Princess Kali
@ThePrincessKali
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Author of #EnoughToMakeYouBlush + #AuthenticKink , Former Dominatrix, Founder of @KinkAcademy + @RedKeyClub (she/her) - 18+ Only - Tip me: $ThePrincessKali 😌💰
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As a professional kinkster, it goes without saying that I love perversion. And like all perverts, there are some kinky things that I love above all others—my areas of pervy expertise.
They are:
🔴 Erotic humiliation
🟢 Financial domination
🟣 Sex work
🔵 Domination & submission
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Submissives CANNOT abdicate complete responsibility for themselves to the dominants that they play with (or are even in a relationship with).
Even in a full power exchange, subs have responsibility for their own well-being and initiating communication when necessary.
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At my last 6,000 square foot dungeon I told my landlord that I was a photographer of prototypes for large corporations & put it in the lease that they had to give me 48 hours notice to come in so I could cover all the "prototypes" (aka my dungeon equipment) up due to an NDA 😂🤣
Sex workers, what’s your favorite lie to tell people who ask about your work?
Many a Trader Joe’s cashiers think I’m a married stay at home mom.
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After 20 years in the adult industry I don't feel the need to educate people who actively hate me.
I'm not responsible for teaching people who are hostile and combative. It's not a healthy experience for me so I no longer try to do it.
Don't direct those kind of people to me.
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Safewords aren't only for submissives. Dominants confront taboos that might be triggering. Have Trigger/Aftercare plan for all players
#kink
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Tuesday was my 39th birthday & I'm exhilarated at the next chapter of life that's unfurling in front of me. I spent the day solo at the beach celebrating myself with wine & quiet contemplation. It was absolutely lovely.
#GettingOlderRocks
#What39LooksLike
#HappyBirthdayToMe
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I think it's so weird when people say that financial domination is the ONE AND ONLY TRUE DESTRUCTIVE KINK when I've seen people get permanent physical damage from shitty bondage or shitty whipping and permanent emotional damage from shitty D/s.
Shitty people do shitty things!!
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I believe submissives are like campgrounds, try to leave them in better shape than when you found them.
#DominantEthics
#kink
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It's so off-putting when someone tries to assert dominance over my submissive, or calls them insulting names.
Dommes, please remember that just because someone is submissive, that doesn't mean they're submissive TO YOU.
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Kinky desires don't always "make sense" & that's ok. You don't have to dig too deeply into the "why" of your kink if you don't want to.
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PSA: Anyone who chastises me for politely getting the word out about my classes, products, and offerings.......can fuck right the hell off!!
I will NEVER be shamed about sharing the work that I do, or shamed because I believe I deserve to earn money for the value I provide.
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I can't remember who it was, but someone told me a story once about how they "forced" their submissive to stand and listen to sincere compliments as an "embarrassment" exercise and I've probably thought about that monthly ever since.
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Last month my submissive and I started talking about buying a property together, something with enough land to build him a "donkey hut" on the outskirts. So now my daily daydream is to create a kind of educational center/OWK and I might need to actually make that happen 🤔
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Apropos of nothing in particular 😶, anyone in SW who offers industry/kink education who *guarantees* that you're going to make a gobs and gobs of cash *easily* by just following their advice is flying a serious red flag. There is NO guarantee (in this industry or any other)!
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Just spoke with
@TaraIndiana
and I'm delighted to share that I've been invited to be on the Legends Panel
@DomConLA
(Sunday at 4:30pm) and then will be inducted into the Dominatrix Hall of Fame afterwards along with the other panelists! What a lovely heart-warming honor🥰💖
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Today is my 38th birthday & it has started out with so much happiness!! I love getting older because I work hard to get smarter each year & to become a better version of MYSELF as each year passes. Women especially need to celebrate aging IMO. I'm like a bottle of fine wine! 🍷
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I have a new man in my life! I've named him Burt & invited him to be my demo bottom for my informative & fun class "The Dragon-tail: The most versatile tool in your toy bag!" that I'm teaching for
@WickedGrounds
July 25th at 6pm Pacific
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Safewords aren't only for submissives. Dominants confront taboos that might be triggering. Have Trigger/Aftercare plan for all players
#kink
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Today my editor finished the final round of edits which means I'm sending the brand new
#EnoughToMakeYouBlush
manuscript to the formatter to be turned into the actual beautiful book! Which means it's time to officially share the new cover! Pre-sales will open soon!! 🤯
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I believe submissives are like campgrounds, try to leave them in better shape than when you found them.
#DominantEthics
#kink
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Be forewarned, if you book coaching sessions with me, you will possibly get *very* aggressive pep talks...
"You are absolutely BONKERS sexy and you need to TRUST your guts and you need to be charging MORE MONEY. IS THAT CLEAR?!" 😂
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Just your friendly neighborhood bisexual dominatrix in the wild, being visible.
#VintagePrincessKali
#BiVisibilityDay
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CW: pet passing
My world has gotten quite a bit darker. Saturday evening my cat Luna passed away. She was 18 years old, so it wasn't necessarily shocking, but it happened very, very suddenly, and it wasn't easy on her, and I wasn't ready to let her go. I'm totally heartbroken💔
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Here's my precious new little fur-ball, his name is Ash!
