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Awkward Canadian....things I say always sound funnier in my head. #widow 🚫 DMs.

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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
My husband has a brain aneurysm. They are going to operate when they can. He isn't waking up even when they try to wake him. We need positivity & prayers. I wish i could thank every one of you for your kind words but I just can't right now.
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
3 years
My son got a two day suspension from school today. He stood up to a bully, who was harassing his friend, and when the kid put his hands on my son, my baby punched him in the face twice. I have mixed feelings on this one.
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
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Dear Americans, Canadians don’t really care that the smoke is bothering you. We are losing our homes, businesses & everything we own while we also have to breathe the smoke. Instead of bitching about the smoke you could ask your Canadian friends here if they are okay
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
Update: My husband is a fighter. He is opening his eyes & trying to pull out his breathing tube when they lessen his sedation. All good signs. He moved one leg earlier which is an improvement. Thanks to each and every one of you for the prayers! They are working!
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
My husband collapsed tonight at his soccer game and now I have been sitting in Emergency for two hours waiting for news. They have no idea what happened. Any prayers you can offer would be greatly appreciated. I need him to be okay...
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
Just went in to see my husband. He has now woken up, focused on the nurses, given a thumbs up with both hands and moved his feet on command! You all, every last one of you who has prayed for us, are AMAZING!!!! I can never repay what you've done for us ❤🙏❤🙏❤
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
Hey all, first of all thank you so much for the prayers. You will never understand the comfort you brought to me. I am sorry to let you all know that my husband passed away this morning. I am devastated. I will be logging out shortly as I need some time to be with our babies
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
I went to check in this morning and he is AWAKE!!!! The breathing tube has been removed and he can tell us his Birthday and where he is. He said my name!!!! Crying so many happy tears right now! Thank you everyone for your prayers!!! They worked a miracle for my family ❤
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
Surgery is done! He made it through. Now we wait to see how he makes out over the next few days. Thank you again for all your prayers ❤❤❤
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
They just wheeled my husband into surgery. Thank you so much to every single one of you who has been praying for us! He is strong. He was waking up and moving even under light sedation. They are optimistic. Now we wait...
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
I just had a knock at the door. My husband is crashing... If you have any prayers left for us we need them now
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
I've been wearing my husband's ring since he died. A while ago I left the house with it on & when I got home it was gone. I was crushed. This morning my son asked me where it was. I burst into tears, said it was gone; he smile and held out his hand. He found it in the house.
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
Update: He has a brain bleed. We are in the ICU waiting on neurosurgery to insert a drain. We were told to prepare for the worst and my heart is breaking...
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
Woke up today feeling okay for the first time since this happened. I know there will be ups and downs but today I feel pretty good. So please no more broken hearts and sorries. I had him for 12 years and I want to remember that and celebrate it ❤
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
The response here to what we've gone through the last few days has been incredible. Today I woke up finally starting to accept that he's gone. I even made a bad joke this morning. On we go, with beautiful memories...
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
2 years
A question for the men here Would you fight to keep a woman you love?
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
Found one of his old shirts today that still smells like him...put it on so he feels a little closer ❤
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
Yesterday I went to therapy and cried like I haven't probably since he died. I told her my most painful secrets, things I swear to God will never leave my lips again in this life. Don't knock getting help. Sometimes we all need someone to listen who won't judge us 💖
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
8 months
I’m sorry dudes but if you are old af and think that 22 year old with the banging body actually wanted you for something other than money, you need a reality check 😂
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
Today would have been our 11th wedding anniversary and I am not okay 💔
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
3 years
@GORDONGILLIES This is where I’m at too. I am constantly hearing from my son and his friends about the other kid and all the crap he pulls at school. I’m proud my son stood between him and an innocent kid. On the other hand, I don’t want to encourage the violence
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
9 months
@ask_aubry Damnit! I had sexual RELASHIONS with a black person. Guess I’m out
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
I can't even go on facebook anymore cause of all the fake ass bitches posting about missing my husband, who haven't reached out to him in 10 years or more, while I hold by babygirl who is sobbing so hard she can't breathe from missing her dad. #fullonrage #punks #attentionwhores
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
4 years
Had a date tonight with a really sweet guy. We have so much in common. He was really great. Got back home and pulled one of my husband's shirts out of the dryer, sat down and bawled into it. Guys, I hate this so much 💔
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
1 year
Hey guys, guess what? I am attracted to someone on this app. Guess what else? They don’t know because I respect boundaries and they have never shown an interest in me. Crazy, right?
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
3 years
@CrispVQ30 We always told our son this too. Don’t start it but if someone else does, make sure you end it
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
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I will not be sad today I will not be sad today I will not be sad today It's the three month anniversary of his death And I'm a little sad today...💔
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
5 am sister selfie after talking all night....my heart is a little less broken with her here
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
I just want to wake up from this dream... *nightmare
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
Today I pay my last respects to my little cousin. She was my shadow at times when we were little and I can't really believe she's gone. She suffered for almost 10 years battling different types of cancer. She was a warrior who always had a smile on her face. She's free now ❤
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
2 years
Second date went well. Wants to see me tonight…. Third date means what exactly?
