learned listening to old people & reading romance novels is that true love never fades or give up indefinitely. That’s why I strongly believe who’s meant for me will always be mine.
Do women know when they’re in the process of fumbling a man? Like talking themselves out of anything serious? Or do y’all just think the man is lucky to have gotten a chance with you?
Yeah. Ppl be in love with the thought of you. The idea of you. The fantasy of you. Or just your pleasant vibe. But someone in love / who loves the reality of you, that’s real. Someone who knows you inside & out && still cares for you all the same, a keeper.