Karen T (wife of Brandon T)
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Christian, OPC, Housewife, Pro-life, #infertile married to @Brandon4thePuns , mom to 7 in heaven, #SmashThePatriarchy WillShaper/Edgedancer Look to Jesus Heb 12
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"If you're not longing for people's salvation you should not be talking about God's judgment" Todd Bordow
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The attacks we are seeing on Childless women is a direct result of the prosperity gospel that permeates almost every aspect of Evangelicalism. When people are taught if they are good they will have good things, a woman dealing with infertility must be viewed as evil. 1/3
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Interesting tidbit: in the 1956s, the golden age for housewives, 36 MILLION women were on antidepressants. That was ~64% of adult women in the US on antidepressants. Compare that to ~12% nowadays. So much for that patriarchal lie that women were happier back then.
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Ok, Evangelicals, time to step up. Be ready to vote for programs that help new mothers, and help young children. Be ready to vote for both pre and post-natal care.
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@DWsChristendom
@AlethiaWrites
@ganeden15
I trained my 4 year old to lie to me. That's what I heard her brag about.
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200 years ago the "Bible is clear on slavery"
100 years ago the "Bible is clear on the mixing of races"
Today "the Bible is clear on patriarchy"
Beware the teacher who sees the Bible as supporting their position of power at the expense of other image-bearers.
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@hannahschaef
I've thought that for several years now. When I was engaged, I was shocked by how many people went out of their way to tell me how hard marriage is. All I did was feel sorry for them, especially in hindsight, as I have a wonderful marriage. Life can be hard, but marriage isn't
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@WomnOfValor
I'll never understand people who say dads are so important but then only have them act as paychecks and not as parents.
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Pro Tip: DON'T ever go up to a gal who found the one Baby in a crowded room to hold, who has been married for over 7 years, and ask when she is going to start TRYING for one of her own.
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She must have done something to result in her inability to have children. This is the underlying teaching of the sexual prosperity gospel that we grew up with in the 90s and 2000s. And any woman who reveals the lie, is shoved to the corner never to see the light. 2/3
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As church and GOP have merged that American works righteous pull yourself up by your boot strap mythos has merged with evangelicalism into a cruel amalgamation of contempt and dismissal of all others. And that is being directed at infertile women with full force at the moment. 3
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Yeah that is going to be a HARD NO for me. Nobody wins in this situation.
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When my wonderful husband and I realized we were not getting pregnant, we had some hard decisions to make. And we were very much alone in the process of making them. The church treated us as outcasts for being infertile and we knew of no one else who had walked that path. 1
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In the last few days, I've seen "Conservative" Christians have more to say against the Denhollanders for their statements on Josh Duggar than I've seen them condemning Josh's Actions. That is part of the problem that needs to be dealt.
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Words cannot express how much I hate this teaching and the impossible burden it lays on single and infertile women.
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Motherhood is NOT a woman's HIGHEST calling. Her Highest Calling is to Glorify Christ.
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Are the Patriarchy women ok? Because they are now arguing that showing emotions in front of their husbands is disrespectful.
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Timeline cleanse. Post your favorite Princess Bride Gif
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Fun fact: After Mary gives birth to Jesus a woman's fertility is NEVER highlighted in the Bible. We don't know how many children Lydia, Phoebe, Priscilla, or Junia etc had. God grows His kingdom through the great commission and a woman can fulfill that regardless of her fertility
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I look forward to all women being able to get life insurance for their baby starting the moment they get a positive pregnancy test in Alabama.
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Tell me you don't understand depression without telling me you don't understand depression.
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A better sign would be, "we will give you housing, food, pay for medical bills, child care, etc whatever you need to be able to keep your baby. "
Oddly enough, I don’t think this makes anyone feel better.
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@emilykmay
I must admit I enjoy posts of parents saying what their 3-year-old is upset about. I know it's hard for parents, but I think putting out there how little emotional control 3-year-olds have is good for all of us so we can have compassion for the frazzled parents around us.
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@TaraLynnSays
No one is owed a medical history on why a couple doesn't have kids. His CYA statement doesn't change the fact that he called out "Childless" women and infertile and single women are considered acceptable collateral damage in his culture war.
