My family tasked me with prepping the canned cranberry sauce and I don’t eat berries from a can so I had no idea how it was supposed to be. It looked like jello so I smashed it all up and apparently I was supposed to slice it. My grandma is crying
We got a Stanford admission officer to talk to the kids today and after the presentation one of the kids immediately was like “how does the recent ruling on AA affect your decisions on diverse applicants” when I tell you that white woman started giggling nervously 💀💀💀
This whole situation is exactly how schools treat Black girls sadly. I know of so many black girls that have been suspended, I kid you not, for even MENTIONING a white child or teacher’s race. I wish I was exaggerating
Y’all don’t volunteer, don’t donate, don’t check up on your old neighbor next door, don’t bring your sick friends food, don’t give homeless ppl $, & think you have a prominent opinion on scamming GFMs? You don’t donate enough to ever be in the pool of people who *do* get scammed!
…I just think it’s more effective to tell people this happened then to posture yourself as more morally upstanding for knowing about an issue the majority of folks don’t know about.
People didn’t ignore it, they didn’t know it happened! That’s a huge difference.
how come yall 'childless people are secretly lonely and miserable with their 1 million cats and secretly desire families' is never directed at childless men LMAO like why is this hmmm
I wish there was a way to get only black people to pick up my groceries. Cause why I order 4lbs of oxtail and he came back with .75 lbs with it, thought I called the store to double check they had enough. His silly ass gone say “they didn’t have an oxtail that was 4lbs”
When y’all are ready, I think it’s time we had a conversation surrounding how the few Black men that go into teaching/education really, *really* enjoy berating, attempting to embarrass, and provoking Black girls the same way they do Black women in their lives
a lot of "BBL fashion" is actually sex worker aesthetics that civvy women tried to hop on and wear but were shocked at the impracticalness...like babes that cut out isn't for you going to some house party with musty men, it's for strippers tryna make cash on stage BY showing nips
Has it ever occurred to you that she wasn’t tryna be your therapist in that moment? Did you even ask if she had the emotional energy to support you before dumping on her? Does she not have issues of her own?
thin girls with modest asses & hip dips made being anti-BBL some sort of feminist movement when it’s really just a combination of anti-fatness, whorephobia, anti-blackness & a tiny bit of insecurity that is the bulk what makes their politic surrounding the “BBL craze”
Desirability is so powerful that over the last 2 days a slew of Fenty 100s & 200s have:
Doxxed me to my job as a SWer
Sent threatening DMs, which turned into LinkedIn messages once I shut my DMs off
called me slurs
Found my baby brother's TikTok account to tell him I should die
But white kids mention blackness (derogatorily) all the mf TIME. A black girl can say “that girl don’t like me cause she white” or like the PP, she can say “you just wanna be white!” & schools suspend them
This is, no exaggeration, exactly how it is to talk to someone with a poor sociopolitical analysis. I’m not even talking someone overtly anti-liberation, but just your average person. Nothing but “They said…” & the “they” be a fake article screenshot on Facebook.
Janet Jackson tells The Guardian that she heard Kamala Harris isn’t Black:
“Well, you know what they supposedly said? She’s not black. That’s what I heard. That she’s Indian. […] Her father’s white. That’s what I was told. I mean, I haven’t watched the news in a few days. I was
@adrierising
I think this often. He truly looking in the mirror and hating himself. Like yes it’s anti trans violence but he clearly is also hating himself too
Them even putting a WW attacking a Afro Latina on the same infractionary level as saying “you want to be white” is a testament to how institutions built on white supremacy (like hbcu’s do your research, im not elaborating) will always enforce white supremacist ideals & punishment
It’s so funny to me how niggas openly prefer lighter women, thinner women, adorned (nails, lashes, etc.) women, etc. but when a femme, lowkey from any sexuality (💀), dares to have a height preference, niggas desirability lens pops out LMFAO
You could lowkey just not sell xs-L like you’re not going to sell 4x-beyond. If we live in a world where not selling larger sizes is possible, we can also live in a world where we don’t sell smaller sizes tbh
Personally, I think before you get on your soapbox to talk about the dangers of being scammed from mutual aid you need to show how often you even donate to mutual aids💀cause y’all be screaming about an issue that isn’t your problem anyway tbh
Like you are a true dummy. I explained to him that he needed to get enough oxtail to be *around* that amount. As no tiny cut of the meat would ever be 4lbs alone. He gone say “oh my bad”
Black-brown poc solidarity don’t exist!!
I know this isn’t really seen as like suuuuper romantic but someone paying your rent, to me, is so beautiful. Like…for the next 3 months you want me to just take it a little easy? Stack my own bread? Not be so focused on surviving so I can thrive? That’s love to me
One thing I admire about Mariah Carey is her dedication to hating Jennifer Lopez. She decided she hated her and stood on that for at least 20 years. Hot.
Any tongue that speaks against me, even a little, in public or private, will not prosper & misfortune will come their way. I’m not speaking it into existence because it already exists - I’m just reminding anyone.
@WrittenByHanna
@MzAmaGirl
Black women in the 60-70s was telling WW; we don’t want to work more. Cause we do that already. We want to work for higher pay and guaranteed security. Did white women listen? No lmao they said I wanna wear pants like my husband!!!
