Mark Greene
@RemakingManhood
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Writer/facilitator on Man Box culture. 👍🏻 Books, podcasts in linktree below, -RemakingManhood.bsky.social
Http://RemakingManhood.com
Joined May 2011
82% of Obamacare applications for 2025 are from states that voted for Trump
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OK. For every bro who has EVER taken issue with the term MANSPLAINING. Bros. Here it is. 100% right here. He makes my blood boil. She calmly gives this guy rope and he just keeps hanging himself. Like most mansplainers, he'll never know how MADDENINGLY FRUSTRATING he is.
Imagine being a Female PGA Professional and some guy comes up to you telling you how to swing 😂 . She's a better person than I am because no way could I hold in my reaction
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CAN'T SHARE THIS ENOUGH --> What to do if a stranger is being harassed. I did this and it works. To have read this cartoon a while back and to have had this tool in that terrible moment was so empowering. Take a look. You will need this sooner or later.
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Tim Walz is one mean mfer when it comes to legislating.
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“Is RFK Jr. in here? Cuz I need a word with that motherfucker.”
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Black Twitter said white people don’t wash their legs and I’ve been washing my legs ever since.
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The MAGA movement, based on aging white boomer victimhood is a bell curve. That bell curve has peaked for the simple reason that boomers, of which I am one, are dying off. -Boomers were wholly unprepared for the blunt manipulations of Fox News, in bundled cable of the 90s.
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BREAKING: Mark Hammill, along with Pete Buttigieg and more surprise speakers will be joining the White Dudes for Harris call tomorrow, Monday, July 29 at 8 PM EST! 50,000 have signed up so far. Join us—> @dudes4harris
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Countless men have directly benefited from abortion. Few say so. My partner chose to get an abortion when I was a young man. I supported her in making that decision and I benefited from that choice. Other men who are willing to share how they benefited from abortion, please do.
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Anyone with basic awareness of body language would see his advice was being politely rejected. He could have stopped. He chose to ignore it and keep doubling down. Another HUGELY aggravating part of mansplaining. Men ignoring clear non verbals that it’s not working on any level.
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The reason men in the manosphere are so angry at women? Because empowerment for women requires accountability from men. For men, being held accountable, and moreso, *holding ourselves accountable* in relationships where women have equal power requires self-reflection. /1.
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UPDATE: Pete Buttigieg will be joining the call! And we're now at 12,000. Spread the word!.
THE NEXT BIG CALL: WHITE DUDES FOR HARRIS. This group of men is stepping up. Inspired by, and following in the footsteps of Black women, it's time for white men to get 100% engaged and make sure Kamala Harris is elected as our next President. Join here: /1
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Women are going burn the Republican Party to the ground and I’m going to help them do it.
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I’m getting the sneaking suspicion that American voters are going to pile drive Trump and his Putin bought Maga Republican Party into the dirt. This is about running up the score so goddamn high they can’t ever come back on the field. #Bluewave2024.
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For those who have been asking. Yes, I did wash my legs before, but not as well as I should have. Black Twitter encouraged me to be more thorough. Intentional. Mindful. And I thank you.
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@yamihere333 Any person with basic knowledge of body language would see his advice was being politely rejected. He could have noticed and stopped. He chose to ignore it and keep doubling down. This is also a big part of mansplaining. Ignoring clear non verbals that it’s not wanted.
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Mark Ruffalo is on the call! White Dudes for Harris is heading towards 100,000 sign ups for tonight’s call at 8 PM EST! All are welcome. Let’s goooooooo! SIGN UP HERE:
Confirmed! @MarkRuffalo will join us tonight on #WhiteDudesForHarris as we push for 100,000 sign ups! Let’s go!. Join us:
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White boomers never faced the great depression, or a world war, yet we were particularly susceptible to the idea that we were victims of hardships. In part because of the restless disconnection of our gated community lives we bought fragile white victimhood hook/line/sinker.
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This generation of young women aren't internalizing patriarchy. The attempt to condition them to accept a dominance-based culture of masculinity isn't working. Which is why so many men can't get a date. Him: *Signaling old school masculinity*.Her: Hell no! Are you nuts?.
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But many more of us doubled down on our false sense of victimhood. “Whatever the fuck is wrong here, it must be someone else’s fault. Women. Immigrants. Black people.” And Fox News was there to lovingly encourage our blind entitlement. To sell us our own failed white fragility.
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Hey Dems. I get it. A few of you had doubts. But it’s okay to reverse your position and support Biden. You are welcome back in. No hard feelings. Really. Hold. The. Line. #BidenHarris2024
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The degree to which the GOP seeks to block Merrick Garland tells me how much they fear a fully functional Justice Department. They got used to cover from Bill Barr. That will be gone.