I'm hoping his eyes stay this color, but they can change up until he's about 6 months. He's super cuddly & I just got his clean bill of health from the vet, so I can start introducing him to my other kitty later today 🤞
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I'm updating my groundbreaking book on erotic humiliation, Enough to Make You Blush, and that means I need your input! Fill out my Erotic Humiliation Survey by January 2nd and your quotes might be included in the book!
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My response to a middle class white guy telling me that sexism doesn't exist bc he's never experienced it
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I'm incredibly bummed to share that I've had to cancel my plans to attend/teach
@DomConLA
this year because of delta-covid I really agonized over the decision, but I help with childcare for my toddler niece and nephew so I can't risk exposing them (even though I'm vaccinated)
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Hey guys who interact with current or former ProDommes (or any other kind of SW) DON'T ASK WHAT THEIR "REAL" NAME IS. It's rude, invasive, uncomfortable, and just makes you look like a jackass.
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PSA: if you're shipping something to a sex worker (or former sex worker) do NOT put their work name on the package unless they explicitly say to. Use the name/business they give you otherwise you might be outing them unsafely. Just had a rather uncomfortable/creepy experience.
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Safewords aren't only for submissives. Dominants confront taboos that might be triggering. Have Trigger/Aftercare plan for all players
#kink
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Safewords aren't only for submissives. Dominants confront taboos that might be triggering. Have Trigger/Aftercare plan for all players
#kink
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I just want to create everything I've ever brainstormed and expand my professional empire while also having time for leisurely pursuits, connected relationships, and relaxing self care. IS THAT SO MUCH TO ASK?!?!
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Erotic humiliation is such a personal thing, if the submissive doesn’t contribute ideas, the dominant will be shooting in the dark trying to figure out what works, & that's frustrating for everyone.
#EnoughToMakeYouBlush
#kinktip
#humiliation
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I believe submissives are like campgrounds, try to leave them in better shape than when you found them.
#DominantEthics
#kink
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Some days it can be really hard to be the dominant in a D/s relationship. Relationships of any kind are only worth the effort *both* parties are putting in and someone can only be trained as far as they're willing to be. It can't be solely motivated by the insistence of the Domme
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I believe submissives are like campgrounds, try to leave them in better shape than when you found them.
#DominantEthics
#kink
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You don't need a submissive to be a dominant. You don't need a dominant to be a submissive. A partner doesn't make you whole.
#LoveYourself
❤
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Who just spoke almost 30 minutes longer than the actual class time
@nightshadesf
? Me. I did! I had it in my head that the class ended at 2pm so I kept talking and no one stopped me! Thankfully
@MsLillianBastet
gave me a heads up & I finally wrapped up. 🤦♀️
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Question for ball-busting lovers (on both sides of the kick)...
+ Is ball-busting about the sensory/pain, or psychological experience (or both)?
+ Does the humiliation always feel gendered?
I mostly see the "your nuts make you weak" genre, is there another approach you enjoy?
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My weekend
@DomConLA
was full of deeply meaningful and affirming interactions and it was incredibly special to meet in-person so many brilliant Dommes I've mentored through
@RedKeyClub
, intensives, and personal coaching. I drove home Monday feeling connected, seen, and valued 💖
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My kink philosphy is that I want to share as much thoughtful information as possible so each kinkster can determine what's authentically right for them. We all have limits & can be triggered by different things (money is a big one). But your limit shouldn't be imposed on others.
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Heading into teach "Advanced Degradation"
@WCBound
!! I seriously love teaching the class 😃😃😃
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I have been feeling unmotivated, unproductive, & totally out of it the last couple of days. My to-do list is calling my name but the stress, anxiety, & uncertainty is hitting me hard atm. Gardening helps my spirit, but tasks are still waiting for me when I rinse my hands of soil.
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I believe submissives are like campgrounds, try to leave them in better shape than when you found them.
#DominantEthics
#kink
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Big reminder that what you see on someone's social media feed is likely a small portion of what's going on in their life.
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I'm a sadist in the dungeon and a masochist in my ambitions. I've realized this is the duality of being a professional pervert 🤔
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I see finsubs complain that so many findoms are "scammers" but those same finsubs aren't willing to do even a little research to find a findom that matches their energetic/experience/style needs. There are a ton of femdoms/findoms that respect boundaries and are well established!
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It's 100% ok to give yourself space to not launch into "MUST BE PRODUCTIVE" headspace, but if you like to plan as an anxiety release, I'm offering a free virtual class "Branding & Marketing for ProDomme's" Sat. Mar 21st that's useful for all sw's
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Unpopular opinion: I just don't get bath bombs. I take a bath to relax and get CLEAN, not soak in a bunch of glittery colored water. I find them weird and slightly disturbing.
#ThereISaidIt
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📢Hey, hey, did you hear the news? I'm working on the 2nd edition of
#EnoughToMakeYouBlush
!