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
7 months
Some dude told me my blood clot and my husband dying was karma because I was terrible in a past life That’s cool. I might have been. Heck, I was miserable the first half of this life BUT I’m still not a bitter asshole trying to hurt strangers on the internet 😂 I win!
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
Haven't done a Sunday Selfie in a while so here we go! I'm exhausted but still smiling. Sending light and love to anyone struggling this holiday season 💜💜💜 You are not alone!
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
3 years
I started cleaning out my husband’s man cave in the basement today. A year and a half later and I am not okay 💔
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
4 months
I kissed a man and a woman tonight so I’m pretty sure my Friday night was better than yours 😂
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
4 years
Just because of all the racism and stupidity I've seen lately I'm sharing this pic. My husband and the father of my children and I. I miss him so much. He had the best laugh. Oh and if this bothers you, block me. I don't want trash following me.
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
I've decided the best thing to heal a broken heart is holding an adorable baby 😍
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
New hair! I love it, my son and my mom hate it and my daughter thinks it's meh! My dad loves it though so that's all that matters to daddy's girl!
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
2 years
Not gonna lie, I just about died of laughter at this one 😂
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
4 years
Okay guys, I now have less than a week left of my 30s. Give it to me straight. How bad are the 40s?
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
Just had a man tell me he knows I'm super horny because my smile gives it away. I have never been less horny in my life and I may never smile again 🙄 What an idiot
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
3 years
Some of my pet peeves: 1. People making everything sexual. There is more to life than sex (shocking, I know) 2. Assholes 3. Lastly and this is the most important one - my daughter walking off with one of my slippers!!!! Why just one???? And why can I never find it later???
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
3 years
I told someone I love very much that I was thinking of going on antidepressants. For the first time in my life I can’t dig myself out of this depression on my own. The judgement I received was devastating. This is why I share here instead with them. #MentalHealthStigma
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
4 years
Okay, let's sum up the last 6 months: 1. My husband died 2. My cousin died 3. My good friend died 4. Pandemic 5. Shooter is arrested two minutes from my house this morning What else ya got to through at me life? Cause I'm kinda getting pissed off now!
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
9 months
I am 100% an F lol. I’m embracing the chub 😂
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
So is lasagna the go to food for the death of a loved one? Cause man, I've got enough now to feed an army.
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
All these women posting sexy Christmas pics and I'm over here just chillin' in my Christmas onesie like a big kid. Merry Christmas everyone! #goofball #bigkid
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
4 years
So two nights ago my kids sat me down and said "Mommy, we're okay if you want to start dating. We just want to see you happy again" I honestly have the most loving kids. I can't believe they would put their pain aside for me to be happy. They are really all I need.
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
It's Friday night... The night he played soccer... Which my son just brought up... As I was standing in the same spot I was the night I got the call that he fell... And all the work we've done to heal... Was undone in a moment... By a flashback that brought me to my knees💔
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
I don't think some of you realize the pain I am constantly in from restraining myself from correcting your grammar and spelling
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
Not gonna be on much for the rest of the day. Just got a call that my cousin died. She was 38, married with 3 small children. She was an amazing women taken too soon 💔 #fuckcancer
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
I left facebook and came to Twitter cause I was tired of the drama.... So now that there's too much drama here, what's my next option?
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
2 years
To the good men out there: - we see you - we appreciate you more than you know - THANK YOU 🙏
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
Best parts of being able to work from home: 1. I don't have to wear pants (or clothes at all for the matter) 2. I can make my coffee at home which is better anyway 3. I can work in my super comfy bed 4. Did I mention I don't have to wear pants???? Happy Thursday!!!!
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
1 year
When my husband died, I was a mess. I paid attention to people I shouldn’t have to distract myself. Having said that, I’m not that woman anymore. I don’t want to talk about sex I don’t want old men dming me I sure as hell don’t want to see your dick pics or send you pics
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
You know it's bad when your mom who never drinks encourages you to drink AND asks you to pour her one....
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
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@NotsoScarySheri @Kiaz19 Father, we come to you this day to ask that this man is protected and completely healed in the Holy Name of Your Son, Jesus Christ. We have faith in Your healing Lord. We give all the glory to You, Father. In Jesus’ loving Name we pray all of this. Amen🙏
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
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I didn’t have my house burning down on my 2024 bingo card but here we are. My kids and I are safe and the fire department managed to save my husband’s ashes so the rest is just stuff. I just really don’t know how much more I can take in this life
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
4 years
He fixed me! New hair makes everything better. This is 40!
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
4 years
I have scars on my body b/c I was a cutter. It was the only way I could control my pain at 13. Once in a while the urge comes back when things get tough. So I'm going back to therapy. And I'm talking about it here b/c I have nothing to be ashamed of for asking for help.
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
We got through the visitations today and as if that wasn't hard enough, i now have a house full of Caribbean people acting like this is party central while I try to comfort two devastated children. I also have a mother-in-law telling my kids they can go live with her....FML!!!
