Was having a bit of an anxious day. Pulled into Aldi on way home from work & scraped the side of the BMW beside me 😭 Waited for the woman who owned it. She was so lovely. She just rang to say her garage man said there is very minor damage & he can buff it up at no cost! 😭🥰
So I got asked out on a date. I went. Sat down with our drinks & he asked me what I like to do I said I love cycling He said I fkn hate cyclists & told me to fuck off & left me to pay for the drinks.
How's your evening going?
How it started
How it's going
Well, I got divorced yesterday. Weird feeling after 18 years of marriage and 21 together. Emotional day, but definitely feeling a sense of relief now. Did all the paperwork myself too 💪
Onwards ❤️
To the person who looked me up and down with nothing short of contempt when I introduced myself as the new engineer today...sorry your life is so shit that you have to judge other people. 🙏
I still had a great day 🥰
I have to say, I am getting used to being single now. It's lonely at times, but not lonely enough to do anything about it!! I don't think I'd ever be able to live with a partner again. I never thought it'd be like this, but it is, and it's so peaceful. Being single is grand 🥰
I booked flights today with
@aerlingus
Options: Mr, Mrs or Miss
I am none of the above.
Sort it please Aer Lingus. Put in a Ms option or take them all out. No need for them at all.
My marital status is nobody's business and it's 2019.
Thank you.
I did a bike race.
Cried all the way home cos so thrilled with myself. Came last but only on the line and didn't care because so I'm feckin proud of myself.
I did a bike race!
This lovely man was a friend of my Dad. He's 86 in August. He told me he has a bad knee so he cycled down to the prom & walks then.
He also has an exercise bike at home & does 20mins twice a day.
His bike is at least 60 years old, it wasn't new when he got it 60 yrs ago!
#cycling
Standing at checkout ready to unload my trolley. Man in front if me offloading about 10 bottles of whiskey and 10 bottles of gin.
Me: can I come to the party?
Him: it's a wake
Look folks, I love you all but please stop with the "just when you least expect it" I'm 52, it's a pandemic, they're not exactly lining up outside my front door.
I have a good life, I'm very grateful & will get on with it just fine. But please stop saying this. It's ridiculous.
Went on a coffee date this afternoon.
He showed up, I showed up. We chatted for a bit then I went home.
He texted afterwards & asked to meet again. I said I'm sorry, thanks, but no. He said fine, & we wished each other well.
The End.
Adulting. It's not that hard people.
Request: please don't say "broken home" to describe a separation. My kids have both said it was much better for them that we separated.
Many homes are just as, if not more, broken when unhappy partners stay together.
Disgusted at Ian O'Doherty's hateful writing in
@Independent_ie
. To my NI countrymen, women and others, you are just as feckin Irish as the rest of us. This is mortifying and I hope you know he is NOT speaking for the vast, vast, vast majority of us. 🙏
My 19 yr old is thinking she won't bother learning to drive as it's bad for the environment & she'll just take public transport/cycle.
Not quite sure what to make of it tbh. Think she should learn to drive, just so she can drive, but then I kind of like her attitude also. 🤷♀️
I've come to the conclusion that overall, having no cycling lanes is safer than painted line cycle lanes.
Segregated are the only ones that can work.
I've a masters in civil engineering so don't argue with me.
#RoadSafety
I feel very angry at our government right now. I am a good, law abiding citizen and have done exactly what has been required, as have my family.
Don't you dare tell us quaratining on arrival for two weeks is "disproportionate". 😡
@AuthorKimberley
@DoctorNora
I cried on the way home from the vet with my dog, as he put his head on my shoulder and he's almost 11 and I know someday he won't.
It's totally normal. So, so sorry for your loss ❤❤
Friend was stopped by a Garda for not using a cycle lane today and told he was "holding up traffic".
1. It is not compulsory to use a cycle lane and all Gardai should know this.
2. Cyclists are traffic.
Sitting having coffee in Salthill, and just watched a young woman driver almost kill a guy on a bike. She turned right and swung in in front of him. I had words. She asked what was it to me anyway?
I despair if I'm not supposed to care if a fellow human is injured 😔
I would just like to say that my 20 yr old daughter brought home a bag full of her friends' cans & bottles from town last night. They socially distanced and nobody was drunk. Her bf dropped her home so she said she'd take responsibility for the litter. I couldn't be prouder.
Is there anything more pukey than married couples wishing eachother happy birthday/anniversary etc on f$cking FB?
Especially when they are living together. 🤢
Last night I realised my future might be living in a mobile home somewhere w/my bike & I'm surprisingly okay with that to be quite honest with you. The housing crisis here means divorced middle aged people will be doing this or living Golden Girl style, which is also 100% fine 😊
Please stop being pejorative about "cyclists" folks. Just stop. It's ridiculous.
I'm so happy since I started cycling after my marriage ended. The friendships, my club, the physical & mental health effects are numerous.
But my God the HATRED is wearing me out.
Just stop.
Does anyone else talk to their relatives who have passed on? Or am I a fruit cake? I often talk to my Dad.
(He doesn't talk back if thats significant 😆)
@bronactitley
My parents were over in England and said no to a cup of tea. They weren't asked were they sure!! 😳
.
They got no tea!!
.
