You deserve ppl in your life who think you are a big deal. No competition, no backhanded comments, no jealously, no comparison, no hate just simply “I love you and there is nobody like you and there will only ever be 1 of you” type energy
Not ashamed to say I desire a life partner.. it’s actually important to me. Don’t get me wrong, yes I’m fine by myself and yes I love myself dearly lol but operating in self love doesn’t mean you can’t be in a relationship while evolving.. we never stop growing.
1 thing God gon’ do is isolate you so you can get yourself together. It may seem like you lost friendships & relationships but I promise a better you is worth so much more
It always amazes me how you can almost always feel in your soul when its time.. time for change, time to move on from certain ppl, time to get rid of unhealthy habits.. just time to want MORE for yourself. Theres a point where you just KNOW and can feel it.
I know I'm special.. I always want more. I like to be kept on my toes; I was never meant for surface level anything.. I love intensity, depth, intimacy. Thats really where my heart lies.. I'm passionate about that
Realizing & accepting that everyone is literally a projection of how they feel internally.. and with that being said, I take a lot less to heart. This doesn’t necessarily mean that I take bs and disrespect but I go about my life and pay less attention to unnecessary behavior
I dead ass don't need hardcore proof anymore to validate whatever my intuition tells me abt anything/anyone.. If something feels off abt a whatever its bc more than likely somethings OFF.. I don't have time to sit & figure out what it is. My time & energy are too valuable
Everybody be shocked af when start being real serious abt your boundaries.. like yeah, surprise mfer! I’m not a people pleaser anymore so let’s see how cool we really are
I can honestly say this yr was so bumpy.. but God blessed me with the most understanding, humble, loving, empathetic, giving, patient significant other and I’m just happy to be doing life with him.
I love an emotionally validating person, an active listener.. I love reciprocity. When someone makes you feel safe.. whether it’s safe to express, feel, think; just safe. I love that shit.
Came to terms with me not wanting anymore situations in my life that bring out the worst in me.. It's so exhausting & it requires so much effort to recover from. I want calmness & gentleness in my life at all times.. anything outside of that I don't have the mental capacity for
Y’all don’t be realizing how much of a privilege it is to be apart of someone’s life or simply just have access to them until it’s too late and you’re on the outside trying to get in again..
GM y’all — 222 affirmation: I choose to be patient. I choose to trust the process Everything I’ve visualized, intended, prayed abt & worked on is in the process of manifesting. I will remain centered & at peace. I will be strong & continue to believe it’s all abt to happen for me
Realizing who really fuck with you be a huge eye opener. Ppl swear they ya dawg until you going through it. Real life shit show you who truly check for you.
I always seem to pay attention to who my energy increases and decreases around bc I feel like that’s the universe giving me hints on who I should embrace or stray from
Living in a generation where it’s easier to run away.. ghost ppl.. or even swipe to the next person. Stop and appreciate those who choose to stay, be patient, communicate how they feel and are willing to work things out.
In this life.. you really gotta put yourself first and do what’s best for you. It doesn’t matter how much you try to please others and be on everyone’s good side, someone will always have a problem with what you do and how you do it. Make sure you’re honoring your needs always
Its such an uncomfortable transition when you're coming from being a people pleaser to someone with boundaries bc its hard to tell if you're being mean or if you're just listening to your own feelings and putting yourself first.. you're so used to putting everyone before yourself
I learned this yr not speaking up on things just to keep the “peace” is lowkey a trauma response.. Everytime you do this you’re disrespecting YOUR boundaries. No matter what speak tf up.. speak your mind.