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
4 years
Hair done but tired af lol
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
Things this Christmas has taught me: 1. Grief sucks 2. Babies help (especially when they aren't mine & I can give them back) 3. Onesies make everything better 4. Number 3 is true until you have to get half naked just to use the bathroom. 5. My friends here are amazing! 💜
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
4 years
So I got the results from my son's CT last night. He doesn't have the same condition as my husband. I. Cried. So. Hard. Relief is an amazing thing
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
4 years
It's been 7 months today....some days it feels like a lifetime. I don't even know the girl I was before I was a "widow". Some days it feels like it happened yesterday and knife is cutting out my heart again. Grief is a strange thing
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
Anybody wanna go drinking? I think i'm ready for the drink myself into oblivion part of healing... *Before commenting anything judgemental, calm down, this is a joke.
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
1 year
I’m just a girl searching for my grumpy old man who’s only soft with me But like, not too old 😂
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
4 years
I love when men stop talking to me because they realize I'm a chubby girl. As if I didn't tell y'all that the whole time I've been here
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
I just dropped my phone and caught it with my underwear while I was getting dressed so don't tell me I'm not talented. Also, no further explanation will be offered so don't ask 🤦‍♀️😂😘
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
4 years
I bought a lot of lingerie lately for someone who isn't having sex.
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
Am I the only person in the world who hates chocolate chip pancakes? 🤢
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
Me: I miss sex and I feel guilty about it. My girlfriend: Girl, don't feel bad for having an itch that needs to be scratched. You're human. Non-judgmental people are my people ❤
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
To all the married men in my DMs today, I really hope you said Happy Valentine's Day to your wife before you said it to me...
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
8 months
What broke you in life? What was the thing that made you realize you will never be the same? For me, it happened twice. Once when I woke up from a coma and realized I will never be who I was before ever again. The second was when my husband died.
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
The dude who always hands out beer to the parents when he's giving candy to the kids stopped doing it this year. This might be the blow that finally breaks me 😭
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
4 years
Dear men who think you want to have sex with me, I'm actually a chunky monkey right now. So rather than meet and you think "wow, what was I thinking" why don't we wait a year for me to get the weight off so I can crush your ego like the true goddess I am.
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
Had a date with my favourite man and had my hair done. Best feeling ever!
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
1 year
@LeonaLioness6 @Crazy_ButCute2 Thank you!!!! This is what is terrifying to me too. We all need to work together to fix this problem because we are running out of time! 💙
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
7 months
Just a little snow….⛄️ ❄️☃️
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
4 years
I'm logging out for a while guys. Just got the news that someone very important to me died. It's too much right now... I feel like someone is dancing on the pieces of my already shattered heart
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
4 years
Tonight my babygirl realized father's day is coming and she won't have her dad. She cried her heart out for hours....sometimes this is just too hard 💔💔💔
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
I got yelled at and told to fuck off by some dude for having the nerve to actually wait in the drive-thru for the coffee I paid for. So really, no matter how bad I feel, at least I'm not that miserable POS 😂
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
I got asked out today and I am so not ready for this 😳
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
4 years
Today I started the process to see if my son has the same condition that killed my husband. I honestly just don't know what I'm going to do if he has the same problem. Sorry guys, just had to get that out...
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
1 year
Is it too soon? Maybe it’s a little too soon 😬😂
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
1 year
I’m 💀😂😂
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
And I'm back in the hospital....in emergency....this time with my sister I am officially jinxed
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
Making widow jokes and then saying "too soon?" to people who look uncomfortable is becoming my favourite thing to do. I may have a problem 😂
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
8 months
Man approaches me on a dating app. He says I look “naughty” I say that I can be after getting to know someone and building trust I expect to be ghosted but really is this what the human race has come to? Where did the intelligent men go????
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
Received a package yesterday from my former synchro coach "The angel wing is for Lee. He is now a special angel for you...The heart is so that you always remember that you have people, near and far, that love you" I don't deserve the amazing people in my life ❤❤❤
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Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
I need a snow shoveler for the next four months. Will offer food, fun, and possibly other "perks". Must be attractive, over 35 and responsible. Must go away when the snow stops for the year. Serious inquiries only.
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@NotsoScarySheri
Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
2 years
I have great days but at night the crash comes. I get lonely and just want someone to sit, talk and laugh with. I try to be independent and strong but I miss having someone here to share things with.
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@NotsoScarySheri
Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
You send a DM You don't get a response so you keep sending more DMs You are not entitled to a response. The other person can choose whether they want to talk to you or not! Stop it! Why do I keep having to say things like this????
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@NotsoScarySheri
Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
Today I was asked what my plans for the future are. My answer: Survive.
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@NotsoScarySheri
Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
8 months
I absolutely love the men on this app who can understand a woman’s frustrations here and laugh with us. You guys are the real heroes around here 🥰
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@NotsoScarySheri
Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
Why does it bother people that I might want to stay single? It doesn't mean you have to!
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@NotsoScarySheri
Sheri 🇨🇦🫎🇨🇦
5 years
People who use nerd as a term of endearment are my people
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