Read the announcement here -
Fill out the survey for a chance to be quoted in the book -
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This is true for all kinks and D/s dynamics but I've noticed that so often in financial domination, I see finsubs expect findoms to care more about their own well-being than they do themselves. It's common for many finsubs to not even *want* to negotiate or share budget limits
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Question for you younger kinksters...
Do you know what a dunce cap is? Would you recognize it if you saw it, or if you saw a playful spin on it?
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Tuesday I did my first photo shoot in years to get
#humiliation
and
#findom
promo pics for my books/classes and it was so much fun! Here's a couple of behind-the-scenes selfies as a teaser 📸
Big thanks to
@SaraSucculent
for hosting +
@sluttychameleon
for fabulous photography!
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WHOO HOO!!! I am downright giddy to announce my newest workbook, which I've been working on since May...
"Making Bank: A Money Management Workbook for Erotic Entrepreneurs" and it's available now on Amazon for only $20!!
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Great news!! I'm teaching a 2-class
#humiliation
series (intro + advanced) at
@nightshadesf
shadesf on Saturday January 25th Seats are limited so don't wait to sign up!
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It's possible to BE ethical while you SEEM cruel & unyielding, that's where the skill, nuance & connection come in.
#findom
#wholesomefindom
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All dressed up & ready to go for the
@passional
fashion show at
#septembersurrender
going onstage soon!
#latex
http://t.co/SVWjDWhBtp
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Happy Bunny Day! I hope all you lovely kinksters always find what you seek 🐇🐣🍬
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In the awesome Lion throne that was in my classroom for all my
@ozkinkfest
classes this week!
http://t.co/SQUXEunuth
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Just wrapped up teaching
#EnoughToMakeYouBlush
, thanks so much to everyone who joined in!!
(The recording will be for sale in the next week or so in case you couldn't make it to the
#humiliation
class live tonight)
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Look what I got from Fuckin' Gerry! Pic from
@OfficialDomCon
(hey look
@littlebarium
it's the outfit you bought Me ;)
http://t.co/rCQCtmcegz
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Safewords aren't only for submissives. Dominants confront taboos that might be triggering. Have Trigger/Aftercare plan for all players
#kink
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Them: Findom relationships can be abusive.
Me: Vanilla relationships can be abusive.
Them: Findom does real damage to people
Me: PEOPLE do real damage to people
Them: But findom is the REAL EVIL
Me: 🤷♀️
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Fuck, today just took a very difficult turn. I truly hate having to deal with men who DON'T EVEN KNOW ME insisting that they "will love me for the rest of my life" in a way that is invasive, insistent and deeply scary.
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Today I am reminded that no one is as invested in your safety as you are, and you are ALWAYS justified in doing whatever is necessary to protect yourself, even if other people don't like it or you. Never compromise your safety to please others.
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Generally speaking I keep ball sacks off my twitter feed but I'll make an exception for this little bit of festiveness. 😅
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Kinky desires don't always "make sense" & that's ok. You don't have to dig too deeply into the "why" of your kink if you don't want to.
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Exhausted & happy after two successful classes
@AIS_Org
#COPE2018
! This is such a high quality event & they do an AMAZING job of packing a ton of
#kinkygoodness
into a very short time! Thanks for being awesome!!
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I have a very hard time with vulnerability, it doesn't come natural to me and tends to trigger shame. But this week I am extremely grateful to three amazing friends (they know who they are) for seeing me, supporting me and showing me I won't explode if I share my hidden sides.
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If someone is ever using me or Kink Academy as a reference saying they worked with or for me, PLEASE make sure to actually check in with me to see if it was a positive experience. Seriously.
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"Newthusiasm" is a phrase I've coined to describe the enthusiasm someone new to kink feels (which can impair consent if not careful)
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This is why I so appreciate all the hard-working submissives who have served me over the years. It's so concrete. They carry boxes, paint dungeons, help at events, drive me around. It takes a village to support a Princess and their labor shows how much they care.
"There's a simple doctrine: outside of a person's love, the most sacred thing that they can give is their labor. Labor is a very precious thing that you have. Anytime that you can combine labor with love, you've made a merger." - James Carville
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I believe submissives are like campgrounds, try to leave them in better shape than when you found them.
#DominantEthics
#kink
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With
@emilymarilyn
before her super sexy performance at
#septembersurrender
this weekend!
http://t.co/Gb8xyv7kFj
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On that note, you can order all of my books from Amazon - and all of my books + decks from my personal site -
I also offer personal kink and relationship coaching for lifestyle and professional kinksters
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Getting all set up to teach at 10am! I'm really looking forward to teaching "Ethical Financial Domination" today, it's such a fun topic!
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In less than two weeks I'm teaching "Face Slapping: Hand to Cheek" for
@WickedGrounds
!
Join us Oct 4th at 6pm Pacific (reg -$15-$35)
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I'm feel such a tremendous responsibility to my submissives & while I'm certainly not perfect, I work hard to communicate & to make space for communication. So it's a bit heartbreaking when it feels like I need to coax every little bit of info out. Its emotionally exhausting.
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I finally watched Bonding. It wasn't as bad as I expected except for the atrocious "bondage" and you'd think that Netflix could afford a corset that fit her especially for that final scene. Other than that, meh.
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