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“Guys do this to each other” is literally the weakest possible counter argument for stuff like this in a world fraught with sexual harassment/violence. How a man approaches or chooses not to approach women he does not know will tell you more about his character than anything else.
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Whatever casual dismissals corporate media cares to assign it, 2022 midterms are an historic inflection point in the pro democracy movement. Young American voters across race and gender have entered the chat. A sitting President held its ground in a midterm. Boomers are exiting.
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THREAD: HOW DOES MALE PRIVILEGE LEAD TO MALE SUICIDE?.Men are bullied in our dominant man box culture to isolate ourselves emotionally/socially. Adolescent boys are shamed into giving up close friendships as "girly of gay." Told hide your emotions, "man up," be a "real man." /1.
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For MAGA boomers to admit now, at this terribly late date, that all the white privilege and rage in the world isn’t calming our loneliness or our growing panic, means looking back on 70 years or more and admitting we fell prey to our most selfish, ugly, bullying instincts.
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When some men want to bully other men what is their go to insult? That we are women. And we wonder why so many boys grow up thinking women are less.
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The MAGA bell curve peaked as we moved into retirement, staring blankly at our own mortality. Because we bought into the drumbeat of individualism by a GOP bent on eliminating social safety nets, we sought validation in class and status and so ended up without community.
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After lifetimes of leaning into consumerism/mass consumption we boomers woke up to find ourselves angry and reactive to our own disconnection. Maybe a bigger SUV would help? Maybe a third marriage? Many of us self reflected. Took stock.
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You want to talk terrifying? It is the archetypal Dickens moment. The final inflection point. Scrooge utterly alone staring at everything he values and realizing they are chains. The king MAGA boomer is Donald Trump. Doubling down on rage and dominance all the way to midnight.
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Retirement is when the panic really set in for boomers. No longer able to rely on the stale connection of workplace relationships, we were left sitting in our easy chairs staring at the Tucker Carlsons of the Fox News rabbit hole. Again, it was an inflection point for some of us.
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For those who would prefer this thread in article form, it's here on Medium. No firewall.
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When men mansplain in this way in public to a woman they have never met? It implies a level of interpersonal dysfunction that may also signal a lack of emotional self-regulation. Meaning there is a risk of such men not taking clear, calm rejection well, getting reactive, angry.
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Some boomers said, “Maybe this creeping anxiety is my fault. Maybe this disconnection from my kids, my community, from the world right outside my door is my fault.” Some of us went looking for basic human connection. We realized we had been tricked. But so many just got angrier.
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Trump was the final act of angry white boomers. No longer did we coyly perform the wink wink of coded racist language about welfare queens and urban crime. We were liberated to march with Proud Boys, Oath Keepers. Our panic weaponized into authoritarian rage.
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My boomer brothers and sisters who have already taken the inflection point and moved into diverse connection and community, thank you for your courage. Those still flailing amidst the mad contradictions of our fading generation? You can change. Take the inflection point.
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Men, we need to get our shit together. Our generations old hunger to bully and control women is obscene. This clarity from @IAmPoliticsGirl VOTE #HarrisWalz2024InALandslide
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Bros showing up, commenting and then blocking… Another MRA drawn to any general critique of men’s behavior to squawk about bigotry, inevitably ending with ragey sexual insults.
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There is a fundamental dynamic at play in boomers who are all in on QAnon and MAGA. Each of us saw the off-ramps. We saw the moments in our long easy lives when we could’ve made a different choice, moved toward human connection. What’s creeping up on us is now is how late it is.
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It’s the most effective solution because it does not directly confront the harasser but instead confuses them and increases the complexity of continuing for them. No solution is perfect but this one is powerful. Always be careful!.
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The fact that women would even consider hypothetical man/bear questions means we have utterly failed to create a safe society. (Read that again if you need to.) Because men commit 80% of violent assaults against women, girls, non-binary folks, and other men, this is on men to fix.
I’m so bloody angry about this. Everywhere I’m seeing men talking about IMAGINARY bears. Not one of them is talking about what it’s really about: REAL violence against women. Good men need to call out the minute behaviour, and make bad men fear doing the worst.
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This really isn’t hard to figure out, gentlemen. The simple fact is raising children with us isn’t all that appealing. Maybe if we step up?
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THREAD: Men who sexually harass women on the street, in bars, at schools, or in the workplace are abusers/bullies. They are also cowards, often using the additional economic pressures of the workplace to force women to acquiesce, to tolerate such men’s interpersonal dominance. /1.