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I've long known how infertile women are viewed by the church at large as well as the so-called pro-life community. But the world is getting a close-up look at that contempt as well now. 7 end
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Those who view the Gothard Documentary as an attack on Christianity are telling on themselves.
#ShinyHappyPeople
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Motherhood is NOT a woman's highest calling. Her highest Calling is to Glorify God in whatever she does.
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My infertility journey did not end with a Child. It ended with my husband and I learning to be a family of 2.And that is ok. Not all stories will end the same.
#thisismystory
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Observation my husband had about the trials and resurrection of Christ. The Sanhedrin chose MEN to be false witnesses against Jesus. Jesus chose WOMEN to be true witnesses to His resurrection
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In 10 years of marriage my husband has NEVER spoken harshly to me. She is telling us about the state of her marriage and the verbal abuse that happens and how she fawns to make it stop. This is NOT a healthy dynamic, no matter how it is spun.
This is not biblical and I’m convinced that Hannah just needs (and wants) validation from men.
@harmonizedgrace
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Nothing like being reminded that some people in Christiandom think my miscarriages were because of a lack of faith on my part. I really hate the Prosperity Gospel.
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I don't block often but to be told I must be pro-choice because I am infertile is an automatic bock from me. That is the most hateful thing you could say to an infertile woman who cries for each of her 6 children even though all I have of them is my positive pregnancy test.
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#WCT
I ask for prayers, as I just found out I am pregnant with baby number 6. I have a history of miscarriage and really would love to hold this baby in my arms.
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It was a hard road, full of lots of tears and heartache. We did the testing to find out what was going on. Unexplained Infertility was the result. Even getting tested got us the side eye from many in the church. You must have children, but God forbid you use any medical help. 2
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For those that seek to demonize Bathsheba, here are some uncomfortable facts that must be dealt with for the idea that she was a willing participant to stand.
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Here is my suggestion to churches: ignore mother's day. It's not a Christian holiday, it's hurtful to those who have lost their mother, lost their children, are estranged from their mother/children, those that can't have children, etc.
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But that was OUR decision. Now thousands of women who have put the blood sweat and tears into IVF protocols are being told NO. No, they can't have their FET. I feel for the women who were days away from their transfer date, now having gone through the protocols for nothing. 6
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Tell me you've never walked with a couple dealing with Infertility without telling me you've never walked with a couple dealing with Infertility.
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Be ready to do everything you can to help a young Mother KEEP her children, not just expect her to give the child up for adoption.
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Motherhood is NOT a woman's HIGHEST calling.
What's a Christianity opinion that will get you like this?
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Be ready to vote for more housing developments for lower-income families. Be ready to vote for more bonds to go toward schools.
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I hope you do better on this than you did with COVID. You've had a lot more time to prepare. As a mom of 6 who has been absolutely betrayed by the "Pro-Life" Community, I want you to succeed, but you will excuse me for being skeptical.
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No, my husband is NOT my Savior. That title belongs to Christ Alone. This is idolatry and arrogance to put men in the place of Christ and put a vail back between women and God. Christ is my mediator and I can access the Throne I'd Grace through Him.
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One decision we came to early on was where we would stop with treatment. We would NOT do IVF. That was OUR PERSONAL line. It felt too invasive and the risk/reward was not worth it to us. Especially after I started having frequent miscarriages. 3
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Things not to say to someone with infertility:
When you are content without a baby, that is when God will give you one.
I despised this statement when it was modified for a husband instead of a baby while I was single, and I hate it now when I've heard it about pregnancy
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Motherhood is NOT a woman's highest calling. Her highest Calling is to glorify God in whatever state He has placed her in.
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Yeah I am a human even though I'm Infertile. I will go one step more though and say I and my fellow men and women dealing with infertility are image bearers. We are not "exceptions" we are humans made in the image of God.