They said yes next time 😂😂
@BillBadbody
And what about those spectacularly beautiful Brazilian women coming over here stealing our men!! What are we virtuous Irish women supposed to do then?
Huh??
Shite just realised I shouldn't be drinking beer two nights before my first ever bike race aged 52 and 10kgs overweight; it's going to make a huge difference to how last I'm going to be 😆
Can I blow my own trumpet?
Please? 🙏
Principal of the girls' school told me they are both a credit to me, & it "doesn't just happen" that they've turned out the way they are.
As a single parent who's been to hell & back, this was absolutely amazing to hear.
So proud of them.
Anyone sending off a first year to college in Galway...you can always DM me if they need anything and if I can help at all I will do my best or at least point them in the right direction.
#firstyear
#college
Not taking snobbery about what cyclists wear, what kind of bikes they ride, whether they are out doors or indoors on Zwift or use e- bikes, tandems or unicycles.
In my view someone on a bike deserves kudos every single time.
Live and let ride 👊🚴♂️🚴♀️🥰
Just thinking about when I started cycling almost 4 years ago after my marriage ended.
I was TERRIFIED rocking up to the first spin but the members were so welcoming. I'm now club secretary for over 3 yrs & do a lot of the PR stuff too.
Apart from the obvious health benefits 1/2
I'm starting a new job tmrw. Yes another new job! 4th move in 14 months! It's a very decent promotion & I am thrilled. Unfortunately, it's the end of commuting by bike for now, but it gives me independence which is the best news ever after such a tough few years.
So lucky! 🙏🥰
Worst case EVER of road rage this morn at nice quiet Barna hill. Merc driver blasted me out of it & then stuck his finger out the window for about 300m.
I smiled & waved but was actually afraid he was going to stop & start into me.
Conclusion: posh cars don't make you happy.
Funny the things I found hard to do since my separation...one is read a book & another is cook anything beyond basic necessities. I think because I used to try to make nice food for my ex. This week I've managed to do both. 5+ years is all it's taken...
A few tears over my self made porridge this morning. Not really where or how I envisaged myself at 53.
Going to sit with it for a bit rather than trying to take myself out of it just yet.
Acknowledging how we feel & expressing vulnerability is a good thing. We need more of it.
Please STOP saying indoor cycling is not cycling.
Of course most of us would prefer to be outside, but it has its place especially during winter, storms & when living in cities.
It's helped my fitness enormously so I'm getting stronger on the road.
Stop being so fkn judgey.
We need to support
#SineadOConnor
Donal Lunny and Shane's family on the loss of their beautiful boy.
Ireland has let yet another of its precious children down.
There can be no cover up on this.
#RIPSHANE
💔
You would not believe the chat I had to have with myself to get on my bike this evening after work. I was SO tired after a few restless nights of vivid dreams. I very nearly didn't, but then the sun came out & I said to myself just do 10km.
I did 46km in my beautiful Connemara.
Going to get shot for this but I don't care. Bring it on lads.
The woman gets a HOLE IN ONE but the piece is about the man who's her caddy. Because he's also a football referee.
He seems like a lovely man but....she got a HOLE IN ONE!
#everydaysexism
Mike Dean the mastermind caddie! 🎉
The Premier League referee, who also caddies on the Ladies European Tour, celebrates a hole-in-one for Whitney Hillier at the Estrella Damn Mediterranean Ladies Open.
Could it be that my marriage break up is only hitting me now, 4 years on? I seem to be so sad about it recently. I think it's because my youngest has finished school and it's like I've been holding my breath til that happened.
I know I'll be fine.
Sorry for being so grumpy. 💔
My ex & I bought an indoor plant together in '98 & it's more or less dead now. My daughter asked me how old it was today.
It still kills me that my marriage is over. There was a time when that man absolutely adored me and I loved being a wife.
It's just very sad.
This lovely man was a friend of my Dad. He's 86 in August. He told me he has a bad knee so he cycled down to the prom & walks then.
He also has an exercise bike at home & does 20mins twice a day.
His bike is at least 60 years old, it wasn't new when he got it 60 yrs ago!
#cycling
Gotta say I don't understand how anyone in the UK right now could support the monarchy in its current form. Watched a snippet of the
#kingsspeech
& felt so angry on the people's behalf. Yes, there's poverty here in Ireland but food banks are not a thing.
Right! Fellow unskinny cyclists...share pictures and be proud!! My first (and last) bike race...I was so proud but too mortified to share the pictures after so, ah sure feck it. 👇
#FatShaming
has got to stop, starting with ourselves. ❤🙌💫
So lots of men have decided I have too much time on my hands, have first world problems etc re: my tweet to aerlingus. Can you all just fuck the fuck off and get on with your own hectic, busy, important lives please? If this doesn't affect you why do you care to put in a comment?
I think anonymous accounts should be banned. I think it would make SM a much nicer place & trolls would not destroy people's lives with no recourse.
People should be proud to state their opinions in their own names. If they're too afraid to, then they needn't.
#twitter
#Trolls
A guy has just sent me a video thru a dating app WHILST DRIVING.
Boy is he barking up the wrong tree!!! 😡😡
🤣🤣🤣
Can't see his reg in the video but gave him a right piece of my mind!!