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The constant pressure on Lindsey Graham to start that family.
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Which is why mansplaining is such a problematic behavior especially with women we do not know, much less with women in our workplace or communities. As men, we can simply choose to set aside the urge to do this. Just cut it out, at no great cost to ourselves.
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Also been corrected on the following important point. In 2018 or so, some white folks spontaneously admitted they didn’t wash their legs and Black Twitter responded.
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If #FlattenTheCurve isn't SEEN BY EVERYONE by the end of the day, we're not doing our damn jobs as social infulencers. Self isolate, wash hands, avoid big crowds, avoid travel, home office, staycations, and more. Flatten infection curve so hospitals aren't overwhelmed! SAVE LIVES
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@AustinFarle Embryos are not human beings, bro. However, and this may come as news to you, women are.
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Joe Biden has EARNED the right to lead this party. Those attacking him have not. Hold. The. Line. #BidenHarris2024
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Any man continuing to sit silent on the sidelines is culpable. Silence empowers violence against women. Men saying “What about men’s suffering?” empowers men who seek to control women. We all must rise together and that requires men getting fully engaged to end the war on women.
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The result is many men are resorting to hate speech and violence against women in a last ditch attempt to reassert control over them. This includes political violence designed to force women to give birth even to their rapists’ babies.
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And I just want to say. I started this being a little tongue in cheek, making fun of myself, but also speaking a little truthfully. I have learned from Black Twitter. What I don’t want to do is make trouble for any soul anywhere. Good trouble I’m fine with. ❤️.
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@heyotetsuo “Guys do this to each other” is literally the weakest possible counter argument for stuff like this in a world fraught with sexual harassment/violence. How a man approaches or chooses not to approach women he does not know will tell you more about his character than anything else.
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Ya’ll see where this is going, yeah?—Republican Chair Says Only Christians Should Be Elected to Government - Newsweek
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#TrumpSmellsBad #TrumpSmells is doing significant damage to Trump’s candidacy in ways that can not be easily quantified or thwarted. It’s a powerful counter agent to his authoritarian strong man narrative.
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Addendum: If I have left the impression I’m calling all boomers MAGA I apologize. I often write about the failings of men only to bring down on myself the “not all men” response when my goal is to address behaviors that trend in populations but don’t define all that are in it.
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Sean Astin made me cheer!. —White Dudes For Harris call is off and running. Click on the link below, listen to these great speakers, and donate. Come to and join the call!.@dudes4harris
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This is the way.—Harris plans to use ABC debate time even if Trump doesn’t show up | CNN Politics
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“Putin told me his dream to invade Ukraine” - This debate admission by Trump should shock any American. And Trump told no one, hiding a crucial bit of information and putting tens of thousands of our allies in harm’s way. Trump is aligned with Putin.
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HERE WE GO! Please share this with your networks! Register for our National Men for Harris call at 8 PM on July 25. The link to register and join is Link also at
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Overturning Roe v. Wade is designed to suppress women’s political, educational and professional agency. “Keep them barefoot and pregnant and in the kitchen” was never a joke. It’s been the political strategy of conservative men for generations.
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The war on women is just starting for these white supremacist MAGA Republican men. Coming after no-fault, divorce/birth-control next. Pushing Christian supremacist cultural narratives that marital rape is godly. Women reduced to breeding and service in the home. #RoeVember2024.
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I'm asked "why should we be ashamed of being white?" .No man or woman should be ashamed of the traits they were born with. But the automatic, unearned advantages whites are granted by our culture? Those don’t come for free. Someone is paying that bill. And it’s not us. /1.
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This speaks to Islamophobia but this skill set can work for any situation in which a stranger is harassing another man or woman. Intimate partner violence is MUCH more volatile and dangerous to step into so please don’t apply this there. Please always be courageous AND careful.
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“Forcing women under the threat of arrest and imprisonment to have babies.” . Just sit with that for a moment. Let it sink in. It’s a catastrophic assault on American women by the extremist MAGA Republican Party.
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THE NEXT BIG CALL: WHITE DUDES FOR HARRIS. This group of men is stepping up. Inspired by, and following in the footsteps of Black women, it's time for white men to get 100% engaged and make sure Kamala Harris is elected as our next President. Join here: /1
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What immense privilege we men exhibit to sit silently on the political sidelines, hiding our own histories of benefitting from abortion while women’s’ right to control their own bodies is criminalized by Christian nationalists and other Republican extremists.