@LIQUORICEBlTCH
I’m like what’s the big deal?? What do we use that berry for anyway? I ain’t ever seen no damn cranberry can at a family meal but now it’s important To the meal????? LIES
No strong opinions either way. But I will say…
If the other parent calls random kids profanities, I know she do it to hers. She might be her own child’s bully. And that child seeing their adult bully get their ass beat? Idk might be a bit transformative, one way or another
Those of us who have *actually* donated to people who are misusing the actual reason for mutual aid are never actually as loud as y’all are. I’ve always thought that was a little weird.
@SupernovaMomma
I totally Stan parents who respect what their children like/don’t like. So many of us were forced to ingest things we clearly had aversions to as children and that in itself can be traumatizing
I hate how we act like people pleasers aren’t harmful 😭like they just only hurt themselves by trying to make sure everyone is pleased & likes them.
Have y’all ever seen how unhinged a people pleaser gets when you’ve decided you just…don’t like them?😭
Last time you was at a soup kitchen was 2016 to get into an org you got rejected from. Don’t even donate us clothes, just throw them away. Can’t even identify where a homeless shelter is in your area. But you scared someone gone scam your Good And Generous Heart™️. Okay 😭😭😭
I do not feel sorry for Raven because that’s exactly what she wanted. A lot of black people get into rships with yt people knowing that said white person does not & will not ever fully understand their blackness or black culture; that’s not s surprise to them lol that’s the goal
Sad bc Black women deserve things but happy because this humor was definitely for black girls who grew up around white folks and really needed their blackness affirmed
I’ve seen it, experienced it, alla that. And they usually get away with doing it to Black girls bc admin always sees people snapping off on little Black girls as justified.
This hatred of "BBL fashion" which is a borderline dog-whistle for sex worker clothing and aesthetics is actually civvy women coming to terms with the fact that the style they thought they could co-op, they could not lol
Skinny girls w hip dips/no ass are finally understanding what fat ppl have been saying for yrs- fashion only caters to 1 body type and it sucks. notice that they only get on this spiel once *their* body type(skinny, not exaggerated hourglass) is allegedly not the standard anymore
Please don’t let people whose entire glass house is in shards tell you anything about yourself. Folks be so focused on why you got the issues in your life that they don’t realize they feet bloody from stepping on their broken foundation.
They are ALL light. Fenty 100s, 200s, & some early 300s. They are ALL skinny. &, almost ironically, they all boast about how much regular love & fawning they get on. So my not waiting to hold space for them shouldn't even matter—they allegedly don't experience romantic avoidance.
I want you all to look closely, like, really, really closely at the type of women who spearheaded these campaigns. I use the word spearheaded very specifically, because they know what they were doing, make no mistake.
Nobody wants to admit it, but everyone wants their fat politics to come from thin/fit people lmfao. Just like they want their desirability politics to come from really pretty people 💀
Well…they are lol. They do have fundamentally different experiences of womanhood. Y’all get that when we talk about colorism, fatphobia, ableism, etc but when all those factors combine into desirability…you lose the concept?
I love that I have fat shapely legs. I think it adds to my look. A chubby thigh with a thick defined calf that goes down into a cute cankle? Very cute and very uniform. My legs match from thigh to ankle and I love it.
I think not idolizing someone who’s used to being idolized can create this weird space where they think you actively dislike them or something lol and it’s just like...I just don’t agree with 100% of everything you say or do? Lol it’s really not a huge conflict
It should also be important to note that these people who spearheaded this campaign have also made documented:
fatphobic
transphobic
ableist
colorist
and whorephobic comments.
And that all of them are almost 10+ years my senior. damn near close or already in their 30s. I'm 24.
“Y’all seen the m&m’s and just said child slavery is okay huh?” Is that really what happened? Like, can you say in good faith that is what actually happened here lmfao????
Lots of these grown men think of themselves as fathers to the girls. And that sounds good until you think about the way many fathers treat their daughters- it’s actually often NOT the spoiled baby girl way (which only exists bc daughter =property) we pretend.
Desirable people are *so* deserving and owed care and sympathy, that when an Undesirable person says, "I don't want to hold space for you because I'd rather hold space for people that look like me" it is seen as violent.
There’s been an uprising of groups who do things validated and encouraged with *exactly* what society trains them to do & being really dishonest about being like…discriminated for doing said actions& I have many theories as to why lmfao
the amount of women on tiktok who say they were “shamed” for dressing up, “wearing pink” and acting girly is just… everyone has a plight but some arent worth saying out loud
women gotta watch everybody kids, but yall think women are only good for sex. men are useless and women gotta pick up their slack, but men are the best romantic partners. single people are only good for being a resource to families, but single people are also evil and selfish
Making women who desire men feel bad isn’t praxis lol but I will say that cis heteroccentric women judge all other forms of activism & ideologies as valid/not valid based on how much said ideologies make them challenge their desire to appeal to cishet men
If I’m calmly explaining my feelings/opinions the last thing you should say to me is that I’m doing too much lmfao because that’s a red flag that you poorly communicate & take all communication as aggressive or argumentative
my existence as a childless person is not *so* I can support families. I’ll do that, yes, but that’s…that’s not the trade off I’m doing. “Have kids yourself or use your resources & time to support families that have kids”