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The Clinic I've used has been wonderful. They have helped me with protocols to try to protect my babies for the last 3 of my pregnancies. And they have done that without us ever giving them a dime. They NEVER pushed us in the direction of IVF. 4
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My husband I did consider Embryo adoption for a time, but in the end, we knew for my mental health we needed to get off the TTC train. It is mentally exhausting to be tracking and hoping and praying and wishing month after month after month. 5
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Be ready for the whole world to watch how you deal with this culture war win and call you out if you stumble on taking care of those you have said you wanted to protect.
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Imagine telling infertile couples they have failed Christ. That is an addition to the Law that the Bible never makes. The church grows through the Proclamation of the Gospel, not through procreation. Anyone can Proclaim the Gospel but not everyone can Procreate.
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Walz definitely tells people on Dec 31 that he won't see them again until next year.
Tim Walz 100000% stands at his doorstep when it’s raining and says “we needed this”
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Be ready to deal with the 22+-year-old men sleeping with 14- and 15-year-olds, sometimes hiding in your church. Be ready for the statutory rape charges.
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Today I learned that I a housewife, who adores her husband, am in rebellion because I have failed to have children. 🙄
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"How to properly style and care for long hair" A presentation by Wayne Grudem
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John MacArthur takes meds every single day for his heart. So does Phil Johnson. Yet they don't complain about big pharma making up heart problems.They are hypocrites to go after the industry that is keeping them alive all to score points in their made up game.
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If you are upset that people are concerned for the health and well being of a 4 month old child, then I don't think you are the kind of person I need to listen to when it comes to dealing with abuse or other issues pertaining to children.
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If
@DennyBurk
wants to say that Procreation should be the foremost reason for sex that is his prerogative. But I expect him to be serious about that meaning he gets 1 week a cycle to be with his wife. And nothing after she hits menopause.
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Be ready to help the mother of 4 who now has a 5th child, to figure out how to deal with one more child when she was already at her wit's end.
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If this doesn't tell you something is wrong in a church culture nothing will. If everyone inside a church culture shrugs their shoulders at a teenager molesting 4 years olds then there is poison deep in the culture. THIS is why churches need education about sexual abuse.
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Evangelicalism: Let's make dating the most awkward presured-filled thing imaginable.
Let's tell young men that they have to be ready to give a woman the lifestyle her father has given her before asking a gal out for coffee
Also evangelicals: why are there so many singles?
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As we enter a new year, remember the prosperity Gospel takes many forms. There is the bold name it and claim it form that is recognized in most conservative circles.
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#WCT
I want to thank you for your prayers and encouragement. I'm saddened to say that baby number 6 has joined her siblings in heaven.
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No one who got married at the ripe old age of 19 has any business writing anything directed toward singles on how to deal with their singleness.
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This is the cult of fertility. And the IRONY of the spokeswoman here is NOT lost on me. To tell women they must give birth to be saved is heresy. Our Highest Calling is to Glorify God. And infertile woman can do that by trusting the work of Christ. Just like everyone else.
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@brmorris
I'm not a fan of Piper but it's hard to watch this. He was vulnerable for about 10 seconds but then the laughter and the scepticism from JMac caused him to put his mask up and play along. He could have been an advocate but chose self protection in that hostile environment.
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@JohnErikFraker
@POTUS
That's what a good father sounds like. He's at his wit's end with the drug problem but wants his son to know that he still loves him and is there for him. There's a sermon illustration there.
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You know the most ironic thing about the whole seat belts/car seats are a feminist conspiracy is the fact that seat belts as currently designed are safer for men then women.
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I was spanked growing up and I did NOT turn out ok. I grew up trying to manage the emotions of adults around me while mine were shoved into a tempest inside of myself. I grew up being manipulated by one parent against the other as I tried to keep peace. 1
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@LorentLouise
That is a beautiful example of how church should be. I am so sorry for your loss.
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Ok evangelicals this is your moment, be ready to step up and help women keep their children-in every sense of the word. More education, paid maternity leave, health care, child care, affordable housing etc.
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Imagine claiming to be a Christian but not realizing that our highest calling is to glorify God. That is far and away beyond motherhood. The way the Patriarchy hates infertile women (and yes I know Hannah is infertile which just makes her attacks on infertility worse) is telling.