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For men raised in our bullying dominance-based culture of masculinity, self reflection is forbidden, punished. Who we authentically are doesn’t matter in Man Box culture, We are trained instead to model our identity on a narrow set of rules for how to be a man. /2.
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“Protect women from other women” Bro, this is absolutely comical. Men create the predatory capitalism that starves women, the culture of violence that assaults women, the systems of power that exclude women, and the tedious bullying caricatures of manhood that bore women.
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Men, can we own our shit, please? It’s exhausting to watch men sidestep responsibility for EVERYTHING we create in the world. I can’t even imagine what it must be like for women and non-binary people to be impacted this goddamn circus of bullying abuse and gaslighting denial.
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Yet millions of men remain silent about how abortion benefitted us. We are mute as abortion is criminalized by men in the extremist GOP, many of whom have benefited from abortion in the past or hypocritically continue to do so today. Extremists who only seek to control women.
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Roots of rape culture. The constant public performance of men policing other boy's/men's manhood via the denigration of the feminine (What are you, a girl? What are you, a sissy?) results in the openly public harassing and terrorizing women as shortcut to masculine confirmation.
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In praise of kindness as a central masculine strength. Said another way, Tim Walz, Vice Presidential nominee for the Democratic Party just tipped over the tipping point. /1
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‘Too Many Women Are Going to College!’-There’s a narrative out there that more women are going to college than men because of educational bias, unfair advantages, and so on. It’s based on a male victimhood narrative, cuz that’s how male supremacy works. /1.
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Aside from the ugly racism, another part of the hate we've seen aimed at Harry and Meghan by dominance-based masculine culture is hatred of a man who unabashedly loves and collaborates with his partner. It's why they whine that he's "her puppet." They can't fathom equity.
Congratulations to Prince Harry whose memoir 'Spare' has become the fastest-selling non-fiction book of all time
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For our podcast, books and other resources on healthy masculinity: .
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“Don’t show your emotions. Be tough. Have control of women and girls. Be heterosexual. Never talk about anything deep. Be a breadwinner not a caregiver. Have lots of sex.” All these rules require we show dominance over those around us, including over the women in our lives. /3.
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@FeralizedHuman It’s not. Giving all our tax revenue to billionaires instead of investing in working people turns out to cost us everything.
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If men made the right to abortion a priority it would become law tomorrow. That’s how powerful men are on this issue. The fact that millions of us have chosen to allow the war on women to play out as the criminalization of abortion all across the US is disgusting.
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I have spent years in the trenches of social media, battling all manner of MRA, inches, extremists. It is an art form to respond in ways that are effective. I'm here to tell you that @barbiethemovie is the most powerful act of gender aikido that I have EVER seen on film. /1.
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When I look for evidence of misogyny, the irrational hatred of women by men, I see ample evidence of it in all our legal systems and structures, in our hiring and pay practices globally, in how we elect men as “better suited to lead us” despite all evidence to the contrary. /1.
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Men being entitled patriarchal assholes no longer appeals to women because of… the pill?
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A beautiful and compelling message from Prince Harry.
Prince Harry’s acceptance speech for the Patt Tillman Award for Service is worth 5 min of your time. There is no doubt that he is worthy of this award and no doubt that what he is doing is changing lives for the better.
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"Good men" get lumped in with bad men because of our deafening silence when bad men do what they do.
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We're launching Men for Harris on a national call tonight. It's audacious to do such a thing, but Kamala's theme "We Choose Freedom" speaks directly to the reasons why we must try, which were all on display at the RNC just a few days ago. (Register at /1
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A big part of Project 2025 is about controlling/silencing women to remove them from positions of power where they might challenge extremist right wing men in business, politics and religion. The Heritage Foundation is institutionalized Christian nationalism. Crush them. #Bluewave.
Holy Fu@K‼️. Please make sure everyone you know sees this segment with Heritage Foundation President Kevin Roberts — the organization behind Project 2025. —————. QUESTION: Is your organization going to accept the results of the 2024 presidential election, regardless of the
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Living by the generations-old rules of the Man Box means asserting dominance in little and big ways in every interaction. Our response to pushback? Double down on bullying, etc. It’s a system predicated on women, LGBTQ, etc having little or no power. But those days are gone. /4.
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Many of us clearly see in retrospect the inflection point suddenly raising a child in our early 20s would have had on our educations, careers, so on. We saw it at the time it was happening. We would not have the children, relationships, paths in life we have now.
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I wrote about the aspects of our Man Box culture of masculinity that drive mansplaining. “Mansplaining 101 for Men: Why We Do It —A fear-based need to project competency is at the core of mansplaining.”
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