PSA for SWers:
Do NOT under any circumstance use the 'tip jar' function
That is a one-way ticket to getting banned
TOS explicitly states it is against SW
And it's processed by PayPal
I repeat, do not touch it
Sex work raised my standards a lot
I stopped catering to men treating me poorly
I stopped donating my time to those unworthy
I started respecting and guarding access to myself
Sex work often feels less like a career and more like a lifestyle
It not only changes how you view the world
But also how the world views you
Literally forever
Dating regular men is so hard
Longtime client of mine sent dinner to my apartment and tipped 250
Meanwhile dudes out here try to split the bill and refuse to go down on u
I can't open my camera roll in public cause it's filled with my nudes
And can't open Twitter in public cause it's filled with yalls nudes
A true SWer's dilemma
I've had 55 year old clients who act like they're in a college frat
And 22 year old clients gentlemanly beyond their years
Age really isn't a factor in maturity
SEX WORKERS
What huge gifts would you love to receive outside of toys and bags?
Rent, trainings, debts, vehicles, let’s hear it all
Time to give clients some ideas
I’ve seen people quit SW because their new S/O didn't approve
And from what I've seen after...
None of these relationships ever work out
They're just left feeling angry at the money they missed out on
In sex work you have to keep 3 rules
If it isn't:
1. Paying your bills
2. Hugging you when you're lonely
3. Making you healthier
You have to ignore it, completely
Friendly reminder:
Someone's life doesn't have to be going badly for them to choose sex work as a career
Some people choose to be sex workers because sex work is awesome
Period.
Sex workers see through everyone’s games
We learn behavorial patterns thru years of men throwing BS at us
And it makes us acutely aware of people before they prove who they are
SW has been a godsend for those who struggle with a 9-5
Not everyone is built to wake up at 7, go to a random building for 8 hours, then go home and 'relax'
Many of us need the flexibility SW provides
Ladies and gents the season of showing up to outcalls in nothing but lingerie wrapped in a ginormous fur coat with a pair of thigh high boots is once again upon us
“I’ve fallen in love with you so I shouldn't have to pay”
Never understood this logic
In what alternate reality do men spend less on the women they love?
$400/hr escort is not expensive.
Our makeup, hair, nails and outfit cost more than that. Don’t try to haggle an escort for their rates. We spend a lot of money trying to look good for you. Don’t try to hire us for cheap.
Men on Tinder be like “oh you do OnlyFans? I would’ve dated you if you didn't”
Yeah such a shame that I make 6 figs a month off nudes instead of sitting with you at the local bar getting cheated on twice a week
Sex work is difficult
We're expected to constantly be happy...
Constantly be having fun...
Having to fake being OK on bad days...
But I'm here to tell you NOT to feel guilty
Your health comes before ANYTHING
Protect your energy ruthlessly
People think sex workers are just cute faces and empty minds
Instead of masters-degree-educated intellectuals who manage, market, and sell
Better than every CEO on the planet
If a SWer is going through a tough time...
Gentlemen, do not just text "damn get well"
Or worse, ask questions abut it
She needs MONEY, send her THAT
She DOESN'T need extra emotional labor replying to stupid questions
As a sex worker...
It is extremely important that you LEARN about crypto
You don't *have* to invest in it (inflation tho)
But in an industry where banks actively try to shut us down daily...
It behooves you to understand how it works.
When men say things like "I hope you're worth it" after paying
It's because they hate paying women
So they say something stupid to shift the power back
And all it does is ruin their own good time
95% of arguments against sex work basically boil down to
“Nobody would do this if they had money already, so it's exploitation"
Isn't that just... most jobs?
Rich people are lying to you if they tell you money doesn’t buy happiness.
You will feel instantly happy when you can pay your bills, buy food and treat yourself with ease.
Whatever your goal is with SW...
- Making ends meet
- Adult career
- Supplement to civ career
- Creating art
- Using the money to invest
We got your back.
We accept everyone in this community.
Go get your bag, for whatever reason.
Love you all.
Clients, in case it hasn't been said enough by now
Instead of struggling on what shoes to buy her...
Simply gift her large sums of money
She'll use it better than you EVER could