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If you feel you must honor the mother's in your congregation please do NOT tell them that motherhood is a woman's HIGHEST calling. Instead remind them that their highest calling is to glorify God.
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And this is why couples deal with Infertility get so much grief from evangelical churches. It is just assumed they are either too sinful to be blessed with children or are sinfully rejecting the blessing of children. It's a no win situation.
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@scott_m_coley
It's just a no win situation for single women. If they are content they are selfish, if they want to get married they have made an idol of marriage and children.
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Motherhood is a woman's highest calling
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Today was the first time I heard a sermon on the Magnficant. That is an indictment of evangelicalism who are so opposed to learning from women that they will ignore their inspired songs in Scripture.
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5. Every woman in the genealogy of Jesus, had been mistreated before being brought into the line of Jesus. Tamar was mistreated by her husband and father-in-law, Rahab was a harlot, Ruth was an outsider whose closest kinsmen failed to do his job, and Bathsheba was raped.
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For Halloween I will be dressing in one of the most horrifying things a Theobro has ever seen. A Disney female character with realistic proportions, Luisa from Encanto.
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Has anyone else noticed the number of other "Christian men" coming forward to talk about how they TOO were abusive when they first got married? But their wives just continued being submissive women, and these men stopped abusing them? 1
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I think all the accounts clutching their pearls about Elliot's abusive marriage coming to light are telling on themselves. They have decided it's an attack on Elliot to point out she was abused.
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The idolatry of John MacArthur happening on Twitter is both unsurprising and disturbing. I predict there will be a lot of hurt people and shattered faiths in the coming years as the house of cards built on sand collapses.
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1. Nathan never calls her out. In Nathan's story in the very next chapter, it is clear that David is the rich man, Uriah is the poor man, and Bathsheba is the lamb.
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So apparently this is a graph of 12th graders. To try to spin this as a bad thing makes no sense.
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And the infertile couple realizes that they are not welcome in this community and either stay in the shadows where they are shoved or stay home.
#infertility
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@thescottbarber
This is so disturbing. There is NOTHING a 4 month old could do that requires discipline. They literally are just eating, sleeping, and needing their diaper changed.
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@JessupShannon
I know a couple who did this for their daughters best friend who got pregnant in high school. They treat her child as their own grandchild even though they are not released by blood. And they have helped her stay on her feet. Truly a beautiful testimony
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I present the perfect example of the hate that "pro-lifers" have toward women who have had miscarriages. This is about the only AUTOBLOCK I have, and that is if you assume that I am pro-murder because of being infertile or having multiple miscarriages.
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@_nomadic_soul
I wish they would learn the distinction between childless and ChildFree. Because the way they attack women for dealing with Infertility with their lazy language is outrageous.
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A Friendly Reminder that the Fruit of the Spirit is NOT Gendered. It applies to both men and women.
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Lets teach girls that they are allowed to have boundaries. That they can walk away from anyone that violates those boundaries. Not that if they make themselves smaller it will stop. 10
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NO, NO, NO. If you are adopting kids for your own fulfillment, YOU ARE DOING SO for the wrong reason. If you have kids for YOUR OWN fulfillment, You are doing so for the wrong reason. Children are image bearers, not means to self-fulfillment. Fulfillment is ONLY found in Christ.
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Sadly I must remind Christian nationalist that I as well as every other woman that has never given birth or been pregnant is still a woman. having children is not what makes me a woman.
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@shaenongarrity
For sure. But this has brought to light a lot of the hatred women dealing with infertility get.
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Does anyone else find as they get older, they tolerate noise less and less?
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2. Beyond losing her first child with David, she is not punished. David's later years are filled with problems due to his sin. Her later years are filled with ease as the Queen Mother. The story of Michal shows that women do get punished for their sins as well
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Beth tweets Scriptural language and Denny responds with a demand about a man-made document. But I'm supposed to believe Denny is the one who takes Scripture seriously?
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6. Nathan tells him that what David did in secret would be done to him publically, and in the very next chapter, we see one of David's daughters being raped, which leads to one of his sons being killed. Mirroring the exact same thing David had done.
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