Thank you so much for such an awesome shout out!! Word of mouth is currently the only way we get the word out about so it's truly meaningful when you share us as a resource 💖

BDSM gives us permission to act in ways that are unacceptable in the outside world. – Dossie Easton

For some kinksters, not being able to be out about being kinky can contribute to feelings of shame. If you feel that it’s safe to come out to your loved ones, the affirmation that comes with your whole identity being accepted can be powerful.

In kink, the acronym CRASH stands for “Consensually Risk-Aware Shit Happens." This contrasts with other approaches to kink, including RACK (risk-aware consensual kink), PRICK (personal responsibility, informed consensual kink), and SSC (safe, sane, and consensual). #BDSMglossary

There may be legitimate reasons that you should not come out as kinky. Just like any kink activity, evaluate the risk profile for yourself and others in your life, and act in whatever way mitigates possible harm and feels right for you.

Many people believe the myth that masturbation is second to “real” sex. In reality, masturbation is a fantastic way to take charge of your own pleasure, explore your fantasies, show yourself love, and learn what feels good for your body!

Xylophilia – Arousal from wood #FetishFriday

Did something on this list pique your interest? Sounds like it might be time to become a Kink Academy member 😏

Sexual injustice: kink stigma homophobia & transphobia abortion bans purity culture unequal access to sex ed sexual healthcare inequities Vs. Sexual wellness: kink acceptance queer & trans liberation abortion access no sexual shame widespread sex ed quality sexual healthcare

Chastity tips: Set rules. How long will the chastity last? Who has an emergency key? What happens if going through a metal detector? Make it a game! Command the sub to do kinky activities & give photo proof. Allot daily porn time for edging. Allow for proper hygiene.

#KinkTip: Roll a set of dice to determine the amount of time the chastity device will be locked & get ready to gamble... Hours, days, or even weeks!

RT @sensuallyonyx: From Getting creative with the strap-ons, using a position pad, and even sex swings. Where there is a will, there is a…

RT @laposhprincess: This is the difference between how D/s and BDSM is portrayed in porn, And how the kink community actually promotes hea…

RT @Hislilcutie01: I love this about the local dungeon they have a cool down room when I get overstimulated from all the noise and people m…

Want to learn how to express dominance in a positive way? The Dominance section of our site has nearly 100 instructional videos on topics like pacing a scene, sensual domination, “forced” bi, dominant kissing (and biting!), rough body play, & MUCH more.

Great scenes have a power to them that is greater than the sum of their parts. The secret ingredient is story. – Anton Fulmen

Tips for hosting autistic-friendly kink events: 🪑 If you're expecting an autistic guest, save them a seat. Crowds can be intimidating. 🤝 Ask before touching & encourage others to do the same. 💭 Don't rely on stereotypes.⁣⁣ 🤫 If possible, have a separate quiet space.

Fisting is the act of inserting an entire hand into a vagina or rectum for sexual pleasure. #BDSMglossary

To get the most out of your sexual experiences, talk about them later & relive the kinky goodness in your fantasies. #KinkTip

Myth: A good submissive should be willing and able to accept anything that their dominant wants. Reality: While that can be a fun fantasy, mutual satisfaction and safety are key to any D/s dynamic. D/s play should make the sub feel submissive in the way that they desire.

Katoptronophilia is the sexual arousal from having sex or masturbating in front of mirrors or reflective surfaces. 🪞